U all have dirty secrets that's why U seem to be scared. I can imagine the can of worms. The only one I have and which all my friends know is that I was with a married woman a couple of years ago and she took in. Do have my regrets and that's part of life for u

Guy all woman have dark secrets. You're lucky hers in just ok. I am not saying lying is good( cannot tolerate any form ), but men I have seen enough lies from nigerian chicks, so this lie I can handle. They can lie about just anything. She probably didn't want to scare u off. They usually have an issue with the age thing. What about if u found out she had a baby, or is pregant for some other guy or maybe something worse? This lie is not about a past event, or something she could've changed.
She loves you. Just get her to understand that lies don't help anybody for long

if you mean which is best to study and get a job with, I would say Oracle using java or Oracle using PL/SQL. BUt if u mean Oracle DBA, and u don't like programming, study Oracle. But still try to be more elaborate

He should have remained abroad. They ignored him. If he didn't lead the team they wouldn't have won. yet they abandoned him and are fighting with Mrs Etteh

Now I did have two major crushes. They were older. One was a teacher in my secondary school(Igbinedion). Boy she was hot. We guys used to peep at her through the window when we heard her her voice outside in the corridor. She had this kind of crazy butt, style and damn she was beautiful and single. People wanted her attention so so much. Guess what? I had her eventually, after I had finished secondary school. Met her on the street one evening. Was shocked she knew me. Showed me her place, and I became a frequent visitor then one evening I was talking to her and something made me cry. She hugged me and I asked her if I could kiss her. Ended up spending the night in her place. First time in my life I slept out. Started dating. She really spoilt me with sex. You know when you're a teenager and preoccupied with sex. My friends hardly got it and i was getting it 3x a day. Good thing I didn't worry about pregnancy because she was experienced. She was 31. I was 18. Had to stop because I didn't know why she loved me so much. Initially thot it was the sex. But it wasn't just it. It was the chemistry and understanding we had. Now I am searching for some love. We still see but we're very good friends. She's still there for me(not sex).
The other one was 4yrs older. Been tripping for 16yrs. We both knew each other in and out. We could relate about just anything. No lies to me and me to her. Slept with her after over 10 yrs, but by then she was some one's else's and we both knew we couldn't go on.
If I was older when I met either of them I think either one one would've been perfect. Just bad timing for a young mann then. Now I am old, 31 and not married or involved. My advice, if you're trpping for someone, just let it out. keeping it to yrself isn't going to help u. if someone was tripping and had told me and I liked her then no qualms if I am single

Kakameks ehn? You just came into Nairaland just to create controversy abi with yr second post? By the way who told u that u're good looking?Good looking chicks  don't search they only select

If he started stealing before he met her then the problem's his. But if he does just becos of her the he must be a goat. A damn fool

it's not a good thing for you to keep secrets fro someone u claim to love. Why shld he hide it from u? Any way it's up yo u to decide. U know where the shoe pinches

I enjoy giving and receiving every single one of these languages

Run away from her. But give me her number before deleting it oh. U're just so insecure. Babe is asking u out and u con dey ask for help. If na to chook am now, u no go dey ask for help

Simply because that road is less "travelled"

Come if U can guess the CONSISTENT, THE MOMENT RESILIENT, The Team that plays complete SOCCER, not footbal. Come on , give it up for ARSENAL!. They thot we were going to go down without henry, proving them wrong day by day

Guy, how can you say Nigeria's safe? When kidnaping is going on every day. Police brutallity and corruption, You can't drive safely after 11pm for fear of being robbed. In yr car,yr house,the streets, the bank you're not safe. Bank robbery very often. Police answers after 5 hours if at all. Even robbers in police uniform.How CCTV have you seen in nigeria before? Aliens are even getting more Nigerian than we ourselves. There is no justice, no democracy, NOTHING.
Bridge is burning at stadium and Fire brigade at Ojuelegba(1 km away) can't come. Mosquitoes want to dry up yr blood, economy is behind by 30yrs. Education is behind by 100yrs. Cultists are in virtually all the schools. Telecommunication is 20% penetration, no clean water (pure water is the best so far), no roads, accidents every day.
Come on man, where did you get yr analogy, or do I say statistics from ? Ehn?

get a replacement

Guy leave that thing. When we break their heart "Hints Magazine" would hear it when they do us people say "lef am for God". Of course u have to let go. It takes a while to, but believe me it can take two weeks. Just FORGET about it and don't even think of anything relatiing to her at all. Mix up and try not to be alone (not dating). Be with r friends and people that appreciate you. It would make u feel alot better. Spoil yrself a little. At least one less mouth to chop free gift. LOL. Trust me it works. And above all get closer to God. He doesn't fail. Read the Bible. Remember, "people have gone thru worse cases than yrs."

Unless you've become GOD before you take vengence. SInce i know that you're not, let her be. When Karma comes calling sooner than later you would wish for her safety. Guy, I have been through worse, you have got more to gain leaving her to be. Would she love yr friend better if u do anything? besides good ridance to bad rubbish. God just saved him from a cheating wife

Nigerian immigration is just DAFT. They can allow smuggled goods and alliens and rogue governors in but a very respected business man no show. Someone just wanted to be in the news that's all

spoilt girl no problem if you want some hooking up you can halla at me. Live in Surulere. Bone Ikoyi, houseboys still dey live for VGC sef.I still dey try oshioke@gmail.com. That's if you're for real.

Joint kini? say I drink abi wetin? If it's a business account, that makes more sense before some one spends ny kish on make up and shopping spree. Tha't like given her a blank check

What did I drink ? Zobo abi paraga? Nonsense. These naija girls? No way? before u know it they've given their enmy food poisoning. For real I doubt if I can have an account with anyone not to talk of a woman. The risks are too many. If it's a business account(float) where we both run the business then that's fine. Children's up keep account no problem. But my hard earned savings? i haven't seen that angel yet.

if he wasn't too young, he wouldn't be preoccupied with s girl giving him sex and breaking up because of that. It's only bad if she's giving others and not him. If she's untouched let her do it when she's ready

Gamine don't mind al these bad boys on nairaland. They would spoil you for me. I dey very available. Very cute and charming too

Guy must be young to be insinuating that sex killed that relationship. Believe me girls love sex alot. If she refuses then she's not ready for it or doesn't like you enough. So let her be. Besides she's too young to be preoccupied with sex

Hell Yeah. They can come if Affang, Ogbono, Moi moi, Akamu can be on their menu. After all Mr Biggs and others have gone nuclear