Nonexisting1:
Be ashamed of your hypocrisy first. You are waking up 5am to cook for the old man you are married to but you are always here inciting young girls to be woke and continue measuring muscles with men who have bigger muscles. In the end, they put themselves in danger and you'll be here to call the same men beasts. Just avoid me please. I'm done with confrontations here.

What is the correlation between waking up to cook for her husband and this post? Or did this man kill his wife for not cooking? Do you have any post of her saying women shouldn't cook for their husbands? What kind of incoherent blab is this? You should be the one to avoid humans (women especially) and remain in whatever enclave you are stuck in with this mentality.

texazzpete:
Man has no stable job and is struggling with store work

Wife has a stable job with decent income.

Husband gets jealous and constantly accuses his more successful wife of infidelity and disrespect

Husband pivots to verbal and physical abuse to stamp his dominance and then starts looking for girlfriends himself.

Wife gets fed up and couple gets estranged. Angry and insecure husband then turns to violence.


An oft repeated tale. Sad to see.

Oh, I forgot. Nairaland and Nigerian men jump up and blame the woman.

Welcome once again to Nairaland.

I am still looking for what violence against women that they can't justify.

Tallesty1:
Nobody keeps such friends sef talk more of marrying one.

Not even as a pet sef.
I am tired of reading that falsehood.

Reminderz:
men date down, women date up... only a man can marry a lady who has nothing to offer, women don't unless she absolutely has no other options or just looking for a sperm donor...

A man is not marrying someone who has nothing to offer because she isn't financially stable. Men know why they go for such women and avoid their mates who supposedly has something to offer. He simply put youthfulness, extreme submission, homemaking skills...etc, above financial support. Nobody marries someone who has NOTHING to offer in the real sense of it. Definitely not men. You people should stop telling this lie. We all know why you date/marry down.

Twoclans:


Tohhhhh ,I was wondering how voice note is such an issue.

People are becoming less tolerant.
I am yet to know why...

I don't have an issue with VN.
I have few people on my WhatsApp and they are all people I am close to in one way or the other. They send me VNs and I send too. That is if my hands are busy (during work hours) or I have to explain better. I don't have anyone whose voice irritates me like you have described in your opening post.

He has done well.

I like that the buzz is gradually shifting from engineering, medicine, law and accountancy. You can decide to be a photographer and excel at it. Or a cook and hold a GWR.

That said, we need to bring back these (board) games. Do the current kids in secondary school know what is chess and scrabble? Or is it to slap their classmates for SS3 boy they know?

Jkilo:
They do. My student came a near distant 3rd in the just concluded state games festival. All I need to further this cause is material assistance such as books, boards and possibly clocks. I can become a promoter of the Chess in Slums.

Glad to hear that. I play chess, though not professionally and even among my generation, I don't see that many players. It made me get rusty fast, before online gaming reached my ears. You can message Tunde, it sounds like his thing.

Kipaji:


This is the kind of woman that is not fit for polygamy.
Sister wives should help and complement each other.

Indeed I am not. Happily so. Thank you my Lordship for noticing this.

Proserpina:
Lol.... See ehn I don tire for Nls matter

I tire pass you. 😂😂 Like they can coexist with their co-husbands in one kitchen. Ndi logic.

Mindlog:


She "tried covering up" for the wedding, for someone whose mind has been nurtured for nudism based on her subsequent video.

How do you guys know her and I don't?
Is she an influencer or something?

folake4u:


Hahaha. Her name is Olivia. My friend said she's like that normally and doesn't care at all.

Such a beautiful name for a werey. 🥲

Tonytonex:
what concerns groom with that?

If the bride has respect for her husband to be, she would be cautious of what she displays around him. She would at least hide these kinda friends if the groom is a respectable man. I can assure you, the groom might be a 30+ yahoo boy.

The one in the front with a distressed dress is a useless person. Their outfit tells more about the bride (and even the groom), than them.

Proserpina:
;DWahala for man wey no fit marry one wife

See me see wahala o. Women have different cooking patterns. Some kids are picky eaters and the mum has to go the extra mile to make them eat. Some do not eat onions. Some do not eat crayfish. And someone wants to do unity with my kids stomach? I kuku know say polygamy is not for me.

Kipaji:


In my household, each wife will cook for everybody: me, her co-wife, and all the kids. I impose this to foster unity among the children and collaboration with the wives.
For example, let's say today it is wife2's turn to cook. Then, she will cook for the whole family, not only her kids. We will all eat her food that day. And I forbid the other wife to cook something else for her kids and have her kids eat something else. No. This would create "clans" within my household, which I do not want. I want all of my kids to see themselves as brothers and sisters not as step-brothers and step-sisters.

So if you marry wife wey no sabi cook or likes too much pepper, my innocent kids go follow una dey chop am? Don't foster your unity with my kids nutrition, your Lordship.

GloriousGbola:


the one who got all the fanyogo amirite

have some mercy na.

life happens

oyibos call it peaking in high school

Na she o and she still no want make I get rest of mind. I fight am sha and they call all of us for assembly.

Ensure you don't raise kids who would turn out to be bullies.

Most importantly, don't raise kids who would allow themselves to be bullied.

The set of 3 girls that tried this with me in SS2, I am sure they would never forget me in their lives. 2 are on my FaceBook. One was begging me for transport to come back from Onitsha to Lagos. Another day she said she broke her leg. I say toor. You done fight for SS3 boy finish?

She was the most beautiful girl in my set. But now she is uploading dancing videos on Facebook. They never leave you?

You go first, Nazgul.

folake4u:
My first time of eating Afang soup was the one Poco cooked for me. I fell in love.

Thanks Flakky. I am surprised that you are one of the people that have never tasted afang.

Tallesty1:
A brother is asking if he can get your recipe.

cc Pocohantas

Shebi you say you pass me for kitchen?

Omoluabi16:
ohh! 👍 They are still recent memory though. I hear places like Ibadan and the far north still use all these denominations to transact. So it will be a real throwback in maybe 10, 20 years.

We wait...

Omoluabi16:
money frame? Wetin be that abeg. I've had them for about a year now, safely stored.you would think they were printed yesterday!Problem is, it's hard getting such denomination now especially the one still in good condition.Why would the CBN even bother to print 5,10 or 20 naira.

The frame we use for pictures, you laminate the money and put inside. Then hang somewhere. Maybe staircase or corridor. Anywhere they don't get in the way and would be seen by the kids as they grow. Haha!

ThothHermes:
Ignore or report?Seriously. You are hard to ignore. There is a thread about Tiwa Savage on the frontpage right now. There is an insulting comment by MyVillage.People directed at you and Jenny.clay on the front page. I had to check his name twice to remember the moniker. What do you and Jenny.clay have in common, you are always in our face. Ignoring or reporting cannot work.

 will not bother responding to them because they don't have your pull. They don't have a name, you do, Kim Kardashian.
If Seu.n makes a comment no matter how seemingly insignificant, he gets a lot of responses due to his reputation. You've built a reputation (not necessarily a good one) over the years. Na the price of fame be that.
If Seu.n, Ishilov.e, Deepsigh.t, or one of the popular users make your kind of comments, how do you think the reactions to their comments will be?
Those boys posting silly comments will get banned and create new monikers immediately, who has the time to be keeping up with them? Except you of course 

Please try and get popular too. When you do, use your office to defend the kind of women you like. Until then, __________

Ouch.
Now that I see this comment again I think it was in bad taste. That was below the belt. I apologize.

PS:
Those kinds of insensitive comments come from the primal desire to inflict maximum pain on the other party.
You also do it and even revel in it.
But no vex sha. Truly sorry.

I am actually unoffended by it. So you don't need to apologise. I will even repeat it again to you tomorrow until you at least show me the kinda woman you finally picked. I also mean it when I say pick your kind of woman. This is who I am. If you like, type 500 pages, I won't change. ✌️

Omoluabi16:
I still have lots of #10 in my possession, even 5naira. They're all mint thought, still very fresh! I'm saving it for the archives, something to show my kids.

There is this money frame of old Naira notes. You should consider putting them in an album. I wish I got the idea earlier. Maybe I should start now.

MadeMan01:


Honest answer please. If you had a son who by 32 was graduate and working in oil company like shell with 7 years work experience and wanted to get married . If 2 girls were crazy for him, one fresh graduate 25 years and another working class lady 39 single. Who would you ask your son to marry?

The one who loves and respects him, loves his family and is keen on building a home. Except he is a really lucky man, most men do not find these qualities in two women at a time.

I am more concerned that you see and expect me to judge by their ages and "crazy for him". Mind you, I have a grown brother and I wouldn't want to dabble into how clueless majority of you are on what to actually look out for.

ThothHermes:
You don't know a man like me. I'm sorry.



No it's not. But I just checked the usage statistics for my other moniker. Na you still dey win
And I don't know your other accounts.




You are sounding dumber with each post you make.
There are comments that provoke a group of people. You make them all the time and cry when you get a commensurate response. It's just like a guy making an "evening newspaper" comment and saying that women are unstable for getting riled up. Does that make sense to you? Or are you just being deliberately dense?
If I make a comment that affects a tribe and someone from that tribe responds aggressively, will I be right to call them unstable.
There are sensitive topics that trigger both genders, you take pride in hitting on those pain points and turn around to cry when the affected parties respond in kind. Does that make sense?
The only reason I'll be banned is because you've ingratiated yourself with the mods because of how often you're here. You are essentially a mod on this forum.
I've not broken any rule.
If you want this forum to get better, use your influence to advocate for a block feature and see whether you and I will ever cross paths again.

I have asked Seun severally for a block button as I am always genuinely disgusted by people like you who quote me with insults and try to convince us that they are the victim. Even if it is a paid Nairaland service, I would pay.

In the meantime, ignore or report. You can't be more aware of what is permissible than the mods. Can you? They should know what goes against the forum's rules. Not your emotions.

Yes, I take delight in hitting on the pain points. Not my fault that you cry! Remember, the forum's rules FIRST.

The only reason I haven't been banned is because I manage my emotions well and pick my responses carefully. You should learn that.

You don't need a block button not to cross path with me. You just need to get a life.

I don close work. Unlike you, I don't pause my work to respond to people on Nairaland. See the difference.

PS: Your "good women" comment will be provocative to a group of women who have chosen a route different from yours.
You see how you deliberately provoke again and again.
Maybe they are also unstable.
Or maybe you are just a narcissist who can see beyond her desires.

My "good women" comment is pure sarcasm and it is clear to women who know how men like you instigate women against themselves on Nairaland. But never pick any or even do them well. The only time you know there are "good women" is when you want to insult me. Have you ever defended these women when they are insulted daily by males you know right here? Do you think some of these women that have chosen a different path are not among the evening newspapers and (abused) women that I defend? Why is that not your focus? Have you ever gotten provoked like you do by my comments when you see these male comments? Did you quote any single male to caution them here? NO, YOU DIDN'T. So don't worry about my fellow women. We are fine! You don't care about them.

Since you know a wealthy man can't pick my kind, once again, pick your kind. I really want to see how you treat her.

Bye...

Sterope:
Good evening poco , you were talking about a particular freezer brand one time. I am going to get a freezer, I was hoping you can help?

Good evening Sterope!

In Nigeria? Thermocool please.

From their office. I buy mine from their office at 16 Shasha Rd, Opp De Santos Hotel, Dopemu, Lagos.

ThothHermes:
Na so.
For the past 10 years you've been spewing a variation of this story on this forum.
What does a man mean? Husband and man na the same thing? Yen, yen, yen.... Everybody get mouth for Internet. Ogbomosho Oprah Winfrey. Since how many years? Not wealthy husband, not wealthy fiancee?
Wealthy man? Why will a wealthy man settle for someone like you? You jazz am?
Is it that you're part of a harem or are you just making things up as usual?
.. Like Jenny.clay, Erelu.roz and the other nutters that litter this space.

PS: I don't think people should be shamed for their marital status regardless of their age. I just felt like calling out your crap.

He calls the above a LIGHT BANTER. It is always the nerve of these guys to think they hold the yam and knife. Hahahaha!

ThothHermes:
Na just light banter. Na she take am over serious.

ThothHermes:
Now you've responded, leaving me no choice.

Still your business.

For all your weyrey, I acknowledge that you're a smart woman. I grudgingly admit that I may even admire that about you, but there's no atom of sense in what you just typed. Haba. You're slipping. Keep up.

I wish I appreciate being complimented by a man like you.

Ha. You don dey smoke weed?
Just click on anyone's profile and you'll see their site usage statistics: Number of posts, date of registration, time spent online (yours is one year by the way)
Don't flatter yourself. Nobody has that time...Except people like you.

Nobody has which time? Is this your first moniker? The answer is NO. So what exactly are you forming? You don't have time to be on Nairaland for a year, but you have time to create folder for my life events in your head? I will flatter myself, young man.

Woman na woman. Now you want to play the victim card. Your comments are typically provocative (deliberately so), and they have a tendency to appear on the first page of threads where many people see them. I wonder why. If your comments were not on page one, this interaction most likely would not have happened. You don't get to cry foul if people respond to your provocation in like manner. Maybe you are not as clever as I thought after all.
Erelu.Roz, Jenny.clay, that Righteousness guy, all of una na almost the same. Na small thing you take better pass them.

If I report you and you do same, I am sure you would get banned first. If my comment provokes you, please work on your stability. Or use the report the button. There are rules guiding this forum, I am loyal/obedient to them, not your weak feelings and emotions.

Na wa o. I paused a movie on my laptop to respond to you.
But now that you mention it, I could use an upgrade. Shey your wealthy "man" go fit help me with Alienware or Macbook Pro?

I paused my work to respond to you. Maybe you will understand why a wealthy man chose me and you are left for the "good women". Naso life be. Kikikikiki

ThothHermes:
Yeah. Serial killers are also consistent in how they operate. It's not necessarily a point on your favor.

Consistency is important.
Even in pain. As is evident in your case.

Pained? It's not that deep. Your comments are all over thread. I had to respond.
I don't get the Michael Jackson reference by the way. My Oprah Winfrey reference was to the Mogul's relationship with her "man". Browse am if you no understand.

Oh, it is deep my dear. Yenyenyen, my comments are all over the thread, but you all came for me first? Right? Mo'fucka!

Yes, your pain was so much in that post and I hope you are fine wherever you are. Do lift 2 fingers if you need help.

You scream more than most on Nairaland. You're definitely in the top 1% of screamers. Don't know what you're on about.
Real world, real world but you are always on Nairaland. Look at the sheer number of posts you've made on this forum talking (mostly quarelling) with faceless people. This is probably not the only account you've opened on this forum.
Another assignment for you: Look up cognitive dissonance on the Internet.

You should look it up first. Nairaland is a forum for conversing. It is normal to have number of POSTS. That is what we are here for. What is abnormal is keeping track of a forum user's life for 10yrs and obsessing over their definition of "man". I wish I can do same for or with you. But you are not that important and would never be.

Ode. My Postscript was not for you. It was for other readers who may wrongly put me in the same category as the guys you roll in the mud with regularly on this forum.
I was really hoping you would not respond. Your responding means I have to respond back. Typing on a phone is hard work.

I don't roll with anyone and any unbiased person can see how you guys come for me everytime and hope to be ignored. You see, you insulted me and HOPED not to get a response. If you don't respond, not my business. I would only be concerned if I quoted you first. But we both know I would never. You remain unnecessary. Go buy a laptop or steal one. Hopefully you don't get lynched in the process.

Infact, respond.
Shey you dey whine me? I dey fear you?