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What do you do when you have issues in your relationship and it's no longer in sync like what it used to be!

Like we had a relationship but an issue came up and we didn't speak for weeks and then I took the bold step to reconcile and now it's just hello, hi, good morning, good nite! If I didn't say anything for days, no response from the other side.

Does this mean the relationship has hit the rock? even when we met at first, it wasn't this bad! should I just forget it and move on to another or still give it time to heal?

You get strength brother

I take it you are a teenager ? Or not residing in Nigeria right now?
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The Problem With This Generation Is Believing That Relationship is Forever sweet.

Go And Ask Your Parents What They Did When The love Felt Like It Was Fading


There Is Moore To Relationship Than Lust... Commitment, Trust, sacrifice, Love, dedication. Can You Give These To A Relationship?

Lakeview:
we didn't speak for weeks and then I took the bold step to reconcile

Rule No 1
if you’re not married to her NEVER take that bold simp step. vagina people see it as weakness. Only wives understand

The first time it happened, i couldn't speak up till now, never expect a relationship to be filled with the same juices for a long time

How can we help you with a solution when you didn't state the underlying issues

Take your phone and call her right now, confidence and just pretend as if u know what happening and start afresh... Good luck

livebyday:
I take it you are a teenager ? Or not residing in Nigeria right now?
We are battling the following

Hate speech
Fake news
Insecurity
Guerilla attacks from secessionists
Insecurity
Corruption
Inflation

So forgive us if we don't care much for this topic

My brother you must be drinking from wisdom well.

Lakeview:
What do you do when you have issues in your relationship and it's no longer in sync like what it used to be!

Like we had a relationship but an issue came up and we didn't speak for weeks and then I took the bold step to reconcile and now it's just hello, hi, good morning, good nite! If I didn't say anything for days, no response from the other side.

Does this mean the relationship has hit the rock? even when we met at first, it wasn't this bad! should I just forget it and move on to another or still give it time to heal?

If the issue that led to the rift isn't that serious and she's still stone-walling even after you made an attempt at reconciliation, then she's tired of the relationship.

Just leave her alone. Stop talking to her. If/when she's ready, she'll rekindle the relationship herself.

PrimadonnaO:
If the issue that led to the rift isn't that serious and she's still stone-walling even after you made an attempt at reconciliation, then she's tired of the relationship.

Just leave her alone. Stop talking to her. If/when she's ready, she'll rekindle the relationship herself.

She will rekindle the relationship herself As in ... The effrontery... She be god na... Rubbish... Sorry I'm having a bad day...

LordDarius:
She will rekindle the relationship herself As in ... The effrontery... She be god na... Rubbish... Sorry I'm having a bad day...

Lol. Okay. She'll ATTEMPT to rekindle the relationship herself.

Of course it takes two for a relationship to be rekindled.

livebyday:
I take it you are a teenager ? Or not residing in Nigeria right now?
We are battling the following

Hate speech
Fake news
Insecurity
Guerilla attacks from secessionists
Insecurity
Corruption
Inflation

So forgive us if we don't care much for this topic

Baba you no get joy!

OP relationship matter dicey, may God help you, can two walk together except there be an agreement.

You get strength brother

PrimadonnaO:
If the issue that led to the rift isn't that serious and she's still stone-walling even after you made an attempt at reconciliation, then she's tired of the relationship.

Just leave her alone. Stop talking to her. If/when she's ready, she'll rekindle the relationship herself.

Okay thanks.