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Typical Nigeria man, are you planning to cheat or you want to be like Emeka Money...May be she is Omo Aje Olokun .... Shall no offend her, try maintain your lane.... Use style to ask her if she always see herself at sea shore or the sea in her dreams.

You have to be prayerful and get to know this lady better before you conclude she's seems strange with her statements.

Stevyne:
Anything with kogi

No
Just asking

creolehunt:
Sometime last year, I met a lady. At the time I met her things were not working for me the way I had expected. In fact, my career had somehow stagnated even though I was in a new job then.

Prior to meeting her, I was seeing someone who I once overheard complaining to a friemd of having sex with someone in her dreams and in that dream, she already has a family with this strange person in that dream. This coupled with other negative feelings i had made me leave the relationship.

Now comes this new girl. Within 2 months of meeting her (5months into the job), my employment was confirmed with a promotion to booth. I must say that this confirmation typically takes 1yr to 18months. 4 months later (totalling 9months on the job), I was promoted again to a mid level managerial position. Again, this typically takes around 3yrs for others. My company cited "exceptional service delivery", but deep down I know it's not just that, I'm that instinctive. Now, I'm not the type of person to easily find favor in people's eyes or the type people just wants to stick out for. But since I met her, even at my workplace, my superiors have taken special interest in me, I just can't do any wrong.

Now, deep down, I know some things have changed. Even mentally, i have become more purposeful as she is a very driven person. I've never mentioned to her about these changes I've noticed in my life.
The thing is that when we talk, albeit jokingly she always say that she came into my life and everything changed, that the day I will try nonsense with her (cheat or breakup), my life will just scatter. Even today she said it that the "spirit" (context is important here) working for her had to smoothen my life when she came into it, lest I infect her with my troubles, I jokingly replied that my mother's prayers are working wonders in my lofe, and she said that I should be happy she is in my life. A lot of the time, she has made such comments. There was a day she said that if I keep her happy, that I will keep enjoying. She says God answers her prayers and honestly, her life is good. It just feels like she has everything all figured out.

Honestly, everything feels better around me since I met her and i also believe in the notion that some people can pull good fortune to you, but I'm also apprehensive. What if i cheat on her, what if i break up with her?

Has anyone had this type.of encounter? Please, she is not a bad person. I'm just wondering if there are truly people like this.

Some women have a good destiny that even luminates to their heart desired ma

That's why in Igbo land they said that a man gets to know his destiny when be is married

So if you think and feel that things have really turn around for you for good since you met her

Then keep her and be focused, seal it

So far she is not an Ogbanje

Ovaltine:
This is a billion dollar question.
Africa is the most religious and yet, poorest.

Islam at least brought trades centuries ago (with massive slavery of course).
Christianity brought Western education, a platform for training 'workers'.

The existing traditional culture is focused on ruining people via rituals, curses and charms.

My brother our people are beyond evil. Some are even using both Islam and Christianity to cash out at the expense of their own people.

PrimadonnaO:
What's an emere? Ogbanje?

Yes

toren:
Yes

Thanks.

1x2x3:
Some people are not created to suffer or struggle in life. She may not have the strength to do all the labour to provide for herself so indirectly whatever spirit guide she has will always provide for her helper so you can ALWAYS PROVIDE FOR HER IN RETURN. Take note of the bolded.

On the flip side there are people who are designed to struggle and suffer that even the helper who is supposed to help and willing to help will automatically start lacking the resources to assist .

Be mindful. As long as your good fortunes keep coming, don't forget the bolded.

Only ur input make sense to me.

oyinda1599:
Only ur input make sense to me.

Gracias!! What's that on your dp?

1x2x3:
Gracias!! What's that on your dp?

blacksoap

Angel246:
There is nothing like coincidence here, there are people like that. What is not proper is the fact that she is bragging and even threatening you with it.

I have had some persons who told me how things suddenly started working out better for them from when they became close to me and I do take cognistance of it myself too. That's one of the ways life chooses to happen.

imagine this lying bitch, you that any close contact with you na straight backwardness for the person, have you treated your infection.

creolehunt:
Sometime last year, I met a lady. At the time I met her things were not working for me the way I had expected. In fact, my career had somehow stagnated even though I was in a new job then.

Prior to meeting her, I was seeing someone who I once overheard complaining to a friemd of having sex with someone in her dreams and in that dream, she already has a family with this strange person in that dream. This coupled with other negative feelings i had made me leave the relationship.

Now comes this new girl. Within 2 months of meeting her (5months into the job), my employment was confirmed with a promotion to booth. I must say that this confirmation typically takes 1yr to 18months. 4 months later (totalling 9months on the job), I was promoted again to a mid level managerial position. Again, this typically takes around 3yrs for others. My company cited "exceptional service delivery", but deep down I know it's not just that, I'm that instinctive. Now, I'm not the type of person to easily find favor in people's eyes or the type people just wants to stick out for. But since I met her, even at my workplace, my superiors have taken special interest in me, I just can't do any wrong.

Now, deep down, I know some things have changed. Even mentally, i have become more purposeful as she is a very driven person. I've never mentioned to her about these changes I've noticed in my life.
The thing is that when we talk, albeit jokingly she always say that she came into my life and everything changed, that the day I will try nonsense with her (cheat or breakup), my life will just scatter. Even today she said it that the "spirit" (context is important here) working for her had to smoothen my life when she came into it, lest I infect her with my troubles, I jokingly replied that my mother's prayers are working wonders in my lofe, and she said that I should be happy she is in my life. A lot of the time, she has made such comments. There was a day she said that if I keep her happy, that I will keep enjoying. She says God answers her prayers and honestly, her life is good. It just feels like she has everything all figured out.

Honestly, everything feels better around me since I met her and i also believe in the notion that some people can pull good fortune to you, but I'm also apprehensive. What if i cheat on her, what if i break up with her?

Has anyone had this type.of encounter? Please, she is not a bad person. I'm just wondering if there are truly people like this.

Hold her tight, don't break up with her. If na that kind girl i wan even marry. Success isn't cheap ooo. If u break up with her, na u know ooo.

prettyirene:
OP please dont mind this people saying its coincidence oh. Some women are like that they bring good luck, even the bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God. Please handle her with care oh. Such women are faithful and very loyal but the day you grief their spirit , na ground zero. Not just their patners even associating with them like been friends with them , you prosper . Its the oil and grace from God . It is inbuilt . Its not mammy water anything.

Please I sent you a pm

Trogge:
. Like some said ' She knows what she knows'. She has no problem with you. She's just letting you know. She would be always submissive to you, cos she needs you. Now tell me, what else do you want. I will bet it with my life the she will never cheat on you, it's against their law and the price to pay for her to cheat is unbearable. And lastly don't offend her, if you do apologize, if she offend tell her straight up. She can't leave you expect you leave her. Pls ask her how she broke up with her ex........ Mostly when guys have money they attract more ladies and cheat in the process.

Please let a woman like this come my way, even if she is spiritual, I don't care. As long she would make me prosper and make money then am okay. I promise to love her diligently and meticulously because I have really suffered in this life.

africandictator:
A friend of mine is in this dilemma too, he confessed to me that he has never gone broke since meeeting and having sex with this beautiful fair igbo girl in January. Money and favours keep coming from left and right, until a drunk man told him that a marine woman is seriously in love with him and it would be hard for him to leave the relationship. He was told he loves the woman equally and that he would be in wealth until they have their first child in the relationship that is when things would turn sour. He told him he needs to take her for some spiritual cleansing before marriage if he really loves her and want to enjoy the marriage with her. My friend was shaking because the night before he and his girl were having issues. Op how religious is your girlfriend? Does she go to a Bible believing church and is steadfast? Is her private part tight as though she was recently disvirgined? As she ever mentioned the word triangular before? Because from what I have seen a strong woman is in love with you. You don't have to be scared! You just have to take steps! Most times these women go after great and exceptional men.

My Yoruba friend told me that his last girlfriend was a virgin and no matter how he tried to disvirgin her, she was difficult to disvirgin. A pastor and seer once told him that the girl is a witch and has taken his matter to their coven. My friend said rather the girl brought bad luck to him as he never won any bet 9ja slip since the girl was in his life, he never experienced success. Immediately he broke up with the girl and fasted, he got a contract job, he didn't wanted to tell the girl but the girl once told him that she knows he has gotten a job, he just refuted but weird in trying to know how she knows then suddenly he remembers that the pastor said she was a witch.

IS LIKE YOU DONT EVEN NO WHAT YOU WANT WHY WILL YOU EVEN CHEAT ON HER OR BREAKUP WITH HER WHEN ALL IS GOOD.... IT BECAUSE YOU YOURSELF YOU HAVE BAD INTENTION TOWARDS HER IF YOU DONT HAVE BAD INTENTION TOWARDS HER JUST LEAVE WITH HER LIKE THEIR IS NO TOMORROW.... AND SECOUNDLY THAT GIRLS IS NOT AN ORDINARY PERSON SOME GIRLS ARE BLESSED AND BORN WITH FORTUNE. WEALTH AND ALOT MORE JUST THAT MUST OF THEM WOUNT LIKE TO SETTLE DOWN AND GET MARRIED TO YOU WHEN YOU ARE READY MOST THEM... THEM BE WATER PIKIN AFTER GIVING BIRTH THEY MIGHT DIE OR AFTER MARRIED ALOT DIFFERENT THIS SHAAA BUT DONT BE SUPRISE IF YOU CHEAT ON HER SHE MIGHT NO EVEN IF GO TO LONDON OR ANYWERE TO CHEAT... NA THAT KIND BAE I DAY FIND SHAAA I NO GO LACK MONEY OOOO I WILL JUST FOCUS ON HER ALONE NO CHEATING

The people close to you rub on you either positively or negatively. Every human interaction is an exchange of energy. Energies don't lie. In life you don't get what you want, you attract whom or what you've become. While you can attribute part of your success to your companion, it's not sufficient to think that she's the only force behind all of that.

Bro; I had a similar experience. But I think it could've been much more. Can I speak with you? Thanks

Success1975:
My dear, thank God u discovered this truth very early. I was once a victim of these stuffs u posted here. My first date in life was someone that had a strong power working with her and against anyone who dare mingle with her thru dating. I suffered heavy losses financially, materially, job wise and all. But the moment we had a break for almost one year plus, everything I lost started coming back multiple folds. My friends were telling me not to go back to her because she started coming back to reconcile, because I'm that kinda guy that don't believe in such nonesense that someone is doing u or something, I accepted her back. And less than a year, I experienced disaster I didn't recover from for nearly 8years. I lost everything again.
But thank God for today because the story had changed and we're no longer together.

prettyirene:
OP please dont mind this people saying its coincidence oh. Some women are like that they bring good luck, even the bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God. Please handle her with care oh. Such women are faithful and very loyal but the day you grief their spirit , na ground zero. Not just their patners even associating with them like been friends with them , you prosper . Its the oil and grace from God . It is inbuilt . Its not mammy water anything.

No wonder; you're a woman. So it's in your interest to say so. Some are actually marine agents. I'll spare you my personal experience. People who have any such gifts like that from God are very modest about it. It's the man who benefits from it who will talk about it.