₦airaland Forum

Talk to your mum whenever she is happy. Take her by the side, tell her how much you love her, let her know you're all alone without her, shed tears, let her know you've once considered suicide. After all these and she still becomes cold towards you then you should consider leaving the house irrespective of what anyone says.

Please realise that you have only one life to live and you are responsible for your own happiness. If anything happens to you, they can only shed crocodile tears for some few hours and then continue living as if you never existed. There are over 7 billion people in the world never allow few people to make you feel sad. Make friends, go out, do something new today 'cause people like you are loved and admired by many people. Don't just breath; live!

Pangea:
I understand what you are trying to say!
The answer is color temperature, the white balance and the gamma.
The ambient color temperature and white balance in the tropic is different from those in the temperate region.
I noticed this when I first arrived in the US!
The day is always so bright I had to be squinting my eyes when I go outdoor unlike here in nigeria .
The temperature tends towards white, and that makes your picture to be brighter like your whole body is bathed in kineflo lighting.
To get thesame effect here, you will have to change some manual settings on CAMERA in the phone.
Go and read more about the dynamic range settings and also be ready to take your photo with external lighting.

nice one. Wetin dey ur neck na head

High intensity of the sun, untarred environment causing large suspension of dust particles in the air that can be more profound through the use of a camera lens, dirty environment, improper planning and negligence to lighting, space, beauty, decoration and ergonomics (how many Nigerian homes consider good lighting of their homes and decoration?, pictures taken in poorly decorated or lighted environment exaggerate the ugliness of such environment.).

Her life, our story.

For all those cussing her I wonder why you rushed to open the thread. Were you expecting to see her in a nun's apparel praying the rosary?

A bro must attend a bro and bro wedding (gay wedding) with a shotgun

Evina:
are you for real? Well, since it is obvious you are a loooong way from being a father in the real sense of the world, let me ask you this, if your sister were in the same position, how would you handle it?

Op, the girl is the one who needs advice here. If her goal is to settle down in the nearest future and that goal is not shared with the boy she is with, then she better be wise and get a man who is on the same page with her, before she wakes up one day with no suitor!

I'm not a father, atleast not yet. If she happens to be my sister, I would leave the choice for her to make, whether to wait or not but I guess the guy must be very serious and planning to settle down soonest.

I've learnt one thing about life & relationship - it's better to wait a thousand years to be with the one you love and can tolerate, than to spend all your years in regrets with the one you can barely tolerate.

kkkp:
A friend of my need advice

Its all about the girl he wants to marry...The girls dad gave him period to come foward so that they will set the date for the marriage but he is not ready yet..The girl truly luvs him
**Note: many suitors have been asking her hand in marriage but she kips turning down the offer..now the pressure is too much
PLS ADVICE HIM ON WHAT TO DO

He shouldn't agree to such ultimatum. He should take his time and do it when he is ready. Hope the lady is not by her father's side tho.

But why is the girl's dad being so cavalier and insensitive to the guy's situation?
Or is there something else we don't know?