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chelsea1116:
Jus like life is sweet but we still know of the challenges it has.

That same way marriage is sweet and has its own challenges.

We build and prepare ourselves for the challenges of life

That same way..prepare and build urslf for the challenges of marriage.

I cant wait for d day i will be called "Dad" ..this alone has got me preparing and working hard to make sure that lady who will give me children will be well taken care of.

Just thinking aloud here. If life on its own is hard enough, why must one add to the challenges by marrying? If one struggles with the challenges of life, do not marry and do not have kids! You are better off just weathering the challenges of life that you have no control over by yourself.

WiszyFraud:
God forbid me try that rubbish called marriage

That's what most happily and unhappily married guys (I doubt if there are many ladies who say such) said before succumbing to societal and peer pressure to jump into matrimony...

If you are based abroad in saner, well liberated societies where people actually don't over hype marriage, then you might stand a chance... Otherwise, leave matter!!!

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Ment.[/color]

That's just the summary

AsherAmari:
That match shaaa,.. you can't separate them from it.

he also got to watch my favorite TV shows too so it's all about compromise

AsherAmari:

Any man that finds a woman that agrees that see finish is the key issue in marriage has found a keeper

AsherAmari:
Now, I'm scared.

ive actually seen this happen in so many homes and it's the men that first start dousing the fire of love in marriage. They'll start by going to viewing centers or a friend's place to watch soccer, leaving the woman all alone at home. Before you know it, the gap is formed. The Interest in each other drops and you begin to see yourselves as siblings or biz partners.

It sucks.

Now I'm scared of going to the football viewing centres to catch my favorite games.

AsherAmari:
Easier said than done .

What if it's someone like me who doesn't like watching soccer? Im not sure it will work. That aside, some men, even if the woman likes, let her be a soccer fan, he'll still prefer to go out and watch it just to be in the midst of fellow men where the discuss will flow better.

Men just tend to get tired after seeing you continuously for a while. It happens with some women too. Too much see finish.

I think the best thing is for one of them to go on a vacation so that by the time they come back, they would have missed each other so well. I prefer it that way.

that will be vacationalism marriage.or you kukuma marry someone abroad or distant part of the country and be visiting yourself at mutual agreed times.thats child play but if it works.what do i know self.

Hasty generalizations full OP. You and who be we all?

AsherAmari:
Easier said than done .

What if it's someone like me who doesn't like watching soccer? Im not sure it will work. That aside, some men, even if the woman likes, let her be a soccer fan, he'll still prefer to go out and watch it just to be in the midst of fellow men where the discuss will flow better.

Men just tend to get tired after seeing you continuously for a while. It happens with some women too. Too much see finish.

I think the best thing is for one of them to go on a vacation so that by the time they come back, they would have missed each other so well. I prefer it that way.

Well, most times I just feign interest in her telemundo or Zeeworld, or suffer quietly through cartoon Network with the kids...

I amaze myself at how accommodating I have become since getting hitched... No regrets here. Life is about sacrifices and compromise. A selfish existence is not a fulfilling way to live.

As far as I know, it's usually women that have such delusions about marriage, hardly men. Men sees marriage for what it is, as an institution of responsibility, with little incentive as in the past, especially with the kind of women we have now. A woman only "show up" in marriages, but men have to pay bride price, sponsor the ceremony, and more till he drop dead. This is why I have not married my darling UyaiIncomparabl.

Meanwhile, women sees marriage as a place of bliss, enjoyment and an ego boost, changing her status to Mrs. Little wonder they go for well to do men. Its not coincidental that in weddings, women are jubilating more than men, I would if was a woman. Ask the average man, they are scared and many don't even want to marry, this is not the same for women. Women want it.

adeniyi65:
that will be vacationalism marriage.or you kukuma marry someone abroad or distant part of the country and be visiting yourself at mutual agreed times.thats child play but if it works.what do i know self.

That abroad own is Better self. Too much see finish with naija men breeds Contempt.

Labadi69:
Any man that finds a woman that agrees that see finish is the key issue in marriage has found a keeper

so, how do you deal with see finish?

Angelfrost:
Well, most times I just feign interest in her telemundo or Zeeworld, or suffer quietly through cartoon Network with the kids...

I amaze myself at how accommodating I have become since getting hitched... No regrets here. Life is about sacrifices and compromise. A selfish existence is not a fulfilling way to live.

Yeah, you're right though. Sacrifice (true love) is the only thing that can keep a marriage sailing afloat.

#GBAM

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Most of the time they were doing these things before marriage na!! OP made sense. this blame game you are playing is the mentality that piles undue pressure on marriage.

AsherAmari:
Now, I'm scared.

ive actually seen this happen in so many homes and it's the men that first start dousing the fire of love in marriage. They'll start by going to viewing centers or a friend's place to watch soccer, leaving the woman all alone at home. Before you know it, the gap is formed. The Interest in each other drops and you begin to see yourselves as siblings or biz partners.

It sucks.

Lord, I need Knowledge, Wisdom & Tolerance for this marital journey. So help me God

marriage is a monunental fraud, a sardonic scam !!!

WiszyFraud:
God forbid me try that rubbish called marriage

people will talk

NevetsIbot:
Lol... OP. Nice write up


I don’t even think I wanna get into this thing called marriage.

Me wey be say any small discomfort from somebody’s daughter, I go Dey reason break up.

this is africa

dairo123:
Chai robo God bless you. You talked to we. Make I show my wife to maintain till we conquer.

Na so e be o.

HONESTFACT101:
If you find a right partner then MARRIAGE will be very sweet......signing out

Marriage can't be Sweet always.......

If Anita, Pastor Chris Wife couldn't bear the heat or Endure her Way through, Marriage hard.

Nice one

robosky02:
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Am just happy to come across ur comments ,it change my mind .I thought it only me .kudos to u bro

Bilabong:
Too long


Summarize pls

Dont worry, when u marry or wan marry, u MUST read am word for word!

...Tweiker , we will find something to keep u busy with my dear , since you be d odogwu now , u don't follow khia / khiaa anymore but me ?

I am about to even leave the thread because I have done my part , but how will me and u cope my good lover when am gone ?

U confirm. For real u have PhD from this institution called marriage.

robosky02:
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AsherAmari:
Now, I'm scared.

ive actually seen this happen in so many homes and it's the men that first start dousing the fire of love in marriage. They'll start by going to viewing centers or a friend's place to watch soccer, leaving the woman all alone at home. Before you know it, the gap is formed. The Interest in each other drops and you begin to see yourselves as siblings or biz partners.

It sucks.

Maybe it's the woman's endless nagging and complaining when things don't go exactly as planned that drove the man away to viewing centers or a friend's place. Have you thought about that?

AsherAmari:
Now, I'm scared.

ive actually seen this happen in so many homes and it's the men that first start dousing the fire of love in marriage. They'll start by going to viewing centers or a friend's place to watch soccer, leaving the woman all alone at home. Before you know it, the gap is formed. The Interest in each other drops and you begin to see yourselves as siblings or biz partners.

It sucks.

That's not where it started.

Some things had gone wrong which compelled the men to leave their wives at home under the guise of going to watch football at a friend's place. Why couldn't they watch the match at home with their spouses? It's because underlying issues at home now forces them to seek peace of mind outside. They've invariably chosen that they'd prefer the company of friends, over their spouses.

Would that have happened if everything was ok ab initio?

Elonmuskfan:
MATCHABILITY. She is his match, he is her match. I’m not taking about physical match but similar hobbies, likes, friendship ties, they bond well as FRIENDS.

Not even that. Hardly u find a match. I'm not even sure u can find a match. Its compromising. Always negotiating.

Las las na money dey make marriage sweet OP

Bilabong:
Too long


Summarize pls

The write up is not for people like u.Allow the married to complain.