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Op the marriage dey last for your area? Such girls will get married, before you know,they are back to the street . Them go come dey form dirty feminist

budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.

Not sour grapes. Try and be intellectual a bit. He observed something, saw a pattern, made an hypothesis. You are here talking like the typical bitter cynical Nigerian that don't apply sense to issues.

wpadmin:
Didn't say I did.

Even if I did, they are not for keeps.

Not for keeps? Now, aren't you one of the reason why this runs business thrives? You are not without sin, so don't throw stones/judge.

Prodigee:
Bros na so life be o! E no just balance.

Aje

budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.

It's very obvious you don't understand what he's saying

But who are you to determine who deserves what? You have a high opinion of yourself.

Nigerians and amebo. What's your business if a sexually active lady is getting married? Do you know how many girls the guy has slept with? It's none of your business if a woman decides to have as many sexual partners as she likes ok

purples25:
But who are you to determine who deserves what? You have a high opinion of yourself.

If you are about to get married to a pedophile (someone that has sexual urges on little children) and someone else has seen him looking lustfully at a kid before...

Do you deserve to be married to such person?

Will you appreciate someone who tells you things to observe before getting married to such person?

As a rich parent, will you let your daughter get married to someone that borrows things to impress ladies just to get married to your daughter from a rich home.

Anything that happens to us is based on decisions we take.

LadyTiannah2:
Nigerians and amebo. What's your business if a sexually active lady is getting married? Do you know how many girls the guy has slept with? It's none of your business if a woman decides to have as many sexual partners as she likes ok

Alright.

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

^^story

Bro we dont under stand..so r u sayin u dont eat pu555555y or u will never eat pu5555555y? ..why noy sir?

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Kayamata dey oo

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

Ok

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

Of course you understand that everything in Nigeria is back to front? What is nonsense in saner environments makes sense here. We too like bad bad things and bad people for this country. Normal people are too boring for use. We love madness and dysfunction. Na so e be. So this your "eating your cake and having it", na for 9ja e end o.

gfon:
still read this statement again,does it make sense to you?

I even tried reading it backwards...

still made no sense to me

wpadmin:
If you are about to get married to a pedophile (someone that has sexual urges on little children) and someone else has seen him looking lustfully at a kid before...

Do you deserve to be married to such person?

Will you appreciate someone who tells you things to observe before getting married to such person?

As a rich parent, will you let your daughter get married to someone that borrows things to impress ladies just to get married to your daughter from a rich home.

Anything that happens to us is based on decisions we take.

Are you seriously equating promiscuity with pedophilia?

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PrimadonnaO:
It's only online that men wail. In real life, they're desperately chasing babes, and looking for the one that will stay. In real life, one babe is pressing their mumu button.

The difference between those babes you call wayward, and those "good" girls is that the former has more experience in relating with men. They know what to do to get what they want, how to press the buttons.

The "good" girls simply let things happen...

So when the men see the babes that are very amenable, willing to stay, and doing the things they like, they marry.

And, really, y'all need to understand that not everyone who got married, married right...or are happy in that marriage.

So all these talks about "bad" girls getting the best men, I don't know where y'all get that from. Do you live with them in their homes?

And this is what I know, too... most people ultimately end up with who they deserve. Like attracts like. It's not everything you see outwardly.

Well said. A lot of these wailings no dey cross cyberspace. Men will marry who they want and when they want. If it would work is story for another day.

Ultimately, people need to understand that their definition of good women is theirs. That a girl goes to club, takes alcohol or is a feminist wouldn’t automatically make her bad to every marriageable man. So if you see them getting married, rather than convince yourselves that another bad girl is getting married to a “quality guy”- draw close to her and ask what happened. You can give the tips to you virtuous-single-sister.

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

It's called experience. While I don't advocate for this life, these runs ladies have dated several men and gained experience of what men desire. So they are able to easily fill that role, unlike good girls who are new recruits and require training.

Most men are not ready to lead by example. They want a girl who gets married life things right the first time. No mistakes. And this can only be gotten through experience.

This isn't just a Nigerian thing. It happens everywhere.

Bad girls attracts Good boys and Bad boys attracts Good girls.

I guess opposites really do attract.

Sugarless cake

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

Please NO to premarital sex. How would expect the unlucky guy to know

Drag a girl to the hospital for medical checkups before marriage though. You ll be surprised the whole lot of information that can be revealed.

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budaatum:
Can I not be however I want to be?

I mean, it's not as if you pay for my data nor am I your slave that you get to tell me how I must be, or am I?

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SHUT UP!

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

And the stone which the building rejected shall be the corner stone. so said the Holy book.

Your last sentence is proof that you read what you wanted to read and not what was written.

It's also troubling that what you wrote above that was rather off point because you erroneously implied that the men know the girls are runs girls while OP never claimed so.

I am a man and I haven't yet met any man that says he is looking for a wife that was a hoe. A woman who has 400 phone numbers of men that have banged her over the past 8 yrs.

A man that is glad that on his wedding day 20 men that have banged his wife attended.

Maybe you know one such man.

Juliearth:
Men marry for stability. Stability is relative per person. If a man settles for a runs girl, that is because he feels she can provide him with the kind of stability that he needs. It clear that you know what you want as it pertains to women and marriage. The same way its clear to you may be the same way that it it clear to the man next door. In essence, I would say line and let live!


You screwed and unscrewed a runs girl? It means they appeal to you as well.

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Impossible, you can not eat your cake and have it.

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

one of my course mate flex for school, she date whitey, she marry rich guy, 5 years down the road she don dey post her children as the only thing to focus on, say if she get opportunity she no go renew her marriage certificate Karma is real, forget how motivational speaker's go want to tell you otherwise