₦airaland Forum

LuveU2:
I can manage him if he is cute

Smellymouth:
I think love is overrated .  If I share the same faith with her, she is homely, a great mother ,we love many of the same things, share the same views about the direction of our future, have the same goals, etc. 
A great woman makes a great partner. I dont know how many times I have seen men put up with CRAP simply because, "I love her." "What do you love about him?"  "I dont know, I just love him."  Love is not needed for marriage.  But respect is.  Also I recommend men marry women on their intellectual and motherly level.

donbenedict:
Well I wouldn't say u should call it quits cuz love is like a seed that germinates and grows into smth big with time...


At Dat stage u dnt need to rush into marriage with him yet, I believ he should do more in making u see reasons why u should love him more instead of askin u to marry him... den when the love has blossomed, u can go ahead and marry him...

BoiledHead:
Ah ah.

Is it not true. We buy women don't we? In the name of bride price. Why should I be equal with someone we use our money to buy? And maybe someone that would soo n be sold?

Ah ah... Women are like spare tyres. Only needed when we have issues with our main tyres.

dicefrost:
Lol, i think that you realize that deep down, there's nothing you can do other than venting your anger. If you overdo it, you just might end your marriage

dicefrost:
So, hypothetically, let's say you don't agree, and he thinks your reasons are not genuine, and insist on bringing the guest, what will you do?

linusbnn:
She is no robot because she is submissive,she shows strength by doing so. That makes me love her and I try not to fail on my own part.

linusbnn:
Thank you oooo, i'm even nurturing her calmness so it would continue to get better. I fancy ladies who are submissive

pbs4real:
hmmm

Eyepencil:
@Pinkpebbles ... I don't know if you got my mail.

linusbnn:
My match is a loyal and submissive lady and I have it already

Eyepencil:
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Lols... Lets make it private please! Can i send you a PM?

Eyepencil:
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I'm serious abt that, I want to know you better.

DangotePikin:
Even though, you will not agree, I am of the opinion that you have been showcasing the characteristics of a feminist of late. I still don't know why many ladies don't want to be called a feminist. Feminism is not necessarily a bad thing. It is only in this part of the world that people view feminist as a disrespectful woman.


I want to understand how you view the role of a woman in a home better.

If your husband wants something to be done using method A, and you want it to be done using method B, which is actually a better method than A. Let us assume that you have tried to make your husband understand that method B is better, but he still insists on using A. What will you do next?

(a) Reluctantly agree to use method B, since that is what your husband wants.
(b) Happily use method B, since your husband is the head of the home and he insisted that you use it.
(c) Stay out of using any method, and let your hubby use anyone that pleases him.

Question 2:
Let use assume that your husband finally used method B, and it happens to be less effective than A.
How will you react?
(a) Make him understand that he needs to agree with you before taking any decision
(b) You will not say anything about the shortcoming in the usage of method B, and make him deduce facts by himself.
(c) Make him understand that he needs to step up his game as the head of the family

If you don't want to reply on Nairaland, we can chat outside.

linusbnn:
So sorry if you have a man like me as husband. That your father's house that you love so much, I will send you back there. I display my authority in relationships so if you dnt like it,you quit. I respect women and they must obey me whether good or bad.

Eyepencil:
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I like you!

uckennety:
Ur a wrong no doubt!but I v learnt neva to beg a woman!try tlk to her say ur sorry!if it continues!my brother let her bE!sEnd ur children to day care,or boardinG house!allow her have HER Fun wid whoEver!then as 4 a divorce!end d whole shit!two wrong makes no ryte!!!tnxz

Intelligentdude:
You are welcome.You can PM me so I can send you my contact person number,that I'd if you mind

Intelligentdude:
Visit Sickle Cell Aid Foundation(SCAF)office,close to banex,they are in need of volunteers and interns.Google SCAF and call the number on their site

rheether:
With no real talent.

BLACKPANTHER:
Yea I did. And I ignored it. I cant remember submitn my CV to be vetted
CV is vetted & approved.Ur Test/Interview is slated for WED 20/1/16 by 9AM @16 Ondo Str,off Apapa Rd,behind Keystone Bank,Mosalashi B/S,Costain.Lagos.ADTN

Please who knows ADTN...CHAII make Una check Una brain hard drive whether na SCAM invite. Secondly no company name and even na consulting firm den for arranged am for the remaining type space

who got same or who knows ADTN

Princeparix:
All I see is a lady lamenting.

Cutehector:
If only they knew how much we loved them...




Nice one pinkpebbles