Lagusta: I am totally confused, i thought marriage was supposed to be "for better for worse" but i see alot of married men; no matter the age, religion, education background, etc; they still sleep with other girls. These ladies may be married or not. What could be the reason?

BlueBarbie:

Its the girls to be blamed, not the married men.. Women are their own worst enemy! The men didnt force them. If a married man plans to mess around and he gets a 'No' from everygirl he approaches? He'ld be forced to go back home to his wife...

sexkillz:
Very well said, coming from a lady! Liked

BlueBarbie:

Hey Brainy!

frank3.16:
i also will like to blame the ladies. this because men see sexx as just a means of satisfaction, theu dont attach so much emotions to it like the women do. women are fast losing their feminine nature. they are supposed to have sexx with only men they love or have strong positive emotional attraction to, instead they open their legs to every tom DICK, and Emeka. they think they can compete with men who naturally just want to deep the thing inside them and forget they even existed, they go back home and love their wives.

these ladies end up hurt and confused, the sexx afterall wasnt just a means of satifaction, they find out their emotions are stuck. they either loose it (their self worth) and become love peddlers or they struggle to make the married man show them some little love and they manage life like that. the men end up having a two way fun 1. their wife whom they love, 2. the mistress who they have no feelings for but enjoy all the same because of the vareity she provides

190: ^At the end of the whole sermon - the men are still the winners while the women are still graciously the loosers

so why we dey kill body over this argument, NIGERIAN GIRLS CHANGE CHANGE CHANGE AND leave married men alone

ayan yan

DailyNews: @Blueberbie, u are amazing with that honest comment...honestly, the women are to blame for promiscuous men, why? women are the ones that have the final say as to whether the tango dance shud be or not...so why do they agree to tango even when they are well aware that the man is married? which leaves me with the answer that: MONEY = WOMEN!

kemiola89: what if one does not know they are married? Some men do pretend to be single even when they are not.

DailyNews: of course NO! But then, when 100% of people take a particular exam, say jamb, & 85 to 90% fails, how would u report the result in headline? of course it would go this way- massive jamb failure! then in the body u explain the %. thats it, the good girls which are very minute are always exception to statements like; ALL NIGERIAN GIRLS LOVE MONEY, ALL NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE FAKE, ALL NIGERIAN GIRLS DATE FOR MATERIAL REASONS, etc...and when u meet one of em, she doesn't need to tell u that she is an exceptional girl, or say a rare gem, but u urself will go telling your friends & family about her & even value her secretly without her knowledge. so sexmurders, its not by arguing, its by making a difference in a silent way. Blueberbie sounded amazing, if she is like that in real life, then she has nothing to panic cos God will help her have the best man I pray!

DailyNews: @sexmurders, unfortunately, I have encountered such generalization more than necessary...talking of foreigners generalizing that ALL NIGERIANS ARE SCAMMERS & CORRUPT! Ofcourse, I don't usually argue with them to proof that I am a different NIGERIAN, all I do is show em action by making a difference...like that my brother, I have won more foreign fans on my blog & in real life than by arguing to persuade to believe otherwise when NIGERIANS are out there scamming innocent foreigners off their life savings; how would u convince such person that not all NIGERIANS are SCAMMERS or corrupt? The best way to convince people in situations like this is through your actions, thats the best preaching in both christianity and moral practice. live differently so that people themselves will see and confess that this guy or girl is different! Argument doesn't stop people from not believing in what they believe! Exceptional character display does the MAGIC!

If you believe that, STOP making statements that generalize. JBF.

ijebabe:

I disagree. Some women are capable of enjoying sex with no emotional strings attached. Its alright for a man to sleep with different women with no repercussions but when its a woman doing the exact same she is branded all sorts. I agree that women are also responsible for cheating husbands and mistresses are a questionable breed but don't generalise that ALL women are incapable of having sex with no emotions. You just haven't met them yet.

ijebabe:

I disagree. Some women are capable of enjoying sex with no emotional strings attached. Its alright for a man to sleep with different women with no repercussions but when its a woman doing the exact same she is branded all sorts. I agree that women are also responsible for cheating husbands and mistresses are a questionable breed but don't generalise that ALL women are incapable of having sex with no emotions. You just haven't met them yet.

BlueBarbie:

Its the girls to be blamed, not the married men.. If a married man plans to mess around and he gets a 'No' from everygirl he approaches? He'ld be forced to go back home to his wife...

DailyNews: @kemi, u can detect a married man if u are for real and not up to sth fishy!

190: ^God bless u and may Amadioha shrink the clit of those girls that agree 2 those married men

cyber999: those of you blaming the men, listen to this: i have a friendn who is having extramarital affairs cos his wife denies him sex, the man has to negotiate with her and do things for her just to have his way with his married wife. she hates sex and manage to do it only to please her husband; to make it worse, the man is a pastor and divorce is out of it. he feels bad about it, but as a man, he has needs that must be met. he told me this personally and i feel for him. in such case will you blame the man for extramarital affairs.