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I met him on a dating platform and i initiated the conversation. We got on pretty well and its been two weeks of being friends now but im not seeing any signs to show the friendship will transition into a relationship tho I've asked questions and he's not into any relationship and he hasn't mentioned that we should meet despite the fact that we communicate every day.
Im not desperate but i need a serious relationship as it is and I don't know if this friendship will transition eventually.

Percaput:
I met him on a dating platform and i initiated the conversation. We got on pretty well and its been two weeks of being friends now but im not seeing any signs to show the friendship will transition into a relationship tho I've asked questions and he's not into any relationship and he hasn't mentioned that we should meet despite the fact that we communicate every day.
Im not desperate but i need a serious relationship as it is and I don't know if this friendship will transition eventually.

You shouldn't have initiated conversation, atleast not with a Nigerian man

He maybe taking his time to know who you really are

In every sense, if you are still interested in the relationship you need to allow him chase you
Guys love to chase.... although they may not admit it

You're in a hurry. Stop chasing a man. I don't think it will end well.

Percaput:
I met him on a dating platform and i initiated the conversation. We got on pretty well and its been two weeks of being friends now but im not seeing any signs to show the friendship will transition into a relationship tho I've asked questions and he's not into any relationship and he hasn't mentioned that we should meet despite the fact that we communicate every day.
Im not desperate but i need a serious relationship as it is and I don't know if this friendship will transition eventually.

please what is the name of the dating app, let me know if I will also get my sweet heart from there as I am single

See all the ladies above reply.......if we say most of them have fish br*** they will say we hating.

Non could give an intelligent advise...I just pity there kids.

Op just know what will be will be..... if you like him pls tell him....... then after use your head.

No shame or crime telling him how you feel...

Don't listen to those babies...

Zzor:
You shouldn't have initiated conversation, atleast not with a Nigerian man

Why say that?

Daronyk:
He maybe taking his time to know who you really are

In every sense, if you are still interested in the relationship you need to allow him chase you
Guys love to chase.... although they may not admit it

I don't chase.
I've never chased.
I may like you but will never tell you until you figure it yourself.
I prefer a woman who would like/love me naturally, and not one who will pretend or forced to.
I can't risk allowing any female play with my heart while I'm trying to couple it back whole.

Percaput:
I met him on a dating platform and i initiated the conversation. We got on pretty well and its been two weeks of being friends now but im not seeing any signs to show the friendship will transition into a relationship tho I've asked questions and he's not into any relationship and he hasn't mentioned that we should meet despite the fact that we communicate every day.
Im not desperate but i need a serious relationship as it is and I don't know if this friendship will transition eventually.

Ask him if he is free this weekend. If he is, ask him out.

Pay for the date, if he is sensible or he likes you, he should at least ask for a second date.

You won't due, try it.

Kayberg:
Why say that?

Initiating a conversation with a Nigerian man is like a Viagra on their penis,they will never value that relationship no matter how they try to act civil and as the lady just be rest assured that he will see and treat you as nothing but his intimacy gadget,it is unafrican to do that as a lady and African men whether civilized or not don't truly cherish that,they only appreciate the one's they hunt before conquering.They will deny this but act in every bit of it,action they say speaks louder than voice

Zzor:
Initiating a conversation with a Nigerian man is like a Viagra on their penis,they will never value that relationship no matter how they try to act civil and as the lady just be rest assured that he will see and treat you as nothing but his intimacy gadget,it is unafrican to do that as a lady and African men whether civilized or not don't truly cherish that,they only appreciate the one's they hunt before conquering.They will deny this but act in every bit of it,action they say speaks louder than voice

Well, you may say some men and not all men.
Take note, I've heard of a successful marriage/relationship wherein the lady made the first approach.
So don't generalize.

please let him because Nigerian Girls Are Useless... All Of Them

It will always end in premium tears...

Karleb:
Ask him if he is free this weekend. If he is, ask him out.

Pay for the date, if he is sensible or he likes you, he should at least ask for a second date.

You won't due, try it.

Daronyk:
He maybe taking his time to know who you really are

In every sense, if you are still interested in the relationship you need to allow him chase you
Guys love to chase.... although they may not admit it

I'm a guy and this is not true

Thanks everyone!!
He asked to hangout yesterday and it wasn't bad..

Percaput:
Thanks everyone!!
He asked to hangout yesterday and it wasn't bad..

Good to know
May God grant you your heart desires

Cheers

Don't be too desperate. Let him continue chatting with you, zero your mind from it to avoid high BP.