₦airaland Forum

AdeLaNa1:
Champions League a distraction?? Its myopic thinking like dat that made Osama Bin Laden want to kill people

Hehehehehehe

proudly9ja:
All said and done, I still expect us to do well in the league this season (top 4). As it is, no team has been consistent so far and I believe we have a good squad even if we're missing one or two players.

As for the CL, though mathematically, we still have a chance to make the next round, it's always been a distraction anyways at least for some years now. What's the point of getting out of the group only to get kicked out in next round. Two unnecessary extra matches we can do without IMO.

I don't have much to say about AW that hasn't been said before. I only wish he had stepped asides a few years back. He'll probably be revered by all now if he had. He's done a lot for Arsenal and deserves all. Now, even his most ardent supporters are finding it hard to stand by him. I like the guy and have defended him in the past but he has brought Arsenal to the point where results don't mean move me anymore. I've had very minimal expectations of our team so when they don't achieve, I just shrug and move on.

I disagree
Those two matches are money spinners

We names 28m pounds at the minimum at that stage

QF means we make extra 5-6


Money is the game

sinizia:
Désbosky with his big-big grammar would be writing dissertations to defend Wenger.


My eldest bro used to too, nowadays, he cusses Wenger even in his sleep. Wenger is the root of the problem.

Don't mind debo

He is more objective nowadays though once in awhile he can't resist a bout of wengerphilia

sinizia:
LOL. That I'm impressed by his defense doesn't mean I agree with him; it just means I like his passionate spirit. Make no mistake where my opinion lies - SACKING OF LE PROF!!


To solve a problem, you start from the root; Wenger, here is the root of Assnal's woes.

Nothing impressive about the post

U should see the posts of the guys I mentioned

Another passionate supporter is naijabab.e
Ahonoh.ai

I can't forget duduspace..choi

cococandy:
and who's fault is that?

Let me guess.
That's how mature made it

It's not because of the hypocrisy and discrimination against women ingrained in the people I.e society's skin?

Anyway don't worry about the girl per consequences. She clearly wanted the baby. So it's not a consequence. She got what she wanted.

Obviously the OP is the one suffering the consequences now.

Instead of you people to encourage young men to be repsonsible too as you always harp on women, you're here telling us that's society.
As if society is made up Angels from heaven.

All these rants on top simple issue

Society actually did make sure young men are responsible by making it almost impossible to sleep with a woman outside marriage
The alternative was räpe which had serious consequences

Modernisation led to the license the have nowadays

sinizia:
Even as a United fan, I've got to say, I'm impressed by your defense up there. It's been long I've seen anyone defend Wenger the way you did. Kudos.

Na today?

Have u forgotten duduspace

Even debos.ky used to be jacked up of wenger

redgem:
It was clear that our loss yesterday was the keepers fault.... Their defense wasn't perfect, our defense was way better than theirs but their keeper was extremely good

I blame ospina for d second goal only

sod09:
hell no
Bleep no.....I would rather av mourhino, pep, Simone or klopp, to spend away nd deliver me trophies
BTW wat is d aim of a club if not trophies.
Trophies being profit nd big players...
Yes mourinho is having a bad time but u can bet he will come stronger...not one slowpoke who is arrogant nd believe in his useless mentality, all he does is blame ref nd officials

Hehehehe

redgem:
Wenger is so annoying..... We have a good goalkeeper Cech yet he is gambling or should I say experimenting with that gremlin...
We would have won yesterday's match if we had used a Cech... The goals were so stupidly annoying

He may be annoying to you but some people idolize him

I however disagree with you on Ospina
He may have made an error for the second goal but yesterday was down to the defensive lapses which have been ever present with this team

Even wenger called Czech out against west ham

proudlysports:
Honest and serious question.

If AW was coach of another club, qualified for the champions league over 50 times and sent out in second round over 30 times, although been in the final once and semi-final a couple of times; Not won the league in over 10 years but won FA Cup in past two years. If we had the chance to sign him as manager, would you agree to sign him? And why?

Yes yea yes

See reasons in the #wengerforever

sod09:
no Wenger is testing us
He doesn't want to win d epl nd ucl easily
He want pple to criticize him first

U have a point o
Criticize me then do the impossible

misspicy:
Yes i did even to a fault that got friends wondering if he jazzed me considering his outward disposition...

u might be jelly too in d hands of ur woman ...most men are

That was super
Maybe u guys need to get back

MizMyColi:
Well, some of us aren't ready to discard the african mentality na.
You know the premium placed on the male child by africans.
Well, not to put anyone down though...but the concept "real" doesn't really sound cool.
I think it creates a very obvious divide.
Pick, all I know is that there are men and there are men
How do they say it again? Experience speaks louder than voice

Correct

MizMyColi:

My list is tall and long o

Well, a real man is someone I can respect.
One that I can look up to.

I know that I am a leader.
A real man has to be someone who can lead me....I actually desire someone I can follow as per leader/follower r/ship.
The equality shii doesn't cut it for me menh Equity does it.

Every other thing on my list is secondary

So you also believe in the connotation real man

MizMyColi:
Ever heard of the parlance, "Na condition make crayfish tail bend?"
Some people had to bring them selves to make the choice...whatever it is.
It does not always connote that they deserve it.

Humans will always have their baggage....good, bad, ugly.
If we walked out on everyone because we couldn't bring ourselves to tolerate them, where would we be by now?

Ok

So what do you think about the term 'real' man?

MizMyColi:
Ever felt stuck?
Like you got no where else to go?
No one should be made to pass through such harrowing experience.


Well, you see a guy who drinks himself to stupor, hits his babe and does certain inanities...
The expectation is that the girl should leave, but somehow she stays with him...
Loving him as much as she can muster.

Sometimes, life throws certain people at us who do not in anyway epitomize who are what we are at the core.

The faint of heart can't deal, still, it's not okay to generalize by saying we deserve em all.

Good

I like your example

She is stuck.... A metaphor for choice

Sugar coat it all you like
It is a choice which connotes tolerance of her situation

I know there are people who pretend and deceived but showed their true colours after..yes

But there is choice to stay or GO

There is a choice

Don't paper that over

misspicy:
UK....he left Nigeria

Why did u ask

Yor statement was he was macho outside but butter in your hands...hence the ideal man?

Wanted to know if you were still together
One question please?

Did u respectt him

MizMyColi:
The wife beater is mostly a product of brokenness.

when people exert negativity on their partners, they need to understand that they are merely projecting their insecurities and what nots on those who love them.
If I met a guy today who abuses me for no just cause, having the understanding that he is simply projecting his issues on me in a bid to deal with them would help me figure out ways to help him....or just leave if I can't deal.

You cannot change that which is within from without.
Let that which is within change that which is without.

Pickabeau1

Youve made it about wife beating.. That is an aside

The statement is "we deserve what we tolerate'

MizMyColi:
I catch your drift, still it doesn't always pan out that way.
However, it's not an absolute. There are people who happened to be into the wrong person at the right/wrong time.

I also know of people who in my worldview, aren't worthy of the kind of guys/ladies they have in their lives.

That's why I maintain that everyone deserves better and a chance at being better.

These people..... They made a bad decision?
What did they do about it..


When u say not worthy.. Can u expatiate

What do the people in the relationship feel about their partners

misspicy:
What

Am breaking up right now,so u cnt loose hair,u cant wash undies,how else do u wanna show u love me





Buh i blv guys pretend,i once had a guy dat forms macho outside buh he does all dis tyns for me,even his friends will never blv it.

And where is the guy now?

redgem:
A man is a male human . The term man is usually
reserved for an adult male, with the term boy being the
usual term for a male child or adolescent . https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man

Hehehehehe.......

I hear

9iceX:
I cant seem to come up with any blessing here. As a matter of fact and as far as i know, broken home is not in any way associated with a single blessing!

redgem:
There's no need for the real.... A lady defines it all

Just as the term man defines it all

No need to crappalyze it with another term 'real'

wristbangle:
Everything is wrong about washing his ladies undies except if they are married and then that must be done once in a while.

Abeg I cannot wash a lady's undies when we have not tie the knot. I be her slave ni

redgem:
A woman of high social standing or refinement, especially when viewed as dignified or well-mannered. A woman who is the head of a household. www.thefreedictionary.com/lady

Thanks dear

The next question is why is there not a term 'real lady'

Why the need to qualify a man with the term real?

MizMyColi:
Something about that statement doesn't add up.

So, if a lady lands a wife beater then she deserves him too?

How about, everyone (male and female) deserve better.

Actually that statement is a reflection of the reality

Let's explore your scenario

In most cases
Is wife beating something which comes out of the blue?

A relationship is an agglomeration of decisions and choices

Why divorce yourself from the consequences of those choices

"What you keep in your life yet is bad for you, you value."

The only statement of intent is taking that step

To deserve better one has to be better

redgem:
What's the definition of a lady?

You tell me..you said and I quote "i bet u want a lady"

You should define it..

MizMyColi:
I get your point, but you should know that this writeup is mostly inspired.
Something must have led to something.

Cool..no issue

Why did ur concluding sentence remind me of this line

Even a boo got a boo..lol

redgem:
Hahaha haha.... Every lady desires a real man

And I bet you want a lady too

Interesting....

Why did u not qualify the term lady with 'real'?

Let me correct your post

Every lady deserves her man

Cc: MizMyColi

The Biter.......lol

Another real man wail...

MizMyColi:
I think you're speaking from your PoV.
It's not always like that.

That's what this writeup addresses.

Someone succinctly captured it when he said the best way to test a man's loyalty is when he has everything.

Well u could call it my POV

Its what I've seen over and over

The marrying of trophy wives as u call it happens to guy who marry late (in their 40s) or second marriages

Most first marriages are to those who grew together

MizMyColi:
A guy actually wrote this to his fellow brothers.

Perhaps, I could write to my fellow sisters if this were my intellectual work.

Ok..good

However I wonder if it is as bad as being painted

So many people I know who make it marry their childhood sweetheart

Basketballers
Athletes
Executives


Guys trust those who know them when they had nothing