AwkaetitiBabe:
You think if you had met a Nigerian miner who's well financially, she wouldn't b a backbone financially and morally?

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

Danwakae:



Tell this to the girls/ladies..


Allah did not create the female child to be slave to the male...ITS WHAT YOU THINK YOU HAVE , U CAN OFFER ...I CANT BE THE ONE TO BE TELLING YOU WHAT ALLAH HAS BLESSED YOU WITH. you must discover yourself... And if after discovering yourself , you feel exposing your boobs , butt, coming to my house to wash, cook , hanging out and get your holes drilled to the maximum level is only what you can offer, SO BE IT... I also have my fish to fry.

Sweetcollins:
Just like the guy above rightly said, so many so called slay girls don't even know what is Honda or Toyota , so how can you ask for her help in choice making....sometimes I pity them. They are just there!!
Many I said, NOT ALL I no wan dodge stones

Pinkie2018:
Pls do and if u must marry, marry a foreigner. The day you marry a Nigerian lady, just know you have failed as a man

Baroba:
Just like a lot of men equally have nothing to offer in a relationship apart from swinging big diicks... Stop stereotyping, it's not healthy...


There a great women out there doing great things, change your circle...

0ppa:
Excuse you, women are NOT sex-tools for males who respect God's view of why he brought forth the female gender. My girlfriend visits me, and guess what? She doesn't launder my clothes (she is not my maid), she is not opted to cook (I cook), and we don't have sex (I respect marriage). Be on the look for things pleasing to God alone.

The day I want sex so badly from her is the day I will make her my wife.

360command:
a miner! Boy ,you should be ashamed of yourself. If my gf is a miner (nothing wrong with it) , I will never see her as "my backbone financially ".

Dont get me wrong, she works and admire her but please you are the man here ..work and be the backbone financially and morally.

fatymore:
What's wrong with Naira land Guy's obsession with Females like this.

Work hard and Smart and stop all this insults.

OdefaGirl:
What categories of our girls are we discussing about? Is it the runs girls that knows how to f*ck, collect money and look expensive, or the wives who work their a*ses out to make things better or the girls full of ambitions that are smart workers here and there, those ones that have been trending on Nairaland over the week for bagging 1st class....?? What category are we discussing? These people saying Naija girls are zombies, I want to ask you a question that requires a sincere answer, all the women in your life, both mum, aunties, sisters, girlfriends and wives, are they what you described here-- zombies?

Jgoldie:
Same old story.....Nairaland has become home to women bashers

Pettyprincess:

What does my dp has to do with my statement?

Thatssobeyonce:
Tell them and i dont bliv in pre marital sex!
my virginity is for my husband
And i want a frnd nd companion in the person i will marry because my dream is a happy family.

Classyuniquebae:
If you've been meeting Nigerian girls who had nothing to offer but sex , I would strongly advice that you check yourself first because you attract what you are .


It's also very foolish to generalize the whole Nigerian women which means all of your mothers, sisters and all female siblings you've ever known are empty with nothing to offer other than sex . It's best you'all make use of the word SOME OR MOST Nigerian women and not All Nigerian women.


You meet these girls who have no business ideas, no investment plans, no career paths and no dreams to offer other than sex because you senseless Nigerian men are always the ones after slay queens with the latest Brazillian Hair , breast , nyash , figure 8 and all . After looking in the wrong places and going after a woman for the wrong reasons , you pigs come out to cry foul of how they have nothing upstairs after you must have gotten sex which was what took you to the THING in the first place.

You all see the sensible ones everyday but you choose to ignore and go for the flashy things .

I have female friends with amazing intellectual acumen when it comes to businesses , investments and life in general but their problems are that most Naija man they meet these days are only interested in sex and nothing more . They tell me how frustrated they get cuz even when they try to strike up a reasonable convo , the guys would keep saying " babe you too hot , babe your Ukwu dey drive me nuts , babe this ! Babe that ! Yeah !!!!

So it's vice versa . Both genders are guilty of this. So you shameless guys should quit cursing Nigerian women at every slightest chance you get and work on yourselves too.

All Nigerian women are whores, agreed !!! Including all your mothers and sisters .


Change your circle of women and you will find out that we have Nigerian women with intellect and mind blowing ideas as well . As a matter of fact , some are living it already .

If you keep meeting this type of women , then you are empty yourself .

Pinkie2018:
stupid broke nonentity like you. Fools attract fools. I hope your mother and sisters are also liability. You feel the little money you have given a lady can make her a liability. I hope you don't ever marry a Nigerian girl because if you do, you will only be chewing your words. Idiot

midnighter:
Lol if you know the kind of dumb chats I have to ghost or block because the guy cant even comprehend simple writing or make interesting conversation

Some guys are so stupid and infuriating to talk to, you cant have any meaningful conversation apart from "am eating", "am just closing from d office".

Abeg all of you EmptyCoconutHead s trying to cast women are freakin mad! You are part of the problem!

midnighter:


Shutup! You dont need to be a trillionaire before its acknowledged that you are smart or intelligent.

Intelligence doesnt automatically translate to riches and anyway, not everybody wants to earn such money.

Some people are content with a reasonable salary so stop quoting me rubbish, as if you even know anything except football and filling your useless mouth with soft eba.

Goalnaldo:
The other day, I was discussing with a girl few houses away from mine. I see her as decent cause I don't see guys around her and she always go to church. She told me there's a man proposing marriage to her and she doesn't like him( I know the man cause I've met him once in her house) but she will eat his money. I told her that's wrong. She said that's the first time she will eat a man's money in her life. Can you imagine? All of them are just the same expecially in extorting money joor.

Pinkie2018:
I have dated a guy that all he offered me was his dick. I recharged his phone, gave him money for haircut, offering, bought him cloths shoes, and celebrated him on his birthdays and other stuffs. But received nothing but his dick. Most guys too only want sex in relationships. Refuse him sex and watch how the relationship goes. My former boyfriend broke up with me after I stopped giving him sex telling me he can't be begging me the time. This is the same guy that for the 2 years I dated him never bought me anything or gave me any meaning thing. Remove money from relationship, what do guys offer if not dick?

Fountainofyouth:



You will burn in Hades for mentioning Southy here, "she's your backbone financially" bla bla bla, you lazy ass nuisance, pretty sure your sisters and female cousins are Nigerians, rubbish.