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pedestal82: @OP, for ur own good, pls don't tell ur man, at least u knw what u did was wrong, all u
Need do is make sure it doesn't happen again. Am a man, and hearing this from my girl, will only
Make me paint a lot of pictures and scenerios, so won't he doesn't knw won't kill him.

making a point & insult hurling dnt mean the same thing.As a man you called yourself,your point has been noted.

holamiday: This girl is bak 2 me. She said she went 2 d guy cos she wanted 2 make me feel bad abt d ways i treated her & dat she neva luved John one bit. She said she told him she neva luved him, left his presence, ordered him nt 2 com 2 her ous & changed her number. She said i am d one she luvs & dat she thot she culd ignore dat fact. Thanks 2 victorazy, u did predict dis. She's been luvin so far & things r nw goin on quite well btw us. I've been 2 her place twice & she's happy abt dat single act. Does anyone smell a rat? Am i as safe as i think?

....yes,i guess wedding bells & not pre-marital sex without marriage...i am happy for you dear,the power of a woman,dnt play on her emotions again cos it is priceless & unique.....enjoy ur r/ship & all the best.

Fulaman198: Kissing is cheating, the moment you start questioning your motives and your actions, you feel as if you have done something wrong. Does your partner know what you did? Does he think it is cheating? In reality that is all that matters. If your partner does not think it is cheating, then you did not cheat. If he thinks you cheated on him by kissing another man, then you cheated.

thanks

sisqology: Tell ur guy, he will trust u more. I trusted my gf more for somethng like this

thanks.

coogar: you're a bloody cheat!
for feck's sake, you kissed another man passionately and you still asked if you had
cheated? if you didn't cheat, why the guilty conscience tormenting you? tell your man
you kissed another man. his reaction should tell you if you cheated or not.
400 years ago, you would have been led to the outskirts of your village and stoned
to death by 12 able-bodied men.

.....lol......& tormenting me because i not only have conscience but a heart:..........thanks....

lion phil: For the second time on this thread, you did not cheat! For the second time on this thread, you did not cheat!

why don't u just go around kissing guys!
u don't have to make out just kiss! i bet it's ok if ur guy does thesame! mschew! good riddance ...! stop asking questions since u ar so good at defending ur predetermined acts

thanks & i would heed to your advice & begin my kiss practical tomorrow.

OK/2/NV:
If during the process of kissing him you accidentally bumped on the xerox machine which swayed and hit a monitor on the table, which then crashed on the floor with the cables wrapping round your waste giving you a slight electric shock which made you scream "take it off"! To which he gladly ripped off your skirt and in the process he bumped his head against the table and fell, to which you rushed over him asking him if he is ok, (mind you, you are wearing just your panties) and his bulging member some how brushes on your crotch and at that moment you just couldn't help it and it happened that you rode him hard... then i guess it's an accident and hence no cheating.

.....lol...all for this kissing i did.....hmmmm......

luckgames: You ask questions ,
You don't like the respond and getting mad
Ask yourself?
Are you a giver?
You love to share

Back to your posting of April 27
You want to play the field



"Today many marriages that married for Love are regretting their marriage and been married,caused by infidelity & other factors,especially,the high rate of infidelity in married men to women.Most spouse(s),have lost their life,in the fight & believe of Love and Trust.I believe so much in Love,for God is not only Love but in him to obtain True-Love.......But it is a thing of the heart and head....love and trust is all God's grace,that is sufficient & will be sufficient in homes."

thank God,u used my post in asking me the question.Stand for yourself,besides am not feeling bad @ the responses am getting for i dnt expect everyone to understand.U havent answered my question.

BABE!:
You're trying to justify kissing another man, while you have yours? You're not serious.

S[i]ex[/i]ing makes you a w[i]ho[/i]re and a cheat. . . all wrapped in one with a ribbon on it.

only,i thought there is a higher name,but they're the same........the most important factor to consider is....u're nt my man......

Killz.:
[color=#000030]For the second time on this thread, you did not cheat![/color]

thanks

BABE!:
You kissed a guy that isn't your man. Yes, you cheated. You're a cheat.

If kissing makes me a cheat then sexing will make me what.....

Exponental: U corrected d lust b4 hand........ NO!

Which lust....

Mrs.Chima:
I accidentally fall on Chima's joystick...did I sexed him?

pls are u okay

lion phil: Guilty!! nothing accidental in a french kiss! she accepted at first! Bad girl! NO TELL UR GUY O!

Good boy,@ least u have said sometin

gemstone22: The guy kiss you finish cum say na just goodnight him dey talk. For where dem dey talk good 9t with french kiss and small smooching? Babes, you no cheat but u r on the way to commiting the offence since you tell us say you don get crush on the bobo before. it is clear that there might be other forums to say good nite french kisses with dis guy if you are not careful. Biko, no tell ur guy about this kissing o. If u do, na big mistake be dat. No be everything u dey tell bloke. Somethings dey wey e no fit understand.

thanks,i wont.

Fulaman198: LOL Big Shame, I don't partake in such nonsensical activities. It is never good to cheat whether you are a man or a woman. That said, OP, you must tell your partner about this if you care about him deeply.

sorry dear op his my date & a pity u're lying.

kelz88: You cheated emotionally and physically. If it was the other way round and it was your guy who did it wouldn't you say he cheated?

i wnt 4 i dnt know what his life is in my absence.All this ur English didnt send any message across.

adim2: @op
u said u have crush on him, the problem is not kissing him the first time buh i hope this kiss will not continue again. because i foresee more of such kisses btw u n the guy. so for now i will say u r not so guilty sha.

my fellow op @ least u said sometin.....

luckgames: Dude you expect Nigerian woman to tell the true
Keep hoping
Get real

are the Nigerian men true.

luckgames: Dude you expect Nigerian woman to tell the true
Keep hoping
Get real

same with Nigerian men,they dnt tell ladies the truth,making them unreal.

190: Im not suprised afterall the OP is NIGERIAN

Its typical -

dats what the young women of these days do for a livin

and who is the OP,then what do they young Nigerian men do for a living....

@richy:
Like i kiss dyt On feb 14
#Clears throat#

.....lol....I guess richy,Dyt is your date....cool.

stepo707: No you did not but since you are feeling guilty why dont you tell your guy.He would trust you more.

thanks stepo707 for that.

Idowuogbo: Oshisko!

meaning pls

Dyt: Ppl v diff ways of sayin gdnyt

Bsyds its nyt n rainin
*clears throat*

lol,u're funny.Bt i know of pecking when saying gd9t nt a passionate french kiss.

I have a crush on this guy,but avoid seeing him,so i had a faulty work that i knew he was the right option in repairing it,while i left it with him to leave for home,a heavy & incessant rainful began,his colleagues adviced i slept in the office and go the next morning very early.I enjoyed their company,untill the guy came to keep me company,we began chatting well,when night fell and it was time to say goodnight.He held me and we began kissing passionately.I realised i wasnt with my date & push him away.My guilt was i kissed another guy who isnt my date,when i love my date so much,i feel i have betrayed him.My question is kissing this guy who isnt my date is it right and plain as the guy said,that his mind was clear and only wanted to say goodnight.

cyber999: those of you blaming the men, listen to this: i have a friendn who is having extramarital affairs cos his wife denies him sex, the man has to negotiate with her and do things for her just to have his way with his married wife. she hates sex and manage to do it only to please her husband; to make it worse, the man is a pastor and divorce is out of it. he feels bad about it, but as a man, he has needs that must be met. he told me this personally and i feel for him. in such case will you blame the man for extramarital affairs.

yes such happens,but we're speaking on why others who have no genuine reasons to been cheat enjoy it,not respecting their vows.

190: ^God bless u and may Amadioha shrink the clit of those girls that agree 2 those married men

and the married men....angel gabriel should protect them & give them the strength to be great infidels & cheat more on their wives abiiii,watch the choice of words u use,4 some1 close 2 u like ur sis,cousin or any closed lady 2 u,could be part of such lifestyle & this prayers of urs will work on her.....pray 4 the restoration of homes from the Spirit of Unfaithfulness/Infidelity,4 it is a 50-50 ground today from both sex.

DailyNews: @kemi, u can detect a married man if u are for real and not up to sth fishy!

I totally disagree,most guys marry early now & remember men have younger & lighter skin/facial/body appearance than women.Many promiscous married men,i met tell me,their life of promiscuisity started from when the were guys & such life is so difficult 2 erase completely.The truth is some men are sneaky natured....both the married men & the lady partners that cheat are fools.Now men hardly put on their marriage rings.I pity for them,for they are placing curses on their children & unborn-generation.I met one 2day,who foolishly couldnt resist seeing a lady,followed me,until i exposed to him that,i knew his children & he shamelessly left & many.It is so much now.Married men flirt more than the young guys today,making the single guys loose their foolish g/friends to quest for material things.

TroyJay: She left you because you were simply not exciting enough. . . A.K.A Boring! No matter what you buy for a lady or how much you give to her, what she really cherishes the most is the time and attention you spend on her. John may not have money or anything, but one thing he sure has is the ability to hold an interesting conversation, make her laugh, spend quality time with her and basically overwhelm her with spoken words. He sure used it wisely. Don't be mistaken, "I miss you" sent as a text is NOT to be equated to "I miss you" said face to face You get a chance to study her emotions etc. Ask your self, what is it you have to offer a girl who has it all in terms of brains, beauty, money and stuff? Time! If you can't spend time with her, she walks. . . That's my explanation for now. Sorry though, i know how you feel!

absolutey true dear.This is the reason,we're best in our different ways.One mustnt have all,though John may be in a lower class than u,he is higher in terms of knowing what entails than u.Dnt push hard on her,but patience is the only solution,if she is urs,she wud come back 2 u.Abt ur character,it isnt ur fault,but in life as we grow,the counting down or erasing some addicted habit is necessary,4 it help us learn strongly,how to Tolerate people.Meanwhile,be free & have a relaxed mind.I must warn,in any new r/ship u start dnt repeat ur old mistake,for mistake means,mis:as i have missed it,take:i take responsibility for my action.Goodluck dear.

TroyJay: She left you because you were simply not exciting enough. . . A.K.A Boring! No matter what you buy for a lady or how much you give to her, what she really cherishes the most is the time and attention you spend on her. John may not have money or anything, but one thing he sure has is the ability to hold an interesting conversation, make her laugh, spend quality time with her and basically overwhelm her with spoken words. He sure used it wisely. Don't be mistaken, "I miss you" sent as a text is NOT to be equated to "I miss you" said face to face You get a chance to study her emotions etc. Ask your self, what is it you have to offer a girl who has it all in terms of brains, beauty, money and stuff? Time! If you can't spend time with her, she walks. . . That's my explanation for now. Sorry though, i know how you feel!

this is the reason,we're best in our different ways.One mustnt have all,though John may be in a lower class than u,he is higher in terms of knowing what entails than u.Dnt push hard on her,but patience is the only solution,if she is urs,she wud come back 2 u.Abt ur character,it isnt ur fault,but in life as we grow,the counting down or erasing some addicted habit is necessary,4 it help us learn strongly,how to Tolerate people.Meanwhile,be free & have a relaxed mind.I must warn,in any new r/ship u start dnt repeat ur old mistake,for mistake means,mis:as i have missed it,take:i take responsibility for my action.Goodluck dear.

Exponental: When we get 2 d bridge, we cross!

.It is better u start making plans or making up ur mind on how u wud cross this bridge.I need an answer,pls.