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emmaodet:


Bro, easy now. Don't give a brother a heart attack.
If am in his shoes, i won't even call such a girl my gf. I would have been shopping for her replacement.
My gf telling me someone is disturbing her is one thing, she collecting money, gifts etc from the person pressuring to date her is totally another thing even if she let's me know.
There is a power play at the background Frank fails to decode because it is a psychological battle.
It means Frank needs to buckle up because she is hot and really in demand by guys above his social ladder else she will have to reconsider her stance.
He has been psychologically boxed to a corner whereby he will think twice before taking any radical action against her.
Peradventure if they marry, the pressure is on Frank to make her comfortable else once in a while when she is depressed due to financial struggles in the family, in her corner she will think if it is actually the best deal she took marrying Frank when she could have even given those better prospective guys a chance.

Wahala for who dey do bf/gf oooooo

Zabiboy:

Mehn...This is one topic most people would "Agree to dis-agree" ...
I think this is a test of the question "Are you a redpiller or you're just broke?"
For me, even 10 naira is too much for any pvssy...Because i still can't wrap my head round the reason why i'll pay someone for something we both enjoyed....
So PERSONALLY, i dont think a redpiller should patronize prostitutes....Although, the average Nigerian lady believes she should be rewarded for sex...
Someone else's opinion could differ...
I'll love to get more contributions on this tho

4ckz:
I get you.

But, in the case a guy is yet to control or not willing to control his urges?

Sex is a part of me and my only get away from work, I am a very busy person.
I just use it to relax.

I won't lie, my life has improved a lot since I took my first pill, and cut off my numerous girl friends, been a lot more peaceful, a lot less spending and I got time to only worry about me.

However, I have been living like this since my university days, always fuking random people steadily.

You can't just wake up one day and tell me, "hey, control your urges". This is already a part of me, and it seems impossible for me to reduce it, or even stick one pvssy.

In my case, and I know there are others like me, wouldn't it be better we limit or don't over spend on pvssy, minding our income level, rather than the control urges thing.

It seems impossible to me, and frankly I can't suffer my self like that.

Martinez39s:
When times are tough and brutal, like in the early beginnings of human existence, or in situations where survival is seriously threatened, women forget about equality and conceal their feminist loathing for men and hubris of female superiority and indispensability. Given that they will readily do anything to survive, they will morph into traditional women, openly and ceaselessly espouse traditional roles (to get men to provide and protect and paint themselves as frail damsels in distress, all for their benefits), and they will be solely concerned about being provided for and protected.

All talks about equality, man hating, female superiority and indispensability, and how men are the problem go to the wind lest, if the men are not simp enough, she will be made to walk her talk and shunned by men (who would be providing and protecting). Such would be detrimental, and even the most radical feminist will never try such. Unsurprisingly, when men start stabilizing the society and making it increasingly safe, the same women who sat aside as traditional women and allowed men do all the dirty and hard work, emerge as feminist and demand all the "front seat" in the civilization men virtually built singlehandedly.

Unfortunately, the latter generation of men will indulge almost all the whim and caprices of feminists and concede all the "front seats" to them. Even if they do not let women have all positions of power, they will succumb to seduction, female wiles, and feminist and gynocentric rhetorics. When this happens, they will craft laws and enable social situations that usher their society into a gynocentric world order. Sadly most men are not bothered as they are busy simping and chasing a nawalt instead of cooperating and fixing the issue of gynocentrism. They think they just have to find the "right one" and they will be exempted from all the significant troubles of a gynocentric society.

emmaodet:
At the bolded - Don't blame most men for not been able to reject sexual advances from females.
Bro wake up and smell the coffee, it is a cold hard life out there.
A large percentage of men are sexually frustrated and hungry due to being invincible to women because women are attracted to men STATUS and not MEN themselves.
You have to be in a position of status to make you visible to women - Class captain, Student Union President, Governor, pastor, sport and music stars, in church - be an exco, usher, choir leader etc. in school- class captain or hold an executive position or join an active group like lit club (miming and break-dance group), in an association - be active, JUST be active and you will be recognised and picked by ladies who find you attractive.

Don't just be PASSIVE or a floor member in anywhere you are, you will be invincible to women.
You can only be be choosy or overlook things when you have good and many options in life.
Have you ever noticed you hardly feel hungry when you have foods at home? but always hungry when no shingayin at home. Likewise sex
I am a married but i can tell you that have only touched my wife just 4 times for the past 1 month, Why? options
i can touch her any time i want and i still have ladies calling and disturbing me to come for sex romp secretly despite knowing am married.
But if am struggling to lay my hand on a woman for the past 3 months and all of a sudden, a lady is giving me greenlight, i will act in a desperate way.

BLOODYSPERM:
How do women manipulate men;
By catering to men’s deepest caveman-like primal instincts such as:
1) physical force
2)pride(ego)
3)hunger
4)the will to hunt
5)the desire to provide
6)sexual urge

Zabiboy:

So guys, i have another Self-Evaluation topic for discussion....This might be the last because it seems most people are more interested in women talk...But that's fine tho...everyone and his interests....
The question is "How do you overcome/supress your sexual urge?? Or How can a fellow guy addicted to porn and or masturbation control his sexual urge without watching porn or masturbating??
Practical and Readily accessible methods/activities ONLY..
This could help one or two people out there..

temi4fash:
Deep.. Can you explain??

4ckz:
I get what you are saying bro.

But being realistic, knowing our society, sex is often always transactional, doesn't matter if she's your gf, wife or a random girl.

Would have really wanted more views on this.

emmaodet:
My brothers in the Lord and Redpill, it was a Royal Rumble match in the hotel room.
Let us bow our heads in prayer for a Butchered NL Ferminist

...
Meme suppose go well for here o...
Abeg, anybody with that meme where the guy removed his hat and bowed his head down should mention me with it.... ....
But the cheating aspect sha....Hmmm...

BLOODYSPERM:
1) physical force : Men are generally more stronger physically than women , women are generally more manipulative mentally than men, where a man will opt for physical violence like slapping, punching to inflict pain women evolved to cope with their physical weakness by opting for mental violence via insults to instil guilt , shame one or inflict real psychological pain
2) Pride: Women know men are bound by honor and other vague abstractions which they themselves are not bound to hence they manipulate what gives us a sense of pride to further their agenda and pass their narrative for example the outlaw of polygamy in western societies was an appeal to men's ego to be monogamous individuals who will care for their family the consequences today is a drastic reduction in marriage, high rate of divorce as the natural dread of polygamy has been removed from their Society
3) Hunger- Women especially girlfriend's and wives manipulate their partner with the food they cook so he can do their bidding especially if such partner is very hungry, even mothers make us malleable to their will by being in charge and solely responsible for the cooking in the home, that's why majority will prefer mothers to their fathers
4)The will to hunt/ the desire to provide; Both are the same activities just that hunting was our initial ancient like means of looking for provisioning activities for our household and tribes but mordern days we provide and not hunt as before although we still have hunters but generally as a society provisioning has replaced hunting,women play into these instinct to hunt,provide and protect by manipulating men to pass gynocentric laws that will greatly affect them but favor women since we instinctive want to protect women and children which is our biological Evolutionary make up we don't think about the consequences of such laws
5) Sexual Urge; Everyone is familiar with the power of the pussy and how men are willingly going to Simp and do all manner of things just to have sex, men will waste their time and resources chasing women who are very much aware of their pussy power ,instinctively women are aware that their innate value is tied to their sexuality (pussy)

aygbolly2:
I always try to suppress it after learning the Redpill, to the extent that I haven't chatted her for about 7 months now, she also didn't chat me. But I'm now considering chatting her up and see how it goes again..

Should I chat her up or I should maintain my abort mission

dontai:
soaking in the rep pill, making me see things I couldn't see before and made me reflect on myself and how some people scream blue murdered when things doesn't go their way.

With this been said, I can categorically say nothing like 'black culture', it's like feminist crying foul when things doesn't work in thier way. I mean it's such an insecurity mentality. and such a way to exploit others,

Those who have exploit others through femininsm: Toke Makinwa, Linda ikeji, Cardi B, all bb-naija female contestants (after making their money through hoeing, they will now carry feminism for head, maybe after an alpha male did them strong thing).

Those who exploit through black culture or whatever they said they are representing: all those black coloured artists making for themselves millions and billions, while they will be screaming doing it for the culture. but spending the proceed on themselves and immidiate Family.

black culture, black culture, black culture my tiny ass's, culture that's no more existing.

feminist, feminist, feminist thier fat ass's those who are feeding on men's diick, money, security and world.

I'm sorry for deviating a bit.

BLOODYSPERM:
How women manipulate men:
1) physical force : Men are generally more stronger physically than women , women are generally more manipulative mentally than men, where a man will opt for physical violence like slapping, punching to inflict pain women evolved to cope with their physical weakness by opting for mental violence via insults to instil guilt , shame one or inflict real psychological pain
2) Pride: Women know men are bound by honor and other vague abstractions which they themselves are not bound to hence they manipulate what gives us a sense of pride to further their agenda and pass their narrative for example the outlaw of polygamy in western societies was an appeal to men's ego to be monogamous individuals who will care for their family the consequences today is a drastic reduction in marriage, high rate of divorce as the natural dread of polygamy has been removed from their Society
3) Hunger- Women especially girlfriend's and wives manipulate their partner with the food they cook so he can do their bidding especially if such partner is very hungry, even mothers make us malleable to their will by being in charge and solely responsible for the cooking in the home, that's why majority will prefer mothers to their fathers
4)The will to hunt/ the desire to provide; Both are the same activities just that hunting was our initial ancient like means of looking for provisioning activities for our household and tribes but mordern days we provide and not hunt as before although we still have hunters but generally as a society provisioning has replaced hunting,women play into these instinct to hunt,provide and protect by manipulating men to pass gynocentric laws that will greatly affect them but favor women since we instinctive want to protect women and children which is our biological Evolutionary make up we don't think about the consequences of such laws
5) Sexual Urge; Everyone is familiar with the power of the pussy and how men are willingly going to Simp and do all manner of things just to have sex, men will waste their time and resources chasing women who are very much aware of their pussy power ,instinctively women are aware that their innate value is tied to their sexuality (pussy)

emmaodet:
At the bolded - Don't blame most men for not been able to reject sexual advances from females.
Bro wake up and smell the coffee, it is a cold hard life out there.
A large percentage of men are sexually frustrated and hungry due to being invincible to women because women are attracted to men STATUS and not MEN themselves.
You have to be in a position of status to make you visible to women - Class captain, Student Union President, Governor, pastor, sport and music stars, in church - be an exco, usher, choir leader etc. in school- class captain or hold an executive position or join an active group like lit club (miming and break-dance group), in an association - be active, JUST be active and you will be recognised and picked by ladies who find you attractive.

Don't just be PASSIVE or a floor member in anywhere you are, you will be invincible to women.
You can only be be choosy or overlook things when you have good and many options in life.
Have you ever noticed you hardly feel hungry when you have foods at home? but always hungry when no shingayin at home. Likewise sex
I am a married but i can tell you that have only touched my wife just 4 times for the past 1 month, Why? options
i can touch her any time i want and i still have ladies calling and disturbing me to come for sex romp secretly despite knowing am married.
But if am struggling to lay my hand on a woman for the past 3 months and all of a sudden, a lady is giving me greenlight, i will act in a desperate way.

miracood:
Why do I always have this reluctancy to ask girls out? Not that I cant ask them out...

But I just don't have that natural desire to go after girls..
I'll hit a girl up.. Collect contact and details but... I don't follow up the paroll. R'plliers what's wrong with me

BLOODYSPERM:
The redpill can't fight feelings
It's only an amoral pragmatic philosophy that you choose to apply with regards to intersexual gender dynamics between men and women and also monk mode for your personal development
The key word here is choice
Before I focused on my gaming skill of spinning plates I made the mistake of trying to rebuild a previous relationship with a former lady that I was close with before I started my redpill journey, I was blinded by feelings giving myself rationalizations why I should go back to her since she was a previous girl I wanted to date, I saw signs that she wasn't into me and there was no future yet I ignored them,i was so blinded by feelings that I simped and spent money to solve one of her problems when we met during my early gaming , I rationalized that spending on her will make her see me in a positive light for relationship,my brother,I was very mistaken, I discovered that these girl took advantage of my feelings for her and after I spent on her she listed more and more financial problems for me to solve, it was then I realized I was a bloody foolish simp blinded by emotions, since that day I told myself fvck feelings no matter how strong it is as long as there is no certainty or realistic expectation that the girl will be into me , Infact I evolved in my gaming with abundance mindset, not allowing my self to develop feelings for any particular girl as spinning plates with different beautiful young girls has taught me that there is no one particular person you should invest in as there are plenty of options and fishes in the sea to catch

My brother fvcking spin plates with the Alpha's frame having abundance mindset,all these your long term deep-seated feelings for these girl will cease to exist when you meet new plates (girls) giving you options and a man with options is a man with power

Peaceyw:
After 7 months you still have feelings for her, chai, maintain your abort mission ooo, if not u might unconsciously simp

Joker09:
Not only you, I thought I was the only one. It's part of what the redpill will do to you. Don't you know what you have consumed, it's the redpill bruh, no be beans...That's called 'see finish'. Redpill has made you see the female nature finish, you don't want to do anything to fuel their egos anymore when you already know their true nature. It also make you become a little cold and laid back towards females because you see yourself as the prize to be won, not the other way round.

As for me, I give ladies very less attention now and mostly focus on my goals/productive things. Funny enough, random girls come to meet me and even buzz me with calls but if they aren't my spec, I'm not letting them in. Shit is crazy. Redpill basically improves your standard towards life in general, and sorry to say you become more selfish and only choose to love and care for yourself alone(and maybe love ones).

miracood:
tnks for this indept explanation..

When I talk to a girl, I read there mood and contenance., The moment I discovere u're not at all feeling me, I just meeuve.. without trying to ask why she looks bitter or sad.

Joker09:
Not only you, I thought I was the only one. It's part of what the redpill will do to you. Don't you know what you have consumed/swallowed? it's the redpill bruh, no be beans...That's 'see finish'. Redpill has made you see the female nature finish, you don't want to do anything to fuel their egos anymore when you already know their true nature. It also make you become a little cold and laid back towards females because you see yourself as the prize to be won, not the other way round. You just don't want to tolerate any BS from them at all.

As for me, I give ladies very less attention now and mostly focus on my goals/productive things. Funny enough, random girls come to meet me and even buzz me with calls but if they aren't my spec, I'm not letting them in. Shit is crazy. Redpill basically improves your standard towards life in general, and sorry to say you become more selfish and only choose to love and care for yourself alone(and maybe love ones). You just always put yourself first.