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Mercychen:
You're welcome.



How is my comment sounding bitter? O... Now because it's a man, you're trying to hold brief for him, right? Stop being insensitive.

What about the OPs experience with the so called husband? Is it not more bitter?
Can't you see what he's doing to her? A pregnant woman for that matter?. You people should learn to say the truth no matter how bitter.

A man who is not considerate enough to help his pregnant wife doesn't deserve any better. When he doesn't see anyone to cover his shameful acts anymore, sense will fall on him but as long as she's still there carrying his burden and financial responsibilities, he'll never get his acts together.

It's this kind of mentality you have that, any woman who speaks up against a man's incompetence is "bitter" that is making some men refuse to change and lead a more responsible life.
That "if she can't clean my mess, then shes not a wife material" kinda mentality should be erased.
You men should learn to clean up your mess yourself. Ain't no body gat time to be babysitting a grown ass man.

Buzz off!

loosingfaith519:
You see: very annoying lifestyle. How can a man not think of multipling the little he has, Rather, squandering it and returning home empty handed? I will definitely live him.

Stephengee4all:
So na only water them de drink?

sellers4buyers:
Wao, more grace brother. Those terrains no be here.

OhiOfIhima:
Hey! Stop acting childish and let help this young man by profer a suitable solutions.

Innomach:
First of all, she's a human being. Ex or no ex, she needs to survive. If you think you can influence her live positively by getting her the job, why not help her out. After all, there's no perfect human. Just do your best and leave the rest.

Forthispost:
Thank you. I beginning to think it's a bad idea to recommend her

Xperience4:
hmmm is that so.
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DM me for your graphics design

Jerryherd:
If only you know how much in billion Katsina farmers got in anchor borowers through CBN, How much they got through trader moni , NPower, an 5000 monthly stipend for the poor, how many federal goverment Jobs they got, How many Federal Projects like Rail, Transport University, NNPC Specialist Hospitals to mention just few that Buhari cornered for Katsina

you may think twice before calling him stupid.. and call oloshi Goodluck Jonathan and agbaya obasanjo Stupid for wasting Southern chance at power


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premierlead:
Just curious to know and they are two different questions and not applicable to me.

I've heard couples fighting, the husband, an Alfa likewise the wife a popular on the radio Alfa woman. The husband exposed her that even in the afternoon of fasting, his wife would made him to break his fast by requesting for sex always.

He said the woman oestrogen/testosterone whichever is applicable to woman, sexual urge and libido are too high. That the woman is fond of sex. She can't do in a day without doing this thing there by making the husband to err.

Some people may not eat in the whole day, yet still possess that strength for sex in the night.

Alejoas:
Yes

Mindlog:
OP in another thread said he is 33.

Offpoint1:
Lol people dey this life, I doubt if this guy marriage will survive 5 years

Gcool2:
Guess what can out of my mouth....."Stupid Guy"


Sorry OP...

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Alejoas:
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pocohantas:
You are in love with her poise. In that your coconut head, you are already imagining your boss moaning under you.

The minute she agrees to date you, the Nigerian man in you will come out. You will start looking for how to “tame” her and knack “submission” into her head. You will start controlling her expenses, giving her headache and complaining of how she isn’t respecting you because she has money or is richer. She would start walking on eggshells, trying to satisfy your ever-needy-ego. 70% of the glow that attracted you would be gone in 60seconds.

Better go focus on your sub-for-me girlfriend.

TheLasyBuddha:
He expects her to come back from work and still do the dishes. You could still do all of that and still earn your respect as a man. Na conduct.
There are times when I visit my girlfriend, if the sink is filled and I noticed she is stressed due to work, I will do the dishes before leaving. I don't have a job yet but the respect dey.
Women who are older expect differently from a man, especially things that challenges the male ego and men tend to view this as burden.

She isn't desperate. She wants a mature person to be with but the OP no fit get that kind level of it.

BarristerAlarig:
You are a very nasty person who feels entitled to other people's money. So you have a car, which could have been used for ehailing services to generate income pending when you get a job but you choose to leave it idle in Lagos while expecting a woman to shoulder your responsibilities in this harsh economy because you want to "test" her??

So when they get married and it happens that he loses everything, what happens then? Will she be nicer?


You deserve everything you are getting. I pray she throws you out.

AgentGoat:
Get a lawyer to sue them. You go see how them go rush pay you sharp sharp.

dannypaul:
Send me a private message, let me see how we can get it resolved!!

sirrotex:
I am sorry mate. My hands are full at the moment