Omoluabi16:
So within 2 years, one has come from owerri, U.S, Malaysia and Lagos to ask for your hand in marriage.. then you're pissed because your mum refused for her good/selfish reasons.
Your relationships seem quite unstable. Find someone you'll hold it out with.You're still in school, and your dad is not harsh. Stick to this Lagos guy and stand your ground with your mum. Eventually, she'll break.

Deja93:


FYI turned millionaire at age 25 I’m co owner of moskeljoe enterprises founder of kalyfroshart blog and a well to do accountant I own two cars by his grace and infact I should be in Dubai later this month for a seminar heck I’ve got graduates working for me

Who the hell are you

She supported me when I was down not that she feeds me

Plus I’d literally feed you for the next 25years

See what we’re saying about instead of this one to Goan fix hin life you’re here fighting someone who’s already made

If you dare write me on WhatsApp and declare your assets with proof we’ll see who’s really broke in the end

You meagre popper

Your headache

Spits

tightpussy156:
@poster what you wrote up there are trash.the truth is bitter but been told 99% of Nigerian girl have nothing to offer in a relationship than sex.they use sex as a tool to get money from different men.they jump from one bed to another to get money.they are not ready to listen to advice if you try to discipline them or advice them you are on ur own.they want to slay til thy kingdom come with empty brains.they are not different from girls in brothel.the only difference between them are the girls in brothel are commercial prostitute, why them are dosmetic prostitute.even wife wen you marry for house have nothing to offer in the marriage order than bearing children like dogs not to talk of relationship with a bitch.who quote me for saying truth should hug transformer.

Deja93:


women like you are the reasons real men like us will rather marry a foreigner

Then you begin to wonder why y’all stay unmarried

Smh

Spits

Deja93:


women like you are the reasons real men like us will rather marry a foreigner

Then you begin to wonder why y’all stay unmarried

Smh

Spits

Resurgent2016:


Ooh, I feel sorry for her. You need to take it easy with her, she has probably kept the pain inside till became an open sore that is irritated each time the subject is broached.

Although renting a place should also suffice, why must he build?

What if the relatives decide to move in to the husband's house and he is not inclined to ejecting them?

Building is not the solution to the mischief your mum is trying to avoid

Resurgent2016:


Ooh, I feel sorry for her. You need to take it easy with her, she has probably kept the pain inside till became an open sore that is irritated each time the subject is broached.

Pinkie2018:
I have tried to talk to my mother but she is having non of it. She is insisting he must have a house. But the first one had a house and she still refused which makes me wonder if she wants me to get married atall. This is Nigeria where both parents consent is needed before marriage and my mom is not making it easy for me. I understand her fears but it's not what I want for myself. This current one doesn't own a house and I love him so much that I don't want to let go but my mom have refused vehemently. I don't know what else to do

Resurgent2016:


Your mum's criteria for eligible suitor is building a house.....

She must be Ibo....

Richy4:
You were looking for sincere advice. ..Are u really ready for my own version?... OK here is my input...

If you were my my younger sister, I would have demanded that you tell me as if I was a 5yr old why marriage should be a top priority now @ 24.. I guess U started shopping for husband @ the age of 22.. from US suitors to Malaysia ones when u should be looking for a way to make a good career..
My dear I just want to settle down. I will get a job and the family will just be fine. I'm not going into the union because I want him to be taking care of me financially. I'd rather marry at this age and be established in my husbsnd house than be rich and in my 30s and still single. You people will still insult that rich aunty who is unmarried. So dear understand my point.

If you get married now, what saving do u have? U just go into marriage empty handed and u expect the man to take care of u from common sanitary pad to cloth that u were wearing. Are u not indirectly handing him right over u..since u have nothing to contribute financial wise..

U are in your finals (good news) but why not wait a little and get a job or has he promised to open a lucrative business for u? If not, then I am very disappointed that u got a smart phone but u can't think smart. trying to go into a union empty handed. I was made to understand that the daughter of the land are getting smarter but U? ... And to think that adults like your father was even supporting u over this....

Look I like when people do something that makes them happy as long as it does not hurt anyone. But u are about to make a cool mistake but if u think that getting married will make u happy then go ahead...

As for thinking that Your mother does not want you to get married, that is just a stupid thing to say.. Assuming you were working and were giving her money, I would have said otherwise... But your typing was based on someone who was clouded with infatuation on the fact that the "Guy was taking care of u" and u don't want to hear voice of reason..

What a matured lady would do will be is to have a mother and daughter conversation and find out the reason why your mother was giving cold shoulders to men that got no house... She might be trying to save u from the mistake she made in the past. Find out about it and go to your Father for confirmation... then u give her the assurance that it will not be like that.. My guess was something happened to her in the past that she does not want any of u to go through...

AwkaetitiBabe:
Hope you married the guy?

EmptyCoconutHead:
naija girls are gold diggers.
tufiakwa

joepepsy:
Why insult,if dem check you now you no go fine oo

jfleece:
Am even ashamed to call her my fellow Ibo person.. She is a disgrace to African womanhood and not worthy to offer such unproductive counsel to women.... Na all dis yeye things make me dey fear marriage.. Na to marry whitey WIn am..

iamrealdeji:
I still consider you women stronger than men. I was discussing with an elderly man yesterday and he said men are more jealous than women and he was right. but women should always have it at the back of their mind that we marry many wives at a time at times and shouldn't see our cheating as anything . even though cheating is very bad

Shashar:
Why you too dey lie, eeh

Skepticus:


Odin forbids!

I'll rather die single. No jokes

uncjay:


God bless you for that... I have tried it too, Alas they are just bored. One even told how unsocial I am, that why is it that I have nothing important to discuss than education, science, business strategies..blah blah blah.... I was dumbfounded, what more could be important than the list above. that op is just saying something applicable to few reasonable girls.

victorian:







Don't mind them!

Useless creatins!

Only God know the kind of wussies we have these days and they call themselves men!

Those bloody gold diggers ! Y'all better go and marry white Female ancestors and let the real men marry the correct young naija beautiful babes, that still exist!

Total nonsense!

victorian:








Not all Nigerian men are these shameless and leeches o!

At least my bf is a Nigerian, complete Igbo man and he loves to be in charge and very caring and generous. He works hard and ball hard. He doesn't wait for me to even credit his account. Instead he credits mine whenever i ask.

Ask me, why won't I respect him? Connections, he has!
Money he has!
Fine matured face he has!
Class he has!
He's even humble and well learned.

If u see babes rushing this guy? U go bow!

But I'm glad he chose me above all.

Mehn not all Nigerian men o.

I do pamper my man but not with crediting his account with money. He sees me as a woman meant to be protected, pampered and loved. That's how a man is meant to be. Not all these leeches calling themselves men.

franchasng:
She will never be, never!!!


I have dated rich working class Nigerian ladies and even ladies from rich family, I can tell you none of them have given me a dime, even when I form broke, shishi they won't. They are stingy and wicked.


I once formed broke to see the reaction of a female friend I once helped, I complained to this lady that I needed cash to clear a car I bought to resell, that I am even planning on borrowing loan, she never said a thing nor helped but if I tell u what I have done for this ingrate you will know that you Nigerian ladies are wicked my sister!!!


You see that Buhari's daughter, trust me, if you go figure out, she haven't given that her husband a dime.


You see that Osinbajo daughter called Kiki, if u go figure out, she haven't helped any of her boyfriends, never!!!

Nigerian women will rather die than help their boyfriends. Their mentality is always that if they help him, he will dump them.

EmptyCoconutHead:
byes that's why I specifically mentioned "naija girls"
I've had so many benefits gained from dating Caucasian, Americans etc.

landforeast:

Guy U Sabi Nigeria women die
I swear
Sometimes I just feel like contracting Baby Mama to have kids for me and let me just be myself and enjoy my life in peace.

EmptyCoconutHead:
I can see say my post don pain u enter bone.
chai.
useless creatures before u money shamed me just get that into your thick skull that I'm a financially settled individual and not a lazy and ugly slowpoke like u looking for a man to heap your burdens on

Incandescent:


Broke ass nigga. Get a job please

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not really worth the headache.
useless liabilities.