Susily:


He used the hashtag #savenigeria, that tripped me so bad and I couldn't stop laughing

He already posted twice today regarding Nigeria. This one probably “offed” him.

That video is/was a disgrace.

Drenimarcus:
The guy behind this church handle always kills me

The simps in Nigeria are back at it?? ..Christ don't still get it.. Be putting us in the news for no reason!!

Drenimarcus:


He already posted twice today regarding Nigeria. This one probably “offed” him.
That video is/was a disgrace.

I sweeeaeer cracked me real good!!

DAY 94, REDPILL 2021

Profoundness or depth in knowledge should be as a result of experience, observable patterns, logical exploration and results. Depth isn't born out of experiencing different emotional bandwidths. Emotions are subjective and cannot be use to ascertain quality results. Women are products of the later which made them usually give inappropriate advice---relationship advise most especially.

Hence, men are deemed fit to handle tough and critical issues because they've been sullen by experience in the open field and bears the scars of each struggle. Their experience are wild and objective because like their ancestors they stepped into the wild to fight ferocious beasts while women stayed at home.

Men fight war to victory; women ease the pain of the war after victory. If there's an anachronism of this order, there will be chaos. Therefore, don't expect women to lead.

Authority: Men must take the lead.

luminouz:


You killed me with two sentences in your post.


1. I love this particular girl in my school.

What dafuq is LOVE? Men simply won't get it. When you let your emotions crowd your thinking and think it's love, then you find out,it's just like. Ain't nothing like love. If there is, the thought of another dick slamming her for 2 years while you reminiscence and daydream about her should be enough frustration to make you commit murder(kill the bf) or suicide(kill yourself). So you don't LOVE her.
That is your number one lesson.



2. This particular girl has been on my mind for 2 YEARS(or did you mean 2months?) or what dafuq did I just read?

So for 2 whole years, you never saw any high standard babe but HER? That's kinda weird. Get outside and you will see Tons of women who are higher valued than her.
Why on earth would you wanna snatch her from her man? Shows you are emotionally vulnerable and suffering from oneitis syndrome. It almost never ends well.

N.B: if that babe wants you, you don't need to even say much. It's never up to you bro. If she wants to leave that dude, she will. But then, what makes you think she won't leave you too. If she ain't loyal to her bf, she won't be loyal to you. Get that now so your heart won't literally enter a sharpbend with heartbreak.

Special Announcement:
Going through my gf's phone way back showed me that some men can't be saved. She showed me herself. This girl would practically tell these dudes she has a guy and is not interested in any relationship with them. These hommies won't listen but keep begging. One swore to give her everything she wants. Another said, he was comfortable being the side dude. Yet another advised her to cheat, saying all men cheat, so she should be open to other dicks too. I have read some really miserable shiits in my life and those chats rank among the top 1%. The most annoying ones are those who sends poems and love quotes. I mean, WTF!!! Are you 12? Others will beg and beg and beg and I feel like crying for these dudes. I keep wondering why these dudes can't just see that no woman will ever love or respect a man who BEGS for her love? If she ever agrees to date you, it's to leech you as a plan or option B. Crying and begging a woman shows you overpriced her above your own value and while that will soothe her ego, it will lessen yours and make you look weak. Women don't love weak men,no matter how much they scream about wanting a gentleman.

I had to hand over the phone to her because I couldn't even stomach the chats anymore. It was that bad I swear. I don't understand why a man will willingly degrade himself like that. I don talk Taya but it seems some men have blocked inner ears or diaphragm or vocal cord or cerebrum. They won't ever listen to you and even after being burnt, they still have that perfect love BS mentality in their brains.

Today is a new week. Make I just no vex biko. Happy Easter Pillers. Do please endeavour to share food for your male friends and neighbors. Many are going through hell but afraid of being looked down upon as a beggar. Nobody dey reason men matter, so let's help one another. Share the love y'all

thanks you so much luminouz, you've been of immense help since this thread started. I'll forget about that girl.

TheExclusive:


She does not want to put all her eggs in one basket. I also do not think it's a good sign for you.

in that case, I'll forget about her. Thank you so much

Ilekokonit:


The signs are not good at all. She already told you she has a boyfriend. if she agrees to date you, she will be sleeping with the 2 of you at the same time and she will turn round and tell you that she already warned you that she had a boyfriend.

Trust me, by the time she breaks your heart which she will do, you will be forced to find that inner strength to get her out of your mind . In fact you will end up avoiding her when she shows you her true color.

Since she is flirting with you whilst she already has a boyfriend it means she is greedy and she will cheat on you too with another guy . Its her nature.

Thanks alot bro. I'm just seeing this clearly. She seemed very decent but from this thread. I know what women can do. I'll keep her out of my life

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poncedeleon:

Lol. i dont really know why she wanted to continue the marriage.it obvoius no love from both side.
she was very smart and intelligent with her manipulation though.

Why won't she continue with the marriage when she is the one in charge ? The simp of a husband is no match for her manipulation,intelligent and brutness.

She knows this, their lawyer knows this. The police detective (woman) this and even the simp of a husband knows this as well.

Sharpbend:
thanks you so much luminouz, you've been of immense help since this thread started. I'll forget about that girl.

Spread your tentacles bro. Go out and believe me,you will see better girls.

The girl you are pinning for is collecting Easter dicking as we speak. She may be nice to you but she ain't yours. No need breaking up her relationship to a fellow guy. Just have an abundance mindset and open your mind to new possibilities. You will see that better girls are out there. Have you any idea of how many girls we have in this country? Dem plenty die. High standard girls that don't even have bf plenty. Why? They are looking for high standard dudes like you. I like the fact that you know what you want in a woman. Trust me, there are girls out there for you.

Do these things and you will look back in 3 months time and realise better girls dey out there.

luminouz:


Spread your tentacles bro. Go out and believe me,you will see better girls.

The girl you are pinning for is collecting Easter dicking as we speak. She may be nice to you but she ain't yours. No need breaking up her relationship to a fellow guy. Just have an abundance mindset and open your mind to new possibilities. You will see that better girls are out there. Have you any idea of how many girls we have in this country? Dem plenty die. High standard girls that don't even have bf plenty. Why? They are looking for high standard dudes like you. I like the fact that you know what you want in a woman. Trust me, there are girls out there for you.

Do these things and you will look back in 3 months time and realise better girls dey out there.

Thanks alot bro. I'll keep these to heart

Drenimarcus:
The guy behind this church handle always kills me

I think Naija has d highest number of simpanzeez in d world..

IHate9jerianss:
Now I have seen everything,a pro-marriage manosphere thread
Anything involving Nigerians must always have k-leg
Always talking the talk but never willing to walk it

I don't want to make this long but it maybe!!

Well I don't think there is any misunderstanding in any sense and we might realize that concepts are territorial. We should take the central piece of

I say this because the essence of the redpill is unraveling and revealing the mysteries behind male and female dynamics, how to communicate between the sexes, understanding frame in the essence of not just between the male and female but between males too, in your work place between your boss and how he relates with not just his employees, but his business associates, in all, looking, being and chasing excellence by at being a competent being, A MAN in the truest sense of the word, the knowledge is about men pursuing their PURPOSE, not being ashamed of being men, a concept which society has so much tried to make us disdain, not afraid of setting boundaries, putting yourself first, being someone to reckon with and when you come to that realization you then realize that the whole idea is basically SELF Improvement .

That's why once you have been disvrigined of your blue pill context you realize that this can be applied in Every thing you now do. You understand female conversations not because you won't be rejected or made a fool of but you understand the context with which female communicate, females are emotional men are supposed to be logical.

What did Vito Corleone say about Men?? Women and kids are allowed to make mistakes , but not men.


Now back to Africa, Nigeria in particular, I still believe Nigeria is largely still patriarchal, and for those who grew up with traditional men and thought your fathers were harsh are now beginning to realize that they knew what they were doing.

If I understand anything about the pill, it is about building value as a man, and bringing in people say wife and kids into that frame, that's why some families are strong because the fathers are grounded.

Now to marriage laws, you can't compare Nigerian laws to that of the Western world, the idea behind the red pill advocating against marriage is that even after most men get the knowledge they forget that women are not what we think them to be hence they forget to protect themselves, thus most marriages lead to divorces, and because the laws are feminine in nature the men get to spilt with half of their possessions which leaves most men broken.

So issue is after all the hustle, society and the laws protect women after all, but in the general sense the law protects the spouse that has more and so upon the split the spouse with less usually smiles more, hence the issue who in average home will earn more? It is the males that do, thus since most females are the ones to initiate divorces, they usually leave with most of the assets.


Now in Nigeria our laws are not structured in that way thus that scare is not really there compared with the Western world, matter of fact our women not the new age seeking liberalization bimbos though seek the security of marriage than the men and so they won't even contemplate it. The news of women even the so called celebrities who are presently undergoing torrid situations or even receiving beatings nut simply because the man is well to do, and still stick is still very rampant in Nigeria, at least you won't say that this is something you're not aware of.


I will say in sense that red pill is about frame. FRame and nothing more, which spills into making men out of boys. Enjoying your self, being the best version of you, I think anyone who goes into a marriage with the sense of his own individuality will be seeking to improve that and there's no how you will get it wrong. The laws are not against him, just be a better man, in all sense of the word.

In my dad's words just be a "Man" but you see the trick is to understand what that means and that's why you have the community.. and the varied knowledge that the red pill enlightenment books are preaching.


I think another very important aspect that's neglected is our spirituality, yes knowledge of the redpill is important but any man In touch with his spiritual side is a powerful being. Christianity is basic, Paul was very straight about the position of the man and woman, it's The Man first and the lady 2nd.

I still believe (till better logic beats this), any lady who doesn't actually really believe in God and is exposed to this worldly teachings especially in our age of social media and all, will not be submissive no matter how cultured, spirituality tames and that's pertinent for any home to thrive sir.

What does the Proverbs say??
He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls. A man complete in this can in Nigeria get manage his home.


Any man who is able to acheive this will run his home, at least he has no laws that make him think otherwise.

Red pill knowledge is not Cast in stone, apply it the best way you deem fit.

Other resources for further enlightenment are:

The Godfather (for all men) I think everything Puzo wrote should be read!!
Foools Die
Rationale Male (Positive Masculinity)
Way of the superior Man
No more Mr. nice Guy!!


Shows like

Married with Children (I just discovered is gold)

Here are the top 3 simps in the world
1. Naija
2. Zim
3 SA

Saviolamemphix:
I think Naija has d highest number of simpanzeez in d world..

Do you know? Every successful person builds passive income. They Focus On their Self Not on women. Monk Mode has been saving me for 2 years now.
Thanks To the REDPILL. I can't forget 2019.

Wtf is this

If a woman believes you're keeping her around because you believe you can't get another woman, you're finished bro. Always have a steady spinning my brothers.

Feminists never know what they're talking about, it's why they never have any facts or evidence to back up their claims because they're delusional and don't live in the real world. They want to claim men are privileged and we live in patriarchy when what's privilege about getting falsely accused of something you didn't do, looked at as a bad person just because of your gender, getting hated for having your own opinion the list goes on. So if you ever see a feminist make a post and they turn off the comments or have them limited it's because they have nothing to back it up with and are afraid of getting called out.

A lot of you would have got byline and live a comfortable life with the money you're making now.
The issue is that you guys buy stuff for the sake of impressing people you don't even like, or for women who never liked you in the first place.

Changing your financial status actually starts with having the mindset of the rich.
Once you get your mindset right things will start to fall in place.
Mindset is everything.

How does one acquire that mindset?

There are many ways you can but here are a few that have worked for me.
1. Reading and implementing Insightful and valuable books on personal development and wealth creation.
2. Be intentional about your thought always, eliminate negative thinking as soon as possible.
3. Workout

'When you put a girl on a pedestal, don't be surprised when she looks down on you from that pedestal'.

Naijahops:


How does one acquire that mindset?

There are many ways you can but here are a few that have worked for me.
1. Reading and implementing Insightful and valuable books on personal development and wealth creation.
2. Be intentional about your thought always, eliminate negative thinking as soon as possible.
3. Workout

- Let me add to this beautiful writeup. Starting with your number one, that's very important. Sadly, people don't know the importance of that.

- Working out as you've stated in number 3, is very important. Most people have never engaged in any form of exercise for once. It's not necessarily to impress someone, develop abs or 6 packs but to stay fit and sharp.

- Stop watching porn, it's very dangerous and highly addictive. Start by teaching your brain to do away with it. Porn reduces the ability to engage in critical thinking and makes it harder for you to focus. Porn changes how you view things. Porn is interrelated with masturbation. Stop porn and you'll have no problem with masturbation. If possible, stay away from people whose discussion is mainly on sex, drugs, porn, women, alcohol etcetera.

- Move with winners and people who motivate you, stay away from losers.

- Learn a skill you can monetize. Use your free time to learn a skill online. YouTube is there for you.

- Don't work hard just because you want to impress someone or the girl that rejected you, work hard to improve your situation. Be willing to take risks too.

- Healthy eating is very important too. Stay away from junk foods and sugary things. Eat more vegetables and fruits. Eat well, rest well.

- You can't find happiness in having a girlfriend if you're not happy being alone.

You can add to it.

For MGTOW

Orpazpjr:


Great thread!!
This is the anthem, but then who vex GAme na... It's important those lyrics burn into your subconscious...

I've just been introspecting and I think growing up I had a mental image of what and who a woman or the female specie is or was, now the problem with that is changing the mindset that these pictures that's now imprinted in the mind ain't the real deal, rather than think women as harmless creatures, consequent actions and engaging them has proven otherwise and this seems the problem most guys have.

Changing their mindset as to what is and now what it ought to be or even what we thought It was.

Imagine the concept of which I am now picking, as a rule, with men logic is the way to go. But with them it isn't .. it's all backward as OP or a great dude pointed out.

So like other guy yet to figure this out, you ask yourself why should you treat a girl nice and she rebels but treat her bad and she is awwed, like who's this guy??

I struggled a bit with this, but then slowly chewing on it, I realized it's an image thing... I mean she has had this image of herself where she's saintly and all and like Ubunju pointed out in one of his posts, reputation is key for the female folk.

So a random guy negs her and she can't believe that some one doesn't see her in the same light and thus she's intrigued and wants to know who the fxckk the homeboy is and because she is so use to being claded with praises and all the nonsense shenanigans...and all she struggles to understand why this one person thinks otherwise.

I imagine we watched how Trump tamed Kelly of Fox. After consistently bashing her for years, he eventually comes in her show and she displays a very unlikely image to Trump, I was confused but then she couldn't help it, the guy from time didn't care about her and the moment he said something nice about her, she couldn't help her self ..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PFfU8x_66I


Hence same thing with ourselves and the issue if self image, lots of people don't think much of themselves and struggle to see what good could come from them and from my recent education this is worst for the female folks.

So the guy who is able to GET that imprinted in his head of which I have seen many senior men on these thread apply over time, once can HURT that Halo image she has of herself then your good... Ever told a girl she has something in her head, face or where only you can see and watch how instinctively they react, most times most get out their phones or mirror to confirm and even when your joking they almost want to be certain that you weren't, hence they ask the next girl they meet and all.

So maybe or maybe not if guys understand like GLy pointed out that psychology is the name of the female game then we will be good inclusive of meself.

And same goes to our need for self improvement, I have struggled in this department simply because my ego am now realizing is my biggest problem... How?? Well sometimes u think you got something when all you needed to do was prepare more and assume less. So it's my image I need to tame or hurt in order to learn and grow forward..


I remember before the Ryan Garcia v Cool Hands fight, Teofimo Dad while communicating with Eddie Hearn told him he can win, but the problem is he is a loser(mentally)!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-0lelJuins

Or the Gridigron gang movie where the Rock tells one of the players, "you just not used to winning"..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=blwlnjVdD44

So in a nutshell, it's mental guys.. if we lock up the mental no lady, i mean not one of them will get to us! Why?? You already know what to expect from them so?? Their biggest weapon is words, it's words, guys ... Like I mean it's that emotional blackmail that scares the shit out me .. why like someone stated the world we living now just needs a woman to say something a ND the guy's reputation is soiled.

Case in point, as much as I haTe it the Timi Dakolos wife incident, I mean the world sucked the lady's dicxk just because she said it happened.. I am certain not many guys sat back and assesed the story. . I am not upholding rape hope you get... But was it logical??


Oya Amber heard nko?? So it's women's words that we are fighting against ... fucxxkkxxed but then until the truth came out.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_XOf43VV8w

Depp even lost sponsorship and labelled wife beater, because the world like homies have pointed are catering more to the women ishes than men's.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbzR2-gpOU0

Classic examples of how women's words have destroyed families based she said it!! The bitvchh literally Lied against the man for rape and rather than accept responsibility she turns and ask why didn't you fight harder?? GtFoh... Tf ... Like we have beautiful demons as our companions.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_CP8sIC-8U

Women used words to fight, like they can say the most inhumane thing and you know you feel it deep within you...


You know when you wanna bash the woman nature and some one says, but your mother and sister are women ooo!!! Before I will be like what stupid manipulation be this, but the moment you tell the lady yes, including them .. she literally shuts up and that happened on this thread!! It was a classic and what else do you have ??

I am not against Women I mean I love them but hate their nature ,but still with the education I am getting now for lots of sources, I think its going to fun!!

With them it's image... Hurt it and you have her...


But then let's build ourselves, fight our demons and come out better.. our families need strong make figures to lead and being better is our own way of thanking God and making the most of our existence!!

Cheers

. Till otherwise proven this is my 3cents

I tried to like this a thousand times but not possible, but be aware, your post have that thousands in my heart.

Sharpbend:
Guys please I need answers

I love this particular beautiful girl in my school. I'm in 300 level and she's in 500 level. She seem to be the standard I look for in a girl. We met up and she was all nice and really friendly. I made her laugh all through the time we spent talking that day.

Now the problem is that while she tried to make an explanation while we were talking, she mentioned that she's in a relationship. She talked about what the guy does for a living. I played deaf to that though and didn't reference to it again.

I feel she doesn't love the guy or something. Because all through the time we chatted prior to our meetup, she never mentioned anything about her being in a relationship.

Also, she agreed to meet up with me, she even told me that we should meet up more often.

Now I don't know if I should still press on and snatch her from the said relationship or I should just forget about it.

Would it be right to confess my feelings for her even though I know she's in a relationship?


PS: I have never being in a relationship before not because I didn't have numerous girls throw themselves at me but I'm really high standard and I all of them didn't resonate my interest but this particular girl has been on mind for over 2 years and I have tried getting her out. It has been simply impossible.

Don't snatch her. Just eat your own. Same thing she told you, she told several others.

She just wanted you to know you shouldn't ask for more as she is already in a relationship.

And if you still go ahead to snatch her and be successful with it, someone else will still do same. She is an open source.... It's for the streets not a one man's meal.

Chop and don't feel entitled.. that is the silent message she is trying to pass.

SEX AND MARRIAGE

Men that marry because of sex end up being frustrated. It is evident in threads on FP where men cry how their wives do not give them sex.

Marriage is not a sex guarantee.

Most beta males devoid of sex are of the expectation that in marriage, there is freedom to have sex anytime, anywhere and try on new techniques. Must end up getting frustrated at the end. For the marriage end up not being as rosy as it seems.

A man was complaining that his wife do not want him to do doggy style, she only allows him do missionary and he is bored. Another was complaining his wife doesn't give him sex only to find out she was cheating on him.

The best sex a man can have is beyond the confines of marriage for there is no holds barred.

Take the case of campus marriage. A lady will stay in a room with a guy and bang the dude everyday for a month despite lectures but will complain to her husband that he wants too much sex. She is very tired and can't handle his sexual urge.

80% of Men are sexually attracted to women they marry but 80% of women are not sexually attracted to men they marry.

When the desirable is not available the available become desirable.

Many Women marry one who is ready not whom they love. They love the fvck boys, the bad guys, the guy that can bang her well but because her parents as well as society will not like a guy with a mohawk or dreadlocks hairstyle she will go for a guy that dress responsibly and is ready for marriage.

Women date who they love and marry who love them.
The guys they love are who they end up fvcking while the ones they don't love are the one's they end up marrying.


cc
Dpsychologist

bobowaja:

Don't snatch her. Just eat your own. Same thing she told you, she told several others.

She just wanted you to know you shouldn't ask for more as she is already in a relationship.

And if you still go ahead to snatch her and be successful with it, someone else will still do same. She is an open source.... It's for the streets not a one man's meal.

Chop and don't feel entitled.. that is the silent message she is trying to pass.

I perfectly understand. Thank you so much

CONCEPT OF LOVE
What is often forgotten is that until quite recently marriage and relationships were a pragmatic decision often made by the families of the couple, not the couple itself.
The concept of love based on emotions is beneficial to women. Man is weak when emotional as such he will be willing to do anything.
Women use sex to get what they want from men… but since sex is often a temporary thing as in a one-on/one-off situation. Women needed a more permanent/ long-term solution.
The reason why women need men to fall in love is because “in the name of love” men will DO THE 3S’ (SHARE, SACRIFICE, SUPPORT).

Men will SHARE their time, wealth, resources and wisdom… voluntarily SACRIFICE their hobbies, friends, opinions and dreams, even their very safety and security and SUPPORT her materialistic lifestyle.

Sure I can list many others but you get the point. When a man falls in love he will beg, borrow, steal and kill for his woman… this is why women push love over sex… because sex is just a physical thing, so after the sex, you’re gone… but love, love is an emotional thing, lasting much, much longer..it’s the thing that makes you stay and pay her way.

At best, women can ONLY love a man conditionally. Unconditional love is only reserved for her child, never the man.

Love is the greatest tool a woman has in her “Trifecta,” to control and manipulate a man (the other two being sex and deception).


cc
Dpsychologist

We can't really say. But i think our guys take simping to a whole new level.

The problem is lack of understanding, and as I've observed from time to time, a lack of self esteem.

In addition to the horrible social norms that they have been brainwashed with.

As i type, one of our unwise brothers is validating a girl he doesn't know jack about on Instagram. Some may be dumping their money on pointless Anonymous, until it gets red.

Most of us here, if not all may have made similar mistakes. We can only hope more men get smarter.

Saviolamemphix:
I think Naija has d highest number of simpanzeez in d world..

WHAT WOMEN DO #2

Size Up Other Women

Here's something observation has taught me, as i enjoy studying human behaviour real-time.

Women just by looking, size up other women - often to gauge their own worth.

I can't tell you how many times I've seen a woman scope another woman's body - to the most intimate of parts, especially if the lady being viewed is more attractive and fits the hourglass figure better than she does - it's sexual harassment when a man does it.

Besides body analysis, the centre of focus could be how well achieved the woman being viewed is.

In doing so, they can do the following:

- Analyse themselves and try to match up to that woman's standard.

- Bad mouth the better looking/higher achieving woman, or belittle her physically/mentally.


The point is, a lot of women have more insecurities than you think and war with other women at the very foundation of the mind.

So, many would reinvent themselves. Wear make up to hide about everything on the face. Wear high heels to nullify being short, a lot of times because they want to meet up to a standard - and yes, they'd deny claims of trying to impress.

As a man, don't play too much mental games with your insecurities. Work on your strengths, don't hide your insecurities, deal with them and move on.

Still on insecurities. I have long being a shy person but by reinventing myself, i can speak more confidently in public.

One very common advice i have seen some guys receive from women on social life, dating, business etc, is to be themselves.

In many ways, women are not doing that and do not take that approach to deal with insecurities.

A desperate woman probably with a long sexual history and looking for marriage reinvents herself to be an ideal wife material just to get wifed. On social media, ladies portray the same beauty standards they kick against, many times for attention and money. Let me not even start with those that patronise butt lifts, pushup bras and the likes.

Bottom line, ladies know how to recreate themselves and get what they want. You don't have to fake anything. Example, if you're shy, act/mimic confidence - it is several times better than staying shy and expecting the world to applaud you.

nwaezeemmanuel:
WHAT WOMEN DO #2

Size Up Other Women

Here's something observation has taught me, as i enjoy studying human behaviour real-time.

Women just by looking, size up other women - often to gauge their own worth.

I can't tell you how many times I've seen a woman scope another woman's body - to the most intimate of parts, especially if the lady being viewed is more attractive and fits the hourglass figure better than she does - it's sexual harassment when a man does it.

Besides body analysis, the centre of focus could be how well achieved the woman being viewed is.

In doing so, they can do the following:

- Analyse themselves and try to match up to that woman's standard.

- Bad mouth the better looking/higher achieving woman, or belittle her physically/mentally.


The point is, a lot of women have more insecurities than you think and war with other women at the very foundation of the mind.

So, many would reinvent themselves. Wear make up to hide about everything on the face. Wear high heels to nullify being short, a lot of times because they want to meet up to a standard - and yes, they'd deny claims of trying to impress.

As a man, don't play too much mental games with your insecurities. Work on your strengths, don't hide your insecurities, deal with them and move on.