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Ademola47:
You're probably not in a settled mode. No insult is meant whatsoever.

This could be caused by three things..
1. You didn't really like her in the first place. May be you asked her out to fulfill your fantasy of getting her (and may be lust).
2. She was far different from what you imagined of her in terms of characters and feminine features.
3. You have a very high strong ambition and you see relationship in general as the major potential setback. You passively have no 'plan' for any lady.

None taken sir. By your words, I think I've never been in a settled all my life. May God help me

oglalasioux:
This happens to most men so let it not bother you. What you need to know is that relationship or marriage is a tough thing for a man because we easily get bored with one woman. You just need to be matured and look for other nice things in your woman apart from sex and you'll have a great relationship.

Gracias señor

GodWrites:
It's time for introspection. Have you tried the same gender? Maybe you're gay, who knows....

What the fvck man. That is fucking disgusting, mere thoughts of it is making me puke.

McSquishi:
Maybe you have some self-esteem issue where you don’t think you are good enough for anyone and so anyone who accepts your advances you can no longer respect or be attracted to because you wonder how they can be attracted to someone like you?

I don’t know, maybe consult with a therapist?

I don't think that's the issue. Buh I do seriously think I should consult one. Know any good one?
Thanks BTW

gregyboy:
Learn to beat that feelings and learn to relove that particular person everyday, if you dont now you will be messed up


And again before you go and meet a lady carefully montitor her get to see if you will get tired of her beauty easily, i believe there is a lady who her beauty you like would make you not get bored easily


If you dont beat it now, bro you will be fucking messed up

Exactly my fear. If I don't beat it now, wtf happens.
Anyways, Thanks man!

Urfavouritegirl:
Draw close to God.
Fight it spiritually

God first! A more sane approach. Perhaps, you could remember me in your prayers. I really need it.
Gracias señorita!

newuser11:
Not matured yet, I'm 26 years old bruv
If not now, then when?
It's not like I love this, it just fucking happens. I'm in a quandary here and you think I'm not mature.

yes you aren't mature yet. It is not a thing of age,it is hormonal and goes along with age.

It is kids that experience emotional swing

newuser11:
I tend to lose total interest once a girl agreed to date me.
There was this babe that u really liked, I thought finally I've found the one. I had to suffer before I got her number, then suffered a lot of indignation before she eventually turn up. Suddenly again, after dating for a measly 5 days, It happened again. She just isn't it again, I lost interest in her without even having sex with her. And this was actually a girl I went through thick and thin before she agreed to be my GF. Now, it seems she's fallen hard buh I can't continue. I'm not feeling it. I told her and she berserk, called me different sort of names. She came to my house this evening to beg, asked what she did wrong and I can't even pinpoint to a reason why I ended it coz there isn't one.
Many girls have come and gone like that. They've called me names. Some I had sex with before ending it, some I don't.
Please house, what is wrong with me? Wtf is happening to me?

PS: I've only had one relationship that lasted a little, and that was during my service year. Eventually, I ended it for no reason. I just don't feel the vibe.
This is really messing me up, HELP!

How often do you masturbate?

IlufoyeOlamife:
spiritual wife.........u better go for Deliverance

seconded something is wrong

I can relate with what op is saying. Mine is worse, because it is only when am drunk(alcohol things) that I love ladies and otherwise when am sober.

newuser11:
I don't think that's the issue. Buh I do seriously think I should consult one. Know any good one?
Thanks BTW

I’m not sure, sorry. I’m assuming you are in Nigeria, so I can’t really... Your best bet would be to Google “individual counseling + city”. Good luck with that.

newuser11:
I tend to lose total interest once a girl agreed to date me.
There was this babe that u really liked, I thought finally I've found the one. I had to suffer before I got her number, then suffered a lot of indignation before she eventually turn up. Suddenly again, after dating for a measly 5 days, It happened again. She just isn't it again, I lost interest in her without even having sex with her. And this was actually a girl I went through thick and thin before she agreed to be my GF. Now, it seems she's fallen hard buh I can't continue. I'm not feeling it. I told her and she berserk, called me different sort of names. She came to my house this evening to beg, asked what she did wrong and I can't even pinpoint to a reason why I ended it coz there isn't one.
Many girls have come and gone like that. They've called me names. Some I had sex with before ending it, some I don't.
Please house, what is wrong with me? Wtf is happening to me?

PS: I've only had one relationship that lasted a little, and that was during my service year. Eventually, I ended it for no reason. I just don't feel the vibe.
This is really messing me up, HELP!

Bro juss go for marryed women like i do. They the best. They dont give stress and truss me, they keep goo secret. I juss pay them, they meet me up in a hotel, we do our things and they out. Single women are horrible. truss me. Am banging another marryed lady next week thursday. REAL TALK!

Princeboca12:
How often do you masturbate?

Fvck NO! I've never done that before

newuser11:
What the fvck man. That is fucking disgusting, mere thoughts of it is making me puke.

See this one.. This was said by many who identify as gays today.. Maybe you're yet to find your type of guy, keep looking

You love the hunt.

Then stop dating!!

I used to be like that. Its a phase bro. It will pass.

You think, 'shebi na you be dis, I don conquer am Alfa mail'
^From the horse-mouth His woman is probably perplexed presently

More incentives to vet for mature men, not adventurous lads

newuser11:
That's not the point, the point is at a point in my life, I will get married. How do I maintain it?

Worry Not. For when ye get to that bridge, you shall cross it.

newuser11:
I tend to lose total interest once a girl agreed to date me.
There was this babe that u really liked, I thought finally I've found the one. I had to suffer before I got her number, then suffered a lot of indignation before she eventually turn up. Suddenly again, after dating for a measly 5 days, It happened again. She just isn't it again, I lost interest in her without even having sex with her. And this was actually a girl I went through thick and thin before she agreed to be my GF. Now, it seems she's fallen hard buh I can't continue. I'm not feeling it. I told her and she berserk, called me different sort of names. She came to my house this evening to beg, asked what she did wrong and I can't even pinpoint to a reason why I ended it coz there isn't one.
Many girls have come and gone like that. They've called me names. Some I had sex with before ending it, some I don't.
Please house, what is wrong with me? Wtf is happening to me?

PS: I've only had one relationship that lasted a little, and that was during my service year. Eventually, I ended it for no reason. I just don't feel the vibe.
This is really messing me up, HELP!

Spirit wife things...your real wife is pressing her remote control from the marine realm. Guy you need critical deliverance!