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Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by Draslo(m): 1:54pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
sysengr:It is not for you to decide, ma'am. |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by faithfull18(f): 1:59pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Me. |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by AishaYesufu: 2:01pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
greenie77:A man whose family eat half kilo of meat in a week is not a poor man by Nigeria's standard. Poverty rate in Nigeria is rising, many families are looking for means to feed and survive, meat/fish is not even their issues. While we are all encouraged to continue to work hard and smart, praying to God to crown our efforts, we must always remember to appreciate the little that comes into the family. As long as a man works/earns, he deserves to be appreciated and treated specially being the King and Leader of the family that he is. We pray for improvement of his finances (and everyone of us) but he must never be disrespected. I even noticed that sysengr, the OP, is fond of bringing her family matters to the public. Her cravings for validation by strangers would see her appreciate clowns that insult her husband just to make her feel good. No sensible man deserves a woman that can't keep family matters within the four walls of her house. |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by sysengr(f): 2:09pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
cococandy:Lol I can't imagine the comparison |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by sysengr(f): 2:46pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
AishaYesufu: Please no advice will destroy home cos wisdom will be applied. Honestly cococandy is also correct. But seriously the meat is already to small to be shared among him and the children. He should learn to sacrifice too |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by LifeOfTrigga(m): 3:05pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
[quote author=sysengr post=100619590]I prepare stew and soup that usually take us a week using half kilo of meat evenly shared. My husband can not eat without meat oooo . Only one meat per serving which goes to my husband. Sunday dinner, I refused to give him but shared for the children. Big problem started ooo. Please I need to know, is the meat always meant for him?[/quote My dad good at sharing even it’s half remaining, I remember the old days! |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by sysengr(f): 3:42pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
aroundtheearth:My thoughts exactly. Thanks dear 1 Like |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by sysengr(f): 3:59pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
AishaYesufu:With all due respect, you are taking this too far. I can't explain everything here in public but he is not the type of person that knows how to sacrifice. He doesn't stress himself to make money. I work from home.... he overreacted cos I gave the meat to children that night. Before then and now he is the only one that comfortably eats it 3 Likes |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by sysengr(f): 4:20pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
AishaYesufu: Oh am fond of that? Ok. Noted. Thank you. This is faceless forum. Advice I have gotten here has helped and still useful to me. Please learn how to value people and don't insult them. 5 Likes |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by libartay(f): 5:31pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Man dey drag one piece of meat with his own babies?! Which Kain irritating crap! Sister, you married a regular male child...just an egg fertilizer basically! Man ke?! I know you knew he's always been like that before you married him so y'all keep living happily anyhow. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by AishaYesufu: 5:37pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
sysengr:Obviously you enjoy creating threads to mock your husband and make him look stupid. I am very sure that you decided to deny him the meat simply because of his financial challenges. What a terrible wife... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by AishaYesufu: 5:40pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
libartay:Another silly comment. Where did you read that the husband dragged piece of meat with his kids? |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by cococandy(f): 5:44pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
AishaYesufu: If you’re like this about small things, imagine how you would react to higher/bigger stuff? Do other people matter too? You don’t even know what consists a home breaking attitude. You just use those words against any lady (coc0candy) who disagrees with you. See, Anyone who is consistently selfish,100% of the time without consideration for the others in the family is the one who is breaking the home by himself or herself. It won’t be long before the other family members will resent them. It’s a no brainer. You don’t even have to think about it to see that it is true. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
AishaYesufu: You sure say you no be the husband? Cuz the way you carry this matter for head eh. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by armyofone(m): 6:05pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
That widow spider wicked No application to humanity. Na only jungle stories apply. cococandy:Lmao hehehe |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by armyofone(m): 6:07pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Lmao Nigerian men and meat! Ardar: |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by armyofone(m): 6:15pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
laughing @ "comfortable eating it" Meat not shuck him throat sysengr: 1 Like |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by cococandy(f): 6:24pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
armyofone: Don’t mind them.I find a few animal society series interesting and I follow them. It’s not just the widow spider. The female praying mantes and scorpions (to name a few) kill and eat their male during sex to provide sustenance for the coming offspring. These animal “analogists” have no idea what these other non-human creatures do. They just be comparing us with the ones that suit their points at the moment thinking there’s a divine order that makes maleness uniformly superior in all of creation. while in fact it’s a human social construct. 2 Likes |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by cococandy(f): 6:30pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Draslo: This one is for you ,since you like the animal kingdom so much. You’re talking about lion’s share but these ones actually sacrificially offer themselves because they understand the female has the upcoming arduous task of raising the kids. They are not interested in dragging morsels with their offspring. Very manly
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Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by armyofone(m): 6:41pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Coco you are making me laugh so hard this morning Yes, many animals do that. Jungle stories more famous Some beat their wife for not serving them more than one meat. I wondering if we have vegetarian guys in Nigeria because for a guy to drag meat with growing children is something I can't understand. cococandy: 1 Like |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by cococandy(f): 7:02pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
We probably have a few vegetarians. Not many at all. The average Nigerian loves meat. armyofone: 1 Like |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by bigjackass: 8:00pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
If I read you well your children don't eat meat. You and your husband should be arrested for child abuse |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by mariahAngel(f): 8:04pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
sysengr: It is well with your home. 1 Like |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by mariahAngel(f): 8:07pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
bigjackass: There are people who are vegetarians, either by choice or by circumstance. They still get through life. |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by LifeIssues101(f): 8:21pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Honestly, this is on point Most mothers do not care about themselves I am a culprit and I need better cane from people like you to remind me ALWAYS Cos it actually hurts sometimes, we just keep our cool and humble like our mother taught us cococandy: 2 Likes |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by eyinjuege: 8:59pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Why are the children not getting meat regularly though? Please cook more to last the whole family for the week, without depriving anyone. Ask your husband to increase money for meat and soup 1 Like |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by eyinjuege: 9:02pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Carchoice: You be hoodlum |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by eyinjuege: 9:09pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
AishaYesufu: Only the man gets the meat everyday while his wife and children go without. Problem started when she gave the children the meat 1 day out of the 7 days of the week. Their father was the only one who ate meat 6 days out of 7. It's not too much to allow the children taste meat too please. I hope the OP is supplementing their diets with other things sha 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by cococandy(f): 9:13pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
I do it too. I have to constantly remind myself to think of myself too. It’s not necessarily a bad thing but you can’t pour from an empty cup. So, put yourself and care for yourself first sometimes so that you have adequate reserves to replenish the others who you care for. LifeIssues101: |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by sysengr(f): 10:27pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
AishaYesufu: I can see comprehension is your problem. I create thread to know what am doing wrong and learn. 'Deny him cos of fin challenges' for only Sunday night? Meanwhile he ate the meat alone on Sunday morning ooo and has always been eating it even this night ooo. In fact I won't reply you again. You are full of insults, grow up! Go pour your anger elsewhere and stay off my thread let me reason with sensible people please. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by sysengr(f): 10:37pm On Apr 09, 2021 |
Ardar: I surprise too o This one go worse pass my husband. Even food, AishaYesufu will cut from his wife and children share to add to his because it is his hard labour. |
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