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alBHAGDADI:
A woman's place is in the home just as a fish's place is in the water, but una no go hear.

Every woman wants to work and earn her money without knowing the much damage such is doing to her family especially the kids. You leave your kids at the mercy of a maid who might be possessed or simply wicked just because you want to be civilized and make your own money. That's why kids of today lack home training and are becoming horrible creatures. Look at all the young girls becoming twerkers on Instagram and running after Yahoo boys which the young boys have become.

A working wife doesn't only create problems for their kids but also for themselves. That's why many wives of today are looking ugly and old due to the stress at work. You wake up as early as 5am to beat traffic which you still meet. You stay cramped up in a dirty bus sweating with different people with germs only to get to work and still be ordered around by your boss in ways your husband can't even try. By the time you are 35, you are already looking like a 50 year old and unattractive. This can make the husband to start cheatin with campus girls. All of these for the love of money which never brings happiness.

Yes, I quite understand that some families need the woman to be working so as to support the husband, but it is wise to get a job close by and very conducive. And when you get that job, don't go chasing career or you will hurt your loved ones. Aspiring to be the MD or the GMD will only make you neglect your wife duties. A Husband is suppose to eat his wife's food, not a maid's. Same maid gets maltreated by these frustrated wives who are living a confused life. That job makes you neglect yourself, your kids, your Husband and God.

The sad part is that most of these ladies were raised by mothers who devoted time for them and sacrificed ambitions that would have made them selfish.

Since you've gotten the job, whatever it gives you be it positive or negative, just face it till you realize that career chasing and ambitions that make your family suffer is not worth it.


1 Timothy 6:9-11 (KJV)
9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
11 But thou, O man of God, flee these things; and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness.

My brother you and pansophist and a few here always make comments that take me straight into the third heavens and back. What an audacious truth. God bless your wisdom. More oil

bukatyne:
I agree with the OP.

Modern day churches especially those that report to a center or HQ strike me as business centers.

Because of my level of involvement, I can't even spiritualize tithes and offerings again.

It is a revenue generating venture for me.

Yes, I know that tithes and offering us to bring meat in the house (church). However, the meat is to feed the needy and full time pastors.

If after bringing tithes and offering, you still task the same needy to do things in the church; if the full time pastors are paid peanuts, then what can we say?

Bukola you've always struck me with your level of intelligence, so I'm not surprised. Jowo becausenof my own level of involvement,I'll pass abeg. I can not come and chop God's koboko. God in anger is a different entity altogether so I don't analyze the kingdom or church for any reason

bukatyne:
Hahahaha

If it ain't one of my most respectful lady on the forum. What's your take on the palaver ma'am?

OK.

Don't carry God into public domains. We may have other discontentment but should keep it from discouraging non Christians lest we push them away from the light. In this walk, we learn to look away from many things.

matify83:
You see the thinking of a typical notherner?

If only we could eavesdrop on their secret conversations about Non-notherners -south west inclusive, we will weep for ourselves.

Only God can explain why I share the same geographic space with such Myopic
bigot

You speak like one ordained with scarce divine wisdonm you spoke well. Imagine eavesdropping on the private conversations of the two blocs you mentioned.

I'll watch it later

I meet all of these. Let's see how it goes

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Sicilyjoe:
Pls what profitable business can some one do with 500k ?

Can we work together Sir?

Sapeleboy911:
Sorry I can't I've learnt the hard way. Based on your 2 threads you've made business deal with 14 nairalanders. And your nairaland account was created few days back, how come?
Real businessmen don't look for investors, it is the other way round. Let's not derail the thread please.

BTW Michael Dell looked for investors starting and expanding, same as Zuckerberg. Same as Dangote, Same applies to all companies that go to NSE. Its looked ng for funds albeit corporately. Let's not misuse the knowledge and education this new age provide skewing it with negative emotional reactions from past ventures went awry.


Well,I don't expect nor want a reply. Just want to avoid other innocent minds being misled