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Romance / Lady Angrily Pours Water On Boyfriend For Proposing To Her In Public by Playloaded: 11:46am On Jan 20
Lady Angrily Pours Water On Boyfriend For Embarrassing Her By Proposing In Public

A Nigerian lady reacted to a public proposal by her boyfriend in Abuja in a strange and unexpected manner.

The man proposed marriage to her at the popular Plaza in Wuse II, Abuja and it got the attention of shoppers as well as traders.

This left the lady embarrassed as she made attempts to make him realise she was not comfortable with being put on the spot.

In a video which has gone viral, the boyfriend could be seen on his knee with the ring in his a hand, but the lady seemed not to approve of the time and location of said act.

She tried to get him to stand up and failed, even as onlookers were urging her to say yes. After trying fruitlessly to make him get up, she emptied the bottle of water on him and stormed off.

Watch the video HERE

Romance / A Hustling Man Needs A Hustling Girlfriend Not A Patient One – Nigerian Man by Playloaded: 10:38am On Jan 20
A Nigerian man has shared his two cents on the issue of ladies patiently sticking with a man during his hustling stage.

The young lad said that a man who hustles needs a woman who also hustles, not who stays with him with the mindset that she is patiently waiting for him to become successful.

He questioned ladies who give themselves accolades for patiently being with a struggling man, and wondeed if they are not also interested in working hard to make it themselves.

In a video posted online, he said girls feel like they do men a favour by being patient, while asking if they do not have dreams of their own.

Watch him speak HERE

Romance / My Working Class Girlfriend Is Always Asking Memoney – What Should I Do? by Playloaded: 12:06pm On Jan 11
I met this girl at her place of work and was happy seeing a young big azz girl in Nigeria working legitimately to make money instead of olosho.

Now the problem is this girl asks me for money all the time and tells me her financial problem all the time.

Mind you I have not had sex with this girl, and I have spent alot of money on her thinking she will use her head and stop asking me, but yet she keeps asking me for more money.

Please, at this point I am just tired and do not know what to do.

What Should I Do?

Music/Radio / Audio: Burna Boy – B.D’OR (ballon D’or) Ft. Wizkid by Playloaded: 10:16am On Dec 15, 2021

Nigerian international singer, Burna Boy delivers what might likely be his last song for the year and it’s titled “B.D’OR“.

The record which titles is a short for “Ballon D’or” features Nigerian superstar singer, Wizkid.

The duo has always been amazing on collaboration, and this time the P2J produced record tells no difference.

Download below and share!

Romance / Have You Ever Dated Someone Out Of Pity? by Playloaded: 3:56pm On Dec 14, 2021
Love is such a beautiful feeling. It is fun, free and playful.

When you are in love with someone who loves you too, you are at peace. You feel happy and radiate. You are not afraid because you know your heart is safe. We all yearn to be loved. We all need a shoulder to lean on especially when we are down, and going through the darkest moments of our lives.

Most people fall in love easily when they are down. Their own definition of love is the person who stands by them in their time of need. Just little acts of kindness from a friend or total stranger and they fall passionately for the person. They mistake anyone who alleviates their suffering or protects them from hurt as someone who loves them.

Show of compassion can feel like a loving attention, and it can make the giver feel like they are acting out of love because compassion is a kind of love that could be mistaken for a romantic love. You should naturally feel pity for someone you genuinely love when they are suffering, but if you take the pity away, what else do you feel for them? What is left when the wounds have healed?

This is not to say that love cannot grow out of a relationship that begins with suffering and pity, but if pity is mistaken for love, what remains when the suffering ends and the people involved become emotionally detached and incompatible? They feel hurt after providing solace for the person in need and they refuse to stick around out of pity because nothing else is making sense.

It is most likely you would hear the hurting partner say, “after all I did for you, even when no one else was there, I stood by you. What else do you want?” The truth is that all you did was out of compassion, and they are bored already because outside your pity, they can’t see anything that makes you both compatible.

Lastly, When it comes to settling down, a lot of people look out for those who were there for them in their time of need, not minding whether they are compatible. If you settle for a man or woman because of how much they invested in you or how they were there for you when the chips were down, you may be in big trouble already.

True love is genuine and comes from within. When you love out of pity, your love is fake.

The question is;

Have You Ever Dated Someone Out Of Pity?

Family / Man Offers To Sell His Kidney To Raise N5.5 Million Bride Price by Playloaded: 4:47pm On Dec 13, 2021
He asked social media users to help him raise the amount to marry the love of his life, adding that he has opted to put up his kidney on sale in a bid to raise the required dowry.

A love-struck Kenyan man has left social media users in shock after he decided to put his kidney up for sale to raise Ksh 1.5M (N5.4m) bride price to marry his heartthrob.

The unidentified man claimed that his in-laws denied him a chance to marry the love of his life for failing to raise Ksh1.5 million as dowry.

He asked social media users to help him raise the amount to marry the love of his life, adding that he has opted to put up his kidney on sale in a bid to raise the required dowry.

He Wrote;
"The family denied me the chance to marry the love of my life until I pay Ksh 1.5 million.

“I have decided to sell my kidney at an offer of Ksh 2 million. Someone help.”

Family / Identical Twin Brothers Who Married Same Wife Are Expecting Their First Baby by Playloaded: 7:22pm On Dec 08, 2021
Twin brothers who married one wife have announced that they are expecting their first child and it belongs to both of them.

The young lady whose name is identified as Marie Josiane from Rwanda is said to have married two male twins.

The woman revealed that she first dated the elder twin who did not disclose that he had an identical brother.

She had never seen them together. One day she met, hugged and k!ssed the other brother without the knowledge that he was not the one she was dating.

After feeling this love from the woman, the other brother fell for her.

To the surprise of many, the woman had also revealed that hate or envy does not exist between the two brothers. The three have been staying together for the past two years and still counting.

The twin brothers say due to the nature of their marriage, people say a lot of things but they always turn a deaf ear.

She further revealed that the brothers take turns to have intimacy with her.

Celebrities / One Photo Wizkid Could Pay Millions Of Naira To Get Off The Internet If Possible by Playloaded: 10:54am On Dec 06, 2021
Couple of days ago, a video surfaced on the internet..the moment celebrated Nigerian singer Wizkid tried to lift Tems during their stage performance in London.

Wizkid stretched his hands towards Tems backside in an attempt to lift her up on stage, but she quickly and subtly brought his hands down.

The clip was captured during the just concluded ‘Made In Lagos’Concert in the O2 Arena, London, while performing their monster hit titled ‘Essence’.

Nigerians reacted negatively on it, as it was tagged sexual harassment.

My question now is, who the h*ll drew this?

This is disrespectful to our Big Wiz na.

But can Wizzy really pay millions of naira to take this off the internet? Hell no, don’t take my words for it..JUST CRUISE.

And then, what Tems refuses to give Wizkid, Ella Mai did.

Ella Mai & Wizkid. This is what Big Wiz wanted from Tems.

Come to think of it, Ella Mai is a bigger artiste than Tems..i wonder why she dey form lol.

Back to the subject matter, na who draw this thing?



Family / Should I Tell My Husband He’s Not The Father Of Our Seven Months Old Son? by Playloaded: 9:14am On Dec 06, 2021
I am in a dilemma right now. I don’t want my world to come crumbling down on me just because I chose to cover up the one mistake I made which has also become my greatest source of joy.

I have been married for 10 years to the man who took my virginity. However, I have never been pregnant for him, not even once.

I visited different hospitals and doctors, went through countless test but they all certified me alright. The last doctor I consulted insisted I come along with my husband on my next appointment. When I told my husband about the doctor’s insistence on seeing him too, he refused at first but later agreed to go with me when he saw me crying profusely in the middle of the night.

The next morning, we headed to the hospital to see the doctor. And after a series of test were conducted on I and my husband, the doctor certified both of us healthy to bear children. He however, advised that we wait on God.

Eight years into our marriage, I traveled outside the country for a conference and on the night of the dinner, I think I drank a little too much and ended up in the bed of a colleague from another company. I felt irresponsible and guilty for this terrible mistake. I blamed myself for drinking too much when I knew I cannot handle myself when I drink. The worst part was that since we were both drunk, we didn’t use protection. “What if I had contacted any kind of infection?” I felt horrible!

About five weeks after my return, I started feeling unwell so I visited the hospital. After a few urine and blood test, the doctor confirmed that I was three weeks pregnant. There was mixed feelings. I was excited and sad at the same time because I was so sure my husband wasn’t the father of my unborn child.

Nevertheless, when I told him about the pregnancy, he was overjoyed. He shed tears of joy as he hugged and congratulated us on our soon-to-be-parents status.

He promised to take good care of me and also be a good father. Throughout the pregnancy, he was always by my side as we both looked forward to the birth of our child. When our son was finally born, my husband was the happiest man on earth. He shared in the early weeks of sleepless nights. He also helped out with changing diapers among other things so that I can get the much needed rest as he also bonded with the baby.

But it has gotten to a stage where I can't keep this secret anymore. I feel so guilty for unintentionally betraying my husband. But whenever I summon the courage to tell him the truth, his undiluted fatherly love for the boy stops me. He has brought so much joy into our family. Funny enough, the boy has the infant resemblance of my husband but I know deep down in my heart that the child is not his.

The boy is seven months old now and I’m beginning to see the resemblance with his biological father. Should I just tell my husband the truth and face the consequences or just keep quiet and enjoy my small family while I keep hoping and praying that my husband doesn’t discover the truth?

What should I do? Please I need advice.

Celebrities / Bobrisky In Tears As He Reveals What He Received From His Married Boyfriend by Playloaded: 9:12am On Dec 05, 2021
Nigerian Crossdresser, Idris Okuneye a.k.a Bobrisky has flaunted the box of cash which his boyfriend allegedly sent to him.

According to Bobrisky, his boyfriend sent him N10million to enjoy himself, and after receiving the money, he began to wonder what he did to deserve such a man.

He further revealed that his boyfriend is actually married with kids and it hurts him that he can’t be able to give him a child.

In his words;
“Someone need to hold me right now. another N10million for weekend.

I still have the former N10million he gave me last week. I was too lazy to go to the bank. Total money is now N20million. He’s actually married. Yes, he’s married with kids. It hurts me that I can’t be able to give him a child.”

Romance / See How S*x Drugs Spoilt My Weekend Match With This Fine Girl by Playloaded: 6:56pm On Dec 04, 2021
I’m still in deep shame and regret..

Few days ago I “Codedly” bought a Sex Drive Enhancement Mixture in a market. I don’t use it but the way this man Dey advertise dis drink enh, I say make I try am. So I bought two incase I get another match.

This babe wey I don Dey invite to come my house come give me Green light that same day I bought this mixture. I feel say God pick my Call that day, E choke!

We agreed on date and time.

Las las She turn up, after I don drink One bottle and half of the mixture, as I enter London, I No reach 2mins

E be like say this mixture just reduce my performance by 90%. See shame!

I just tell her say make she no vex cz na First time mood. She never pick my calls till now.

What Do You Think Happened Guys cause I still Dey reason am in shame

Music/Radio / Audio: Drella – Frustration by Playloaded: 4:45pm On Dec 04, 2021

Drella is out with a top notch artistry delivery new single tagged "Frustration", a very relatable sound, waxed with Nigerian and African vibes, and we are loving it.

Music/Radio / Audio: Download “so Bad” By Simi Ft. Joeboy by Playloaded: 10:24am On Dec 03, 2021

Studio Brat vocalist; Simi ushers in a new song she titled “So Bad” featuring emPawa talented singer; Joeboy.

Romance / “as A High Value Man, You Owe No Woman Fidelity, Not Even Your Wife” – Man by Playloaded: 4:42pm On Nov 29, 2021
A Nigerian man has stirred mixed reactions on social mediaafter he said men don’t owe any woman fidelity, not even their wives.

Taking to Twitter, the young man with handle@AromeJon, insinuated that married men have the freedom to enjoy their ‘prime years’ because they ‘bought’ their wives.

Using pets as an analogy, the man said women don’t have the right to demand loyalty or allegiance from their husbands.

He tweeted,
“As a high value man, you owe no woman fidelity, not even your wife. She made the most of her prime, so it’s only fair you enjoy your prime years too. Moreover, you married/bought her, she didn’t marry you. A pet cannot be demanding loyalty and allegiance from it’s owner.”

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Family / Man Caught Cheating Finds Out He Is Not The Real Father Of All His Children by Playloaded: 2:55pm On Nov 29, 2021
An unfaithful man has been hit with a rude shock concerning the paternity of his three children.

A Nigerian doctor took to social media to narrate how the man discovered that all his kids are not his biological children.

Dr Penking revealed that the man’s wife caught him cheating and left him with the kids, but out of frustration, the cheating husband decided to conduct a DNA test on his three children.

Lo and behold, he was shocked to his bone after he found out that he is not the biological father of any of them.

@drpenking tweeted;
”In this week’s paternity fraud story, a man’s wife left him because she caught him cheating.

She left all 3 children for him and disappeared .
The youngest is just 6 months old.

The man did paternity test for them out of frustration only to realize that none belongs to him.”

Romance / If She Refused To Date You, Date Her Elder Or Younger Sister – Man To Single Men by Playloaded: 11:25am On Nov 29, 2021
A Nigerian man has counselled men not to give up in pursuit of the woman they love when they are hit with rejection.

In a post uploaded on Instagram, the lad said instead of giving up, they should channel their energy to the lady’s younger or elder sister and pursue them with their love interest.

Identified as Kalu, he admonished men not to just accept defeat but rather do something to her, that will teach them a lesson. The move, in his opinion, will serve as payback to the lady for rejecting the man in the first place.

Kalu wrote;
If a lady refused to date you,
Go and date her senior or younger sister.

She must learn a lesson.

Education / How A 400-level Bayero University Student Was Found Dead In Her Hostel by Playloaded: 10:11am On Nov 29, 2021
Sources have it that a 400-level student of the Faculty of Education, Bayero University, Kano, Binta Isa, was found dead in her hostel on Friday, November 26.

Confirming the incident, the Deputy Registrar, Public Public Affairs of the University, Lamara Garba, said the deceased, who hailed from Kogi State, died around 7pm after complaining of acute chest pain.

According to the University Director, Health Services, Dr Gezawa, late Binta Isa had previously visited the New Campus Clinic, precisely on Wednesday, complaining of chest pain for which she was given some drugs.

The Director explained that the deceased responded to treatment and continued attending her lectures on Thursday and Friday, as well as other routine activities.

“On Friday, 26th November, 2021 in the evening around the period of Magrib prayer, her symptoms relapsed and she complained of chest pain to her roommates, but she managed to perform ablution and prayed the Maghrib prayer in the room.

However, her roommates were shocked to have come back and met her lying lifeless on the floor. They immediately raised an alarm and she was rushed to the Aminu Kano Teaching Hospital where she was confirmed dead by the doctors.

The Vice Chancellor, Professor Sagir Adamu Abbas, in the company of the University Registrar, Malam Jamil Ahmad Salim, Director University Health Services, Dr. Gezawa, as well as the Director of Security, Abdulyakin Ibrahim were all at the scene to ascertain the situation.
As a tradition, the university management has contacted and briefed the deceased’s brother, who resides in Kano about the situation” he said.

Professor Abbas also expressed sadness over her death at a prime age, and extended heartfelt condolences to her parents, relatives, and colleagues.

Music/Radio / Audio: R2bees Ft. Wizkid – Tinkerbell by Playloaded: 9:19am On Nov 25, 2021

Ghanaian Duo singers & Songwriters, R2bees deliver an incredible record titled “Tinkerbell” off their released body of work titled “Back 2 Basics Album”.

The new song “Tinkerbell” features Nigerian biggest music export, Wizkid who delivered incredibly well as usual.

Romance / Boyfriend Cries Out As His Girl Disappears After He Sent N2M Instead Of N200K by Playloaded: 3:52pm On Nov 23, 2021
A lady has allegedly disappeared after her boyfriend sent her the sum of 2Million naira instead of 200,000.

A tweep known as @Austeiin on Twitter shared the story on the microblogging platform.
He revealed that the affected man was hesitant to date the girl but he gave in when she insisted on wanting them to be more than friends.

She had asked her man to assist her with N200,000, but he appeared to have mistakenly transferred N2 million to her.

After she received the money, the lady blocked her boyfriend and was nowhere to be found.

Read what he wrote below:-
”Ni**a told you he doesn’t want any emotions attached to una friendship. But you claim you love him & want more than friendship. Son of man decided to give in. You asked of ₦200k for assistance, nigga sent you ₦2Million Instead. Next thing is to block ni**a for 2months & ghost! Some Nigerian ladies eehn…God forbid the BADDEST thing in this life”

Celebrities / Anita Okoye: I’m Delighted I Didn’t Take Sides During P-square’s Rift by Playloaded: 5:54pm On Nov 18, 2021
Anita Okoye, wife of Paul Okoye of the now-defunct music group, P-square, on Thursday said she was delighted that she didn’t take sides during the group’s rift.

This comes a day after the popular singing duo, Peter and Paul, were seen in a viral video embracing after years of beef that made their band, P-Square, split.

To the disappointment of their fans, the brothers did not give a clear reason for their ‘beef’, which led to the disbandment of their group five years ago.

Fans, nonetheless, suspected the brothers’ reconciliation when some days ago, Paul’s wife, Anita, took to her Instagram page to share a video that showed Peter enjoying quality time with his twin brother’s children in the United States as they went shopping.

Shortly after that, Peter and Paul went back to following each other on Instagram.

As the twin brothers celebrated their birthday on Thursday, Anita took to her Instagram page to hail them, revealing that she had a great relationship with the duo during the rift.

She said:
“Dem be one no be two! Happy Birthday Ejima (twins). This is best birthday present either of you could receive!

“Thank you for letting me have such a great relationship with both of you independent of your rift. I am delighted I didn’t let your coconut heads let me choose sides.

“There’s a lesson here. Do not ever involve yourself in a tiff that doesn’t concern you and don’t let social media and the opinion of those who do not matter define your situation! Let God guide you! Love wins.”

Romance / ''cheat On Your Husband If You Catch Him Being Unfaithful" - Princess Shyngle by Playloaded: 7:22pm On Nov 15, 2021
She said if women cheat back anytime their husbands cheat on them, the men will start thinking twice before cheating.

Gambian actress, Princess Shyngle has a word of advice for married men with unfaithful husbands.

She said if women cheat back anytime their husbands cheat on them, the men will start thinking twice before cheating.

She added that it will also make the rate of divorce reduce.

"My little advice to all married women, if they cheat, also cheat back," the actress concluded.

Crime / Lady Calls Out “house Boy” Who Got Her Daughter Pregnant by Playloaded: 4:24pm On Nov 10, 2021
According to the lady, she brought the boy from the village and helped him get on his feet, only for him to repay her kindness by sleeping with her daughter and impregnating her.

A woman took to social media to narrate how a boy she brought from the village slept with her daughter and got her pregnant.

According to the lady, she brought the boy from the village and helped him get on his feet, only for him to repay her kindness by sleeping with her daughter and impregnating her.

In her words;
“I thought I was trying to help the poor boy who came from a very poor background. I picked him up from the village since my husband stays overseas and I am also working class lady.

I needed someone to help me do my house chores and also stay at home while I travel. I told my mom in the village and she told me of a young boy who is hardworking and humble.

He wasn’t even going to school anymore because his father is late and his mom is a full time housewife. I decided to bring him into my home since he was from a good family background, besides, his mother is a good Christian.

I took him into my home and made him attend a private secondary school so he can write WAEC that year. The boy repaid my kindness to him by sleeping with my daughter and got her pregnant. It all happened in the space of two months. How do I tell my husband that our doughter is pregnant for a house boy? How do I deal with this pregnancy?”

TV/Movies / “selina Tested” – Nollywood Tv Series! (episode 19 (war Is Coming) by Playloaded: 7:50pm On Oct 11, 2021

Selina Tested is a Nigerian pidgin movie focused on two childhood friends, Aboy and Chiboy, the both friend grew up together in a little community called……. “Holy Land”.

We’re here to deliver Selina Tested Episode 19 to our movie lovers, the episode is free and clean for download.

Celebrities / Annie Idibia Deactivates Her Instagram Account Amid Claims Of Infidelity by Playloaded: 1:47pm On Oct 11, 2021
In the middle of her marital troubles, Nollywood actress, Annie Idibia has deactivated her verified Instagram account.

It is unclear why the mother of two deactivated the page, but this comes after Nigerian singer, Brymo had alleged that some thugs beat him up on behalf of Tubaba who he claims falsely accused him of sleeping with Annie.

Recall that weeks ago, she called out her husband Innocent Idibia aka Tubaba and his family on social media.

Her online outburst created a ripple effect which forced her brother and Tubaba’s brother to bash her. A man had also earlier accused Annie of cheating on her husband in 2019, and threatened to release evidence.

Amid all these drama and allegations, a check on her Instagram page shows it has been deactivated.

Romance / I Don’t Know The Father Of My Baby But I Suspect Three Guys – Pregnant Student by Playloaded: 12:46pm On Oct 11, 2021
Confusion as a young pregnant lady has lamented over the paternity of her child as she claims not to know who the father.

The PREGNANT lady who is a student, said there are three men she suspects but none of them is husband or father material to her.

She wrote to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, while seeking advice.

Her post reads in part:
“I’m currently pregnant but I saw my pe.riod last week and doctor said I’ve been pregnant for almost two months now. My issue now is that I don’t know the father.

I don’t know what is happening but I’m not ready to be a mother. I don’t know what is happening. I suspect three guys and all are not the type I want for a father. One has money but he is not loyal at all.”

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Religion / Pastor Allegedly Refuses To Wed Couple For Hugging In Pre-wedding Photo by Playloaded: 1:01pm On Oct 04, 2021
A Pastor of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) in Port Harcourt, Rivers State allegedly refused to wed a couple for hugging each other in a pre-wedding photo the couple took.

Playloaded reports a Twitter user shared the story of the wedding he attended where the ceremony was delayed for 2 hours as the priest refused to wed the couple.

According to the wedding guest, the pastor took issues with the couple’s photo used for the wedding brochure because the couple were hugging in the photo.

The couple and their parents had to spend two hours pleading with the pastor before he agreed to wed them on the condition that the cover of the brochure be removed.

The wedding eventually held at noon and guests were given a wedding programme without front and back cover.

Read the story below:

Romance / Ihechi Ebe: Lady Who Kept Her Virginity Till Marriage Shares Her Story (Photo) by Playloaded: 11:54am On Oct 04, 2021
A Nigerian lady who promised never to sleep with any man who is not her husband, has shared her story as she finally marries husband.

The lady identified as Ihechi Ebe on Facebook narrated how she was turned down and castigated by several men, because she refused to give her body to them.

Read her story below;

Yes, I have given it to the only man who deserved and worked for it.

Although very painful, but, I am fulfilled because it was my sole desire to do this after marriage.

For those who castigated and doubted, you can rest now.

And for you who called yourself a lover, attempted to rape me to have it by force, God has put you to shame.

Ohhhh, I fought, I fought so hard to keep my vow to God, and I am so fulfilled having succeeded and I thank God for the man I call husband. Four years of patiently waiting isn't moi moi.


And for you who doubted my virginity and needed a confirmation first before you believe, na mumu dey worry you, a real man believed it without attempting to confirm it and he patiently waited for four years, now, he has got it in its fullness.

You the rapist lover who attempted to take it by force, God done over punish you and you never succeeded, a real man has patiently waited for four years, now, he has got it and made it his customized size. Ntorrrrrrr.


I am not proud, but the truth is that I am blessed among women because I honoured God, and in return God honoured me with my own bone man.

I am also a blessing to my husband, real women are blessings to their husbands. I am a real woman.

Grace in me didn't just get us married, it gave us job. The oil on my head is excess.

My husband has looked for a job for six good years, and just two weeks to our wedding, God gave him a job at Lagos. Isn't grace at work?

For those who mocked him that after marriage, he will suffer as a jobless man, and those who castigated me for accepting to marry a jobless man, God has put all of you to shame. What God can't do not exist.

Congratulations to you honeym.

Thank you Jesus.


My Journey of Life Part 1.

I made a post about my virginity and you all are killing yourselves, well, I don't know why it's your headaches, but, you may be fast with killing yourselves, I will gladly come for your burial.

Ohhhh, yes, I am very proud of it and my mum is very proud because it wasn't easy, in fact, I felt nobody would ever buy the idea of keeping it till marriage, until I met my husband man.

The journey of keeping it started from childhood, my mother nurturing me to be a Rev. Sister, at the age of 7, she led me to receiving first holy communion, after which she informed me of her vow to God to lead me into being a Rev. Sister. But, I never bought the idea, being in love with kids. Hence, my vow to remain a virgin till marriage set in. There comes all my temptations as a single lady.

And to those who feel my post isn't necessary, only fools eat the glory of God or keep silent when God does wonders.

In search of true love, I met a whole lot of men, both the richest and the poorest, but, my vow was always a problem, as the society is so corrupt to accommodate it.

The very first man I met, didn't just kick against it, cheated severally, called me names, asked me whether I think he should leave ebe ana agba afa gaba ebe ana aru agwu. He castigated me in several occasions, just because of my refusal for sex. He made two attempts to rape me. The last time, being on my sick bed, but I fought with my last strength. He felt he succeeded and left to tell my best frien, that the thing that's making my head to be big, he has taken it by force. Within me, I knew he was just being a fool, and I thanked God for saving me, and ended the relationship.

It got to the turn of who called himself a pastor in school, since I wasn't forthcoming with what he wants, he started having affairs and in my usual manner, I felt I shouldn't disturb myself since I wasn't ready to give in either. The relationship still ended with a girl he claimed to be his sister. Na my business? After all, I lost nothing.

The other one who became a custom officer hustled so much for it, but, it's a no go area, the relationship still ended, and to me, there is someone out there who will respect my vow.

I fought and embarrassed a particular one who felt all his life was in it and felt he would ill talk me into succumbing. Omo, God is better for me than any man. My relationship with him matters most, so, I beat him up to prove that point to him.

Abi legion of Mary brother who got frustrated with my refusal, impregnated another woman. How e take remove anything from my body? I cared less.

One Prince of Delta State said it plain to me that he will never get married to me unless he tastes what he is going into. To me, he was very senseless at that point irrespective of his riches. I let him and his riches go to hell.

They mocked me, castigated my desire, called me names, but like Christ, I was never moved by their spittle.

There is one in particular who bragged to me about how he slept with assorted types of women who are more classy than I am. To him, I would feel bad, but never, it made my heart stronger.

I never came to any social media to make noise, but, I kept believing and trusting God that there is a man out there who will understand and keep this singular quest for me, hence, I wasn't discouraged.

I can go on and on to recount so many of them, but the real g was somewhere waiting to meet me.

Finally I met my husband man on the 20th day of May, 2017, he promised to make my desire and vow a reality. And indeed he showed how great a man he is.

My husband didn't marry me on a platter of gold, neither did I.
We went through a whole lots of challenges which would make 99.9% of men end the relationship, but he never did. He would have said, this girl isn't satisfying my sexual urge, let me push her away, let me go into other women, but he never did such.

He fought so hard to keep me and make me his wife. He promised so with his life. He faced so many castigations, attacks, rejections, yet, he stood steadfast in his promises.

I made him everything to me. Posting his pictures on my wall made many uncomfortable, just as they are castigating my virginity post, they castigated my posting his pictures and criticized it. The same people run up and down disabusing his mind from posting my pictures any time he does, but that never changed anything.

I once had an accommodation problem and couple with him falling ill, he accommodated me. Yet, never took advantage of that. He respected my vow and desire.

When people never saw any sign of pregnancy, they started forming stories, castigation became the order of the day. They said two things are involved, either I am not medically ok, or he isn't medically ok, if not, why haven't I been pregnant for the past four years.

To end the challenges around us, some advised that I get pregnant for him and my question always was, how possible would that be considering my vow.

They publicly and privately discussed us and doubted us when we said, we hadn't done anything yet and we are waiting till after marriage.

They mocked us before us, privately and publicly, I kept calm while praying to God to make this time a reality.

It was our private life, but idle minds made it their public affairs, dragging us up and down.

I remember two girls from my class had a bet with me, that, on my wedding night, I would be embarrassed as it will be confirmed by my husband that I am not what I said I am.

Some said that I am not a woman, that's why I haven't been pregnant, I wondered what the society is turning into, why nobody believes us and everybody puts interest in my being pregnant even when I was not yet married.

Each time we planned working towards our settling down, one problem or the other will set in, and the plan would fail. It repeated up to five times.

The last problem we had was in December 2020, I never knew we would reconcile, I felt that was the end of us. Because of so many challenges all over, I kept praying to God to separate us by himself and that if we aren't for each other, we should never reconcile, but if he is my husband, God should find a way to bring us back to each other.

On my own side, I tried making moves to forget everything about him. I tried to fall in love with another, but, it wasn't possible. Each time I tried, all about him was in my mind, and tears always rolled down my chicks, falling in love with another wasn't possible. Moreover, all other men are the same. They wouldn't respect my vow.

I still met another yeye guy who taught I would fall mugu because he is beginning to see change as money.

He stupidly told me that he needed to confirm my status before he would believe that I am a virgin. That provoked me to consider my love when he came asking for forgiveness.

I let go and accepted him back expressing my fears to him, and he still vowed to make me proud.

The stupid guy started posting pictures of a girl on his status, when I noticed that, I took him for a fool, knowing that my testimony is near.

Today, in all the challenges, difficulties, wahala, turbulent storms, wicked advises he wasn't shaken by any of them and today he made real his promises.

If he fought so hard to keep his promises to me, why then will I not make it known to the whole world through this media, how a great man he is?

Why shouldn't I testify of the goodness of God to me.

I urge you all to reach out to this great man and congratulate him for me and stop being envious of what you can never do.

I asked him today, honeym, what if you had tried it after marriage and found out I lied to you, what would you have done? He said, babe, there is no what if. I believed you and I knew that you weren't deceiving me. If you had done something, I would have known too.

At that point, I remembered how comfortable he was and never suspected my movements.

Honeym, may heavens honour you, may heavens lift you, may heavens prosper you. For this singular act of yours, fulfilling your promises, you shall never know downfall. The God I serve shall keep you above your equals. The love we found in each other will never die. Our home is blessed. God's favour and blessings will remain ours.
I love you honeym.

I don't care about haters.


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Romance / My Boyfriend Dumped Me After I Spent 200k For His Birthday – Young Lady Laments by Playloaded: 8:57pm On Oct 03, 2021
A Nigerian lady has taken to microblogging platform, Twitter to lament over how her boyfriend dumped her despite spending a huge amount of money on his birthday.

According to the young lady with a username @tallchi_girl, her boyfriend broke up with her one week after celebrating his birthday in big way.

She revealed that she is heartbroken as a result of the development.

In her words;
”I’m heartbroken. I spent 200k on my man birthday last week, only for me to get a break up 2hrs ago.. Men are wicked.”

Few days before sharing her story, she had launched a search for a new boyfriend, who would probably replace the ex-boyfriend.

Romance / Any Woman That Pays Her Own Bills Is Single – Kemi Afolabi by Playloaded: 12:27pm On Oct 02, 2021
Nollywood actress, Kemi Afolabihas come out to make it known that a woman who pays her own bills is single.

The Yoruba actress who recently became a landlady is here to step on necks. Contrary to what a lot of ladies say nowadays, Kemi Afolabi states that if a woman pays her bills then she is single.

With the high rise of ladies who lean towards the feminist mindset, they would definitely beg to differ on this statement. Taking to social media Kemi made this statement and she is saying it with her full chest.

Just recently, the actress was celebrated by fellow actress, Mercy Aigbe on acquiring a new mansion. Landladies and car owners are now the new trend in the entertainment industry. For instance BBNaija star, Mercy Eke acquired for herself her second home in two years and this caused a buzz on social media.

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Romance / Lady Narrates How She Broke Up With Boyfriend For Sending 125k To Make Her Hair by Playloaded: 6:40pm On Sep 29, 2021
Nigerian Lady Narrates How She Broke Up With Her Boyfriend For Sending Her ‘Just 125k’ To Make Her Hair

A Nigerian lady, Kyla Samuels, has reveled how she broke up with her boyfriend for giving her money which was less than what she thought she deserved.

She took to her Twitter page and said that her man gave her 125,000 for her to make her hair, but she felt it was a paltry sum.

According to Kyla, she cannot even use that amount to fix her nails. She then decided to be petty by adding 5k to the money and sending N130,000 back to her boyfriend.

The young lady said that after doing that, she broke up with him.

She wrote;
”This man legit sent me 125k to make my hair… lmao 125k that can’t even fix my nails, I added 5k and sent 130k back to him then broke up with him.”

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Religion / Bishop Resigns After Falling In Love With A Woman by Playloaded: 2:08pm On Sep 29, 2021
Xavier Novell, 52, announced last month that he was resigning from his post as Bishop of Solsona in Catalonia for “strictly personal reasons”.

A Spanish bishop has resigned from his position to pursue his love interest.

It was gathered that the bishop identified as Xavier Novell, 52 fell in love with a divorced author of satanic-themed eroticas.

Novell announced last month that he was resigning from his post as Bishop of Solsona in Catalonia for “strictly personal reasons”.

On Monday, it was revealed by Religion Digital, a news site, that Novell had fallen for Silvia Caballol, a divorced mother-of-two.

Novell reportedly said he had ‘fallen in love’ and ‘wanted to do the right thing.’

Caballol, 38, is a writer of erotic novels featuring characters ‘possessed by the demon of lust’, a fact which has raised eyebrows among Novell’s former colleagues.

However, Novell is likely no stranger to the demonic, having been among the handful of Spanish bishops to decline having an exorcist appointed in 2015, opting instead to perform the role himself. He reportedly met Caballol, a psychologist who has studied sexology, yoga, Catholicism and Islam, after he was began studying demonology.

Her books are described by her publisher as turning ‘all our moral and ethical considerations upside down.’

The Hell in Gabriel’s Lust, Caballol’s most recent book, promises‘prisons, psychopathy, sects, sadism, madness, lust and, little by little, as the story progresses… the unreality of immortality and the crude struggle between good and evil, between God and Satan, and between angels and demons.’

Novell had been seen as a star on the rise within Spain’s Catholic church after being appointed as the country’s youngest bishop in 2010 when he was just 41.

However his ascent stalled, The Times reported, with the election of Pope Francis in 2013.

Francis has edged the Vatican towards more liberal stances than those espoused by his traditionalist predecessor Pope Benedict XVI.

Silvia Caballol’s latest book “The Hell in Gabriel’s Lust”

Novell, who has defended gay conversion therapy and described abortion and euthanasia as ‘genocide’, is out of step with the mood of the church under Francis.

His resignation was accepted by the Pope and the church has not commented.

Novell also set himself apart as the only bishop to openly vote in the 2017 controversial Catalan independence referendum illegal under Spanish law.

Romance / Young Woman Gets Allegedly Brutalised By Her Boyfriend In Bayelsa by Playloaded: 1:42pm On Sep 29, 2021
According to a statement posted on their group page, the incident happened on Sunday, September 26.

In what will come across as a really startling development, a man has brutally assaulted his girlfriend in Bayelsa State.

The men of the Yenagoa Central Security a.k.a YENTA FORCE rescued the young woman who was allegedly beaten by her boyfriend.

According to a statement posted on their group page, the incident happened on Sunday, September 26.

The suspect was said to have fled upon sighting one of the YENTA FORCE officers.

"This young lady was beaten by her boyfriend in Trinity close to market road. The yenagoa Central security A K A YENTA FORCE caught them and saved the girl's life. The boyfriend ran away from the officer who was there during the fight." the statement read.


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