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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by blinking001(m): 12:23pm On Apr 13, 2021
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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Nobody: 12:27pm On Apr 13, 2021
Considering the pattern at which you lost each job, I would advise you visit church like MFM for a deliverance first. Then, allow God to direct your steps,,,

Better days ahead @highstar01.

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Camberlo(m): 12:27pm On Apr 13, 2021
He need no any pastor, he can pray for himself and be patience.

God is aware of everything befalling you and He have big plan for you.

I wish you best ahead

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by ekestic1976(f): 12:28pm On Apr 13, 2021
What's your name? It matters a lot, because no focused person would enlist in any other organization aside from the university at age 17 years. That's how they allow illiterates lord it over their betters in the security agencies.
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by November24(f): 12:29pm On Apr 13, 2021
Igbankpa:
17 in 2001, currently 40 years in 2021 and have just 5 years to retire in my father's army that requires 35 years of service before retirement. so many irregularities in this your story. if you were 17 in 2001 then you should be about 37 now and the issue of having just 5 years left to retire from the NA is not possible cos from the time of enlistment till now you must have spent just 20 years in service with 15yrs before retirement. Just saying sir.

You can quit in 10years bro... Pensionable

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Seakay(m): 12:29pm On Apr 13, 2021
Stay Calm and Listen to your heart. God is giving you an answer.
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by whitering: 12:30pm On Apr 13, 2021
Egg
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by November24(f): 12:31pm On Apr 13, 2021
jeph19:
Dear sir,
i pray you find the peace you seek. But can't get them until you come back to GOD.
IMO
1. Pray and ask God for mercy, then ask him for direction.
2 If you can meet with Apst. Suleiman in Auchi, he'd be of great assisstance financially and spiritually/
stop looking at the past,as it will lead to SUICIDAL THOUGHTS AND DEPRESSION, as for your child, he/she will come back when it's timefor reconciliation
3. Pick up from where you are...relocate if need be...go to
...Come to winners chapel state church at water resourcees in warri, ask to see the resident pastor, he can help with accommodation, average pay job and spiritual cover...
you'll prevail sir.

Not the winners I know... Which pastor Suleiman,I prefer opm.
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by OriginalOmoOgun(f): 12:31pm On Apr 13, 2021
HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

My spirit tells me that you should relocate to Ghana.
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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by November24(f): 12:32pm On Apr 13, 2021
HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

When you prayed for the dying man,what happened? I think you have a call.

Do fast and answer it
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by virago(f): 12:32pm On Apr 13, 2021
Igbankpa:
17 in 2001, currently 40 years in 2021 and have just 5 years to retire in my father's army that requires 35 years of service before retirement. so many irregularities in this your story. if you were 17 in 2001 then you should be about 37 now and the issue of having just 5 years left to retire from the NA is not possible cos from the time of enlistment till now you must have spent just 20 years in service with 15yrs before retirement. Just saying sir.


The irregularities you speak about are in your observation

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Chummynoni(m): 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2021
na wa oo. every aboki with hin own kettles. it is well
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Nobody: 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2021
HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.
You have a wife and a kid, that's enough reason to try and stay alive. Though your wife is gone, your life shouldn't be gone too. If you feel God wants you to serve him, go into ernest prayers He will speak to you. Moreover, you can serve God by first making your ways right with Him. I feel your pain bro because I know how it feels to be worthless. I have been through that stage in life but only kept trusting God.
In 1995, I came across a very powerful addage in Student Companion that has helped me stay through all rough patches. That addage says, "Everything comes if only a man could wait". Keep yourself busy with something no matter how small, everything will surely come.

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by ossaiii: 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2021
Everybody with his or her own story of life. May God help us all




HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2021
HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

So long as this is not another format...
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by OlawaleBammie: 12:35pm On Apr 13, 2021
HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

The greatest mistake u made was returning to the army, sir abeg wetin concern u concern pension??

U had the chance to continue afresh with the frsc bus cus of pension money driven my laziness to work u chose to go to army.

How can u even tink of goin to army wen u were once victimised, didn't u know that u were called back cus there was shortage of personnel as people were reluctant to join army due to the fact that Boko bois are using dem as burnt offerings.

Hmmm

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by rainmoredays: 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2021

Me I don't pity army or police.
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I believe your sins must have caught up with you.
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Nah different people curse dey manifest for your life so
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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Nobody: 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2021
Wetin man eyes dey see....

Fellow obloblos...read the part where the wife left with child because no funds. Read am well and have sense.
Love dey sour when no funds. No be indian film

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by ORAFA(m): 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2021
Igbankpa:
You still didn't say nothing sir! and since when did nigerian army introduce contractual enlistment? as far as I know it's 35 years of service with option of voluntary retirement and believe me I'm speaking from a place of authority haven been in the barracks all my life. if you had said you intended opting for voluntary retirement after the said time that would have been understandable. well I'm done with this ish so just do your thing and I hope you find that which you seek thats if it's actually genuine.

I wonder why some of you who only stayed in the barracks and not serve with the army always feel like you know better than a soldier as regards the job. Whereas you are only relying on public opinion. When I was joining the Army, I put 5yrs with the colors and 5yrs reserve. I joined the Army in 2013. As we speak I'm no longer in the Army but I know that the OP is saying the truth.
My friend retired after 5yrs but without pension. So what are you saying?

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Bbbwings: 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2021
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Xedmark:
The only thing u need is spiritual direction. Jumping from pastors to churches or crusade ground won't yield any result. how will u be directed? U heard the voice at the beginning of your life but you never listen. Interesting, now u need direction without the director. No prophet or pastor can hear or receive accurately on your behalf until u begin to admit your flaws and error. Your wife never left u just because u have no job, u know exactly what happened? Open your eyes and ears,God want to speak if u can listen. Ministry or Calling is the last thing right now, Ur location and contacts deformed u.
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What he needs is a job.

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by DEMZEE(m): 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2021
THATS WHY MEN MUST BECOME AND WOMEN JUST ARE. MEN CREATE THEIR VALUE AND WOMEN ARE BORN WITH VALUE.

U SHOULD HAVE MAXIMIZED UR POTENTIALS AROUND 20-40, BUT NO PROBLEM U STILL HAVE BETWEEN 40-50 TO GO.

U NEED TO MAKE URSEF UR OWN MENTAL POINT OF ORIGIN AND ASK URSEF WAT DO U REALLY WAT TO DO WITH YOUR OWN LIFE

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Skyfornia(m): 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2021
It might sound funny but if I were you.. I'll go and join ESN or the new Ebubeagu...you will become an asset.

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Oyerinde16(m): 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2021
Igbankpa:
17 in 2001, currently 40 years in 2021 and have just 5 years to retire in my father's army that requires 35 years of service before retirement. so many irregularities in this your story. if you were 17 in 2001 then you should be about 37 now and the issue of having just 5 years left to retire from the NA is not possible cos from the time of enlistment till now you must have spent just 20 years in service with 15yrs left before retirement. Just saying sir.

15 yrs in service then he qualify for retirement with pension, his plans was to retire a pensioner and seek other jobs, had he being he had is pension running, he will never leave the FRSC... Wayo and selfishness is what is killing the op....
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Grace001: 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2021
The mistake you did from the on set is that...

You put all your hope in this failed useless country that is a dream killer. Nigeria has a way of frustrating her masses even when you think you’re patriotic, the system will frustrate your life especially if you’re a son of nobody.

If you’re a southerner and you still have hope in this country, you’re the enemy of yourself.

Sorry I have no advice to give people like you

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2021
Find for a security firm to work.

You know how to handle weapons, there are lot of private universities springing up daily, you could be a chief security officer.

Most military guys do get jobs at security firms, universities, oil companies and banks because of their past military experience.

Start to apply now, your age is an advantage.

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Bbbwings: 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2021
Nigerian army destroying lives sinxe 1800
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Igbankpa(m): 12:38pm On Apr 13, 2021
ORAFA:


I wonder why some of you who only stayed in the barracks and not serve with the army always feel like you know better than a soldier as regards the job. Whereas you are only relying on public opinion. When I was joining the Army, I put 5yrs with the colors and 5yrs reserve. I joined the Army in 2013. As we speak I'm no longer in the Army but I know that the OP is saying the truth.
My friend retired after 5yrs but without pension. So what are you saying?
Nigerian army?
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by frozen70(f): 12:38pm On Apr 13, 2021
HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

You have a good future but unforseen powers doesn't want you to be successful

Just ask God to direct you how to serve him for the rest of your life

The mistake you did was going back to the Army, you would have remained with Road Safety

Keep trying another success is coming your way and may be the last one

Don't give up pls

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Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by Lexusgs430: 12:40pm On Apr 13, 2021
Only God can answer ó..... None of us here is God or claims to be God...... cheesy
Re: I Need Your Advise On What I Should Do Next by uboma(m): 12:41pm On Apr 13, 2021
HighStar01:
I don't think I I did anything wrong to God neither did my late father who was very close to me. I normally do good without anybody's notice. and I will not like to expanciate. Thanks. Meeting with apostle Sulemam is personally is very difficult as I have been to Synagogue and Mercy Land without the pastor's noticing me. Thanks.

Are you in the FCT? If yes, write a letter to the Ordinary President Doctor Ahmed Isa, the founder and CEO of Brekete Family Programme and Human Rights Radio, 101.1FM, ensure you get a Court to affix their stamp on the letter and submit to him. The Ordinary President, Dr. Ahmed Isa will fight for you rights if what you have claimed is true.

For now, ignore any suggestion to visit any man of God or Church.

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