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I find it hilarious when ladies says most men don't/won't allow them work......I don't think I know any man who won't allow is wife work but it depends on the type of work/job.

So ladies should stop saying this... I just feel is a cheap excuse to be lazy.

Currently no man wants to marry a lady who doesn't have something doing ooo.

Nobody deserve a broke partner..... Nobody is permitted to be broke.

Note: I think there something fundamentally wrong with lot of men.
Buying a lady phone outrightly with your money is a no brainer....such a lady will never appreciate it.

Thanks for your points.

However, I know of two men who don't want their wife to work.

They'll sabotage all her efforts in looking for a job and reprimand her with the words “it is my job to provide for the family, take care of the children.” The latter is insecure that other men would talk his wife into their arms.

What I tell you is a true life story, and none of them are illiterates. Therefore, it's true; some men say it.

chatinent:
Thanks for your points.

However, I know of two men who don't want their wife to work.

They'll sabotage all her efforts in looking for a job and reprimand her with the words “its my job to provide for the family, take care of the children.” The latter is insecure that other men would talk his wife to their arms.

What I tell you is a true life story, and none of them are illiterates. Therefore, it's true; some men say it.

So this men won't allow them do trade as well!??

I don't want to believe if the wife wants to do trade or go into business they will deny them.

Note: most men won't be comfortable with the wife doing 8-5pm job when the kids are still young.

Godoverevery:
So this men won't allow them do trade as well!??

I don't want to believe if the wife wants to do trade or go into business they will deny them.

Note: most men won't be comfortable with the wife doing 8-5pm job when the kids are still young.

I think most men who disallow their wives do it due to the insecurities of extramarital affairs.

They don't want their wives to be exposed! No insult intended.

chatinent:
I think most men who disallow their wives do it due to the insecurities of extramarital affairs.

They don't want their wives to be exposed! No insult intended.

remove that most pls


Go to markets and look at the shop around who are running them??abi those women are widows and divorcée

Some men only want women to work if its in a lower paid job than the man

HappyCreative:
Some men only want women to work if its in a lower paid job than the man

I agree..but the decision is left to the woman to stay with such man or walk away.

You can't blame such men ooo.... money naturally makes people proud

From the stables of Laziness

Godoverevery:
I agree..but the decision is left to the woman to stay with such man or walk away.

You can't blame such men ooo.... money naturally makes people proud

True, I guess.

Apination:
From the stables of Laziness

Yes

HappyCreative:
True, I guess.

No woman should accept the don't work thing from her man...... she will have to depend on him for everything which is very dangerous.

It can be fearful sometimes or. The way big office holders kpansh ppl's wives in offices, u would think those women are slaves in the company. All their religious and moral upbringing will just go to the gutters.

chatinent:
I think most men who disallow their wives do it due to the insecurities of extramarital affairs.

They don't want their wives to be exposed! No insult intended.

My only reason would be my kids. My kids wont grow in the hands of maids . U can do any work if u wish bt 4pm is enough by me

fact is, women you tend to be full house wife cheat more than those working...
remember,a lazy person is a devil's workshop

Godoverevery:
No woman should accept the don't work thing from her man...... she will have to depend on him for everything which is very dangerous.

Is he not her husband again? Is he not her head again? Shouldn't she be submissive and obedient and quiet and accept whatever he says?

Are you indirectly pushing for rebellion among women who find themselves married to such men?

Sixfeetbelle:
Is he not her husband again? Is he not her head again? Shouldn't she be submissive and obedient and quiet and accept whatever he says?

Are you indirectly pushing for rebellion among women who find themselves married to such men?

I hail you ooo, husband-in charge