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. by MrJavaS(op): 9:11pm On Mar 26, 2021*

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Re: . by DEMZEE(m): 9:15pm On Mar 26, 2021

Men and women can't be platonic friends

If u are not fucking her then u are her girlfriend

Focus on yasef dude and stop pedestalizing bitches

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Re: . by Xenry: 9:20pm On Mar 26, 2021

Another women's case, okay ooo!

Well, you should have just let the whole thing end on whatsapp instead of moving forward to Telegram.
I don't know about your female friend, but just let her be and care less about the whole situation. She has no right to be angry with you bro since you no dey fvck am— so relax.

Focus on yourself and try to learn some skills in your free time, because school is not by done and dusted, job no dey ooo, so learn skills wey go save/help your áss after school. I don talk my own ooo.

Umm, and about the other girl, abeg no bother talking to her about the whole issue when you see her offline. And if she comes up with the issue, just act as if you were offended, then sooner or later, both the girl and her friend go feel guilt and apologize.
But still, learn some skills.

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Re: . by youngtrace: 9:20pm On Mar 26, 2021

Bros, I don't even date girls anymore, but I bang on a regular!
All these dating relationships aren't worth it! Save your pocket and your emotions please.

Girls them too cheap and disloyal! You don't need to date before banging!

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Re: . by mumumugu(m): 9:27pm On Mar 26, 2021

She just discovered you have a small boy mentality and is ashamed of herself for associating with you

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Re: . by fait10(m): 9:30pm On Mar 26, 2021

i will still mention it be serious with your book boy.

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Re: . by Xenry: 9:32pm On Mar 26, 2021

Xenry:
Another women's case, okay ooo!
Well, you should have just let the whole thing end on whatsapp instead of moving forward to Telegram.
I don't know about your female friend, but just let her be and care less about the whole situation. She has no right to be angry with you bro since you no dey fvck am— so relax.
Focus on yourself and try to learn some skills in your free time, because school is not by done and dusted, job no dey ooo, so learn skills wey go save/help your áss after school. I don talk my own ooo.
Umm, and about the other girl, abeg no bother talking to her about the whole issue when you see her offline. And if she comes up with the issue, just act as if you were offended, then sooner or later, both the girl and her friend go feel guilt and apologize.
But still, learn some skills.

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Re: . by Ahmed0336(m): 9:35pm On Mar 26, 2021

Oga, Face your studies.

No bi woman matter carry you go school.

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Re: . by merieam16(f): 9:47pm On Mar 26, 2021

Lolzz....the comments above tho

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Re: . by anthonyuncle(m): 9:54pm On Mar 26, 2021

did you mention her friend's name to her

Re: . by Nobody: 9:58pm On Mar 26, 2021

Op na tatafo....he doesn't know how to talk himself out of a bad situation without implicating another person.

in other words....op is a snitch, a talkative and not to be trusted with secrets.

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Re: . by Nobody: 10:03pm On Mar 26, 2021

And, op is a f*cking SIMP

Imagine begging a vagina for relationship.......this nigga needs to be drugged with redpills angry

Don't force yourself on these creatures.......the bitch blocked ur ass on whatsapp nd u went to telegram to beg her - nigga, are you mahd!!

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Re: . by baralatie(m): 10:06pm On Mar 26, 2021

mumumugu:
She just discovered you have a small boy mentality and is ashamed of herself for associating with you

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Re: . by baralatie(m): 10:06pm On Mar 26, 2021

Catfishing:
Op na tatafo....he doesn't know how to talk himself out of a bad situation without implicating another person.

in other words....op is a snitch, a talkative and not to be trusted with secrets.

not that far nau

Re: . by baralatie(m): 10:09pm On Mar 26, 2021

Ahmed0336:
Oga, Face your studies.

No bi woman matter carry you go school.

somebody who has been writing carryover course in girlfriend and contacts 101 since year one!

some guys are not finding the course easy o

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Re: . by baralatie(m): 10:10pm On Mar 26, 2021

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

2.5 a high gpa na

Re: . by Lessonteacher(f): 10:13pm On Mar 26, 2021

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

matters like this don't deserve serious attention

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Re: . by Nobody: 10:14pm On Mar 26, 2021*

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

U Fvck Up. U Just Acted Like A Woman Wrapper. U Should Be Able To Handle Things Like Dis Smartly. She Told U Not To Mention Her But U Did. Why? U Should Be Smart Enough To Runs D Girl Successfully Without Involving Ur Female Friend. If U Had Played Ur Card Well, She Won't Av Blocked U.

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Re: . by Makaveli217(m): 10:21pm On Mar 26, 2021

Can't you guys just learn to do without girls for once, will you die huh

You must not befriend every girl you meet.
Have some respect for yourself.

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Re: . by Makaveli217(m): 10:23pm On Mar 26, 2021

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

Can't you guys just learn to do without girls for once, will you die You must not befriend every girl you meet.
Have some respect for yourself.

Re: . by MrJavaS(op): 10:26pm On Mar 26, 2021

Xenry:
Another women's case, okay ooo!
Well, you should have just let the whole thing end on whatsapp instead of moving forward to Telegram.
I don't know about your female friend, but just let her be and care less about the whole situation. She has no right to be angry with you bro since you no dey fvck am— so relax.
Focus on yourself and try to learn some skills in your free time, because school is not by done and dusted, job no dey ooo, so learn skills wey go save/help your áss after school. I don talk my own ooo.
Umm, and about the other girl, abeg no bother talking to her about the whole issue when you see her offline. And if she comes up with the issue, just act as if you were offended, then sooner or later, both the girl and her friend go feel guilt and apologize.
But still, learn some skills.

The girl is in a different department. I don't know her in person though.

Re: . by MrJavaS(op): 10:27pm On Mar 26, 2021

anthonyuncle:
did you mention her friend's name to her

I did that because I thought it's necessary for her to trust me. She wouldn't see me as a total stranger

Re: . by Blackaxe16(m): 10:30pm On Mar 26, 2021

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

you really betray her.... must u mention name....

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Re: . by MrJavaS(op): 10:32pm On Mar 26, 2021

The friends just keep staring at me during lecture's with some contempt...when I talk to them they don't reply.....so I ignored them all

Re: . by MrJavaS(op): 10:33pm On Mar 26, 2021

Blackaxe16:
you really betray her.... must u mention name....

I knew it. But I thought it was a necessary step for the girl to have some trust in me.

Re: . by anthonyuncle(m): 10:46pm On Mar 26, 2021

MrJavaS:
I did that because I thought it's necessary for her to trust me. She wouldn't see me as a total stranger

that is the mistake you did.

it is obvious it caused problems between them

Re: . by flokii: 10:51pm On Mar 26, 2021

She gave you a condition not to tell the girl who gave you her contact, yet you went ahead to tell her.. what kind of person are you really?

So if by chance she gives you her kp0mo chop, that's how you'll be broadcasting around as per radio Nigeria wey you be.

Just give the girl space, if she still wants the friendship, she'd come around but I doubt if she'll ever trust you with anything again.

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Re: . by talk2hb1(m): 11:11pm On Mar 26, 2021

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

Boy, she is just using you to catch warm cruise.
She will leave you alone, because you are of less use to her by then. Moko below be say, face your study

Re: . by Nobody: 11:23pm On Mar 26, 2021

Ur Bestie is angry with u, and u are seeking advice from us? That means if ur wife becomes angry with u, u will tell us to come beg am abi?? To slap this guy just dey hungry me

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Re: . by Kobicove(m): 1:36am On Mar 27, 2021

MrJavaS:
The friends just keep staring at me during lecture's with some contempt...when I talk to them they don't reply.....so I ignored them all

Why did you tell her it was her friend who gave you her phone number? undecided

Let to keep confidential info!

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Re: . by Nobody: 5:02am On Mar 27, 2021

I'm assuming you told her you got her number from your friend to get on her good side after she blocked you. If you had to sell out your friend like that....

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Re: . by SmithRussell(m): 5:42am On Mar 27, 2021

MrJavaS:
I knew it. But I thought it was a necessary step for the girl to have some trust in me.

That’s where you fvcked up. If you can’t bypass that question, how did you get my contact, you never learn nothing

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