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ASwizzle:
How about you?

ECE (Power)

This mama no sha wan give uncle Charles space to rule, even if she die now, how many years oga Charles wan use for the one before e peme.

ASwizzle:
McGill people I dey with una.

Have you being offered admission?
What's your proposed course of study?

kayceerilyn:
I got MCFSP for UoE today... I am so excited

Congratulations.

Jabioro:
The entire agency in charge of standard structure in Nigeria needed to be overhaul..They sucks!

Like your father went through the professionals to build his house. Abeg e.

Femolapasta01:
I wasn't... I'm awaiting UBC Mastercard decision.

Good news coming soon.

ElJay162:
Thanks. Electrical and Computer Engineering

Hi.
I applied for the same course.
Can you please send a pm or forward me your mailing address

Cc: Betty59 kindly do the same. Thanks

Femolapasta01:
Were you nominated by your dept for the scholarship??

Yes. What about you?

Are there no applicants for McGill on this platform? Who has got any important information to hold on to? Perhaps, admission or any message from the school.

Funniest thing that I have seen online today. There's no such thing as ass incontinence. You can't poo on yourself because you got bleeped in the ass. There are some straight men that like to penetrate ladies right in their ass, but all you can think of is how only gay guys get bleeped in the ass.

BeBee95:
IF its Engineering with some IT knowledge then you're really qualified for the position now. No be just luck even if it's luck I wish you good luck all the way bros

I made a first class from a federal University in Nigeria (Elect/Elect), and I have also worked with one of the telecommunication industries in Nigeria (With the IT department), but still got a regret mail.

tahir01:
The boy is the devil.

Don't rush into making a comment just by reading the headline. Endeavor to read its contents as well.

OdikwaRisky:
wow dude. So do your family know about your orientation and do you intend on getting married to a female?

None of my family knows, and the not-knowing hurts me each day. I wish I could divulge it to them, but the thought of hurting them with that information kills me in. I can't say whether I'd get married to the opposite sex or not. A lot of factors might coerce me into getting married, but right now, I'm just trying to live enough for each day.

TheEminentLaity:
Out of curiosity, would you say you being gay was a choice or perhaps due to environmental influences ie. because you've only been approached by guys prior to having sex? Also, if you would be okay to share your childhood, pre-puberty/puberty experience in regard to sexuality. For instance, when you had wet dreams from puberty, were your fantasies about men or women or both or did you even have any at all?

Growing up, I used to think I was asexual. I didn't even know that there was something called erection until I got to SS2; perhaps I didn't pay mind to that before then. I saw some of my classmates' d**ks (not uncommon for teenagers to do), and I never gave a second glimpse at those dicks. I just wasn't interested in anybody, irrespective of their gender and/or gender identity.

I saw my first 'blue film' after secondary school with a neighbor who was almost my age mate. I remember watching this straight porn, and with excitement, I told him how I just wanna f**k someone. That I don't care whether it's with a he or she. He laughed it off, and I did too. The truth is, I didn't even understand what I meant by that statement at that moment.

Like I said earlier, there might have been some events that have conditioned my mind to only fall in love with guys, but that event, I can't think of any. Before I was approached by guys, I knew the feeling for same-sex was hiding somewhere, but I wasn't perturbed by it. I felt it was a phase that I'd get over real soon.

The only event I can think of, but wouldn't wanna tag as what led to my 'predicament' is the conversation I had with my dad. At a very early age, my father would flog me for coming second, provided a lady came first in class. My father didn't mind if 100 boys led me in class, but he was always concerned if just a single lady leads me. I remember hating on the girl who was always coming first in class (I was just about 8 years old then). And as such, it was difficult for me to just like any other girls at that point in my life.

Right now, virtually all my friends are ladies, and I really do like them, but I sometimes feel irritated if they do some stuff around me. But if a guy did the same, I'd just laugh it off without a modicum of ire.

I was approached 3 times before I finally succumbed to my sexuality. My first experience was with a master's student in Law while I was just in my year 1. I can't remember the dude's name, neither can I recall his face. Dude approached me after observing me for a while, and said, "Hey, how are you? I saw you over there and I love the way you talk." I took that as a compliment, and didn't attach any meaning to that. He asked if I were active on 2go (this was in 2012), and the kind of forum I launch on that platform. He asked me if I ever came across "Naija Gays" or "Men's lounge". The stupid me didn't still know where he was driving at. Later the dude went on to tell me how cute I was, and how he'd want me to get close to him and visit his chamber. He promised me heaven and Earth at that spot; promised to get me stuff at the mall, and instantly I began to imagine that I'd be the "lady" if I succumb to his request, making all those swishy moves and all of that. I never knew the meaning of gay until then. I sort of knew that something wasn't right with me, but I didn't attach much meaning to it. Long story short, I sent the dude away, and told him never to approach me with this kind of conversation again (I still feel bad for my actions then though).

The 2nd happened with a guy who was in 300l, while I was still in my year 1. I'm not effeminate, and I have got a baritone voice that I think the sound is enough to scare gay people away, but my cool, calm face kinda gives them the 'ginger' to approach me. The guy saw me walking on the other side of the road, and he immediately approached me. His first statement was, "Why are you walking alone?" I thought I didn't hear him clearly because it was a bright sunny day, and wondered if it was wrong to do so. He laughed and said, "I didn't mean it that way, you look lonely and a bit depressed." I told him my countenance was as a result of school-work exhaustion, that I am fine. He suggested I give him my number that he'd like to pay me a visit. He came over to my house that week and tried to play a stunt on me. I brusquely stopped him, and told him never to step foot into my house.

It was until my 4th year, during my internship that I finally gave in to my sexuality. And by the way, when you think of "gay", don't think of "ass" afterwards. Not all gay folks indulge in anal sex. We are beyond our sexuality; it's just a singular part of us. I ended up graduating with a First Class (Engr'ng) in a school considered to be one of the toughest in this country. There are umpteen number of attributes that sum us up to be who we are.

PS:- I wouldn't say I was born gay, neither would I say I was influenced/converted. Perhaps, I had some events that made me have sexual penchant towards guys that I can't remember. But all I know is that I have been gay ever since I knew what sex is. And also note, the porn videos I first sighted were straight ones. So don't be too quick to judge me.

To survive with the ones who sit directly beside you and keep reading your chat in danfo, just launch the Whatsapp app or SMS, and type "One idiot is right here beside me reading my chats with you." (make sure you bold it ). I have done it several times, and the reaction I get afterwards is always laughable.

Nice try!!!

This is because a key that can open many locks is considered a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.

xynerise:
Distance relationship is like buying a non-tested product

And chances are that it'd work out fine. I'm in a distance relationship for almost a year and some few months now. We see each other once in a blue moon, but that has never made me cheat on my partner. And I equally trust my partner. Because it doesn't/didn't work for you, doesn't mean it won't work for others.