₦airaland Forum

virginchaser:
Are you in town? If yes, are you not having a regular power light now?

Lol, so pmb said let there be light and there was light right?

I am still waiting for actualization of the promise of free lunch for all children in public schools which PMB made in his campaign. You can't tell a hungry child to wait for a 100 days before you start giving him food.

Why is this baba causing problem everywhere, OBJ your time has passed.

The woman knows why she did what she did, we don't know their family situation other than the few sentences in this post. As the woman , i would say "Honey I did it for us, for our future, for the kids".

Taylor86:
women and punnny hustling

this is y i set pusssy's ablaze with aboniki balm

4 a girlfriend to cheat e dey hard to bear

talkless of wife

if i catch my wife cheating

i go use knife cut my own portion of d punnny that i paid for like 68% of it

You sound mentally unstable, I suggest you get help asap

What's the point of being this old?

uote author=Fialm post=36377981]Any one is ok,but my two kids are boyz, praying for a girl nw and my husband said I must beg him to have a girl pls is it real? cuz he said the same tin b4 I gave birth to my second child,so am considering the begging aspect if it will work. Lolz.[/quote]A male colleague said his wife didn't beg him that's why he insisted that all will be boys, and they are. Some guys have strong spirits so if i were in your shoes, i will beg o

I can't believe this boy is actually somebody's son. How was he raised, where are his parents, how did they manage to raise a monster?

Wanderer.

Why is this such a big issue if she is no longer with you? Ignore her.

Vanquay:
I am sorry if I ever offended you. Its a shame before Man and....Woman to insult an Intelligent strong-willed woman like you

Sweet dreams

Vanquay:
I know my rights and I have done nothing wrong with my original post. Its almost 3'0 clock I have better things to do. You are clearly Tribalistic. Why pick a fight with me. There 's no point in persuading your reasoning since you talk intelligently enough to be well-versed in politics. Speaking if economic growth....... NIGERI is the fastest growing economy with the largest GDP. But are you aware corporations hoard the money and it does the common man no good. Thats one of the failures of the previous government. They can't even take advantages of events. Everything is absolute s***. You spent 4yes and only fired less than 3 ministers.................COWARDICE

Another baseless post. If I am to believe your statement that corporations hoard the money, how does that translate to GEJ hoards the money? Please go to sleep. I am hoping your original post, as well as all other baseless posts you've made so far will not give you night mare.

Few and far in between.

Vanquay:
I am not a political analyst and Nigerian politics is of little use to me. I have enough common sense to know when a "Leader" as failed. Nigeria is expected to grow at a certain pace when it falls 80% short of it's objectives them something isn't right

You are not a political analyst, then please stop making baseless statements. In a more civilized country you will be held accountable for the things you say. Your statement of 80% failure is another point that lacks evidence, PROVE IT! If you are talking of economic growth then I expect you should do a bit of research before posting such misleading figures and statistics.

Seriously??

Oh my

Vanquay:
Her husband was a figurehead. She's like a puppeteer. She was the one pulling the strings and sharing loot among her sisters Ngozi, Dieziani and Co.

Besides, on sentimental reasons I would never let her near the VIP lounge. But Protocol and COURTESY demands she has a right too it. Another reason why I despise both parties.

Your responses are quite shabby, I expected a lot more fact based evidences than these. If she was really a puppeteer, then surely she deserves a lot more respect than what she is getting, if not for anything then for the fact that she talked her husband into relinquishing power. I will ignore your other allegations because to me, any statement made without evidence to support it, is baseless and nonexistent.

Vanquay:
when you compare this foreign Dignitaries they are no match for the former clueless president. I don't even have to express his failures to tackle the security or the no of corruption scandals that rocked his reign. He knew who was sponsoring BH yet he kept mute........cowardice. That was the straw that broke the camel's back. I would never support a coward

You stated that Patience Jonathan almost drove this country aground, I asked for evidence to support your statement I didn't ask you about her husband.

Vanquay:
I would have you know I am not Tribalistic. I despise APC Buhari and Tinubu as much as I despise PDP Jonathan and Co. She is a power hungry woman whom almost drove this country aground. Last time I checked those said artists Pay.

Give evidences to support your allegation of how she almost drove this country aground. She was a former president's wife, she deserves to be granted access to VIP lounges at all our airports. If George Bush's or David Blair's wife is denied access to the VIP lounge at JFK or Heathrow, just imagine what will happen. Please don't tell me this men were saints because even foreign politics is not clean.

Vanquay:
I have a Crush on Her Ambition. Mama don't vex that's what you would have done too perhaps worse. Power is gone stop lusting after it.

Its time to be like Aisha And cook for your Husband and give him quality Blow***s. It goes a long way in your happiness

Your disrespect for women is written all over your silly post. If she was your mother you won't be expressing such stupid thoughts like these. The fact that power has changed hands doesn't mean that they should no longer be accorded respect. This is why people refuse to give up power because they fear treatments like these. Her husband humbly gave up power, he spared this country from possible blood shed that would have happened if he insisted on staying on. You idiots cannot see anything good about our previous government because you are blinded by tribalism. APC will have to answer questions of this nature if they want peace. If P-square, Davido, WizKids and the likes can be granted access to VIP lounges in our airports why should our former first lady be denied.

Allee90:
PDP belongs to only minorities in Naijah SS & SE. No minority will ever rule majority!!!

We shall see

TopHand:
The Nigerian police force is part of the executive arm of the federal government, during GEJ time the police in Rivers state was used mainly in harassing the APC governor and his party, under the direct command of mrs goodluck the police like the DSS became the political militia of PDP, it neglected its duties turning a blind eye to criminals and criminal activity, now things have changed, PMB is not wasting police resources and time to harass Wike, this enables the police to do real police work and arrest criminals

So even the glory that should righfully belong to the governor is now being passed on to someone else because he is not an APC member? I pity you.

All lies no truth!

adanmaonu1:
Hello Nairalanders,
My name is Adanma Onu,I am married with a 1 year and six months old baby girl,i have an issue going on in my life that has almost destroyed me.
Here is my Story, I am thirty-two years old,my husband is five years old older than me,we live in the Uk,I moved in to the UK six years ago as a student ,i met my husband in the UK too as we were both studying in the same school.i fell in love with him because he was a christian and i loved him dearly,fast warded we got married two years after we met.The quest for pregnancy began,i eventually got pregnant and had my baby January 2015.i started working after i graduated from school.my husband is working up till date and we both share the bill in the house,he pays the house bill,car-loan and i take care of my student loan,food,electricity,and council tax,he insisted we have a joint account which i oppose,i suggested that we can take a fixed amount of our monthly income and put it together towards our investment plans for the future.I discovered that he was not pleased with that idea and he says i am been secretive as am not open*Note that he knows what i earn in a month,He also made a rule that when i changed my car that i must buy the car in bought our name ,it was strange to me but i succumbed so as for peace to reign,When we have a fight and i talk he tags me as a Rude ,Non submissive woman,and i don't want his progress in life.

Fast warded he had an investment idea which require that we pump in some money,i had a saving of 500k and i gave him to support this cause,He doesn't appreciate what ever i do to make the home process go on smoothly,and whenever we have issues he would call his parents back in Abia and report to them this had open several times,Due to his way of stressing me i have had 3 miscarriages.3 weeks to the birth of my daughter he slapped and kicked me that i had to go into emergency labour before the excpected due date at the end of the whole process i had to go through cs section to save the life of the baby as i was in coma for hours after the delivery process.Now i have been thinking a lot as any little fight he involves his parents.Last month i was diagnosed with High Blood pressure which i never had before i married him,

I feel i am been used ,we have fought several times,My Brit neighbor called the police the last time we fought,when they came to our house we had to cover up as if everything was fine.he doesn't feel remorseful about the whole thing,My aunt in the Uk requested that i move in with her as she does not want to lose me that the trauma is too much for me to bear,He told me that if i misbehave again he would report me,My good nairalanders please what am i suppose to do in this scene,Genuine Advises are needed no insult please

Lastly is joint account a MUST in a marriage
How can a woman be more submissive in her marriage.

I am loosing it i don't want to Die because of Him.

Thank you all

My dear, I feel for you. It seems like your husband lacks maturity. How come he keeps beating you and even when the authorities are called you still lie about it? You need to find a source of strenght. Think of your baby and the harm that may possibly come her way if you die in the process. I suggest you expose the truth about his physical abuse to elders in your own family. They need to let him know that if anything happens to you he will be held accountable, if you don't have elders who are willing to stand up for you, it will be safer to move to your aunt's place unless he agrees to go for counselling.

Joint account is not a must, but only do what works for the two of you. I will be praying for you.

God the giver of life!

tsdarkside:
buhari is working...

very nasty things are coming to light now a days....

The last time I checked the governor of Rivers state is still a PDP member, what has buhari got to do this?

charles316:
Jeez, did the op tell you that the husband is a porn addict?

What is wrong with you women? Op said that she is OK with his behavior. Save your epistles. Ahhh.

Op,see what you have caused. Ladies like this one who can get someone to marry her ,have the audacity to insult your husband.

He is acting like one, as he doesn't seem to know the difference between appropriate and inappropriate behavior

OP was made to feel bad about this issue, so she started making excuses for him

I think you should edit your post, it should be 'can't' not 'can' which ever one you choose, am wondering how you know so much about me? Lol

Regarding audacity, I have been given authority to declare and decree

Oh my

bebrief:
@EfemenaXY, if you actually have a man in your life, then you will learn how to get him change his habits. Till then or if you care to know, you need to understand that no man is perfect! I can assure you that many men have worse habits. And if you're concerned about the newborn, I can assure you the habit won't last long if the issue is approached in a more subtle manner.

@Pidggin, the OP never mentioned not flushing poo, I guess you're just spicing things up to make the situation look so terrible. And I do think if the toilet is that stinking then the man will also find it uncomfortable. As a matter of fact, toilets are meant to be disinfected regularly provided they are in use.

Why do I have a feeling that you are the OP's husband? You said your wife didn't say she flushes your poo, please go back to her post and read it well before responding. The situation may not be stinking to you, because you cannot differentiate between cleanliness and filt. Besides flushing your shit, and picking up your used tissue, she's also expected to take care of your kids, cook your meals, go to work and be as good as the ladies you watch in those filthy porn videos. You need to realize that you didn't marry a slave but a companion.

Lol, I think the second option is the best

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very graphic images you are painting here..

But seriously, after talking, communicating and discussing this issue severally, and he refuses to change but gets defensive instead, what practical steps should she take? He is a good guy in other areas oo

Options:
Continue to nag him till kingdom come
Report him to his parents
Pack out of the house
Pack his things outer the house
Keep malice with him till he changes

omaa4:
Then the spitting issue am not a crazy person that will quarrel with someone spitting while taking a bath. It's usually while he pooing he jus keeps spitting into the bath area sometime pee's on the bathroom floor sometimes there by leaving d bathroom in d room always smelling. It hurts me cuz I knw it can be better I have been as rational as possible. I get him water to flush most times I flush for him I clean up the toilet he messes up with tissues buh I guess I complained cuz I want him to atleast be a good example to our baby.

This is serious, I will be throwing up regularly if i lived in your house. Are you aware that as a woman it's easier to contact toilet infection than a man? This isn't fair at all, he needs to change his nasty toilet habits. Please ignore everyone that is being mean to you. If they had to constantly see big shit, flush smelling poo, clean stinking urine and spit, pick wet tissue with mucus and spit mixture, all done by a perfectly healthy person they would be more sympathetic (hugs)

While I believe in this adage, I also think it may not be necessary for every child. Some kids respond well to verbal correction, others don't. It depends on the child's temperament.