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Politics / Re: Buhari A Terrorist Who Committed Treasonable Felony In 1983 - Kanu, Co-Defendant by pinpinkay: 1:11pm On Jan 11, 2017 |
d guy don vex ooh .. prison no dey favour d guy again |
Technology Market / Re: We Buy Your Dead And Faulty Laptops Here In Lagos by pinpinkay: 6:20pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Kunleforreal:what about desktop? |
Investment / Re: Mehen These Is Real Hot!!!!!! by pinpinkay: 6:11pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Chigozie98:07062263845 |
Investment / Re: Make Up To N320,000 With N1000 by pinpinkay: 6:10pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
elemic:07062263845 |
Politics / Re: Boko Haram Attacks Soldiers & LGA Administrator In Borno, Injure Soldiers by pinpinkay: 3:13pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
eyahh!!! God, what did we do to deserve the tribulation? they shud auction nigeria .. this nation is dead .. any way, R.I.P to them sha 1 Like |
Business / Re: Lagosians Overcrowd Shoprite Mall In Ikeja [black Friday Palava] by pinpinkay: 9:42am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Lukmann1:bro, stop deceiving us with your English now 13 Likes |
Politics / Re: Lagos Is The Best Security Conscious State In Africa - Security Watch Africa by pinpinkay: 4:11pm On Nov 24, 2016 |
hmm .. let sit down with our arms crossed nd wait for this thread to become bloody ... we the medical emergency team are on ground for any emergency ..afonja nd ipob .. over to you 12 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Chidinma Ekile Deletes All Instagram Pictures Except Ones With Flavour by pinpinkay: 9:38am On Nov 07, 2016 |
maybe flavor give her bags if cucumber for free .. ataaam cucumber chidinma 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Internships and Entry Level jobs In Nigeria by pinpinkay: 5:35am On Oct 28, 2016 |
good morning OP... you are doin a very great job .. God continue to bless u in his infinite mercy.. Can u Please kindly update someone on internship opportunities in Lagos state. psychology is my discipline. All useful info will be appreciated. |
Romance / Message For The Young Guys Out There by pinpinkay: 11:57am On Oct 15, 2016 |
The most difficult time to be in a relationship as a guy is in your early twenties. The period when you are stuck in a limbo, trying to figure out yourself and who you want to be. At this age, you find it a herculean task asking money from your parents, considering your dad will always remind you of how he was self sufficient at your age. So you are always left with "chioma" anyone that comes from them willingly. To compound your "woes". You have a girlfriend whom you love so muchh, you are 24 and she is 23. And guys being wired to want to take control, you are frustrated at your inability to take care of her like you want to. I mean where is the money?? You are still jobless, still hustling, still finding your feet. Still putting hands intomany things hoping oluwa smiles on you. All of a sudden, she starts acting out and showing attitude. You call, and she takes forever to pick or return your calls. When she finally does pick, the call is like an interview session with those annoying and frustrating one word replies. Yes, no, fine, okay, nothing. Then finally she ends the call with a flimsy excuse like " wait let me close the fridge", i will call you back. And the call never comes back. Then one day she calls you and askes you "where is this relationship heading to?. You dont even know where your own life is heading to, not to talk of a relationship. Then she drops the bombshell. Tells you that she met a guy who wants to marry her. And how age isnt on her side, and you are almost compelled to scream "But you are just 23". Can't you wait 3 more years let me make it. You just hold yourself and play the good guy You ask her if she loves him, she dodges the question and replies you with " He treats me well". Well since she wasn't informing you to take permission, she was simply telling you. You have to be the cool guy and wish her well. One week later, she gives you the traditional wedding card. And then you do the math yourself. She was talking to the guy a long time before now. Then you realise that for every "K" you got on WhatsApp, the guy was getting a long epistle. You have been played. Worse is you cant even blame her, you are just a prospect who no one knows what will become of your life in 4years time. Would you have made it or not? She has gone for the real deal, someone who has already made it. In footballing terms, you are a "Anthony Martial" ( prospect) while the guy is a Messi ( has made it already). I mean you were sending her cards of N200, and the guy was telling her to manage 10k for the weekend. No comparison there. And then you go through that silent heartbreak guys go through, the ones they don't talk about. And unceremoniously you get inducted into the special hall of fame where members are young guys whose childhood loves and friends or girlfriends they thought they would end up with left them to marry someone else. Your heart is broken into smithereens. In this hall of fame, you are all victims. Victims of not having found your path in your early twenties. At the wedding, no sight is more heartbreaking than seeing "the love of your life" say "I do" to this guy she just met 6 months ago. To make matters worse, you get an alert from Diamond bank telling you how N13 have been deducted for bank charges. You are mad. Your N4000, is down to N3987 rendering that N1k useless, you can only withdraw N3k now. And that's your home and abroad. Can life be more unfair at this moment? To make matters worse, she tells you that she wants you to be the god-father to her first son. You are livid, the plan you both made was to be the father, god wasn't there. Why are you involving god now. god-father huh.. is that a sort of compensation package? You chin it up, suck it, move on and double your hustle. 6 years later. You are 30 now. Congratulations, you finally made it. You are as rich as you hoped you will become. You are one of the happening guys in town. You go to a wedding. With your friends, the men on suit. Those guys that just intimidate everyone in the hall. You are seated scouting the hall, and the bridal train passes by. Ofcourse, bridal train and ashoebi ladies always show themselves. That's part of the job description. Sampling. And you spot one, she is beautiful, elegant and tall. You walk up to her, chat her up. Exchange numbers and you leave. She is 24, ripe for marriage. Three months later, you are sounding marriage to her ears. She loves how it sounds. You are on chat with her always. And somewhere else, a 25year old boy still finding his way is wondering why the girlfriend is becoming distant these days. Why is he getting those one worded replies which is unlike her. Why do there chats seem more like interview. And fast fast, you have proposed and simultaneously she is asking the 25year old boy that question of "Where is this relationship going to". And then you marry her, and somewhere a boy gets heart broken. To my brothers out there ... be smart and work harder lalasticlala .. pls move this to front page so that guys can be wise .. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Celebrities Mourn The Death Of Bukky Ajayi by pinpinkay: 5:14pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
R.I.P momma Ajayi .. God be with u where ever u are *****Adieu Mama |
Crime / Re: UNIUYO Student's Rapists Arrested By Police (photo) by pinpinkay: 1:35pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
NCAN branch of somalia branch reporting to duty .. this is the Ugandans .. we know them and they know themselves ...see wetin nairaland son turn me to #chai |
Pets / Re: I Find It Difficult To Keep These Birds As Pet, Help by pinpinkay: 10:04pm On Jun 28, 2016 |
NCAN , north south west region of abakaliki... am here to check the name of the bird ...reporting back to duty 7 Likes |
Gaming / Re: Clash Of Clans: New Clan ! by pinpinkay: 12:43pm On Jun 26, 2016 |
wud luv to join .. buh am a TH5 player ... |
Celebrities / Re: Fred Amata Robbed, Bundled Into Car by pinpinkay: 6:16pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
passenger .. let it go |
Romance / Re: How Many Of Us Have Experienced This Kind Of Chatting by pinpinkay: 10:39pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
MVLOX:bro , not only you .. ma girlfrend does this (though, she in an introvert) .. anytime i ignore her and chat with other people, she will start complaining .. i dont know how to tell her dat she is boring in chats ...so, i just av to deal with it and live wit it |
Romance / Re: How Many Of Us Have Experienced This Kind Of Chatting by pinpinkay: 11:31pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
yeap .. i hate it also .. there is this girl i so much love and she is an introvert... she is boring also wen chatting .. i do alot of work just to keep up the conversation .. everyday, i av to tink of sometin to keep the chat lively bfor i chat with her, otherwise .. na die b dat .. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Business / Re: Wrong Charges Made On My Account By FCMB by pinpinkay: 12:30pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
fcmb .. dat is how dey use to do ... o.p, sorry ooh .. God wil be with you and guide u, u wil not die .. pls, like my comment for success 8 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Kate Henshaw Supports Tiwa Savage Outburst In Her Interview by pinpinkay: 1:15pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
shey u see teebillz and tiwa, see mama dat cud be us |
Crime / Re: Thief Sleeps With His Victim's Daughter In Edo, Gets Arrested by pinpinkay: 10:29am On Apr 30, 2016 |
the thief wan chop edible catering, buh police knock am out 5 Likes |
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