Kobicove: Most of these Gen-Z generation kids are so foolish!
na lie . Gen Z is known for fearlessness and smartness plus thech savvy. This fool with boy friend's tattoo is not gen Z. GenZ is not only about age. It's also about quality of mind
BlindAngel: Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.
Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.
So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.
To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.
So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.
I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.
Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.
Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.
I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.
I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.
You need to apologise to your wife if possible in the presence of her family. Do you really know that gravity of what you said. How will she talk in the presence of other siblings with what you reduced her to. Even if you are not doing again, you should not have belittled the mother of your child(ren) like that.
Now to the billing You should have calmly told them that you wouldn't do it. Without raising your voice.. If I were you I would go back and apologise to save the face of your wife and then tell them about the unacceptable billing.
I also will like to know the name of the state of your wife and if possible the name of her village
NNtv: Someone posted that he did this house with 11.3m naira. Maybe it's joke or could such amount build this type if house if land is already available?
that must be before tinubu happened to Nigeria. My younger brother is struggling to finish a 4 bedroom downstairs apartment with 10m
Yes, just my pi liveness capture refused to work. Could any one help me out bikonu. Scammers avoid meoo, no come here ask me for my login details again.
Nigerian women have shown men shege even pass buhari and tinubu put together. If you don't date a foreign lady , you will not be able to know that there are many nice ladies in this world. Ordinary Cotonu here, meet there woman and see peace of mind,
Sometimes I tend to ask my self what is wrong with the white people. You see something serious happening around them and they refuse to accord it any importance and now your husband voted for his choice candidate without stopping you from voting yours and you want to divorce him. What other name do you call "controlling" wife. That's why I love my African brothers in Africa. I mean especially my Nigerian people. Wetin you go tell your parents say na the reason for the divorce you seek ? The whole village will swear Amadioha and Sango for you , Na your mama go rush you go white garment church make Dem take flogging and beating reset your brain. Inukwa akuko
Confirmedzombie: The newly Democratically elected National president of the NURTW Dr Field Marshal MC Oluomo will be visiting the South Rast zonal offices of the NURTW from Tuesday 19th November to Friday 22nd November 2024.
The National president will arrive at the Anambra state Airport on Tues 19th November to be received by the Obi of Onitsha and host of Anambra youths.
The National president will depart the Airpirt for a courtesy visit to the Anambra state Governor Prof. Soludo.
Thereafter the National president will proceed to the NURTW office to inaugurate the Anambra state Excos and swear them in.
On Wednesday 20th November the National president will depart Anambra for Enugu and Ebonyi state.
The Enugu state youth movement and chiefs will be on ground to receive the National president. Thereafter, the National president will pay a courtesy visit to Gov Mbah and the Enugu state Council of Traditional Rulers. Same for Ebonyi state.
The National president will be received by the Imo youth movement on arrival at Imo state. A Dinner will be organised in honour of the National president by the Imo youth movement at the Concord Hotel, Owerri.
The Imo state Governor, His Excellency Hope Uzodinma and host of traditional Rulers will be hosting the National president at the Imo government House Owerri.
The National president will depart Imo state for Umuahia Abia state with a brief stop at Aba where he will be hosted briefly by the Aba youths and chiefs.
gidgiddy: Are you saying the same didn't happen in Nigeria?
it's like you really don't know that Nigerians are among the smartest people in this world. Same person cannot rule Nigeria for 15 years. The president of panya and Cameron have ruled them for more than 40 years
Augustine2244: And one shameless Prostitute Sarah Martins who calls herself a Nollywood actress yet barely features in any movie,has been defending her fellow prostiute. Of course no decent filmmaker and director would cast a openly declared Olosho in their movie,if they intend for the movie to be commercially successful.
na naija level naa even olosho dey put mouth for everything
If you ask me, real G will count census and keep no record, put in local parlance, guy man go chop and clean mouth, But this mumu need videos for self validation. Simp.
Balablue64: Please i need advice how to get a girl that we have gisted little times. I want to date her. Please i need scope or advice on how to do it , No insults please
Op where are you from, i mean the state and tribe, no insult intended I just want to check something. I also want to know your age if you don't mind.
LegendHero: People have been saying Nigeria is finished since 1963. Yet Nigeria still remain.
Are you not finished ? Since 1963 you dey hear that you are finished and you think say na lie, you even still dey nairaland dey talk say Na lie Nigeria is very finished (if there is anything in English like that)
indemnityy: South eastern part predominantly Igbos have been singing praises of Joy as TRUMP wins US elections.
Shatap there Mr lier. The South East people do not care about who wins or not. Where did you even conduct the interview and investigation to know who they support. Ewu gambia