gabazin080:
firstly I am a carpenter and furniture maker. a friend on the the next street called me to come fix his door net. on getting there I stripped the clothes I wore from home to my working cover-all. I put my clothes with my pulse inside on the chair in their sitting room.

few minutes later I wanted a cold Pepsi, on getting to where I dropped my clothes, I realized #500 was missing from my pulse but I thought maybe I left it at home. I went outside to get the soft drink and I met my friend's 11 year old daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

I asked where she got the money from and she said her dad gave her the money. I asked his dad if he gave her money to get something and he said no. that's when I told him #500 was missing from my clothes I dropped in their sitting room and I went outside now and saw her daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

he then begged me to forgive the girl and returned my money, he told me about how the girl has been disgracing him in the compound by entering people's room to steal. she steals from the parents too and in school and will later say its one spirit that used to tell her where people keep their money and to go and steal it.

he claimed the problem is spiritual and has gone to some pastors and alfas but no changes.
the thought of the little girl's problem never left my mind till I finish my work there that day that's why I brought it here, ask u guys if such thing could be spiritual and what can be done because he is tired of beating her everyday with no changes

She learns it from Africa Africa magic or parents.

gabazin080:
firstly I am a carpenter and furniture maker. a friend on the the next street called me to come fix his door net. on getting there I stripped the clothes I wore from home to my working cover-all. I put my clothes with my pulse inside on the chair in their sitting room.

few minutes later I wanted a cold Pepsi, on getting to where I dropped my clothes, I realized #500 was missing from my pulse but I thought maybe I left it at home. I went outside to get the soft drink and I met my friend's 11 year old daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

I asked where she got the money from and she said her dad gave her the money. I asked his dad if he gave her money to get something and he said no. that's when I told him #500 was missing from my clothes I dropped in their sitting room and I went outside now and saw her daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

he then begged me to forgive the girl and returned my money, he told me about how the girl has been disgracing him in the compound by entering people's room to steal. she steals from the parents too and in school and will later say its one spirit that used to tell her where people keep their money and to go and steal it.

he claimed the problem is spiritual and has gone to some pastors and alfas but no changes.
the thought of the little girl's problem never left my mind till I finish my work there that day that's why I brought it here, ask u guys if such thing could be spiritual and what can be done because he is tired of beating her everyday with no changes

Nothing spiritual about it. She needs a therapist. This is a psychological issue. Read the attached screenshot below

pocohantas:


The future is indeed female. May nothing miss from your pulse in Jesus name.

Nothing spiritual about it, but I must commend her guts. She didn’t wait for you to leave before squandering the money on her premium cravings.

Yoghurt and snacks? She has good taste. Maybe they should stop beating her and take her to a counsellor.

You agreed it could be psychological but disagree it could be spiritual.

In this part of the world, don't let anyone or any level of education fools you that spirituality has not direct effects on our lives. Please note that I am not directly saying the girl is under spiritual influence.

Take her to TB Joshua's Synagogue Church.

100 lashes of koboko given angrily and simultaneously with lectures on dangers of stealing will eliminate the spirit of stealing from her. It worked on my brother. It can work on her too.

beauty7:


It is true.

There is no prostitute that is not a thief.

The spirit of stealing can easily draw the spirit of prostitution.

hmmm, actually I don't believe that spiritual thing
Person who steals always look for "easy money" and prostitution may be an easy substitute for stealing!

I think whilst we all think it's spiritual we should not forget it's a child thing - stealing.

I did a measure of stealing and I know most of us do too growing up...the child needs talking too consistently and some reasonable chastisement plus prayers to help her stop.

You'll knots cravings that triggers her action and so education on the need to defer her gratification is key and to be contented with what's provided.

gabazin080:
firstly I am a carpenter and furniture maker. a friend on the the next street called me to come fix his door net. on getting there I stripped the clothes I wore from home to my working cover-all. I put my clothes with my pulse inside on the chair in their sitting room.

few minutes later I wanted a cold Pepsi, on getting to where I dropped my clothes, I realized #500 was missing from my pulse but I thought maybe I left it at home. I went outside to get the soft drink and I met my friend's 11 year old daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

I asked where she got the money from and she said her dad gave her the money. I asked his dad if he gave her money to get something and he said no. that's when I told him #500 was missing from my clothes I dropped in their sitting room and I went outside now and saw her daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

he then begged me to forgive the girl and returned my money, he told me about how the girl has been disgracing him in the compound by entering people's room to steal. she steals from the parents too and in school and will later say its one spirit that used to tell her where people keep their money and to go and steal it.

he claimed the problem is spiritual and has gone to some pastors and alfas but no changes.
the thought of the little girl's problem never left my mind till I finish my work there that day that's why I brought it here, ask u guys if such thing could be spiritual and what can be done because he is tired of beating her everyday with no changes

Notice one thing here. See the way all the female commenters are playing this down. Sympathising with the girl. I pray and wish foolish men here will ever learn. The first instinct of women here is to protect their gender here. The first instinct of some male hegoats is to attack their gender first! Learn the difference.

If it was a young boy that has the habit of stealing, the same nice women will attack him mercilessly.
This example here might be why the future may indeed be female.

Kleptomania comes to mind sha


Hope she will be okay soon,if not......hmmm......hmmmm

gabazin080:
firstly I am a carpenter and furniture maker. a friend on the the next street called me to come fix his door net. on getting there I stripped the clothes I wore from home to my working cover-all. I put my clothes with my pulse inside on the chair in their sitting room.

few minutes later I wanted a cold Pepsi, on getting to where I dropped my clothes, I realized #500 was missing from my pulse but I thought maybe I left it at home. I went outside to get the soft drink and I met my friend's 11 year old daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

I asked where she got the money from and she said her dad gave her the money. I asked his dad if he gave her money to get something and he said no. that's when I told him #500 was missing from my clothes I dropped in their sitting room and I went outside now and saw her daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

he then begged me to forgive the girl and returned my money, he told me about how the girl has been disgracing him in the compound by entering people's room to steal. she steals from the parents too and in school and will later say its one spirit that used to tell her where people keep their money and to go and steal it.

he claimed the problem is spiritual and has gone to some pastors and alfas but no changes.
the thought of the little girl's problem never left my mind till I finish my work there that day that's why I brought it here, ask u guys if such thing could be spiritual and what can be done because he is tired of beating her everyday with no changes

Nothing like spiritual there...the girl is simply kleptomaniac ( I.e the hurge to steal)...She might out grown from it and stop later....when I was little, a neighbour's daughter suffered from it. They took her to different churches and alfa but she didn't stop...he got to a point where she was bitten and nearly killed by mob. But along the line she stop totally..

the child has mastered the act at that age. for her to have the guts at first, couple with stealth and diligence with which she took the purse, remove the money and kept it back without you observing. mehn! their one follow blood coupled with some indulgence at Early age.

the parents shouldn't lose hope since at 11, her developmental psychology is but fully shaped. the dad should be firm with punishment henceforth. some of us too dey pamper pikin at early age

pocohantas:


The future is indeed female. May nothing miss from your pulse in Jesus name.

Nothing spiritual about it, but I must commend her guts. She didn’t wait for you to leave before squandering the money on her premium cravings.

Yoghurt and snacks? She has good taste. Maybe they should stop beating her and take her to a counsellor.

I never expected this kind of comment from a lady i respect so much in this forum. I must confess i am very disappointed.


First, you ridiculed the guy by bolding the "pulse" of course i know that you knew the guy meant purse. So what was the need for all that? I have wrong assumption about you, you're not mature after all .


Secondly, for commending the little girl gut for spending the guy's money blablabla to she has good taste...like are you being serious?
You fall my hand! just fucckoff.

Righteousness2:


Spirtual Matters are not solved by touring here and there. He might end up adding more problems to the little girl.

The Father as the Head of the Home needs Godly counsel on how to be Genuinely Saved and how to Handle things as these

You spoke as if you got solutions, yet nothing!
It is such lack of solutions that makes one to visit many choices to seek.
If the first place he went got the solution, then he would not had gone to another.

My 13 year old Niece came to my place for the last Christmas and slim fit all the turkey meat she fried by herself. At first, i never interfered with her cooking because she knows how. I just wondered why she had to do that when she could have eaten to her satisfaction without me even noticing. It was when my friends came around i noticed adjustment has been made to the meat as i actually saw their sizes. So i think it's a stage thing that must be handled with care before it generates into something else. She felt so sorry when i confronted her and she apologized

Take her to a church for deliverance from the spirit of theft. the theft spirit could also be an ancestral curse that needs to be broken.

The young shall grown

Bornsinner7:
Damn i know one kid like that.. I want to believe such kids are possessed or something..

No matter what they do to this girl she won't change.. funny thing she has everything thing she wants but it's just her habit for her.. she steals things she don't even need at her age like jewelry..

she's a kleptomaniac...its not spiritual....its a habit

Bornsinner7:
Damn i know one kid like that.. I want to believe such kids are possessed or something..

No matter what they do to this girl she won't change.. funny thing she has everything thing she wants but it's just her habit for her.. she steals things she don't even need at her age like jewelry..

likely suffering from kleptomania

Too bad

All of you saying prayer n deliverance is the solution are just everlasting FOOLS. Thats how yall been praying for nigeria but insecurity, poverty, unemployment, bad governance is always increasing. How many covid victims did your useless christian prayers deliver? U stupid MoronS

It is not normal for an 11yrs old girl to boldly steal money from someone's purse and boldly buy yoghurt and snacks with it; and be bold enough to be eating it at the shop, and as well boldly lie and deny stealing the money and boldly claim that the father gave her the money.

Bro, she is boldly possessed. Take her to deliverance.
That's my advice.

Deborah98:
That's how it starts,Op advice your friend to look into the child's case seriously before the worst happens. Some parents instead of taking action they'll be giving flimsy excuses,he's a child,he will outgrow it bla bla bla.... God help us.

very soon she go dey nack to get money to spend...it is highway to prostitution

It is not normal for an 11yrs old girl to boldly steal money from someone's purse and boldly buy yoghurt and snacks with it; and be bold enough to be eating it at the shop, and as well boldly lie and deny stealing the money and boldly claim that the father gave her the money.

Bro, she is boldly possessed. Take her to deliverance.
That's my advice.

Stealing is not just a habit its majorly a force controlled in the spirit realm. Therapists or rehabilitation centre cannot deal with such force. It is spirit versus spirit .

pocohantas:


The future is indeed female. May nothing miss from your pulse in Jesus name.

Nothing spiritual about it, but I must commend her guts. She didn’t wait for you to leave before squandering the money on her premium cravings.

Yoghurt and snacks? She has good taste. Maybe they should stop beating her and take her to a counsellor.

You definitely knew he meant "Purse" but chose to mock him.

You don't have sense and you can never have sense lailai.

Let me share my story, I hope the OP gets to see it

At age 9, I was a very active child and loved spending extra time in church when I go for activities. This particular Saturday, we just finished practicing and as usual I stayed behind playing with my friends

If you are a catholic, you can relate with the healing ministry group, these set of people pray and deliver people, at that time, the program was usually in the evenings.

Out of curiosity, I went close to the meeting area when we heard shouts from the people been delivered, (we were just kids, what did we know! ) I stood at the entrance staring in amazement as the prayer warrior was cabashing and casting out demons, out! Out! He was screaming, I had no idea what he was calling out.

I tell you guys, after that event, the spirit of stealing entered me, I STOLE anything I could lay my hands on, majorly money. I would search for the key to my parents safe and take anything I see, it was really that bad.

So, yes, it might be spiritual

I had to modify my story, was preparing for work when I was typing this

No, I dont steal anymore, it left just as it came. Prayers?, probably, will never know but nobody scolded me, instead my parents showered me with love

AsherAmari:
It may be a curse on the parents operating in her life. Another thing is, for any child to be a thief, one of the parents too must have been a thief and have passed it down to the daughter..

Whether its a curse, Spiritual or hereditary, prayer is the only thing that can solve it. So I'll advise you take her to a Bible believing Church, let them conduct a deliverance for her but the parents have to confess if they too were once into such habits.

She can be delivered.

That's very true. I recommend Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries for deliverance sessions

sisisioge:
Scary stuff... that was how my landlord little girl too started. Now she opens people's doors behind their back to steal

My advice, better take her to boarding school where they wont take nonsense and she wont have things to buy with her stolen money. Her Class mates too will protect their few properties and disgrace her should she try her nonsense. Better do something now before she graduated into a bigger thief. All these thieves/greedy/ irrational/unfair people walking around started from somewhere.


Also, Tell neighbours to stop allowing her into their homes and vendors to stop selling to her. Also keep stuffs away from her reach and ground her. No going out for her.

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Tell your friend to take his daughter to prayer city MFM for proper deliverance. Its not her fault it has to do with her foundation. I Have seen many cases like this,even some of them will steal at the deliverance ground until God arrest them.

Child abuse can make kids do certain unusual child-like things like constant stealing, being peeping-tom, have hyper-sexuality, etc. Africa is too reactionary towards things like this rather than actually figuring out how best to help such people.

Most people who have excesses in their life are using that as a coping mechanism. Some, it is their way of reassuring themselves that they're still in charge or smart or intelligent. But this is mostly because people or someone in their life constantly told them they're not smart, or beat them or used their bodies without their consent for sexual pleasure.

Eventually the child will stop stealing, but only if she gets real therapy or if she finds another way to cope.

PrinceMajestic:
All of you saying prayer n deliverance is the solution are just everlasting FOOLS. Thats how yall been praying for nigeria but insecurity, poverty, unemployment, bad governance is always increasing. How many covid victims did your useless christian prayers deliver? U stupid MoronS

I swear. Na lack of light, causing boredom make me dey read through comments on here, vexing myself. There's no disputing that the majority of Nigerians lack simple sense, and that's why this country is dying. We want magical instant fix or get comfortable with the delusion that the world is ending; something even our great grand parents' generation believed. Make the world end na. Na naija go end first. If it's not from lack of work, because of praying for magical fix, it'll be from tribalism. Even if you're a Christian/Muslim, when has praying without actual work worked?

Lazy bunch of people. That's why the holiest of them steal when they see chance, if people( "destiny helpers" ) aren't dashing them money or job/contract.

If you can look into the personal life of that righteousness person, I can bet you na scam. He's looking for someone to tip him for "spreading word of God". Might be wrong o, but I'm sure I'm mostly right that's his inner purpose, whether he knows it or not. And that's the same with MOST of every other "holy" person. It's monetary gain deep down, not genuine love & care. Very few truly care.

Make this people bring light abeg.

hapiness44:
Let me share my story, I hope the OP gets to see it

At age 9, I was a very active child and loved spending extra time in church when I go for activities. This particular Saturday, we just finished practicing and as usual I stayed behind playing with my friends

If you are a catholic, you can relate with the healing ministry group, these set of people pray and deliver people, at that time, the program was usually in the evenings.

Out of curiosity, I went close to the meeting area when we heard shouts from the people been delivered, (we were just kids, what did we know! ) I stood at the entrance staring in amazement as the prayer warrior was cabashing and casting out demons, out! Out! He was screaming, I had no idea what he was calling out.

I tell you guys, after that event, the spirit of stealing entered me, I STOLE anything I could lay my hands on, majorly money. I would search for the key to my parents safe and take anything I see, it was really that bad.

So, yes, it might be spiritual

Do you still steal uncontrollably?