MadamExcellency:


She had already lived with her husband and children for years before filing for divorce probably after she was caught

I do know she has been married or rather I read it on Twitter when she trended. I think people used it to attack her and she confirmed while claiming it was the worst period of her life. I am only saying people like her who claim marriage to the opposite sex is of no good should marry their gender. Even if she didn't have kids, she would still get them now like most homosexuals do.

izzou:


But we have other men who are doing well

Kanayo O Kanayo
Pete Edochie
Kenneth Okonkwo

Even Olu Jacobs that is ill is not begging for money.

I think everyone needs to start looking at investments in their old age.

I don't think it is about investments because kidney issues can gulp down investments in a blink. It is more of lifestyle and health. If KOK has kidney failure tomorrow, that his house won't save him. I have uncles that are diabetic, rarely aunties. Igbo men especially should reduce beer. Big stomach is not enjoyment.

Also salt and MSG intake is too much in Nigeria.

Use salt to wash ugu.
Use salt to wash beef.
Use it to wash okporoko.
Still put in the soup.
Serve the soup with akpu.
By the side of his plate, you put a spoon of salt for him to sprinkle on the food.

Why??

Death is inevitable, but don't use your hand to bring it closer.

I must commend her for living up to her words. I hope the men that claim not to benefit from marriage to women can do same or stay single till death. That is the logical thing to do.

Eunoiaa:


You didn't say hi, Somto.


Any reason for that?

I wan choke here. Wetin be this?

Klass99:
Ladies, is it just me or has nairaland become dry and boring? I can't find any interesting or engaging threads to read after weeks of not visiting the site.

Anyway I'm curious to know what you all do for fun to de-stress and unwind, what new things you've tried lately and enjoyed, what suggestions you have for simply enjoying life.

I read some where that we will always have problems or some sort of conflict in this life, so find ways to enjoy life while solving the problems.

I went hiking for the first time in my life and thoroughly enjoyed the experience (here in Naija, not obodo). YouTube Shorts is now my favourite thing to watch, I love the variety it offers and diversity in the comments section.

No, it is not just you. Every topic has been discussed and anything you say is like pouring water on a rock. People would still do what they want to do. Fun and educative sections like Travel is dying because people don't travel anyhow again in this economy. Even japa is now luxury. So nothing new in that section.

I won't say I have done anything new, I only do them more. A bucket list of places, read books, take a walk, workout, vacations and I attended a cooking class for foreign dishes.

Indeed there would always be problems. I am at a stage where I just want to enjoy life. Few days ago I was telling him and he said I'll get tired. Now it is my turn to enjoy, you say I will tire. When you were traveling your own and buying cars, did you get tired? Why are humans like this?

Before I don't honour most invitations to events, but now I do. Opportunity to socialise, dressup and take pictures.

________________

You won't find engaging threads because 20 kids do not play for 20yrs. It is funny some combatants are yet to get the memo. One said it is the reality of evening newspapership dawning on me. No dude, I have money to make, more family time and places to visit, biko.

"I am this, I am that, I am scary, I cause more harm than good...blablabla"

Pseudo-machoism is now the order of the day with these male younglings. Who is stopping you all from doing a DNA test? Men now talk more than African Greys. Mtcheeew!

Gerrard59:


I would be calm as well. If you noticed, others just bashed the lady without considering certain factors as to why the amount was sent.

Not you in particular because I know you will be calm.

Says a 30+ man that has dated all the 19yrs old influencers in Lagos and gets dragged my them on IG. That is when they are not fighting over him.

Jewessgratitud3:
He probably has some unrealistic expectations.

To be candid, no body can give you the peace you need. they are not the holy spirit that gives true peace that comes from above. Only you can give yourself peace.

If you can't take nonsense from another person don't get married cos human beings are full of nonsense.

You should see his last two ex-girlfriends. So that you can know who he has been giving his heart to.

ednut1:
Men are angry women are doing what they have been doing lol

Suddenly they remember marriage is no more beneficial to them.

Gerrard59:


I see. Then in that case, N5K is too small. But 200K is too big, considering it is your birthday. Next year, you would expect something bigger. We should consider what she does for a living, her visa status and country she resides in. Also, how many siblings and extended family members does she have in Nigeria?

Many factors determine someone in the abroad sending money to another in Nigeria.

Would we be this calm if a woman expected 200k from a man abroad because she helped him in the past? I bet we would have a whole new topic on why men do not accept help from women.

kkins25:
The irony of it all, women-women marriages have a similar to higher divorce rates than heterosexual marriages.. 😂😂😂

See women talking as if they themselves are angels? Why do lesbian marriages have similar rates of divorce with the same complaints as heterosexual marriages? All this feminist wave is just wishful thinking, no different from the aggressive vampire booktok.


By the time western society wears off, Islam will take over. I'll see which B2 movement women will follow then.

Women are not talking as if they are angels. Women are saying men should at least leave them alone since we all know women are not angels. Men should marry men too. You should also know gay marriages pack up faster than heterosexual marriages. You didn't use that as an example because it doesn't fit your agenda.

It is has nothing to do with feminism. It is common sense to stay away from affairs concerning an institution you claim not to benefit from.

If 35+ women are unmarried, why are men bothered? Shebi men do not gain from marriage?

Homosexuals typically do not care about societal dogmas. People that could defy homophobia to marry do not care to stay together to please heterosexuals. They leave when they are tired and move to the next one. It is their way of life.

The more heterosexuals attain same state of independence and i-don't care attitude, the more marriages pack up like we are seeing.

Nazgul:

Yes no dey cause problem na.

DonPablo9511:
https://www.nairaland.com/8029989/why-ladies-above-35-years#128929083

Pocohantas

Good afternoon

Thanks and noted.
I will do as advised.

Good evening!

Twoclans:
Just mention Burna and kwin Poco will show up.

Everytime I want to say what is on my mind regarding Burna ,I will give myself a knock on the head .I don't want pocohantas trouble .

I am usually scared to view these topics too, because I don't like seeing him get insulted. So it isn't just you knocking your head. 🤣🤣

Sequel to this thread below claiming the estranged wife of Israel is remarrying barely 6 months after their separation, I had to go check her Instagram page.

thread.https://www.nairaland.com/8030377/said-yes-again-israel-dmws

It is an endorsement deal.

How did people even think it is marriage?

Smh!

GloriousGbola:


i said yes! again!

isreal probably never heard those words from her

_{stop i am tired}

Yes to Jesus.
Yes to an endorsement deal.

Nothing to say it is a man. She just wan tension Israel and make us talk. Expect his Edo curses in 3,2,1...

Once again, the gender that doesn't benefit from marriage is obsessed with the marital status of (unknown) women.

I do hope no lady reads some posters here and slips into depression. These ones are not the men doing the marrying. Year after year they haven't married any supposed good woman or morning newspaper. But they have a lot to say about unmarried women. Agents of distraction.

Acidosis:


You must show face. Burna's biggest fan 🤣🤣

I have to come defend him o. I give it to him. Burna stays away from women trouble.

Acidosis:


Do you work for him? You know too much about him to be ordinary online fan.

She doesn't need to. Did we work for Tuface, Davido and Wizkid to see their handiwork?

Eunoiaa:


Maybe you can help me sef and let me know when/if he follows you.

He has weird, gory kind of monikers and a profile that seems to belong to a mentally disturbed patient. And he follows some set of monikers. These are usually the dead giveaways for me.


Anytime he opens a new account, in 2 seconds, he's followed you, Folake, Pansőphist, qtgùru. He relates well with Qtguru, and the airsàylongcom guy in Programming section too. But I'm sure QT has no idea what kind of sick individual the Purvan dude is. I just shook my head and laughed to myself when he confronted "me" and said he noticed someone has been doxxing him. He thinks he's just some young dude who needs mentoring in tech and all.

Yes, he has followed me with some of these accounts and he unfollows after a while. Recently he re-followed with one of the aforementioned accounts.

If he needs tech mentoring, he should focus on that and leave you. At least it would guaranty he isn't celebrating a standing fan 10yrs from now.

chidiokay:




why will you think she will tey for her papa house ... ofcus there plenty men out there that give women 1million for upkeep and nail fixing per week

That you can't relate doesnt mean these things are not happening, @least pocohantas can relate

This one would never sleep well again.
E pain am.

ceejayluv:

Dem no plenty abeg. An LG chairman cannot even afford that.

Indeed they are not plenty.
Minimum wage is still 30k afterall.

Twoclans:
I ignored his quote because I know he is just a very stupid somebody.I am sure his body is filled with craw craw from heat .

SKYHIGHfx:
Congratulations, Poor people go soon start to advice am

while gulping pancake and fearless.

Eunoiaa:


He's one of the foolish twerps who run amok here.


That moniker strikes a chord in my memory. I remember it has attacked me once, and it wasn't just any kind of random attack over what I said in the moment; it was a deep-seated one that seem like whoever is behind the account has been wanting to get out.


It's an definitely an alternate, tab-keeping account.

I wonder what is always eating them up. Maybe heat and hunger. They are all similar. Reminds me of your tochi. Maybe na him sef.

Oh, they are all alternates. Thanks to you I learned to pay more attention. It is most times one person with numerous alternates. Giving the impression that many are out for you.

GloriousGbola:


na gen-z man-thing. folake4.u generation. so few men in her generation. a real scarcity

_{better for us oldies sha. ned nwoko 2.0 is sure}

Hahaaha. GenZ done really suffer for our hand. I done tire for some guys here. Ignore them, they run amok. Handle them and they show you they are indeed jobless.