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My ex and i worked for the same company before i switched over to my present company(about 5 months ago). We finally ended the relationship about a month ago and she has been stalking me ever since and reminding me of how wicked men like me will never know peace, cursing and even sometimes threatening me just because i felt we ain't compatible to hit the alter. Now to the crux of the matter... When the going was smooth, i was helping her source for jobs in my present company and everywhere else as she works in an isolated area and the work environment not conducive for women. Just today, i got a mail from my Operations Manager that I should recommend my ex-colleagues or anyone i know is competent to fill in an open position(same position as mine) in another city entirely. Am in a confused state right now as i don't know if i should recommend my ex or just pass the baton to a neutral person.

Please i want candid advise from fellow nairalanders who have experienced same or similar situation before. Do i help her get the job and this might mean that our path will still cross, or do i just recommend another so that with time the pain in her heart will heal permanently because am sure she still wants me.

What crass nonsense of a post designed 2 tarnish d image of d edo people. Wonder how one low headed bigot will sit down and make hasty generalisation and some peeps will join in making deragotory statements 2 buttress stupidity. Judge people by their individual personality and stop making generalised unfounded assumptions.

A 52 year-old man, Gilbert Maduako, has lost his wife, Oluchi and five children after his friend, Akwusi Aluwaogu, who allegedly snatched Oluchi and took away the children claiming that he was their father.
The incident happened at Ugwuakwu Village in Umuchu in Aguate Local Government in Anambra State, southeast Nigeria.
The marriage which produced those children, collapsed after Oluchi and her children moved to Aluwaogu’s home who is an indigene of Akokwa town in Imo State and introduced the man to her children as their real father.
P.M.NEWS learnt that both Maduako and Aluwaogu were good friends for years before he married Oluchi.
Unknown to Maduako, his friend was secretly dating his wife even though he visited them as a family friend.
He later got to know when he returned from work and did not find his wife and children.
He started looking for them and later found them at Aluwaogu’s house at his village in Akokwa, Imo State.
The wife reportedly introduced Aluwaogu as her husband and father of those five children.
It was not certain who among the two husbands actually impregnated Oluchi and had the children.
P.M.NEWS gathered from the indigenes that the children belong to Maduako because he properly married Oluchi by paying her bride price.
Trouble started after Aluwaogu planned to give the eldest daughter to a husband at a tender age to collect her dowry.
Maduako got wind of the plan and reported to the police at Umuchu Division who intervened.
The police arrested Aluwaogu and took him to the station where he was interrogated and he confessed that he actually wanted to marry off the teenager.
He said since they are living with him and their mother, who actually knew their real father of those children, he had since adopted them as his own children.
On the fate of his friend, Maduako, he said he cannot force Oluchi to marry him and suggested that he should go and GET himself another wife and accept his fate.
When our correspondent visited the station, the new DPO was not around to comment on the matter.
P.M.NEWS gathered from police sources that police stopped the marriage on two grounds-to determine the rightful owner of those children and that the girl was too young to GET married.

When women of easy virtues full everywher at affordable rate sef , guys still dey indulge in rape.

I will advise u socialize more often, go out to church, make new friends outside the neighborhood, go to viewing centers, cafes.....just anywhere u will meet good people that can take u 2 the next level. It might not be landing u a top job at the moment, but at least u can move out of the house to another with the help of these contacts. You are a man and u have to make ur hustle pay, stay out of the house for most of the time and eat less of her food if u can. Avoid discussing anytin with ur uncle wen she is around. Wish u all d best man and see u at the top!

This guy called Obasanjo definitely has nothing to offer and am surprised that people still adjudge the PDP's loss in the last general election to him. He is just an attention seeker and an opinionated old man suffering from age related memory impairment(AMI). Make he go rest joor!

Mynd44:
If Buhari makes any move to suspend/fire Emefiele today, it will be turned into a political/tribal affair.

But yes, I agree he should go. Not only because of this but he has not seem to be efficient enough in his position as CBN governor

And what evidence do u have to show he hasnt been efficient in his position? Abi 2 type sometin just dey hungry u?

SaiBuharii:
Goodluck Egbere Azikiwe Jonathan will definitely end up in prison. He deserves to be an exconvict.

The man single handedly finished this country. I am still amazed at where he got millions of votes from certain regions. It shows the amount of stupiid people we have in the winning regions and the country in general. Buhari should perhaps clear this people.

Like I advise, now that the clensing has commenced, it's either you join the train and jejely go to the new prison we are building for you. Baba has gone to get prison plans from obama, airconditioned prisons.

Any trouble from naija delta militants or biafra soldiers will be met with tough comebackz...we will kill you. We have eneough bombs, you will die, it's one bomb per head. We will tie the bomb to your neck so there will not be a part of your body to bury. We will execute you all. I'm not mincing words today, distractions are not tolerated. You have been warned.

Am not good at using abusive words, but this dude stinks of ignorance and a bad taste in the mouth. Sounding like he has used a gun all his life. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion and the faster u get used to it, the better for sycophants and opinionated peeps like u out there. Better save ur mb next time cos am sure u have less of it now, than commenting on issues u have vague knowledge about.

I have never been a fan of President Mohammed Buhari and the APC newly sworn in Federal Government. I have always postulated that the south western media used their strong propaganda and intrigues to dislodge the government of Goodluck Jonathan and made Nigerians never to see anything good in that government. Its past one month since this government was sworn in and no sign of change on the way and i doubt if there will ever be(not a pessimist tho). Imagine the number of people who have lost their lives because of the inability of the govt to curtail the excesses of these bunch of rascals called Boko Haram.

ABC?.....UAE?.......guahahahhahahahahhahahahahahhahahahhahah............both the player and the playee day fool themselves


Maybe u play such games also No offence o, was just strolling, not until i saw u called the OP a fool

Screen shot from a scammer of a dude/babe who wants to visit UAE via ABC transport. Was thinking this kind of stuff is outdated and dont really blame the dullard sha, he/she never upgrade.

So Ezwkwesili might be a minesterial nominee abi? No wonder she embarrassed d government of GEJ with d bring back our gals campaign and have decided to remain silent since d inauguration of dis new administration, or have d Chibok gals been found? Make thunder fire all dese chop-i-chop politicians.

stingg:
shut your trap!

What trap is it pls? Na d type dem take dey catch rat?

Profkomolafe:
our agberoism na both internally and externally.

Did u read d post fron d bottom to d top plZ? .

I really wonder why gals keep begging males they meet on social site for money, placing false needs like wanting 2 pay their fees, their parent been ill and all that. At what point does one draw the thin line between the genuine ones and the scammers, because I have had this same issue with more than 5 ladies the previous month. Or is it what is trending now amongst naija babes?

Isi uku








Hehheheheheheh.

Buying some space for GEJ my hero

The guy try sha, after 6 days for toilet he still manage 2 get past Tinubu d emperor of d west. Seriously, I don't think there is any moral justification 2 extradite dis guy wen d leader of the APC himself is guilty of d same crime. Say NO to double standard.

Too many cracks within the APC alread :oy. I see the Tinubu faction, Buhari faction and the Pro PDP faction headed by Bukola Saraki. What a divided house, less than a month into the new dispensation. The very internal democracy they accused the PDP of not practicing is what is going on within their fold. Only stuff that changed on May 29, 2015 is the name, PDP to APC. No iota of change in the attitude of the political class. LOL, i think Buhari is getting overwhelmed by the day.....maybe nor be wetin he expect sha.

RIP

I have often frown at d idea people try 2 create dat there are some faithful dudes out there. I have loads of friends who are married and not one is faithful to their wives, tho they claim they love them. Dat dude ain't married to u yet and u want absolute faithfulness, even if na me I nor gree. Just go back 2 him and settle ur scores cos d next dude dat might come ur way might be a serial cheat worse than dis one cos men dese days are viral cheats. if there is any male dude here dat doesn't cheat, let him hit like.

May her soul rest in d bosom of d Lord.

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Really don't c how probing CAN will solve d issues we have at hand. He was labeled an extremist during d campaign and probing CAN will only justify that.

I just join nairaland at last o, after many years of watchin from the sidelines .