camobri:

Biiiitch , stop quoting me. Fagggit

My silence is golden...!!! I felt I don't need to start trading words with you... Judging from your comment I can't help but realize ure just a child who misses his mothers breast to suckle... Grow up dude and quit been a p*say..!!!

Lipslikecandy11:



My silence is golden...!!! I felt I don't need to start trading words with you... Judging from your comment I can't help but realize ure just a child who misses his mothers breast to suckle... Grow up dude and quit been a p*say..!!!

accept ursef simple

camobri:
accept ursef simple

Like I said.. Ure just a child or shud I say a bit immature...!!! Ure stupidity speaks volume

I mean, I been wan talk buh I say make I shut up but you don kukuma talk am.

camobri:
see his name self. Which normal boy would have such name. Closetted gay.

I was approached 3 times before I finally succumbed to my sexuality. My first experience was with a master's student in Law while I was just in my year 1. I can't remember the dude's name, neither can I recall his face. Dude approached me after observing me for a while, and said, "Hey, how are you? I saw you over there and I love the way you talk." I took that as a compliment, and didn't attach any meaning to that. He asked if I were active on 2go (this was in 2012), and the kind of forum I launch on that platform. He asked me if I ever came across "Naija Gays" or "Men's lounge". The stupid me didn't still know where he was driving at. Later the dude went on to tell me how cute I was, and how he'd want me to get close to him and visit his chamber. He promised me heaven and Earth at that spot; promised to get me stuff at the mall, and instantly I began to imagine that I'd be the "lady" if I succumb to his request, making all those swishy moves and all of that. I never knew the meaning of gay until then. I sort of knew that something wasn't right with me, but I didn't attach much meaning to it. Long story short, I sent the dude away, and told him never to approach me with this kind of conversation again (I still feel bad for my actions then though).

The 2nd happened with a guy who was in 300l, while I was still in my year 1. I'm not effeminate, and I have got a baritone voice that I think the sound is enough to scare gay people away, but my cool, calm face kinda gives them the 'ginger' to approach me. The guy saw me walking on the other side of the road, and he immediately approached me. His first statement was, "Why are you walking alone?" I thought I didn't hear him clearly because it was a bright sunny day, and wondered if it was wrong to do so. He laughed and said, "I didn't mean it that way, you look lonely and a bit depressed." I told him my countenance was as a result of school-work exhaustion, that I am fine. He suggested I give him my number that he'd like to pay me a visit. He came over to my house that week and tried to play a stunt on me. I brusquely stopped him, and told him never to step foot into my house.

It was until my 4th year, during my internship that I finally gave in to my sexuality. And by the way, when you think of "gay", don't think of "ass" afterwards. Not all gay folks indulge in anal sex. We are beyond our sexuality; it's just a singular part of us. I ended up graduating with a First Class (Engr'ng) in a school considered to be one of the toughest in this country. There are umpteen number of attributes that sum us up to be who we are.

PS:- I wouldn't say I was born gay, neither would I say I was influenced/converted. Perhaps, I had some events that made me have sexual penchant towards guys that I can't remember. But all I know is that I have been gay ever since I knew what sex is. And also note, the porn videos I first sighted were straight ones. So don't be too quick to judge me.

Out of curiosity, would you say you being gay was a choice or perhaps due to environmental influences ie. because you've only been approached by guys prior to having sex? Also, if you would be okay to share your childhood, pre-puberty/puberty experience in regard to sexuality. For instance, when you had wet dreams from puberty, were your fantasies about men or women or both or did you even have any at all?

Philomathhh:


PS:- I wouldn't say I was born gay, neither would I say I was influenced/converted. Perhaps, I had some events that made me have sexual penchant towards guys that I can't remember. But all I know is that I have been gay ever since I knew what sex was. And also note, the porn videos I first sighted were straight. So don't be too quick to judge me.

TheEminentLaity:
Out of curiosity, would you say you being gay was a choice or perhaps due to environmental influences ie. because you've only been approached by guys prior to having sex? Also, if you would be okay to share your childhood, pre-puberty/puberty experience in regard to sexuality. For instance, when you had wet dreams from puberty, were your fantasies about men or women or both or did you even have any at all?

Growing up, I used to think I was asexual. I didn't even know that there was something called erection until I got to SS2; perhaps I didn't pay mind to that before then. I saw some of my classmates' d**ks (not uncommon for teenagers to do), and I never gave a second glimpse at those dicks. I just wasn't interested in anybody, irrespective of their gender and/or gender identity.

I saw my first 'blue film' after secondary school with a neighbor who was almost my age mate. I remember watching this straight porn, and with excitement, I told him how I just wanna f**k someone. That I don't care whether it's with a he or she. He laughed it off, and I did too. The truth is, I didn't even understand what I meant by that statement at that moment.

Like I said earlier, there might have been some events that have conditioned my mind to only fall in love with guys, but that event, I can't think of any. Before I was approached by guys, I knew the feeling for same-sex was hiding somewhere, but I wasn't perturbed by it. I felt it was a phase that I'd get over real soon.

The only event I can think of, but wouldn't wanna tag as what led to my 'predicament' is the conversation I had with my dad. At a very early age, my father would flog me for coming second, provided a lady came first in class. My father didn't mind if 100 boys led me in class, but he was always concerned if just a single lady leads me. I remember hating on the girl who was always coming first in class (I was just about 8 years old then). And as such, it was difficult for me to just like any other girls at that point in my life.

Right now, virtually all my friends are ladies, and I really do like them, but I sometimes feel irritated if they do some stuff around me. But if a guy did the same, I'd just laugh it off without a modicum of ire.

wow dude. So do your family know about your orientation and do you intend on getting married to a female?

Philomathhh:
I was approached 3 times before I finally succumbed to my sexuality. My first experience was with a master's student in Law while I was just in my year 1. I can't remember the dude's name, neither can I recall his face. Dude approached me after observing me for a while, and said, "Hey, how are you? I saw you over there and I love the way you talk." I took that as a compliment, and didn't attach any meaning to that. He asked if I were active on 2go (this was in 2012), and the kind of forum I launch on that platform. He asked me if I have ever came across "Naija Gays" or "Men's lounge". The stupid me didn't still know where he was driving at. Later the dude went on to tell me how cute I was, and how he'd want me to get close to him and visit his chamber. He promised me heaven and Earth at that spot; promised to get me stuff at the mall, and instantly I began to imagine that I'd be the "lady" if succumb to his request, making all those swishy moves and all of that. I never knew the meaning of gay until then. I sort of knew that something wasn't right with me, but I didn't attach much meaning to it. Long story short, I sent the dude away, and told him never to approach me with this kind of conversation again (I still feel bad for my actions then though).

The 2nd happened with a guy who was in 300l, while I was still in my year 1. I'm not effeminate, and I have got a baritone voice that I think the sound is enough to scare gay people away, but my cool, calm face kinda gives them the 'ginger' to approach me. The guy saw me walking on the other side of the road, and he immediately approached me. His first statement was, "Why are you walking alone?" I thought I didn't hear him clearly because it was a bright sunny day, and wondered if it was wrong to do so. He laughed and said, "I didn't mean it that way, you look lonely and a bit depressed." I told him my facial appearance was as a result of work exhaustion, that I am fine. He suggested I give him my number that he'd like to pay me a visit. He came over to my house that week and tried to play a stunt on me. I brusquely stopped him, and told him never to step foot into my house.

It was until my 4th year, during my internship that I finally gave way to my sexuality. And by the way, when you think of "gay", don't think of "ass" afterwards. We are beyond our sexuality; it's just a singular part of us. I ended up graduating with a First Class (Engr'ng) in a school considered to be one of the toughest in this country. There are umpteen number of attributes that sum us up to be who we are.

PS:- I wouldn't say I was born gay, neither would I say I was influenced/converted. Perhaps, I had some events that made me have sexual penchant towards guys that I can't remember. But all I know is that I have been gay ever since I knew what sex was. And also note, the porn videos I first sighted were straight. So don't be too quick to judge me.

OdikwaRisky:
wow dude. So do your family know about your orientation and do you intend on getting married to a female?

None of my family knows, and the not-knowing hurts me each day. I wish I could divulge it to them, but the thought of hurting them with that information kills me in. I can't say whether I'd get married to the opposite sex or not. A lot of factors might coerce me into getting married, but right now, I'm just trying to live enough for each day.

I asked because I have always wondered if someone can be 'converted' in sexual orientation or influenced because personally I'm repulsed by male gay sex and notions of romance as long as I can remember, in direct contrast with what sexual attraction is from my point of view. That said, I'm straight, always have been from my recollection. As a kid, I fantasised about pretty girl classmates even from nursery school (about 5 years old then), kissed a few too and I don't think they made me do anything I found repulsive, rather I enjoyed it save for the internal struggles with the religious and societal perspectives on such activities – the 'sin' aspect.

Your experience is quite interesting because I've never thought teenagers or even children are or could become asexual. Everyone around me – and I lived in a large estate in an era when children go out to play and TV stations don't start until evening time – was having something going on – either a crush or real stuff or being jealous about someone else's escapades.

Anyway, thanks for sharing and I hope you stay safe from the bigoted barbarians in the country that are always ready to lynch people who are different.

Let's be more tolerant towards our differences

Philomathhh:


Growing up, I used to think I was asexual. I didn't even know that there was something called erection until I got to SS2; perhaps I didn't pay mind to that before then. I saw some of my classmates' d**ks (not uncommon for teenagers to do), and I never gave a second glimpse at those dicks. I just wasn't interested in anybody, irrespective of their gender and/or gender identity.

I saw my first 'blue film' after secondary school with a neighbor who was almost my age mate. I remember watching this straight porn, and with excitement, I told him how I just wanna f**k someone. That I don't care whether it's with a he or she. He laughed it off, and I did too. The truth is, I didn't even understand what I meant by that statement at that moment.

Like I said earlier, there might have been some events that have conditioned my mind to only fall in love with guys, but that event, I can't think of any. Before I was approached by guys, I knew the feeling for same-sex was hiding somewhere, but I wasn't perturbed by it. I felt it was a phase that I'd get over real soon.

The only event I can think of, but wouldn't wanna tag as what led to my 'predicament' is the conversation I had with my dad. At a very early age, my father would flog me for coming second, provided a lady came first in class. My father didn't mind if 100 boys led me in class, but he was always concerned if just a single lady leads me. I remember hating on the girl who was always coming first in class (I was just about 8 years old then). And as such, it was difficult for me to just like any other girls at that point in my life.

Right now, virtually all my friends are ladies, and I really do like them, but I sometimes feel irritated if they do some stuff around me. But if a guy did the same, I'd just laugh it off without a modicum of ire.

no

Philomathhh:


Growing up, I used to think I was asexual. I didn't even know that there was something called erection until I got to SS2; perhaps I didn't pay mind to that before then. I saw some of my classmates' d**ks (not uncommon for teenagers to do), and I never gave a second glimpse at those dicks. I just wasn't interested in anybody, irrespective of their gender and/or gender identity.

I saw my first 'blue film' after secondary school with a neighbor who was almost my age mate. I remember watching this straight porn, and with excitement, I told him how I just wanna f**k someone. That I don't care whether it's with a he or she. He laughed it off, and I did too. The truth is, I didn't even understand what I meant by that statement at that moment.

Like I said earlier, there might have been some events that have conditioned my mind to only fall in love with guys, but that event, I can't think of any. Before I was approached by guys, I knew the feeling for same-sex was hiding somewhere, but I wasn't perturbed by it. I felt it was a phase that I'd get over real soon.

The only event I can think of, but wouldn't wanna tag as what led to my 'predicament' is the conversation I had with my dad. At a very early age, my father would flog me for coming second, provided a lady came first in class. My father didn't mind if 100 boys led me in class, but he was always concerned if just a single lady leads me. I remember hating on the girl who was always coming first in class (I was just about 8 years old then). And as such, it was difficult for me to just like any other girls at that point in my life.

Right now, virtually all my friends are ladies, and I really do like them, but I sometimes feel irritated if they do some stuff around me. But if a guy did the same, I'd just laugh it off without a modicum of ire.

Dude stop disturbing yourself. Events doesnt make people gay. You were born that way. You only discovered late. Which is rare. People usally discover as early as 6. By 6 I knew I was straight. And all the people I interviewd, by 10, they knew already.

When I first moved to UK, i was working as a frontline staff in one of Heathrow Airport Terminals. I used to work out so I was very buff. One night working late, I see this oyinbo guy wandering around the terminal with his two minders. I was in the process of assisting some passengers whose flight was cancelled with the checkin crew closed for the night. So in my going up and down the terminal floor between the duty office and the passengers, I run into this oyinbo guy several times. Everytime he smiled and winked at me, I just smiled back (no teeth showing smile). Then, a bit later when the activities had slowed down, being quite late, oyinbo man comes to my counter with his minders. I was alone, and he starts a chat, which I respond to professionally. After, a bit of banter, the man just drops it on me. He likes me, he thinks me and him can be a team. He brings out his wallet and shows me. It is full of £50 notes. I was completely taken aback. I looked at his minders, they were smiling encouragingly at me. I thought to myself. Heck No! I dont do back door entry. I smiled and told him, I was not that way inclined and I was not interested but thanks for his compliments. I then turned to a colleague approaching and began to speak with him. The oyinbo guy lost interest and left with his minders. When I told my colleague (Jamaican guy), he was livid. Started swearing (blood claaat, batty bwoy, etc) and wanted to go give the oyinbo guy a beat down. I just told him to forget it. That was not the only time I was propositioned.

When you're cute, calm and single, you'll be really disturbed why they keep coming after you. Sometimes you can become gay by association.
But being homo should be the last thing you on your mind in a country like Nigeria.

Back then in school 200L me and my pally went to the club that night and not much funds so we were watching our drinking like say we dey on diet nursing one bottle for like 1 hour. Before u know it this chubby guy comes close and started gisting with us but i noticed he was kinda weird. He's expressions were feminine so i quickly signal my guy to one corner. That was when he confirmed that the guy was a well known homo but me no know am then. We got back to the table and acted like nothing but that was when he started picking interest in me, requesting for more drinks to the table.. who cares na to shayo go sleep be my plan. It got to a point this guy was getting too close i had to let him know by hand to remain where him dey because my nigga has already told me the plan was to drink as much as possible on him and when he gets too comfortable and assuming we beat the homo commot him body. The plan went on well until the !diot started pestering me to follow him home that night.. I couldn't hold it in anymore.. I warned him seriously that i don't go that way and if he should mention it again i would mess him up instantly.. I even dared him. Homo humble himself go one side, me and my nigga laugh till we got home

This happened to me six times. I succumbed thrice, am 16 as of February too.
◇The first time was an 18 year old from Vermont in his senior year or just got out of high school who occasionally sent me selfies on snapchat. He stopped last year spontaneously, after figuring out that I wasn't to succumb to him.
◇The second time was a few of years ago, also back in 2017 over snapchat. I had added him from god-knows-where earlier in the year, when he sent me a message threatening to block me if he didn't receive my p**is in a picture. I blocked him first before he could do me.
◇Third time was a bi guy from Dubai who hit me up asking for nudes. I chatted with him for a little bit, then was sent his...stick fluids...when I sent a selfie. Ignored each other after that.
◇By far the worst was this Indian guy of 19 who continually harassed me for a thrusting; I did succumb to his desire for my groinstick and buttocks only because I was a bit frightened after he said he'd come to my house and thrust upon me. I felt very violated that day, even defiled, and blocked him immediately after that.
◇The fifth is a 17 year old guy from a small town in the Great Lakes of America (I live out there too, but two states away) who I still occasionally hit up to check on him. He messaged me first, asking for 18+ pics. I offered to talk instead until I was ready, and he accepted that. Eventually he sent me pictures of himself naked, and I reciprocated quickly. We had a stint lasting from early december until January when we got bored of each other and wordlessly broke up without any personal contact between each other.
◇Sixth comes a fat guy by the name of John who is a year younger than me. He hit me up first on January 3, starting with a simple "Hey", then progressed to asking what I look like and the very next message was "Ur sexy want to date". I rejected him. Three times on March 19, he asked what I looked like, but I ignored him. On April 8, he messaged me with the following: "Hey so i really like u and i was wondering if u would like to date me ?�❤�". Three days later he sent question marks. I'm waiting to block him on his next move.

The closest that ever happened to me, being winked at seductively by a girl. I can't even remember when or where, I somehow blotted it out of my memory. I just remembered out of nowhere some weeks ago. I was making my hair at a salon and a lady there was winking at me and biting her lips any time our eyes met in the mirror. At first I thought I imagined it, then it happened a second time. I completely turned away at that point, made sure I did not turn my head in that direction again till I was done.

I have been approached countless times by guys... dunno maybe cos of my stature ,look or feminine voice.............. I turn it down humbly thou... God forbid

Mine was my secondary school days,I was handsome and brilliant guy!
The first one was one Senior that claimed he was my school father, he said I should come and sleep with him that he was feeling cold!
As a novice I went not knowing his intention.
Second one was a class mate of that boy that claimed he was my school father.
He said that my bunk was conducive so he will like to sleep with me their, then in night he bring out his Big Cassava trying to eject it on my small hole buttock,me man come tear run by dat night to my friend bed. later in the morning he ask me to keep it to myself, I agreed.
The third one,was my fair and handsome classmate but wasn't my friend, he has been disgrace by the whole class but he can resist the urge.He is addicted to it.
we went to watch movie at one of our masters House,Students can stay there till 4am,so I was shouting around 1am who is going

Amakavula:
Woooh! you look at me finish and the only thing you can think of is to use my destiny for a useless car, not how I could be a blessing to you or a great help or a wife or a Friend... you even Igbo. You are dead to me nwanneni ! I will never reply you again.

Lol.... i actually like the way you sound..... can we be friends??

So, which creative writing contest did OP pen this for?

lahizak:
Meet this babe online. We got chatting and after a while we decided to meet. One night lyk dis i invited dis babe to my hauz, wen i finally saw dat babe at nyt i tot i don hit d jackpot, sharp sharp i took dis babe home, we talk, play and wen it is d tym r d real deal. She say she dey her period, but she offer to give me Mouth Action, i said y not nd she blow d hell out of me till i cum i ir mouth. Fast forward to a week later, dis babe cum again 2wards d nyt tym. Wen its tym 4 d usual, i realize dat dis babe no too dey allow me squeeze her breast, she stop me sharply wen my hands wan go down. Dats wen i start realizing trouble. I sha forced my hand insyd dats wen i touched a dick. I swear i felt lyk cutting my hands, even more i felt lyk killing dis dude. Las las i sha stand up and kick him out. But it still an xperience sha

see wait

U mean a guy disguise as a lady?

lahizak:

Cross dresser. He put sumtin in d bra to luk soft, used wig, wear female cloths and didnt actually talk lyk a guy. No one will knw till d guy is naked

u don see tinz ooo

Biglittlelois:
Yes I have been asked before, I don't want to go into details because I simply do NOT want to go into detalis, all I can say is that, certain things can happen in ones life that'll make you question yourself as a woman, some level of curiosity can be very dangerous so it's better to stay away completely if you know you cant handle it well.

Word

Lipslikecandy11:




I don't think I"ll waste my precious tyme exchanging words with a maniac like yourself .... Habitual self-servicer...like I said ure craving for attention... So take your God-forsaken, cursed and condemned self to where they will acknowledge u... Cause am sure as hell don't give a flying poo about you..
**rot in hell gay***
*spits****

useless faggg, how many ficccks have u sucked this month alone? malw biiiitch like u. we know tour story on facebook and d rest, talk too much, i will open ur gay ass. rotten maggotic faggotttt

People are not born gay or lesbian. They are initiated into it.*

Somebody who has been initiated will initiate another person through:
1. Demonic manipulation.
2. Financial inducement.
3. Molestation.( minors, rape)


It is spiritual. Once you do it with any of them, the demon infects the victim too and starts feeling like that. That's how it spreads.

How to quit?
Go for deliverance. Remember, demons are involved. Go for deliverance and stay away from known gays/lesbians.

Pray for him. Tell him to go for deliverance.

Estellie:
.Yeah, a lot of times....

One happened last night.. story's too long to share.. Buh I just walked out of the room, out of her and her madness...

Another that left me dumbfounded was when I was coming back from school one day. This mature woman, should be in her late 40s, parked her car, stepped down and was calling me from the other side of the road... I thought she needed direction or something.. I greeted her with respect and all that, then she said she called me to tell me how beautiful I am.. Hiaaan.. I was dumbfounded, surprised, shocked, name it.
. I calmly thanked her and was about to leave when she held my hand and said I should give her my number, that she needs to talk to me later.. I was like "Ahh, auntie". She continued with her flattering, complimenting my boobs. Who does that??.. I kuku left her there. told her I didn't have a phone at the moment.. She asked if I was hungry so she could buy me food. I calmly declined and walked away with lots of curious eyes staring at me... She had this devilish smile on her face.. I walked as fast as my legs could carry me.. I was actually scared that she could be one of these ritualists...

Another happened about two years ago, had this crazy friend. I never knew she was a lez.. She took me to her hostel room one day and damn! play play cat fight start o, the next thing babe was humping me from behind o.. What came over her?. I got up and looked at her surprisingly.. I think she was shy. I simply told her that hope she doesn't do rubbish with those hostel babes cause this period that infections are flying up and down even girl can give you infection. I advised her and left to my house o...


In as much as I try my best not to judge homosexuals, I still find the act very disgusting and boring... I calmly turn down their advances in a way that wouldn't hurt them.. cause I know most of them are really really sensitive...

what do you mean by most of them being sensitive?

cigaricon:
Yea. Dude even took me out one night. Told me he wanted me to accompany him to a friend's birthday party. Before I knew it, we landed in a strip club . It was quite fun oh as he spent a lot that night on Drinks. Still don't know why he did this, maybe he wanted to impress me or something. It was when I saw his male friends caressing and rocking each other that it came to me that he might be gay. One our way home he opened up to me that he likes me and he would like us to date. I told him that I wasn't gay and that I'll never be one even in my next life. he said even he himself wasn't used to be gay until he was converted that it is when I start that I will know how pleasurable it is and realise what I'm missing. Chineke!!! He kept persuading and I kept declining calmly cos I didn't want to hurt his feelings sha (he was quite a nice fellow). Then he finally gave up and since then whenever he sees me, he acts like he don't know me, lookes at me with one kyn shady look like that. He even goes about telling his fellow peeps and friends that he has slept with me and that it was so easy for him to do it, that I was cheap (I heared from people) I could understand - HE WAS HURT.I felt bad sha but Las Las people that knew me and mattered to me as I mattered to them know that I'm noy GAY

Chai

Na wetin girls dey go through with some guys.

Estellie:
.Yeah, a lot of times....

One happened last night.. story's too long to share.. Buh I just walked out of the room, out of her and her madness...
[b] Another that left me dumbfounded was when I was coming back from school one day. This mature woman, should be in her late 40s, parked her car, stepped down and was calling me from the other side of the road... I thought she needed direction or something.. I greeted her with respect and all that, then she said she called me to tell me how beautiful I am.. Hiaaan.. I was dumbfounded, surprised, shocked, name it.
. I calmly thanked her and was about to leave when she held my hand and said I should give her my number, that she needs to talk to me later.. I was like "Ahh, auntie". She continued with her flattering, complimenting my boobs. Who does that??.. I kuku left her there. told her I didn't have a phone at the moment.. She asked if I was hungry so she could buy me food. I calmly declined and walked away with lots of curious eyes staring at me... She had this devilish smile on her face.. I walked as fast as my legs could carry me.. I was actually scared that she could be one of these ritualists [/b]

Another happened about two years ago, had this crazy friend. I never knew she was a lez.. She took me to her hostel room one day and damn! play play cat fight start o, the next thing babe was humping me from behind o.. What came over her?. I got up and looked at her surprisingly.. I think she was shy. I simply told her that hope she doesn't do rubbish with those hostel babes cause this period that infections are flying up and down even girl can give you infection. I advised her and left to my house o...


In as much as I try my best not to judge homosexuals, I still find the act very disgusting and boring... I calmly turn down their advances in a way that wouldn't hurt them.. cause I know most of them are really really sensitive...

mumu (not sorry) does this make her lesbian. They would have made you a famous model by now.
Just assume someone is gay because she asked for your number smh.

Philomathhh:
I was approached 3 times before I finally succumbed to my sexuality. My first experience was with a master's student in Law while I was just in my year 1. I can't remember the dude's name, neither can I recall his face. Dude approached me after observing me for a while, and said, "Hey, how are you? I saw you over there and I love the way you talk." I took that as a compliment, and didn't attach any meaning to that. He asked if I were active on 2go (this was in 2012), and the kind of forum I launch on that platform. He asked me if I ever came across "Naija Gays" or "Men's lounge". The stupid me didn't still know where he was driving at. Later the dude went on to tell me how cute I was, and how he'd want me to get close to him and visit his chamber. He promised me heaven and Earth at that spot; promised to get me stuff at the mall, and instantly I began to imagine that I'd be the "lady" if I succumb to his request, making all those swishy moves and all of that. I never knew the meaning of gay until then. I sort of knew that something wasn't right with me, but I didn't attach much meaning to it. Long story short, I sent the dude away, and told him never to approach me with this kind of conversation again (I still feel bad for my actions then though).

The 2nd happened with a guy who was in 300l, while I was still in my year 1. I'm not effeminate, and I have got a baritone voice that I think the sound is enough to scare gay people away, but my cool, calm face kinda gives them the 'ginger' to approach me. The guy saw me walking on the other side of the road, and he immediately approached me. His first statement was, "Why are you walking alone?" I thought I didn't hear him clearly because it was a bright sunny day, and wondered if it was wrong to do so. He laughed and said, "I didn't mean it that way, you look lonely and a bit depressed." I told him my countenance was as a result of school-work exhaustion, that I am fine. He suggested I give him my number that he'd like to pay me a visit. He came over to my house that week and tried to play a stunt on me. I brusquely stopped him, and told him never to step foot into my house.

It was until my 4th year, during my internship that I finally gave in to my sexuality. And by the way, when you think of "gay", don't think of "ass" afterwards. Not all gay folks indulge in anal sex. We are beyond our sexuality; it's just a singular part of us. I ended up graduating with a First Class (Engr'ng) in a school considered to be one of the toughest in this country. There are umpteen number of attributes that sum us up to be who we are.

PS:- I wouldn't say I was born gay, neither would I say I was influenced/converted. Perhaps, I had some events that made me have sexual penchant towards guys that I can't remember. But all I know is that I have been gay ever since I knew what sex is. And also note, the porn videos I first sighted were straight ones. So don't be too quick to judge me.

hope you tried to fix things with those two guys.
So they dont be thinking they hit on a straight man

I have had two encounters but they were long ago in school.
First was in a night class where one stupid guy I don't know where he came from sat down near my friend and within minutes my friiend left, only for me to come and occupy same position, after sometime, the stupid guy wrote a text on a book "can we be friend?", I just look am say this one na mad man o, but I just gave a nodding gesture, later on at night during the reading, the idiot start to wrap his hand around my back, thought he was trying to take something or maybe steal but his hand has just at my back for no reason, he did this like four times and then I took my books and left completely. only next morning my friend sitting there initially narrated how same guy was touching him while he was asleepy.

Second one was a guy we were like brothers, Being a bright student I do his assignment, he sits close to me on tests and exams and in turn I get free foods and class notes(because he never misses class and I was exactly reverse). Until one day we were doing assembly language and he gave me his phone to use to search the net, only God knows what took me to the gallery, the things I saw ehn, chai, I jumped to his whatsApp chat and saw his conversation with some people who they exchange video and pictures even somethings he pay for it. Omo I started to suspect some weird files I see on his laptop, when I reverse the extension from .mr7 to .mp4, omo see bulks of homo porn. Since that day I trim out friendship from 90% to like 1.5%. I just totally avoid him like plague, the day I revealed it to him, he confessed a boss he worked for, manipulated him into it and he couldn't stop. I later just forgot everything but since then I never go close to him except on few cases when we do test and exams. Me wey be say woman almost distracted me while in school then, The way I like anything with skirt, boob and ass ehn. If not I have plan to live responsible, i should have been a Dad of like three.