As a tall handsome guy I am used to attracting attention from ladies.

But lately, I am no longer finding it funny.

Man must not live by kpekus alone.

There's more to life than sex.

The problem now is most of them that come to me don't come because they love me but because I am tall and handsome.

They just like the company.

I want someone who will love me for me not for what they will get from me.

And if you're wondering, MONEY is not a problem to me.

Put me in your prayers, friends.

But to all my fellow handsome guys how do you cope with all the female attention?

Don't tell me you knack them because that's not what I'm looking for.

Companionship is more relevant to me than sex. I am not growing any younger even though I'm still young.

Handsomeness - fluency = Ugliness

You'll get used to it by the time ure my age .. still freaks you till 24 years

When you lack focus in life, you ask this kind of question.

If they are only coming after you for sex, then you still have work to do on yourself.

Till now, as a married man I have 4 married ladies that are my besties.

Our friendship started way back from secondary school where we created a study group together. Though thoughts of sex do arise, but we have already established a boundary & we stuck to it till now.

We have a forum where we gather to discuss meaningful issues including business & nothing related to sex..

EcomPlus:
When you lack focus in life, you ask this kind of question.

If they are only coming after you for sex, then you still have work to do on yourself.

Till now, as a married man I have 4 married ladies that are my besties.

Our friendship started way back from secondary school where we created a study group together. Though thoughts of sex do arise, but we have already established a boundary & we stuck to it till now.

We have a forum where we gather to discuss meaning issues including business & nothing related to sex..

Abeg where I go find this kind friends?

I need them in my life. I need people who will motivate me.

Chop, clean mouth and say bye bye.

Na the grace of God we dey take cope

Expresswriter

The answer to your question is

They are coming to have sex with you just to destroy you.

They will destroy you

siofra:


Abeg where I go find this kind friends?

I need them in my life. I need people who will motivate me.

Funny enough
All five of us were members of AG youth Dept & went to the same govt school.

The point is, know what you want for your life first of all & connect with people that have the same principles and aspirations in life.

EcomPlus:


Funny enough
All five of us were members of AG youth Dept & went to the same govt school.

The point is, know what you want for your life first of all & connect with people that have the same principles and aspirations in life.

Cool! But I'm not good at making friends, I forget people a lot. But I'll make a conscious effort, I'll try.

siofra:


Cool! But I'm not good at making friends, I forget people a lot. But I'll make a conscious effort, I'll try.

Na for church u can get those kind of friends

Decide how you want to live your life, and tell yourself no one can change it.

Well I just give them the attitude or I tell them straight ahead, I have lot of them pestering me but i just keep my distance that's all and talk less
Trust me it's not easy but you gat to do it

Peace out ✌️

JaneYave:
Handsomeness - fluency = Ugliness

From your own angle...

siofra:


Abeg where I go find this kind friends?

I need them in my life. I need people who will motivate me.

Look inward, not outward, they are all around.

na so one 26 year old lad the disturb me
i de sleep bet houz now

Expresswriter:
As a tall handsome guy I am used to attracting attention from ladies.

But lately, I am no longer finding it funny.

Man must not live by kpekus alone.

There's more to life than sex.

The problem now is most of them that come to me don't come because they love me but because I am tall and handsome.

They just like the company.

I want someone who will love me for me not for what they will get from me.

And if you're wondering, MONEY is not a problem to me.

Put me in your prayers, friends.

But to all my fellow handsome guys how do you cope with all the female attention?

Don't tell me you knack them because that's not what I'm looking for.

Companionship is more relevant to me than sex. I am not growing any younger even though I'm still young.

Post pictures make we verify your claim

SmellySperm:
Na the grace of God we dey take cope

I see.

You ignore them. That's how you cope. Ignoring the rest is easier when you choose one and stick with her, to keep body and soul together, so you won't fall into the temptation of placing them all on rotation. It takes two to play, which means you have the obligation to not play, even if they want you to.

Expresswriter:
As a tall handsome guy I am used to attracting attention from ladies.

But lately, I am no longer finding it funny.

Man must not live by kpekus alone.

There's more to life than sex.

The problem now is most of them that come to me don't come because they love me but because I am tall and handsome.

They just like the company.

I want someone who will love me for me not for what they will get from me.

And if you're wondering, MONEY is not a problem to me.

Put me in your prayers, friends.

But to all my fellow handsome guys how do you cope with all the female attention?

Don't tell me you knack them because that's not what I'm looking for.

Companionship is more relevant to me than sex. I am not growing any younger even though I'm still young.

How old are you?

if all you think is all about ladies you will end up in gutter

Expresswriter:
As a tall handsome guy I am used to attracting attention from ladies.

But lately, I am no longer finding it funny.

Man must not live by kpekus alone.

There's more to life than sex.

The problem now is most of them that come to me don't come because they love me but because I am tall and handsome.

They just like the company.

I want someone who will love me for me not for what they will get from me.

And if you're wondering, MONEY is not a problem to me.

Put me in your prayers, friends.

But to all my fellow handsome guys how do you cope with all the female attention?

Don't tell me you knack them because that's not what I'm looking for.

Companionship is more relevant to me than sex. I am not growing any younger even though I'm still young.

I must be honest. I don't see myself as very handsome though I look at mirror sometimes and admire myself very much. I mean I will look very handsome today and average tomorrow then very below average the next. Well I've gotten attention of girls from when I was young but as a shy boy I don't react. I've had situations of girls telling to my face that I'm handsome. Or fight to sit beside me(my attention).
There was a day a lady was advertising sim to I and my brother then I told her she shouldn't bother that I don't have a phone when she went, with a serious face,'as you are fine like this you don't have a phone' I replied her by asking her for direction to the place where I can be paid for my fine face.

Wizzy13:
na so one 26 year old lad the disturb me i de sleep bet houz now

Naso
Finest

UndauntedYOCA:

I see.

Yeah bro

They see me as a flirt or playboy,
I got pride too lol
Whenever i calm to chase after girls omo they f**k me up
But still i welcome those ones that like me naturally with open arms

Expresswriter:
As a tall handsome guy I am used to attracting attention from ladies.

But lately, I am no longer finding it funny.

Man must not live by kpekus alone.

There's more to life than sex.

The problem now is most of them that come to me don't come because they love me but because I am tall and handsome.

They just like the company.

I want someone who will love me for me not for what they will get from me.

And if you're wondering, MONEY is not a problem to me.

Put me in your prayers, friends.

But to all my fellow handsome guys how do you cope with all the female attention?

Don't tell me you knack them because that's not what I'm looking for.

Companionship is more relevant to me than sex. I am not growing any younger even though I'm still young.

Man, it's a huge struggle o
The regular Nigerian girl assumes every good looking guy has more than one sexual partner, an assumption the society has put in their heads which i really don't blame them for.
Regarding sex, for me i sometimes feel it's a test or trap, hence I get so bloody skeptical about the whole escapade.

LoL, I am not the too handsome guy, but I am average with this aura of charms. People naturally assumed I am a womanizer, but that's not exactly accurate. I just enjoy girls attention but I don't like having sex with many of them, I am selective when it comes to sex.

Yet non of them could upload their pics to prove their handsomeness

EcomPlus:


Till now, as a married man I have 4 married ladies that are my besties.

Our friendship started way back from secondary school where we created a study group together. Though thoughts of sex do arise, but we have already established a boundary & we stuck to it till now.

It’s a matter of time you will Bleep one or more of them. Married man having female besties should not be chastising anybody. If the girls are married I’m sure their husbands are not down with the bullshit friendship.

OP you are capping, Nigerian girls never come for just sex. No matter how good looking or wealthy you are, the average naija girl will come for commitment even if you have someone already.

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Them dey disturb una handsome bobo too I think say nah only we ugly, pot bellied humans them dey disturb ni



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pansophist:
You ignore them. That's how you cope. Ignoring the rest is easier when you choose one and stick with her, to keep body and soul together, so you won't fall into the temptation of placing them all on rotation. It takes two to play, which means you have the obligation to not play, even if they want you to.

So you be fine boy,would you let us see your face?