holamiday: My girl left me(i wont say dump because i did not lose anything) for another guy recently. Though it was really my fault cos i treated her very badly in some ways i can't explain now(it's not molestation, rape, neither did i beat her).

It was just that my kind of life is so boring; i don't go to parties, i don't stroll, i've neva gone 2 c her at her house, i don't walk with her i don't do anything that makes a normal person happy except that i give her gifts & money a lot & i call her a lot on phone.

I know it's bad for me not to be doing those things but it's just my life; i'm a very introversive person, that just likes to be alone. I have the money to buy the latest clothes and shoes but i just keep wearing my clothes since 3 years ago.
It's just me, i don't care about anything. There was a time she was very sick for about three days & i did not go to her house to c her. It's not thati was wicked but i just feel too shy i don't like to go out.

I don't kno how to explain this but i hope someone understands me. During the illness i spent not less than 3k on calls alone.
I remember i bought mth 750 like 4 times amongs 200 andd 400. She knows i'm 100% faithful to her, which i realy am, she knows i love her very much but when john came she just culd not resist him. john is not more financially balanced than i am but he's very sociable, he wears the latest style in clothing, he likes clubbing, dancing, etc(which my girl likes and always tried to convince me 2 be doing) & i must confess he is more handsome than i am.

I'm a third year student of mechanical engineeering student in the university of first choice & she knows it, John goes to work according to her(perhaps he's a sales boy at a shop) and i'm sure the highest he has is an ssce certificate with perhaps no push to climb higher and i can humbly say that i am greater than this my rival in almost every aspect asides clothing and social nature. Now she's with him and when i begged her to give me a chance and that i'd change, she bluntly told me she could only date me & john together or John alone. I can't share her with someone else so i refused & she refused to bend her resolve too.

I know john will not and does not take care of her in the aspect i was skilled in, above(giving her cash, recharging her phone, and calling her excessively) but she seems to be more comfortable with him than me. What does any1 hav to say about this story? I'm nt handicapped, i'm not short, i have no disability, i speak good engish better than john's, i'm handsome in my own ordinary way also.

I see no reason why this girl should prefer john to me. Someone please explain things to me.

holamiday: My girl left me(i wont say dump because i did not lose anything) for another guy recently. Though it was really my fault cos i treated her very badly in some ways i can't explain now(it's not molestation, rape, neither did i beat her).

It was just that my kind of life is so boring; i don't go to parties, i don't stroll, i've neva gone 2 c her at her house, i don't walk with her i don't do anything that makes a normal person happy except that i give her gifts & money a lot & i call her a lot on phone.

I know it's bad for me not to be doing those things but it's just my life; i'm a very introversive person, that just likes to be alone. I have the money to buy the latest clothes and shoes but i just keep wearing my clothes since 3 years ago.
It's just me, i don't care about anything. There was a time she was very sick for about three days & i did not go to her house to c her. It's not thati was wicked but i just feel too shy i don't like to go out.

I don't kno how to explain this but i hope someone understands me. During the illness i spent not less than 3k on calls alone.
I remember i bought mth 750 like 4 times amongs 200 andd 400. She knows i'm 100% faithful to her, which i realy am, she knows i love her very much but when john came she just culd not resist him. john is not more financially balanced than i am but he's very sociable, he wears the latest style in clothing, he likes clubbing, dancing, etc(which my girl likes and always tried to convince me 2 be doing) & i must confess he is more handsome than i am.

I'm a third year student of mechanical engineeering student in the university of first choice & she knows it, John goes to work according to her(perhaps he's a sales boy at a shop) and i'm sure the highest he has is an ssce certificate with perhaps no push to climb higher and i can humbly say that i am greater than this my rival in almost every aspect asides clothing and social nature. Now she's with him and when i begged her to give me a chance and that i'd change, she bluntly told me she could only date me & john together or John alone. I can't share her with someone else so i refused & she refused to bend her resolve too.

I know john will not and does not take care of her in the aspect i was skilled in, above(giving her cash, recharging her phone, and calling her excessively) but she seems to be more comfortable with him than me. What does any1 hav to say about this story? I'm nt handicapped, i'm not short, i have no disability, i speak good engish better than john's, i'm handsome in my own ordinary way also.

I see no reason why this girl should prefer john to me. Someone please explain things to me.

aanumama: [size=48pt]God u are so boring,even from your post![/size]
anyway i think it's best she leaves you cos i can't cope with someone like you either

Besides na grammar she wan chop and if u keep it up the way u are,sorry bro u will remain this way till eternity cos girls don't like boring men

holamiday: My girl left me(i wont say dump because i did not lose anything) for another guy recently. Though it was really my fault cos i treated her very badly in some ways i can't explain now(it's not molestation, rape, neither did i beat her).

It was just that my kind of life is so boring; i don't go to parties, i don't stroll, i've neva gone 2 c her at her house, i don't walk with her i don't do anything that makes a normal person happy except that i give her gifts & money a lot & i call her a lot on phone.

I know it's bad for me not to be doing those things but it's just my life; i'm a very introversive person, that just likes to be alone. I have the money to buy the latest clothes and shoes but i just keep wearing my clothes since 3 years ago.
It's just me, i don't care about anything. There was a time she was very sick for about three days & i did not go to her house to c her. It's not thati was wicked but i just feel too shy i don't like to go out.

I don't kno how to explain this but i hope someone understands me. During the illness i spent not less than 3k on calls alone.
I remember i bought mtn 750 like 4 times amongst 200 and 400. She knows i'm 100% faithful to her, which i realy am, she knows i love her very much but when john came she just culd not resist him. john is not more financially balanced than i am but he's very sociable, he wears the latest style in clothing, he likes clubbing, dancing, etc(which my girl likes and always tried to convince me 2 be doing) & i must confess he is more handsome than i am.

I'm a third year student of mechanical engineeering in the university of lagos & she knows it, John goes to work according to her(perhaps he's a sales boy at a shop) and i'm sure the highest he has is an ssce certificate(that's if he even has it) with perhaps no push to climb higher and i can humbly say that i am greater than this my rival in almost every aspect asides clothing and social nature. Now she's with him and when i begged her to give me a chance and that i'd change, she bluntly told me she could only date me & john together or John alone. I can't share her with someone else so i refused & she refused to bend her resolve too.

I know john will not and does not take care of her in the aspect i was skilled in, above(giving her cash, recharging her phone, and calling her excessively) but she seems to be more comfortable with him than me. What does any1 hav to say about this story? I'm nt handicapped, i'm not short, i have no disability, i speak good engish better than john's, i'm handsome in my own ordinary way also.

I see no reason why this girl should prefer john to me. Someone please explain things to me.

2goodbobo: Poster am sorry to sound this way but I think you are just to proud of yourself and is not good for a man. Learn to be humble. You say you are better than John and that he can't speak grammer, well is not by grammer or educational qualification. Love can be found in the strangest of places. The truth of the matter is that John gat the swag and women don't like weak men, they always prefer the lively,animated and social guys who have swags and not recluse like you. Better go and start learning how to be social and come out of your rat hole. Your post is nothing but self exaltation.

obilizy:
must u have a girlfriend? 3rd year? cant you face your studies and upgrade you CGPA

aanumama: God u are so boring,even from your post!
anyway i think it's best she leaves you cos i can't cope with someone like you either

Besides na grammar she wan chop and if u keep it up the way u are,sorry bro u will remain this way till eternity cos girls don't like boring men

aanumama: God u are so boring,even from your post!
anyway i think it's best she leaves you cos i can't cope with someone like you either

Besides na grammar she wan chop and if u keep it up the way u are,sorry bro u will remain this way till eternity cos girls don't like boring men

TroyJay:
She left you because you were simply not exciting enough. . . A.K.A Boring! No matter what you buy for a lady or how much you give to her, what she really cherishes the most is the time and attention you spend on her. John may not have money or anything, but one thing he sure has is the ability to hold an interesting conversation, make her laugh, spend quality time with her and basically overwhelm her with spoken words. He sure used it wisely. Don't be mistaken, "I miss you" sent as a text is NOT to be equated to "I miss you" said face to face You get a chance to study her emotions etc. Ask your self, what is it you have to offer a girl who has it all in terms of brains, beauty, money and stuff? Time! If you can't spend time with her, she walks. . . That's my explanation for now. Sorry though, i know how you feel!

TroyJay:
She left you because you were simply not exciting enough. . . A.K.A Boring! No matter what you buy for a lady or how much you give to her, what she really cherishes the most is the time and attention you spend on her. John may not have money or anything, but one thing he sure has is the ability to hold an interesting conversation, make her laugh, spend quality time with her and basically overwhelm her with spoken words. He sure used it wisely. Don't be mistaken, "I miss you" sent as a text is NOT to be equated to "I miss you" said face to face You get a chance to study her emotions etc. Ask your self, what is it you have to offer a girl who has it all in terms of brains, beauty, money and stuff? Time! If you can't spend time with her, she walks. . . That's my explanation for now. Sorry though, i know how you feel!