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No prob dear. Just read d ones available hia

dharay99:

qood one buh u spoilt it at d
end with daht link...


Girl i ain't clicking daht thinq.!

Most times you might be in a relationship that you feel unloved by the man. The thing is,most men do not open up to their feelings. They believe in actions rather than mere words yet,we women just want to hear how much we are loved and cherished.
Men have different ways of showing how much they care or truly love women. This generally does not involve them literally voicing it out. Most times,it takes a careful observation to notice how deeply he has fallen for you. Incase you are still wondering,here are some behaviours to look out for:
Most men do not know what to do to with a sick lady. They only wish they are the ones in pains instead of you. How he treats you when you are ill matters a lot. He knows he cannot help,so he showers you with care and attention. Try faking an illness today to see how much he loves you.
Tears are men’s first weakness right from the days of Adam. Whether real or crocodile,no man wants to see the woman he loves cry. It makes them weak. Next time,try dropping some tears to know if he really cares.
Click link below to continue reading:
http://parrothouz.com/2015/09/07/1-19/

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Randyhot:
...u can say that again..

No one is sayin sex is nt an essential ingredient. It jst shudnt b d only ingredient. Buh seriosly,aint men d sole beneficiary?

Randyhot:
Op..in as much as i respect your opinion....i think enjoying sex is mutual to both patners..it is very ugly trying to paint men as the sole winner and beneficiary of a sex act.....punkyveer hon..how far?

Exactly,d guy doesnt have to deserve it. It should be a mindset in evry relationship. Women shouldnt go into relationships wit d notion that wat lies btw dia legs is a solution to the world's problem

deniyor:
It's not about the guy, its about what the lady brings to the table. Why any man would want to choose her above every other.

Ok tanks

vizkiz:
report the thread to a mod

Pls how do I delet one?

vizkiz:
thought you already opened this thread before?

They say that ladies have nothing to offer in relationships these days apart from sex.
Truly,they are not wrong. Infact,most women do not even know that there are other things to offer in their relationships asides their precious bodies. Each time they come in contact with their partner,the only thing they come with is their body.
This is not good for women because they turn themselves into objects for the men and really,no one can blame the men.
Ladies,if you are tired of offering him your body and you are wondering what else you could offer him,we are here to guide you and give you options.
1). Offer him support. Let him know that you are a pillar of strenght for him. Support him in all endeavours of his and when he is down,do not open your legs,instead try opening your arms and let him rest on your shoulder. Trust me,the peace and quiet he would get doing this would help him do a lot of thinking and probably come up with a better solution of how to move ahead.
2). Offer him advice. Let him know that you also have a brain not just a vagina. Please do not spew rubbish. Equip your self with knowledge.If you do not know what to say,just listen. Always try and come up with suggestions as to how to handle issues. He might not go with your advice,but he sure would be grateful he has someone like you.
Click link to complete reading:
http://parrothouz.com/2015/08/24/1-57/

They say that ladies have nothing to offer in relationships these days apart from sex.
Truly,they are not wrong. Infact,most women do not even know that there are other things to offer in their relationships asides their precious bodies. Each time they come in contact with their partner,the only thing they come with is their body.
This is not good for women because they turn themselves into objects for the men and really,no one can blame the men.
Ladies,if you are tired of offering him your body and you are wondering what else you could offer him,we are here to guide you and give you options.
1). Offer him support. Let him know that you are a pillar of strenght for him. Support him in all endeavours of his and when he is down,do not open your legs,instead try opening your arms and let him rest on your shoulder. Trust me,the peace and quiet he would get doing this would help him do a lot of thinking and probably come up with a better solution of how to move ahead.
2). Offer him advice. Let him know that you also have a brain not just a vagina. Please do not spew rubbish. Equip your self with knowledge.If you do not know what to say,just listen. Always try and come up with suggestions as to how to handle issues. He might not go with your advice,but he sure would be grateful he has someone like you.
Click link to complete reading:
http://parrothouz.com/2015/08/24/1-57/

My PA would get across.

Jacksparrow0712:
Do I need to see a PA or I negotiate directly with you?

I charge na. And you av to book an appointment.

Jacksparrow0712:
So you can't explain to me what it means? Your own type of counsellor hard o

Dont worry. Wen u are in one,no one wud explain it for you.

Jacksparrow0712:
What's an affair BTW?

Lol. Ok. Lets live to fight another day

djeezy:
Hehehe nope I give up. You've won.

Lol, I like to b put in the position to argue oh. Please lets kip arguing jor. I am enjoying it.

djeezy:
Very well then. Just felt like arguing a little.

Ur name suits u.

MrCork:
^^^^atitude....and then she complains she cant find man on nairaland...Goat! (no oofeinse)

Thanks, but there is a difference. You can av sex wt jst anybody without any form of attachment. But when you are involved in an affair, my dear it is hard to end oh coz u ar more involved than jst sex

djeezy:
To me I think there's no difference. Affairs are done in secrecy and so is cheating. Nice thread by the way.

Nope, I am purple skinned

MrCork:
..are u lightskin?

The thing is,there is a great difference btw cheating and having an affair. I would rather my partner cheats than have an affair. Affairs are deeper and more scary

djeezy:
Interesting. I really don't like the title of your thread. It should be something like "how to stop cheating while in a relationship". Affairs flourish in secrecy, I like that part.

Affairs are so difficult to end. Infact some people start affairs with a time frame of when to end it but when that time comes, they cannot because they have been trapped by the power of affairs.
Even when you start feeling guilty and try to end it,you find yourself going back because an affair is like an addiction that is hard to resist. An affair can control and dominate your life until it finally tears you apart.
If you are determined to end that affair today and stop hurting your loved one,we are going to tell you how to go about it the right way.
1). You have to make up your mind to end it. You must be determined to get out of the irresistible affair.
2). Talk to your affair partner about it. Sometimes,he or she might want the same thing too,so both of you can work on ending it together but if your partner is still interested in the affair,you would have to make him or her see reasons why you need to end it. Talk about the guilt you feel and the fear the affair is causing you. Tell them that you do not like who you have become because of the affair and that you can no longer live like that anymore. In doing this,please be firm not rude. You do not want to piss them off into trying to blackmail you.
3). Work on your relationship. An affair must have seemed like an answer to your failing relationship but it is not. It is time to work on your relationship instead of taking the easy way out by finding comfort in someone else’s loving arms. Devote more time to your relationship. If the relationship cannot work,end it instead of getting into an affair.
4). You know all those things that excited you in that affair,bring it into your relstionship. Tell your partner what works for you. Experience the same emotions you had in your affair and you would see no need to go back to your affair.
5). Affairs flourishes in secrecy. Open up to someone. Talking to someone else can be relieving. Tell a close friend or someone you can trust. You could also talk to your partner but that could be tricky because you cannot predict their reaction since they are the victims of your affair.
6). No one is perfect. Capitalize on the flaws of your affair. No matter how exciting a person is, there are flaws. Pick on them and you would find yourself irritated and walking out of the affair.
7). As much as possible,distance yourself from the person. Avoid seeing the person. When he or she calls,firm yourself and stick to the decision of ending the affair.
. Resist all temptations to go back to your affair. Occupy yourself all the time and whenever you have that urge to call or see the person, remember all the efforts you have put into getting out of it. Do not allow it to be in vain.

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Morning dear. Do av a nice day today

Cutehector:
thnks.. Mawnin pretty.

Nice writeup. People should take note. Over-familiarizing is not good for any relationship.

Yes na

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Independent?

Interesting. [/color]

Lol. Ok. M nt in a hurry na

victorbk:
LOL, no its not! infact, you guys are closer to single people than you are to married people. I mean, what makes your own different?

psh! You shouldn't be in a hurry sef, you know your going to be in that ish foreverrr!!!! your officially allowed to still sow your wild oats, don't dull!

Hehehe. This almost is the same as the actual thing o

victorbk:
Thankfully almost isn't the same the actual thing

until that ring is on, your still a free agent

had to drop my two cents for the bants

Lol. Thanks

Cutehector:
congrats.....

Yeaaa. U smart

Cutehector:
lol I'd take dat as ur engaged

Lol. Almost

Cutehector:
alryt. So u married?

Well, thats it oh

Cutehector:
for real? Dats shocking.. I used to think transportation would be so so expensive there... Well, I'm an engineer so the south-south is our home ...

U wia told wrongly oh. The only thing cheap here is transportation

Cutehector:
oh dat place... I had an option to serve there buh I chose not to.. Funny enough, I was told things are quite cheap there

Naa,abuja

Cutehector:
hector... Nice to meet u... Lol I"l try not to flirt with u hehe

U base in lag ryt?

Thanks dear. Chizoba

Cutehector:
lol yeah.. I ddnt wana derail ur thread cuz I respect u...

I"d like to knw u... So wats d name?