luminouz:


That story can't be true sha...

Very annoying.

nwaezeemmanuel:
I won't tell you to divorce her, because that isn't a move for everyone.

From your posts, I think you're slowly becoming needy. You've made it known to her the lengths you'd go just to make the marriage work while she watches and validates you.

This is the best time to prove how ALPHA you can be. Show you can sustain yourself without her input. Divert your attention to your kids. She chooses not to cook for you, eat out or make your own meals. That sounds emasculating, but technically, you're in control and that beats begging her to no avail.

Try to nullify anything that gives her an opportunity to bring you to your knees, vagina included. The idea is to remind her your value isn't hinged on her. Flip the script wisely and watch how things go.

Drenimarcus:
If you feel your wife is being disrespectful to you in your marriage. Few tips.

Ignore her while you work on your self, go on that self discovery mode (read more about becoming a high value man, hit the gym etc).

Start looking into investing and creating wealth for yourself and your self coming generations.

The earlier men know that AWALT. The better for us.

Rinoxy:

Noted man. tnx.

nwaezeemmanuel:
I won't tell you to divorce her, because that isn't a move for everyone.

From your posts, I think you're slowly becoming needy. You've made it known to her the lengths you'd go just to make the marriage work while she watches and validates you.

This is the best time to prove how ALPHA you can be. Show you can sustain yourself without her input. Divert your attention to your kids. She chooses not to cook for you, eat out or make your own meals. That sounds emasculating, but technically, you're in control and that beats begging her to no avail.

Try to nullify anything that gives her an opportunity to bring you to your knees, vagina included. The idea is to remind her your value isn't hinged on her. Flip the script wisely and watch how things go.

Drenimarcus:


You remember the FCMB saga? the guy is dead and the girl involved and the md are living and going on about their lives. Let that be your motivation.

Junnior:

Wouldn't this lead to oneitis?

Skepticus:


Why do you think some of these stories aren't true? Even if it is a fake story from the OP, it's not fiction. His story is relatable and one that men can learn from. Especially those still caught up in the illusion of NAWALT.

The OP's story is quite common in Abuja than most guys care to think. The guys who have found themselves in that situation because of their ignorance of the nature of women don't always voice out not to appear weak before other men. When I graduated years back and was still looking to get employed, I had a lady (they are mostly, older) made an offer like that to me promising to help get a job with an NGO linked with the UN in Abuja. All in our conversation, she kept hinting at "marriage". She was desperate but trying hard to hide it. I never felt for the trick because I always had the hunch that something wasn't right. She was single and 34 years old at the time and a highly ambitious career woman. Two red flags, though the first one was of concern to me. If other men couldn't give their commitment to you, in your prime years and probably fûcked and pass you over, why should I be the one to "eat" their "leftovers"? Probably, your shitty, bossy attitude was a reason you were not considered worthy of their full commitment.

I also understood that highly ambitious career women as such tends to be domineering though they hide it and act nice till you move in with them. If you are not mentally strong, they'll damage you so much that you'll almost go insane from mental torture, and eroding of your self-esteem.

A lot of guys are in such arrangements as cohabiters and marriages where they are glorified "errand boys" in Abuja (and other parts of the country). You wouldn't notice till you get closer to them or they trust you enough to reveal their pains to you.

Only a few men can play the games of manipulations that women use to manipulate women and getting resources out of them without being burnt. This goes beyond the red pill.

Women are not your friends.

luminouz:



I get you bro. It's just so hard to believe someone will leave his job and relocate because another girl said so.

On the matured women desperate for marriage issue, I don't lie to them. I tell them I'm not in for marriage. Whatever help she wants to render me,she can fuq off with it. Domineering women bore me to death. Unless I'm playing the cuckoo-in-the-nest game or I wanna fuq her for FWB sakes, I stay off such women. If they can't be humble and follow my lead, I have no use for them.

Some men like being dominated and so you are right. Others are very lazy and prefer their women to take control and provide for them. Other subsets include sick and crippled men.

My mama gave me the first redpill lesson in life. She said 'few women love you for you. There is always a benefit attached to a woman's love, something more attached to her commitment and something way more,attached to her tolerating marriage. Plain love is for fools. There is always a price'. I was just 7 years old when I heard this. I never forgot it.

SOZINN:
Let's talk about those Gs that make women drip wet when they see them.
Broke niggas making women cheat on rich guys.
Ma niggas I flow with ubunja.
You don't need money to make a girl's vayjay cry for you. It's a natural phenomenon.

There are guys that are not rich yet they are fücking girls.

I ask you
Do you want a girl that you can get with your resources or the other way round.
UB says you are wasting your time if you are not tingling that thing.
My colleague, a nigga just like me, earning 5 figures but chasing bigger dreams.
His bïtch schooling in Calabar traveled to Owerri because of that thing
U fit do am
E no give am transport money to go back ooo
E force am go back sef
A girl that is schooling
Missing you like that
U know how many dick proposals she'll be getting in a day.
Some of us are enjoying oooo

luminouz:



I get you bro. It's just so hard to believe someone will leave his job and relocate because another girl said so.

On the matured women desperate for marriage issue, I don't lie to them. I tell them I'm not in for marriage. Whatever help she wants to render me,she can fuq off with it. Domineering women bore me to death. Unless I'm playing the cuckoo-in-the-nest game or I wanna fuq her for FWB sakes, I stay off such women. If they can't be humble and follow my lead, I have no use for them.

Some men like being dominated and so you are right. Others are very lazy and prefer their women to take control and provide for them. Other subsets include sick and crippled men.

My mama gave me the first redpill lesson in life. She said 'few women love you for you. There is always a benefit attached to a woman's love, something more attached to her commitment and something way more,attached to her tolerating marriage. Plain love is for fools. There is always a price'. I was just 7 years old when I heard this. I never forgot it.

SOZINN:


SOLID!!!!
She told you when you were just seven
Men she really loves you oooo

dontai:
It's always man's fault, and which made them accidentally ......?

Rinoxy:

THE KIDS (YEAH, WE HAVE TWO ADORABLE GIRLS).

Zabiboy:


Yo bro...
I know others have given their opinion on this....but one of my main concerns is the above...
Abeg no matter what you do, create time your kids everyday man....Girls of these days need a Father figure..if you allow only your wife to do it, Get ready to be ashamed of them in the future...
Spend time with your kids, avoid any form of arguments with your wife(silence is golden), be firm in your decisions and finally, try to keep your cool..
I'm not married, but i hope this, together with other opinions suggested here helps..
GL

Degrezhaa:

Bro am lost. can you elaborate more ?

Zabiboy:


Yo bro...
I know others have given their opinion on this....but one of my main concerns is the above...
Abeg no matter what you do, create time your kids everyday man....Girls of these days need a Father figure..if you allow only your wife to do it, Get ready to be ashamed of them in the future...
Spend time with your kids, avoid any form of arguments with your wife(silence is golden), be firm in your decisions and finally, try to keep your cool..
I'm not married, but i hope this, together with other opinions suggested here helps..
GL

Rinoxy:
HELLO FELLOW RED PILLERS, I HAVE A QUESTION:
HOW DOES A MAN SHOW RED PILL TRAITS TO A WIFE WHO FEELS TOO BEAUTIFUL TO SUBMIT TO HER HUSBAND? THANKS BROTHERS.

SOZINN:

What should I elaborate

aomine:
IF WOMEN ARE HYPERGAMOUS IN NATURE MEN SHOULD BE POLYGAMOUS ALWAYS EMRACE HAVING OPTIONS THAT IS OUR POWER

AlphaAlex:
Well it’s quite simple Crush her Ego but do it subtly and sometimes intentionally if your wife doesn’t want to submit because she feels too pretty tell her straight up that she’s not the most beautiful woman in the world and she shouldn’t let her beauty get in the way of being submissive to you unless she wants to be replaced by someone more beautiful younger and more loyal. If you say these to her and don’t say another word on her submissiveness she’ll sit up .

aomine:
society have suppressed our polygamous power and increased women's hypergamous power fellow king always remember you are entitled to more than one woman nobody will shame Ned nwoko for having many wives so the key is to become so high value that you leave above opinion of society

Rinoxy:

U'RE CORRECT ON THE NEEDY PART. I WAS BEGINNING TO ASK FOR CALLS WHEN SHE GETS TO WORK, WANTING TO KNOW WHY SHE DIDN'T CALL ME, ALWAYS STRESS MYSELF TO DO STUFF FOR HER(EVEN WHEN I'M STRESSED OUT). I'VE ADVISED HER ABOUT OUR MARRIAGE UMPTEEN TIMES. AT A POINT SEF SHE SAID I SHOULD JUST STOP TALKING BEFORE I'LL GOOF AGAIN. HEHEHEHE, I DON SEE SOMETHING. MEEHN, I GO REDPILL AM TIRE. MY EYE DON CLEAR.