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I dint ask o. He offered. Anyways, I am too independent for that. Already taken care of

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]hahahaha....you caused it na. [/color]

Yeaaa, it is good that someone sees the good work and copies. If it wia bad,no one wud copy abi

Cutehector:
lmao lol yeah d ones dat will copy and paste ur work and put in in nairaland... ... U should write a book.. Wat do u think

I swear, the boy has broken up wit me. Naijaboiys.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]He's the one to break up not you. [/color]

Awww. Dnt worry, its a gradual process. Moreover, I love to write. Am sure people are reading. I have more silent parrothouzers than the talking ones

Cutehector:
lol break up witout lookin bak..... Mehn u write so well yet u dnt hav a lot of parrothouzers... Its so sad

Well, I mite be right to break up because he promised to pay for my flite to owerri for a wedding and now he is no longer picking his calls

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Break up when you have spent more money on her than your sister or mother. [/color]

Lol. I am sure you know what to do.

Cutehector:
nice one pebbles..

I wish d ladies won't call me a hrt breaker wen I break up because of reasons 8 9 11 and 12

Some relationships are toxic. If you are not in a symbiotic relationship,you might as well quit it. Breaking up is not easy but sometimes it is necessary. Here are a few reasons why you should break up that relationship.
1. Break up when the person you have been loving is married to another. Find your own life partner, having an affair is not love, it is cheating. Love does not make you happy at the expense of another person’s marriage and happiness.
2. Break up when you are only being used for sex. You are not a intimacy gadget, you deserve love not mere sex.
3. Break up when the relationship is leading you astray. The person you love has the greatest impact in your life, save yourself from ruining your life in the name of love.
4. Break up when your life is in danger in the relationship. Do not stay in the name of love where you are being beaten, destroyed, chocked and attacked.
5. Break up when your lover is being unfaithful. You deserve better
6. Break up when you are the only one in love in the relationship. Love will not happen if it is one-sided, do not waste your time.
7. Break up when it is clear you are being used. Once the person you are clinging to is done using you, you will be left deflated and wasted.
8. Break up when you are sure God is not pleased with the relationship you are in. Do it without God and it will fail.
9. Break up when it is clear you two are not compatible. A painful break up is better than years of life wasted with the wrong one.
10. Break up if you cry more than you laugh. Relationships should not be that painful.
11. Break up when you do not like the person you have become because of a relationship. There is a limit to compromising.
12. Break up because sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself is to set yourself free from where you should not be. It takes courage and hurt to end it, but you will not hold on to a better future if you would not let go of what is bad for you.



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Visit website for more articles on how to handle your relationship.

Wow, I love ur blog. Amma be visiting. Its gonna be helpful to me

Julius2214:
www.heartlinkz.com

Mine is www.parrothouz.com
It is a relationship blog.
Please visit and let me know what you think

Oya dont be angry. Just click d link u hear. U wud also be helping the blog. Thanks

donholy28:
Op I bin think say u wan help person yet u no fit post full story for d person abi?...if u no fit post full story den go and rest

A reader requested that we write tips on how to forget a loved one. I do not know if the person he wants to forget is dead or someone he fell out of love with and just want to totally let go. The former I am in no position to say but the latter I have an idea.
Firstly,to forget someone you love so much,you need to make up your mind about it and be determined that no matter what happens,you would not go back. Once you have made this peace within you,the rest comes easier.
A replacement or a rebound would not be a bad idea. Find someone else that would occupy that space the person has left. The person might not be able to occupy it completely,it is better half complete than a full hollow.
Avoid places you used to go to with the person. You do not want to run into them. Forego those things you love to do together. Replace activities too. Engage yourself with things that does not remind you of the person.
Click link below to complete reading:
http://parrothouz.com/2015/08/14/1-10/

remove the notion that you would fall. U cant tell how strong u are till u overcome it

Cutehector:
lool, d grin face.... You knw I"d definitely fall... As the sayn goes, a willing woman is liable to do anythn until she gets what she wants..

Buh hw I go abt these temptation ish is dah I quickly rememba d case of Joseph in d house of potiphar, nd d rest is history

Well, it is hard. With how easy cheating comes these days,u might have to put extra efforts. Determination,discipline and the fear of God would help you. And also do not put urself in a position that u mite likely fall prey. Temptation is real, you dnt knw which one u cant overcome

Cutehector:
do u think its possible for a guy to not cheat on his wife? Lol I duno..cux I feel I may fall prey..

Just imagine. And that is one case of many. People always justifying wrongs.and am sure the woman would ask him wat loving his wife had got to do wit wat just happnd. We need to correct ourselves.

Cutehector:
lol... I saw a movie, the husband used to hav dis strikin hot girlfrnd in his school days befor he got married.. So he lost contact of her... Den after he married, the lady and d guy bumped into eachoda, d lady nw bein a succesful billionaire and single... She invvyted him ova to her house... And right in her swimming pool, what started as a casual conversation ended up in a hot romance and sex...

When he finished, he told her he loved his wife! I was like are u stvpid or what? Is it after u had sex wit ur ex dat u realised u loved ur wife...


This is in reply to one of ur comments whr u wrote people dnt even knw when dey cheat.. Dah it just comes suddenly wen dey least expect it

U cudnt av said it any better. I keep blaming westernization and evolution.the world is turning upside down and no one seems to be worried. We av chosen the rong path of living. It is such a shame. Even the people that want to be good would be booed. It is just God that will help us and our future children. That is if,in their generation they recognise God.

agarawu23:
our present generation is spoiling our future generations already.

maybe we should call Noah to come and end this world once and for all

I keep askimg myself that question. Infact,sometimes I feel I am in the wrong generation. My body is just trapped in this generation that embraces every wrong thing. I worry for the next generation

agarawu23:
must we follow the society?

Good thinking,good relationship . Thats all u need to know.

HeartRobber:
Well, is just me and my girl, nobody else

For me,i feel the time for cheating to be in the blood and mind has passed. These days,cheating is so easy that you do not even have to think about it. It comes to you whether you think of it or not. People have lost regards for faithfulness and loyalty. Even if you dont want to cheat,the society is full of people whose goal is to make you unfaithful. Finally,the habit of cheating is in your choice and self control because even if it is in the blood,you can control it.

agarawu23:
I will just say the habit of cheating is in the blood and your mind...

I surely would. Thanks

Cutehector:
pls put my name in dat write up... Lol u knw I'm d one dat sparked d idea up

Wow. Am honoured. I wud write on that. Am getting it ready

Cutehector:
tru that....... So that means the social media has an effect on relationships.... I guess I might put dat up as a topic to discuss.... Dis is d reason why I like havn conversations wit ppo like u....

By distractions,i am mostly refering to social media,everywhere you look,there is someone somwhere trying to distract your partner and entice them. If you do not or cannot put efforts to keep and maintain your relationship,it mite slip away

Cutehector:
I can't be too distracted not to want to spend at least a minute wit my partner.... Nobody is busy, its just d level of ur priority in dr lives dat makes dem say so.... There are calls dat we just immediately pick in a jiffy witout even allowin it to enta misscall, there are also calls which we couldn't pick, buh will definitely return d call, also, calls that we see, and be like why is dis person disturbin me, abegi... (Note: all ds calls came in at d receiver's "busy" moment)

The society is a major contributing factor. There are so many distractions.

Cutehector:
buh dnt u think d society has made it so? Sometimes we dnt even knw wat makes d oda one happy anymore.. Eachtime we try to show we care, it seems as if we are buggn ourselves....

Some people just stop putting any kind of effort once they have gotten you. They feel the work has been done. Thats not how it is suppose be.

Cutehector:
Problem is dat most people duno what to do to make thr partners fall in love wit dem evryday.... Love isn't a one time thing... It has to be renewed

Everyone wants to be in a relationship but no one wants to be responsible for one. What people do not understand is that you have to put in the same amount of energy that you put in every other aspect of your life in your relationship too.
One minute you love someone and feel like you cannot live without the person and the next minute,you are plotting and looking for means to get rid of the person.
The point is,the magic is not in getting a relationship but in staying in one. The magic is in the ability to fall in love with that one special person over and over again.
Many relationships fail because people do not put extra efforts anymore. They move onto the next available person,yet they are never satisfied. At a point when they can no longer find satisfaction in anyone,they become stranded and tag all men or women as the same.
The simple truth is that if you do not maintain your relationship and nurture it,you might find yourself in no relationship at all.
Here are basic steps to maintaining a healthy relationship
1). Please do not demand for or recieve what you cannot give. If you need love,you have to give love. If you need not to be cheated on,you need to be faithful too. You cannot go around asking people to do what you cannot do.
Click link below to continue reading:
http://parrothouz.com/2015/08/10/1-49/

Lol. Naaaa. M stil wt u. U ar my first love

Cutehector:
dat feelin when u knw d friend has already snatched d bae away

nice to meet you

Cutehector:
shiiiiiiiiitttttttt........... Pinkpebbles, may I introduce u to my boss. Kingtom, he is a doctor....a gynaecologist actually...


More like d carlifonication kinda guy... (tinkn in my head)

Lol. Now we are talking

pbs4real:
jez kidding ya,i enjoy'd evry bit dt makes our nyt a vry gud one ryt

You are learning. U wud b a gud student.

Cutehector:
baking is a good idea... These skills could come in handy u knw ... She likes cake, hector can bake, d rest is history


So, tell me, pink pearls , do u wana bake wit me?


How does dis flirt line seem?

If it wasnt you or cutehector,who was it in d dreamland na? Coz there was sombori. My nyt was gud and I hop u slept well too

pbs4real:
am alryt,ow was ur nyt? Didnt see u in dreamland

M gud.sup wt u?

pbs4real:
sap wit ya?

So u missed the real life and d dreamworld. Kai, truly you cannot seduce. We would teach u somthin else. Like how to bake or sew

Cutehector:
2moro 6pm... Pls dnt tell me dis tym around u mistook me for pbs4real

Lol. Cutehector, I wan slip. We cud meet in d dreamworld if u dont mind

Cutehector:
whch one is rain check again Let's start jor