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°°°mixedchic°°°:
I feel so sorry for you and the pains you must be going through.
sex is a thing of joy and not something you have to dread like your husband has made you feel.

how long have you two been married...it could be that since your husband has been so sex starved, he is pouncing on you with fury and vengeance and this is inhuman of him. he needs to give you time and should be extra gentle with you until you get used to the act before he assumes the rough kinky kind of sex.

you need to sit him down in your home and have a good discussion with him. do not hold back on the tears and emotion as you do and let him understand that he is hurting you. sometimes men mistake a womans refusal for pretence and so might not take you serious when you tell him you are not up for it. if he does not change, then get your parents involved so that they can let him know that his attitude is unacceptable. and if does not work.

your parents should call for discussion with both families, elders inclusive. they should be able to drum some sense into him. I am positive he will change after this but if not, you might have a bigger problem on your hands.
at this point you might want to evaluate the marriage if to continue and pray that he changes, or head to the court for divorce. if he truly loves you and is interested in the marriage, a divorce summon paper should wake him up.

for the meantime, try to avoid him. if you have an extra room in your home you can equip it and lock yourself in so that when he gets back from work, he wont see you to assault. this should give you time for the bruises to heal a little.

just know that its not your fault that he is a beast. and you made a right decision for you to keep your virginity till marriage. on the other hand he knew the stakes so why is he now punishing you?

why didnt he marry a por.nsta.r or ash.e.wo that he will practice rough sex with?
some men sha. SMH

uzoo: so will you actually eat the sand