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Chinny024:
You know why?...that's because Catholic doesn't support outright divorce....They will grant you up to 10yrs separation in other to see whether you two can grow in love and with the help of Jesus, Mary and Joseph- intersession of holy family.

File for divorce with all this modern churches, na the pastor or second in commande would pour more fire in the burning flame... Once you are not a faithful thither,consider your family gone!!!!

Am happy for you two dear!!!

Pastor that is already eyeing your wife before, na to help you scatter the marriage further sef.
But then, if the Wall does not open, Lizard Pastor/Iman cannot enter

Springboot:
Tonto is a disaster to any man, I don't wish my enemy marry a lady like tonto

Aha! Tonto was a prodigal daughter, now wiser, doesn't open her body anyhow again (she claims)! She is now reborn. Accept her na!

Toks2008:
Sometimes separation is healthy and sometimes you need to divorce to understand how stupid both of you have been.

There is a spirit behind marriage so much that once you marry and divorce, it will be very hard(Not impossible) to move on specially when there are kids involved.

Guys who come into the woman's life will think they are doing her a favour and even the lady will be comparing and contrasting and at the end frustrate the man out of her life just to start with another man.

I have come to a conclusion that one of the reasons couple divorce is because of the thrill they get from the idea od being with someone else cos in most cases, they usually find out that there is nothing out there and whilst some are humble enough to retrace their steps, some will continue to jump from one partner to another until it becomes too late and are forced to settle with someone who is far worse than the person they left but this time, they will be forced to tolerate by force.

May GOD help us all.

Which one be SPIRIT again? Nigerians and their giving life to every common phenomena sha


And a lot of people consider their first marriage a MISTAKE and having divorced and remarried, they have found happiness in their second marriage, that lasted them their Life time. I know so many Elderly Couples in that category so, l'm not just imagining it.
How is it that they are "forced to tolerate" the new Wife?

If they cannot be forced to tolerate the first one, what makes you think such person can be FORCED to tolerate the next one?
As a matter of historical fact, people who have divorced once, have a higher tendency to divorce again, and again, if they keep re-marrying.
Most would rationalise that: "if they did not tolerate something then, they wont tolerate it now" amd having experience divorce once, they don tlive in fear of it anymore. No Bullshyte.

Do you not think that some people can make the mistake of marrying the wrong person in their first marriage (laying emphasis on beauty or physical attributes, money, family connections, celebrity status, etc) and then get it right in their latter marriage?
That is what l think makes the second marriage, even though more challenging, work better than most first marriages.

Hope dey for don jazzy be dat o

after sowing even wild oats. the seeds will haunt them. they ate their cakes and had it. ok now

Aje....


I love what they did, but it's known as a marriage blessing ,disvirgin or not the veil must be there, so called it marriage blessing

Deut. 24 condemns this abominable act.

IamHeWrites:
A Nigerian couple Babsola Kuti and Lola Fafowora have remarried after severing ties for about a decade, Igbere TV reports.

The duo first got married in London on April 8, 1996. They have three children — a boy and two girls — now aged 24, 19 and 16 respectively.

Kuti and Fafowora met about 32 years ago in Lagos. After a year of getting to know each other, they began dating on Kuti’s 20th birthday in 1990.

Following separation and divorce, the couple eventually reconciled in 2017 and renewed their vows on April 8, 2021, about 25 years after they first got married.

Their children witnessed the ceremony while some family members also joined on Zoom due to COVID-19 restrictions.

It was learnt that the couple’s best man Folarin Agbede and bridesmaid Kemi Kalejaiye-Mason at their first wedding in 1996 also witnessed the reunion.

“I feel grateful to see God’s grace. It was all topsy-turvy, but I believed someone up there was fighting for our love,” said Fafowora.

On his part, Kuti said:

Impossible is Nothing!

After more than 10 years of separation and even a divorce, against all odds we found ourselves together again. Happy and in love. This journey started over 30 years ago...never ever give up! pic.twitter.com/FPoGNIZiMK

— Babasola Kuti 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 (@RealSolaKuti) April 10, 2021

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vd3MxgxH5g

What do redpillers have to say about this one

Match made in heaven. Inseparable!

IamHeWrites:
A Nigerian couple Babsola Kuti and Lola Fafowora have remarried after severing ties for about a decade, Igbere TV reports.

The duo first got married in London on April 8, 1996. They have three children — a boy and two girls — now aged 24, 19 and 16 respectively.

Kuti and Fafowora met about 32 years ago in Lagos. After a year of getting to know each other, they began dating on Kuti’s 20th birthday in 1990.

Following separation and divorce, the couple eventually reconciled in 2017 and renewed their vows on April 8, 2021, about 25 years after they first got married.

Their children witnessed the ceremony while some family members also joined on Zoom due to COVID-19 restrictions.

It was learnt that the couple’s best man Folarin Agbede and bridesmaid Kemi Kalejaiye-Mason at their first wedding in 1996 also witnessed the reunion.

“I feel grateful to see God’s grace. It was all topsy-turvy, but I believed someone up there was fighting for our love,” said Fafowora.

On his part, Kuti said:

Impossible is Nothing!

After more than 10 years of separation and even a divorce, against all odds we found ourselves together again. Happy and in love. This journey started over 30 years ago...never ever give up! pic.twitter.com/FPoGNIZiMK

— Babasola Kuti 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 (@RealSolaKuti) April 10, 2021

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vd3MxgxH5g

Bola146:
It's must be because of the kids

But the Woman no smile or did you see her teeth out at all? May be she is remenurating on many things- the grown up kids,the new life, etc.
Anyway,I've seen a lady not working then, that left her humble husband for 4- years.
The man did not even worry as he took the children to a Private School and will see them during end of the term!.The woman after her sojourn came home and the man just said ' welcome' .
The man man tried Sha!
Congratulations to their re-union.

Hallelujah! This is heartwarming news. May they stick together in Jesus Name, Amen.

God don settle the matter, God bless your union

This will be new trend in Nigeria society.

congrats!

dam4sam:
Pastor that is already eyeing your wife before, na to help you scatter the marriage further sef.
But then, if the Wall does not open, Lizard Pastor/Iman cannot enter

Lol....90% of women in Pentecostal have access to their pastor.They have their phone number..In fact, some trust their pastor more than their husband.
As a matter of fact,they involve pastors in every family issue that arises... My uncle who went out of Catholic with the help of the wife lost the same wife to a pastor in the year 2000 or so...She is living with the pastor till date.
They have 2 children before the pastor saga.

AKWATGOLD1:
This will be new trend in Nigeria society.

In the current climate..... Naaaaaa

Mistresses, Courtesans, Side chics and everything between must too chop


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Bluntemperor:
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Anyway,I've seen a lady not working then, that left her humble husband for 4- years.
The man did not even worry as he took the children to a Private School and will see them during end of the term!.The woman after her sojourn came home and the man just said ' welcome' .
The man man tried Sha!.

She went on a sojourn... And husband understood and discerned the times like sons of Issachar..
Tends to be men that do things like this mostly.


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Funkeshuga:
that's if know the psychological, and literary meaning of class


divorce a woman and take her back in the house, this is just like eating back your vomit and you called that class?


I doubt if you wait to hear your brain test result before leaving your psychotherapist

How can you compare vomiting with divorcing? People can grow and evolve. Vomit remains the same. You could say vomit gets worse over time.

bepositive11:
How can you compare vomiting with divorcing? People can grow and evolve. Vomit remains the same. You could say vomit gets worse over time.

the word vomit I used there was just a phrase not practically vomiting from the mouth, it means you don't go back to what you found unworthy

I know the man, he was one time seeking for the office of the publicity secretary in PDP....

Very sound and brilliant

MightySparrow:
They went on exploration. I which same for Tonto and Churchill

Which nooni. What a bad wish, Churchill is already married to someone else and no asunder will separate them.

10 yrs is enough to make the shit completely dry, as dry shit don't smell1

Activist001:
They will still cheat on each other. You can't go back to your shït and expect it not to smell.

IamHeWrites:
A Nigerian couple Babsola Kuti and Lola Fafowora have remarried after severing ties for about a decade, Igbere TV reports.

The duo first got married in London on April 8, 1996. They have three children — a boy and two girls — now aged 24, 19 and 16 respectively.

Kuti and Fafowora met about 32 years ago in Lagos. After a year of getting to know each other, they began dating on Kuti’s 20th birthday in 1990.

Following separation and divorce, the couple eventually reconciled in 2017 and renewed their vows on April 8, 2021, about 25 years after they first got married.

Their children witnessed the ceremony while some family members also joined on Zoom due to COVID-19 restrictions.

It was learnt that the couple’s best man Folarin Agbede and bridesmaid Kemi Kalejaiye-Mason at their first wedding in 1996 also witnessed the reunion.

“I feel grateful to see God’s grace. It was all topsy-turvy, but I believed someone up there was fighting for our love,” said Fafowora.

On his part, Kuti said:

Impossible is Nothing!

After more than 10 years of separation and even a divorce, against all odds we found ourselves together again. Happy and in love. This journey started over 30 years ago...never ever give up! pic.twitter.com/FPoGNIZiMK

— Babasola Kuti 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 (@RealSolaKuti) April 10, 2021

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vd3MxgxH5g

I no trust the woman sha see the genuine grin on the husband face see fake smile on the wife's face. Mr husband God is your strength.

IamHeWrites:
A Nigerian couple Babsola Kuti and Lola Fafowora have remarried after severing ties for about a decade, Igbere TV reports.

The duo first got married in London on April 8, 1996. They have three children — a boy and two girls — now aged 24, 19 and 16 respectively.

Kuti and Fafowora met about 32 years ago in Lagos. After a year of getting to know each other, they began dating on Kuti’s 20th birthday in 1990.

Following separation and divorce, the couple eventually reconciled in 2017 and renewed their vows on April 8, 2021, about 25 years after they first got married.

Their children witnessed the ceremony while some family members also joined on Zoom due to COVID-19 restrictions.

It was learnt that the couple’s best man Folarin Agbede and bridesmaid Kemi Kalejaiye-Mason at their first wedding in 1996 also witnessed the reunion.

“I feel grateful to see God’s grace. It was all topsy-turvy, but I believed someone up there was fighting for our love,” said Fafowora.

On his part, Kuti said:

Impossible is Nothing!

After more than 10 years of separation and even a divorce, against all odds we found ourselves together again. Happy and in love. This journey started over 30 years ago...never ever give up! pic.twitter.com/FPoGNIZiMK

— Babasola Kuti 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 (@RealSolaKuti) April 10, 2021

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vd3MxgxH5g

After how many men don shine the Kongo...

Funkeshuga:
the word vomit I used there was just a phrase not practically vomiting from the mouth, it means you don't go back to what you found unworthy

I get what you mean. But still, people change. Sometimes, it may not work out between a couple today, but years down the line, after they've grown and evolved, it may end up working out then.

Hmmn, seen it happen over and over again.

If you are wishing these people evil, you are an agent of darkness.

Deuteronomy 24 warned against this act calling it an abomination

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Whenever you say good night don’t ever go back and say good evening.

Never Say Never!