I dislike it when guys keep saying they are broke, what I have noticed about broke guys is just laziness, guy go and learn how to drive Keke and you can be making 5k or more daily. Stop being lazy and move out.

Are you mentally okay ? At 32 you said you are not ready but you were bold to have sex without condom . If at 32 you are not ready ,please at what age will you be ready ? You sound as if the pregnancy just appear from nowhere . You had unprotected sex with a mature lady of 30 and you want her to abort ? You are not okay ? Go ahead and marry , you don't need millions to start a family

Alzawahiri:
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SmellingAnus:
She knows you may abandon her 30years old mercilessly well fvcked pussy so it's better for she to act smarter than you... I wish some girls can be as smart as your your girlfriend... Time is no longer on her side... she did what's best for her future...

She ain't smart. She's foolish. Pregnancy doesn't keep a man. Having kid for man doesn't keep him either, irrespective of his social and financial status.

MufasaLion:


She ain't smart. She's foolish. Pregnancy doesn't keep a man. Having kid for man doesn't keep him either, irrespective of his social and financial status.

Lol..who told you it's compulsory for the man to get married to her... She is smart because there are many women above 35 that are single and desire to be pregnant out of wedlock so that they don't get to menopause without having a child. .. you will not understand this if you are very young or your are not close to women that are 40 years and above with no kids of their own and they are single...

SmellingAnus:
Lol..who told you it's compulsory for the man to get married to her... She is smart because there are many women above 35 that are single and desire to be pregnant out of wedlock so that they don't get to menopause without having a child. .. you will not understand this if you are very young or your are not close to women that are 40 years and above with no kids of their own and they are single...

Now, I get your point. If she did it solely because of having her own child, then it's fine. I wish her well. I have many ladies of this category, and I understand how it is for them.

You finally bought one evening newspaper. For your likes, the rest would go round.

On a more serious note, don't lose her if you think she's virtous.

prinxel:
Good day all,
I'm in a terrible state of dilemma right now and please I need your advice.
This girl and I have been dating for almost 2 years now, we were working together in thesame office here in Abuja, and later she quits the job and started working with a media company which also she has quitted few months ago.
She's in her late 30s and I'm in my 32, she so much loves me more than I do toward her, she has sacrificed a lot to our relationship to make it work financially and otherwise.
For three occasions she has continually brought up the issue of marriage, the truth is that, I love her, and she's a good person, a God fearing woman, but I'm not ready for such responsibility now, I don't have good job, she doesn't work, my family is not financially buoyant neither do hers. I tried to explain severally to her of my situations but still she believes things will fall in place once we get married. Surprisedly about a week ago, she told me she's pregnant... I was a minute lifeless when she said that, I thought she was playing a prank on me until I saw the result. I've convinced her with several actions for her not to keep the baby yet she's insisting. I can't watch my unborn child go through these agony, I wanted a better life for my children. Now she has told some of her families about the pregnancy, she has moved over to my house, threatening wether I like it or not l, that she is going to give birth to the baby in my house. These whole thing is ruining my life, I can't just watch this drama happening. Please your advise is needed...

50 naira condom would have solved this

prinxel:
Good day all,
I'm in a terrible state of dilemma right now and please I need your advice.
This girl and I have been dating for almost 2 years now, we were working together in thesame office here in Abuja, and later she quits the job and started working with a media company which also she has quitted few months ago.
She's in her late 30s and I'm in my 32, she so much loves me more than I do toward her, she has sacrificed a lot to our relationship to make it work financially and otherwise.
For three occasions she has continually brought up the issue of marriage, the truth is that, I love her, and she's a good person, a God fearing woman, but I'm not ready for such responsibility now, I don't have good job, she doesn't work, my family is not financially buoyant neither do hers. I tried to explain severally to her of my situations but still she believes things will fall in place once we get married. Surprisedly about a week ago, she told me she's pregnant... I was a minute lifeless when she said that, I thought she was playing a prank on me until I saw the result. I've convinced her with several actions for her not to keep the baby yet she's insisting. I can't watch my unborn child go through these agony, I wanted a better life for my children. Now she has told some of her families about the pregnancy, she has moved over to my house, threatening wether I like it or not l, that she is going to give birth to the baby in my house. These whole thing is ruining my life, I can't just watch this drama happening. Please your advise is needed...

I don't pity you. Gold Circle condom is 100 naira and would have saved you this drama.

OP good evening..how family??

prinxel:
Good day all,
I'm in a terrible state of dilemma right now and please I need your advice.
This girl and I have been dating for almost 2 years now, we were working together in thesame office here in Abuja, and later she quits the job and started working with a media company which also she has quitted few months ago.
She's in her late 30s and I'm in my 32, she so much loves me more than I do toward her, she has sacrificed a lot to our relationship to make it work financially and otherwise.
For three occasions she has continually brought up the issue of marriage, the truth is that, I love her, and she's a good person, a God fearing woman, but I'm not ready for such responsibility now, I don't have good job, she doesn't work, my family is not financially buoyant neither do hers. I tried to explain severally to her of my situations but still she believes things will fall in place once we get married. Surprisedly about a week ago, she told me she's pregnant... I was a minute lifeless when she said that, I thought she was playing a prank on me until I saw the result. I've convinced her with several actions for her not to keep the baby yet she's insisting. I can't watch my unborn child go through these agony, I wanted a better life for my children. Now she has told some of her families about the pregnancy, she has moved over to my house, threatening wether I like it or not l, that she is going to give birth to the baby in my house. These whole thing is ruining my life, I can't just watch this drama happening. Please your advise is needed...

congratulations

....he that is not ready to be responsible for the upkeep of a child needs to Learn to zip up and keep social distance from the opposite sex ....


God don butter your Bread

Well said chief. My mind's been spoken. As much as I don't like crediting women unnecessarily,he has refused marriage for now and so far he has had his way. If he refuses this pregnancy then op matter don get k-leg.he cant refuse marriage and pregnancy together,it's wrong. He has to satisfy her with one and satisfy himself with one. If he doesn't want to get married formally for now,nobody should ever force him. His reasons are his own. You can force a horse to the stream but you can't force it to drink water. Like I always tell my gf, would u prefer we marry today and divorce tomorrow. Aunty digest am and got it into her head. So op should step up and be a man,like you've said,she has made sacrifices for him too. Or would op rather she goes for abortion and not make it?

skliz:
Bro she is a good woman, are you responsible ?

If yes accept it as good faith. Start looking for a good paying job. Believe you would get one before the baby comes.
Do a court wedding.

Remember it not easy to find a good woman. You are 32 already. If you break up. You might wait another 2 years to find another.

I think you should settle down. you not a kid. If you loose a job. You can always get another job.

Dont tell her to abort it cos she is no longer a kid either. She has sacrificed for you. Remember that part.

God open doors for you.