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Crime / Re: US-Based Nigerian Bodybuilder, Michael Chidozie Dies After Being Shot By Wife by pocohantas(f): 9:51am On Apr 15 |
Farfalla: I am happy we have a break from the usual mudslinging today. First thing I checked was her nationality. Then I heaved a sigh of relief. Farfalla: Bankers and actresses na for homebased. Nurses na diapora based. 2 Likes |
TV/Movies / Re: Should I Return This Tv... 1.1m Wasted by pocohantas(f): 9:28am On Apr 13 |
Girlyy: Hello Girlyy. I am fine, thank you. How are you too? - The only aluminum free deodorant I know is Essentials. Problem is that it doesn't hold well and it is not a spray. If you need a spray, it means you have to take your time to read the contents of every deodorant when next you shop. Some people are more prone to these pigmentation issues. So if you are not seeing any signs, you can continue with your regular deodorant. - There are several exercises that target the core. But first I would advise you to reduce sugar, heavy eating and late night eating. You can read this for exercises and how to go about them https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/flat-stomach-workout#bicycle-crunches You are welcome 4 Likes 1 Share
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Food / Re: How I Used My Home-Made Cassava Flour To Make Paw-Paw Pie, Buns And Chin Chin by pocohantas(f): 10:04pm On Apr 12 |
RevenuesBoost: This is how I make fufu. I am not good at pounding. But I stir well. I thought I am weird. Nice to see my teammate. How did the chinchin taste? Talk true o. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Junior Pope’s Wife, Jennifer Is Unconscious - Nurse (Video) by pocohantas(f): 9:08pm On Apr 12 |
Nonexisting1: Chochocho, she has a thriving event management business. @dopeevents007. Go patronise her, make she fit see money. What she looks like is a woman who was well loved and didn't have to deal with a polygamous husband. 6 Likes |
Career / Re: My 9 Months Experience As A Non-Tech Remote Worker In Nigeria by pocohantas(f): 2:38pm On Apr 12 |
Yormie1884: Valwezzy: You are right. Hello Yormie, thanks for the kind words. I am glad you find the thread helpful. Please register on Geegpay. 2) Create a virtual dollar account. 3) Go back to Upwork and add the dollar account. You can't move the dollar out of the virtual account. You can only convert to Naira and move to your Naira account. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 11:35pm On Apr 11 |
Eunoiaa: That account was even created newly and I think that was all she posted. But then, this is Nairaland. If a man posted same, I bet they would have made the sense out of his post, not minding the delivery. I simply made sense out of her post because I can't deny not getting her point. Humans know what they are doing. They know what is healthy. They only choose not to do it. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 10:34pm On Apr 11 |
Eunoiaa: In reality, one person must do more of something. I won't go pressing calculator over every family expense, but given that I don't take up the major expenses, I already know he is doing more financially. Same way he knows he wouldn't be in the kitchen most times. Except we draw a timetable of who cooks and split every bill down to the last kobo. The issue with this setup isn't the model itself as housewives ensure enough balance in a home to allow the man function effectively at work. The issue is always when one party doesn't know when and how to ease and appreciate their spouses. I am sure I never said man should bring money and woman bring body, but I agree a woman wouldn't willfully lay with a husband that consistently doesn't provide. It is not prostitution, it is only normal people would go out of their way for you when you please and make life easier for them. It is the same reason husbands fulfill 1984 promises after a good sex or meal from their wives. What does this mean, I'm honestly trying to understand? You mean a man who would carry a child to term and raise them with me being a 'provider' to him? I am hoping you are the one to explain how these "healthy" people do it in Nigeria. I believe in gender roles and I am sure you know this by now. It creates balance and accountability. This doesn't rule out both parties ensuring the home is running smoothly and kids are being attended to. I do know that if rice is finishing, I am the one to most likely notice first and if the gen is faulty, he would also notice first. After all, he is the one that would switch it on most. If I prepare their lunchbox, he would bathe them and whoever is going in that direction would drop off. You see I didn't use the words "masculine" and "feminine" because I don't see it from that angle. It is more of accountability to ensure smooth running of the home. We are a team, but even in a team, the striker won't randomly leave his position and go to the goalpost. Now imagine they don't have positions. Everybody just enter field and do the one you feel like doing that day. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 9:00pm On Apr 11 |
Eunoiaa: I don't believe a man should be a sole provider, but I believe he should be the major provider, given that we all know 80% of the time, the women handles childearing, nurturing and running the home alone! The only place I see most Nigerian men cook and clean with their wives is abroad and we all see how they complain and refuse to adapt. Anything less, I don't recommend or practice. Goodluck on finding a man that would sometimes be a woman and allow you be the man. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Food / Re: Has The Inflation Affected Your Eating Pattern? by pocohantas(f): 6:37pm On Apr 11 |
inoki247: I am not at loss. Anybody who has the interest of others and the country at heart wouldn't be excited that dollar was almost hitting N2000. I am only hoping the prices of good and services crashes in a month or less. inoki247: While things are expensive, I have noticed minimal decrease so far and hopefully it gets better. 20 Likes |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 5:57pm On Apr 11 |
descarado: Hahaha. I know right, because I wonder why they can't stay away from someone they claim to hate, that supposedly hates them too. I have decided to starve them of the interraction until they become submissive and respectful. descarado: That lady has been through a lot. I am short of words. Let me go check IG |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 5:41pm On Apr 11 |
descarado: Jeeeez. Korra? This happened?? ? |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 5:40pm On Apr 11 |
descarado: Na my work, mama. |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 3:22pm On Apr 11 |
poshestmina: You sabi them. Who dey do that kind love with kwanu? Anything they want to talk, they should talk. I no kuku read am. If these same guys dare know your husband is not living up to his responsibilities, they will troll you with it ehn. You go regret the day you voiced out such. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 3:02pm On Apr 11 |
poshestmina: They will even expect the wife to hide it. You will hear things like, "I know one woman, she bought car, but you will think her husband is the owner. Very submissive woman." You want the accolades without the work? You are not getting it from me. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 3:00pm On Apr 11 |
Proserpina: ✅️✅️✅️✅️✅️✅️✅️✅️ Or marry your good women. 3 Likes |
Science/Technology / Re: Lion Fights Back While Rivals Eat Him Alive by pocohantas(f): 2:07pm On Apr 11 |
Ishilove: You suppose know as e dey go na. |
Science/Technology / Re: Lion Fights Back While Rivals Eat Him Alive by pocohantas(f): 1:48pm On Apr 11 |
Ishilove: They no chop am. They just want make e die well. |
Science/Technology / Re: Lion Fights Back While Rivals Eat Him Alive by pocohantas(f): 12:58pm On Apr 11 |
Ishilove: Lions kill themselves. But the title is misleading because they definitely didn't eat him. When you enter the territory of another pride or when they want to take over a lioness. They kill the cubs she had with a previous mate and give her their own belle. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 11:20am On Apr 11 |
Proserpina: When people come up with those scenarios on a basic topic, I just know they have been cornered. So if a man says he wants a wife that can cook, does it mean he doesn't know she can lose her hands? Nonsense analogy. Proserpina: They will learn... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 10:45am On Apr 11 |
Proserpina: Toor! Na "hide my ID' dey end am. |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 9:38am On Apr 11 |
Proserpina: The matter no hard. But there are women who do not mind marrying non-providers. They can marry those ones. Like I said, until providing women are not expected to hide it to protect their husbands dignity and men can boldly come out to say they don't provide, then we can have a discussion. Men know the truth, they only hate to hear it from women. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Married Nigerian Ladies No Longer Take Shit From Their Husbands (Pictures) by pocohantas(f): 11:36pm On Apr 10 |
sheriffindy: That is if you are hoping to meet grass on the other side. Some just want peace of mind and for a set that gets angry/counters when a woman implies all men are cheats, I wonder why you guys suddenly embrace same statement when a woman leaves her cheating husband. You seen to be the one crying. You will be fine. Goodnight... 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Nigerian Ladies No Longer Take Shit From Their Husbands (Pictures) by pocohantas(f): 11:18pm On Apr 10 |
sheriffindy: No one is trying to imitate or be equal you. I wonder why some of your egos are always fragile and threatened. They only chose an STI free life. If that is being equal to you, then they are and you cannot do anything about it but rant on Nairaland. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Is Actor Junior Pope Really Dead? by pocohantas(f): 10:51pm On Apr 10 |
EreluRoz: I just went to check on IG. I do hope it is true! |
Family / Re: Married Nigerian Ladies No Longer Take Shit From Their Husbands (Pictures) by pocohantas(f): 10:41pm On Apr 10 |
bukatyne: Hahahaha! Look at all the scare tactics and deflections. Never seen a set that hates accountability like Nigerian men. You want to normalise going out to cheat and bringing back home a manhood with another woman's fluids for your wife? Oh well, they claim there are reasonable women that understand men are WIRED like this. Mabel done run as she tire to treat infections. Goodluck to the reasonable women that would marry these NL men. I can't stop wishing them goodluck! 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 10:38pm On Apr 10 |
Omoluabi16: Any small thing they start calling a woman olosho and liability. These set of men would drag you if they dare find out your husband is not a provider. We just love to argue open and shut cases. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by pocohantas(f): 7:18pm On Apr 10 |
1. A wife's role is to support not to provide. 2. She expects her husband to be a major provider. 3. She can't be sexually available for a non-provider husband. Anyone arguing this is being unrealistic. If men wanted women to be providers, they won't expect providing women to hide it from the public. Neither would they call women richer than their men, the HUSBAND. Tell me about "na she marry man keep for house". We all know the truth. But let's argue... Quote me when you are knacking your wife without providing as an able-bodied man. ✌️✌️✌️✌️ 38 Likes 3 Shares |
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