“Yes, I have been approached to act porn but I rejected it. I just did not see it happening in my head.”

“Invest outside the music industry even as the fame and money comes. Also, when nothing is working out well, make sure your health and family is working fine. Do your best and leave the rest.”

“Don’t say Lyta has apologized to you because he’s your baby papa. We are still dragging him“, the person wrote.

“Lmaooooo he has apologized Sha, literally after the interview and he has been calling me everyday too”.

“It is not easy to be constantly conscious of cameras every time. Obviously, one knows that cameras are there but one can’t be acting or trying to be on one’s best behaviour all the time. It is very stressful. One can do it for the first two weeks but at some point, one would get tired of it. Some people changed but I was just the same. This is how I am.

I show myself the way I am. Sometimes, I felt I shouldn’t have shown a particular person a particular side of me but I consoled myself with the thought that we would soon be out of there. I protect myself in the real world but in that world (BBN), it was more like a prison.”

“I knew what happened to those who spoke on my behalf, some people called me names like prostitutes.

“It’s painful it took me till when I was 30 plus before I could deal with the trauma from it .

“Imagine what young girls are going through but we as a society don’t do enough to protect our children and we should do better.”

Osayimwen argues that if you have any decent girl in your life, please keep her. You might suffer for 600 years searching for a new good one if you lose her.

There is a popular saying that prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. Some people will say it's farming. Both claims are highly debatable. In the 21st century, one is becoming more popular and attractive to young people than the other. And this is alarming!

I remember those days when it was a shame to pay for sex. Only people that were not man enough did that. Only an uncultured woman with an extremely odd family background will open her legs for a fee, taking on all-comers who could pay like it's the gate to a stadium.

In recent times, the youths appear to be shunning agriculture and embracing prostitution. Rather than sweat on the farmlands and labour endlessly under the sun, exposing yourself to harsh weather conditions and insects, you can just get paid for enjoying yourself under a roof, in a very cosy environment. This is the orientation most women now have in Lagos State and it is highly disturbing.

Transactional sex is now the order of the day. It is either you are overly trading or you are covertly doing it. Whores are now being given interesting names like bad girl, runs girl, olosho, sarewagba, big girl, twerker, social media influencer and other names that tend to colour the ungodly image attached to what they do.

All of a sudden, sex is now seen as an economic activity. It must have been on this ground that billionaire Ned Nwoko said marrying more than one wife helps save the society. He believes the move will prevent them from going into prostitution.

I remember when Nigerian rapper, Ruggedman was shamed for allegedly sleeping with his dancers. This was exposed during his infamous beef with his former protege, 9ice in 2009/10. Everyone felt that kind of character wasn't that nice but today, he will be celebrated for impregnating all of them in one fell swoop. This tends to paint a picture of the degradation of our values and morals in human society.

If my memory serves me right, late Nigerian rapper, Da Grin was one of the few contemporary musicians to admit to paying for sex. He talked about his passion for weed, prostitutes and alcohol. When he passed on and Olamide started coming on, he took the baton from him and propagated the message of hoeism further. Other rappers soon loved the buzz and joined the trend. Today, Naira Marley is a big ambassador of the industry. He isn't hiding his passion for dealing with escorts and the society is loving it. Now, there is no shame about it. You can just tell your colleague at work that you are Hot and he will provide the phone number of a girl that could do justice to your body.

Sleeping with prostitutes has become as normal as seeing a doctor when you are sick. This trend is rampant in Lagos and most ladies are making a living out of it. Most young adults even feel it is more cost-effective and less stressful to deal with prostitutes. This is done on a 'postpaid or Pay As You Go basis. The ladies feel they are being paid for enjoying themselves. Most of them see it as a transitional job that can be used to solve immediate needs. With a few bucks as low as N5,000, you might have your next-door neighbour in bed with you. There seems to be an understanding between the male and the female counterparts.

Lagos is a land of games and dirty tricks. The guys are not oblivious to the fact that the ladies have multiple sexual partners. The ladies also understand that one of the driving forces of the attention they get is sexual. Rather than try and cheat in the game, the players prefer to put all their cards on the table and honour the unwritten agreements.

Where are the good girls? It is hard to answer that question. The good girls are available but the truth is that they are in the minority and even a large section of the small number of good ones is potentially bad. They are only seeking for the necessary wings to fly. If a Femi Otedola slides into the DM of your lover, what do you think her reaction will be? That is a million-dollar question.

Let me close this piece with a real-life story. A friend was trying to buy something at a local market place one evening when he saw a young lady walking alone. She wore a short black gown and a leg chain. The shortness of the gown, the light skin and the leg chain gave him the inkling that she might be 'one of them'. So he made his move. He approached the lady and got her phone number. Not too long after they started chatting, the lady demanded a sum of N5,000 which she needed urgently. This is more of a registration fee, it shows how serious and financially capable you are. Once you fail, she will secretly block you on Whatsapp. Once you pay, she automatically increases your priority level.

Back to the story of my friend, after a short while, he asked her for sex. He offered to pay about N15,000 for two rounds. That's not much. It's just a small deal struck between parties that live within the same locality. According to my friend, she turned down the deal, claiming she was decent. She blocked him on Whatsapp and they both moved on. In less than 48hrs, she unblocked him and accepted the offer and that was all she wrote!

The bottom line here is that the last good girl in Lagos has died! If you have any decent girl in your life, please keep her. You might suffer for 600 years searching for a new good one if you lose her.

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“on this fateful day, Aboy’s father, one Mr. Otu Nwaise had returned home from work after it had rained briefly. He noticed that there was water in their house and none of his children was at home to help him clean up. He beckoned on me to help sweep the water out of the house, which I did.

“Then the next day, the man came back from work, called me and gave me N500 for helping him sweep the house the previous day. This was the money the wife saw him giving to me that made her accuse me of sleeping with her husband.

“My mother and I including the woman’s husband were surprised because we have always lived as family and the man had always given money to us the children when we run errands for him.

“The next thing she slapped me twice and snatched the money from my hand. Even when my mother was begging her, she didn’t listen, instead, she was threatening to further deal with me.

“Then a day after, I was returning home from my auntie’s shop where I went to pick my younger brother around 7pm, when the saw Aboy accosted me and started interrogating me about what transpired the previous day between me and his mother.

“While I was trying to explain, Aboy told me to take my brother home and come back so we could resolve the issue sitting, instead of standing. So I obliged.

“On returning, Aboy asked that we go to his friend’s house nearby to sort things out, and I followed him, trusting him as a big brother. On getting to the house there were two other boys in there, smoking. And I pleaded with Aboy to quickly talk to me so I could leave because I was allergic to smoke. But he asked me to hold on a little.

“Then again, four other boys came into the room and the next thing Aboy did was to lock the door and put the music that was playing on the highest volume. He then asked me to pull my cloth. At this point, I started pleading with him to allow me go, but instead, he slapped me and hit my head on the wall and forced me naked. That was when all the boys in the room started taking turns in raping me while the music was very loud that nobody could hear me screaming for help.

“There was a friend of theirs who they didn’t allow in because he was telling them that what they were doing was wrong. It was this their friend that helped me home after they were done raping me and opened the door for me to go with a threat to kill me if I ever mentioned them”.

“the victim being a child will definitely get justice. The Committee is poised to do everything within its powers and capacities to prosecute the case to logical conclusion. The Committee will come up with programme on how the girl would be rehabilitated. This is the time to show her all the love she deserves including assigning a professional counsellor to aid her emotional healing”.

“We had a surgery in LUTH here and were later referred to India, where we’ve had two more surgeries; the last one was in February this year (2021). That was our second trip to India. They passed a hose into him through which they are building the penis. To the glory of God, it is forming well and they even told me that when completed, it will function properly, like any other male organ.

“The problem now is that the Indian doctors told us he must avoid anything rigorous because of the process he is undergoing, including schooling that would weigh him down or task him physically. This is why I have come to fellow Nigerians again for help. He is already eight years and ripe for school but I cannot afford to pay for him through private school; and I don’t want to endanger his treatment by putting him in a public school. I want fellow Nigerians to help sponsor his education. They can even adopt him for schooling, if they wish.”

“Omooo I’m dead.. some girls are mad o.. how can you write down the serial number of the condoms in your man’s room to know if he always replace it or it’s the same ones u left there?

Lmaooo he actually replaced it with new ones… that’s the thing. That’s how she found out and she’s been raising hell since. The boy doesn’t even know how to defend himself.”

Omooo I’m dead.. some girls are mad o.. how can you write down the serial number of the condoms in your man’s room to know if he always replace it or it’s the same ones u left there?

— miz_losh (@tilewa__) [url=https://twitter.com/tilewa__/status/1389301771139526661?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw]May 3, 2021[/url]

“I think all the negative comments are disgusting…

One day y’all want black women to be loved and black families to stick together but I can’t forgive her for makin a couple mistakes with him? At least it’s my brother it coulda been my best friend. #LoveWins #SaveTheHate”

“when he came, we had sex but the experience was a nightmare. Instead of enjoying the sex, it turned out to be something else because his penis was too big,” she told the court.

‘Two days later when he came to visit me, we had s3x again, but the experience was too much to bear. It was then I knew that I could not continue with the marriage because of the size of his p3nis.’ she continued.

“When President Buhari took ill in 2017, they said all sorts of things. They hired prophets, who uttered lies from between their teeth. They said Buhari would not return as President, that his time was already up. But man will always be man. Finite. Limited. No matter the title he parades, man will never have the final say. That is the exclusive preserve of God. After many months, the President came back to assume duties, very well mended. It was a great medical comeback, wrought by God and God alone, in His mercy.

“You would think they would learn their lessons, hide their faces in shame, and throw up their hands in surrender. But they love beatings, so they continue to speak and wish evil. But each time, it falls right in their faces. Will they never learn that God has the ultimate say?

“All through last year, after a trip to a conference in London in January, and COVID-19 broke out in full force, the President never went out for any form of medical attention. Na God o.. But when he announced on March 29 this year that he would travel next day, and return within the second week of April, they began to beat the drums of malediction again. They had learnt nothing, and forgot nothing.

“Why hasn’t he built world class hospitals in Nigeria?How much is the trip going to cost the tax payers? Are we sure he would come back as indicated within the second week?

“That second week was not to lapse till Saturday last week. Right from Monday, they had begun to bully and badger us. When is he coming back? We are in the second week now. Are you sure he’s coming? For me, I simply told them: our press statement was written in English, go and check it again. Read it all over. He would return within the second week in April. Was the second week over?.”

Femi Adesina added that: “Some Nigerians have made it a pastime to pester and attempt to browbeat the President. I laugh. They don’t know the person they are dealing with. A cool customer. Never flustered, harried or disconcerted. He simply focuses on what he is doing, ignoring the noise of the market. Kick like a dying horse, shout yourselves hoarse, curse, murmur like a ghost, hiss like a snake, President Buhari keeps his eyes on the ball. It’s a big lesson to learn from him. When you are in the market, ignore the din, and concentrate on the person you are transacting business with.”

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