As a human you may have done some evil against a fellow human which are not pleasing in God's eyes and the repercussion may now be blocking your way.

Don't give up. What you need to do is to sincerely ask God for forgiveness for any sin you have committed against him, let him forgive you

You can as well locate a good church and do a thorough deliverance so that your way can open.

If people they prayed for has not made it in life what will be the fate of people they swear for?
I come in peace, because Nigerians like me are always afraid that Nigeria soldier can torture them without provocation any time

This one is strong o

Igbankpa:
17 in 2001, currently 40 years in 2021 and have just 5 years to retire in my father's army that requires 35 years of service before retirement. so many irregularities in this your story. if you were 17 in 2001 then you should be about 37 now and the issue of having just 5 years left to retire from the NA is not possible cos from the time of enlistment till now you must have spent just 20 years in service with 15yrs left before retirement. Just saying sir.

Spot on..
I have nothing else to add

HighStar01:
I have been to many churches to no avail. presently I don't have a church I attended regularly.

Going to different churches is never a solution. Search for God in your Bible. Read the Bible and pray for divine direction

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.[/quote]

Urgent advice!!!!

You may have missed your time, but God can retract your destiny. Change your method of prayer, pray for mercy and restoration from God, just take time to give out what will pain you to the needy or widow and see God's mercy speak. It is only you who can change yourself through God's power

HighStar01:
I don't think I I did anything wrong to God neither did my late father who was very close to me. I normally do good without anybody's notice. and I will not like to expanciate. Thanks. Meeting with apostle Sulemam is personally is very difficult as I have been to Synagogue and Mercy Land without the pastor's noticing me. Thanks.

Revert to Islam

What can I say life has a way to Bleep us all .

Igbankpa:
You still didn't say nothing sir! and since when did nigerian army introduce contractual enlistment? as far as I know it's 35 years of service with option of voluntary retirement and believe me I'm speaking from a place of authority haven been in the barracks all my life. if you had said you intended opting for voluntary retirement after the said time that would have been understandable. well I'm done with this ish so just do your thing and I hope you find that which you seek thats if it's actually genuine.

You are highly ignorant. Stop commenting on things you have no idea about

careytommy37:


You are highly ignorant. Stop commenting on things you have no idea about

You that is not, please enlighten us sir since you know better.

HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

You made a very mistake returning to the NA knowing fully well you will be redeployed to the NE (it was clearly stated). Enquire from anyone you know in FRSC if it's possible to return, even if it means losing years of seniority.
If that is not possible, just go into trade. Start with the little you have

HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

Stay away from fornication you guys will not listen, thinking you are enjoying 2minutes act that will destroy your life,

Igbankpa:
You that is not please enlighten us sir since you know better.

Anyone who has served in government, especially the security services, will know his story correlates.
Unfortunately, I do not have any powers to help him

Martinez39s:
God didn't want you to be anything since he is nonexistent. Life is what you make of it; the purpose your life has is the purpose you give it. You are just a victim of bad decisions.

The only reasonable advice so far

mayberry1:




Quite unfortunate. Men, please learn to always listen to your wives especially those who got married to intelligent women(bulk of grace to grass stories that has happened to men were as a result of them making decisions alone without discussing with their partner for counsel).
Do yourself a favour by moving on, dwelling in the past won't help. In as much as I don't wanna hold brief for your wife, it could be she saw the writing on the wall but you never listened.
There are lots of petty menial jobs you could do, you can as well become a sperm donor�(the point is for you to do any legal thing to stay alive pending when things get better).

I can even speculate that the reason the wife left is not because of the loss of his job. It seem to be that woman gave him loads of advice like his family did and he did not listen. He seem to be a stubborn and a defiant man as you could Induce from his write up ( he was sanctioned severally before he was excused from the army and he never listened to his family's advice). Hence, everybody feels it's a waste of time advicing someone that never listens.

First accept your big Bleep up first,,I always tell any one,settling for less dose not mean u won't reach the top,all is time,why won't dey desert u,can any one see fire and still put his hand inside it.why did u go back, now the conditions is worst,than before , in life if u are gonna take rist make sure its well calculated.. Do what ever your heart tells u.

Dear OP, do not kill yourself or think you are doomed forever. Your probm is not strange, so many people are passing thr the same probm including myself. Going to church or meeting a man of God with the intention that your story will change my even frustrate you the more. Just be yourself, serve God for who he is, be positive, look for a small job to engage yourself and be happy. Forget about wife, its not compulsory to marry, some wife even add to our probm.

qualityalone:
talk to ur pastor..... follow his instructions and it shall be well with u

You must be a very shallow individual.

Try Human Rights Radio in Abuja, I know the owner of the station has been addressing and getting justice for soldiers who were UNLAWFULLY DISSMISED. If you have a good case and your hands a cleans, I think you should try them. All the best.

The Nigerian Army failed you sir.... your family failed you more..... life jus have a way of dealing with people without one finding a solution to it except few....... keep praying and trying sir... your family left bcus they warned you never to return to the army of which you did and the said Army failed you twice. let go of the past and start something from the scratch.... Remember there are people in the Army who are long gone 7ft under the ground.... BE GRATEFUL SIR.

Your purpose is in your passionate desire .
Ask yourself;what problem irritates you in life ?
What do you think you love doing presently that even if nobody pays you,you will continue to do it with joy ?
What is your gifted area?
Atimes God uses our problem to give us direction..
Moses was tired of the way Egyptians were afflicting the children of Israel and he desired to defend them..
He didn't know God was calling him to lead his people .
At last he got it right because God called him after he had suffered for 40yrs.
Check your desire very well you will find the purpose of God and following that path will will wipe away your tears in a short time.

Your problem is not spiritual.

You need knowledge.

Read books to boost your drive for excellence and recovery in the face of challenges.

Read "Tough times never last but tough people do" by Robert Schuller.

Read books by John C. Maxwell.

Read books by Myles Munroe-- an expert on purpose.

We over spiritualize things a lot in Africa.

I'm not saying that the spiritual cannot affect the physical.

What I'm saying is don't always say every problem is caused by spiritual forces.

Sometimes it's our ignorance.

@op you need to read widely on this.
Also pray.

These books will open your mind to possibilities latent in you that you never knew existed.

Don't say you don't have money to buy books.

Go on Google.

There are some free ebooks.

Some of these authors have their books free on the internet.

Read.

Read.

Grow.

It is not late for you.

You will be great.

Admit your fault.

Don't blame anyone but yourself. Take responsibility for your mistakes.

The ball is in your court.

Nothing will change until you act.

Igbankpa:
17 in 2001, currently 40 years in 2021 and have just 5 years to retire in my father's army that requires 35 years of service before retirement. so many irregularities in this your story. if you were 17 in 2001 then you should be about 37 now and the issue of having just 5 years left to retire from the NA is not possible cos from the time of enlistment till now you must have spent just 20 years in service with 15yrs left before retirement. Just saying sir.

That's not the type of retirement he meant..
U don't need to serve 35yrs to be pensionable in the military I think it's 10 or 15 yrs then u can retire and be pensionable.
For the age calculation Bros u get time shaaa not my business...

Hassanmaye:

Stay away from fornication you guys will not listen, thinking you are enjoying 2minutes act that will destroy your life,

Shut your mouth there.

Oyibo wey be king of fornication why God never block their ways?

No be the fornicators country all of una wan run go?

ictjobber:



You must be a very shallow individual.

And u must be a very silly animal

HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

Bro your condition has nothing to do with God or any Spirit. You are not called to be any pastor or prophet except you want to be a con man, deceive people and make a living out of it. My brother your problem is NIGERIA!!! Nigeria and its system failed you and it will also fail your next generation if you dont do anything about it.

Now listen

If you any means of raising money just travel out of that hail fire called Nigeria and watch your life turn around.
But if you want to stay back in Nigeria (good a thing you have some military training and experience) then join militancy or ESN if you are from the south south or south East.

Join the Agitation for Oduduwa nation ( Sunday igboho's men) or thuggery (dont do skull mining, it makes no sense and it is not profitable) if you are from South West.

Join Banditry if you are from the North Central.

Then Join full time Terrorism if you are from the North East or North West, and when you join any of these groups please be mean and ruthless because that is the only way to speak the langue the Nigeria state understands and very fast too.

Do these for just one year and then thank my later

slachtoffers:

Shut your mouth there.
Oyibo wey be king of fornication why God never block their ways?
No be the fornicators country all of una wan run go?

na mumu de worry that one.... brainwashed is disturbing him!

HighStar01:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a 40 year old man without a job, home or family.

I graduated from army day secondary School in the year 2000 and immediately joined the army in 2001 at the age of 17 claiming to be 18 and even bought and wrote the Nigerian defense academy exams while still in training in 2001.

I passed out as one of the best recruits and was posted the corps of military police and appointed Lance copral. I was posted to one of the most dangerous division where I continued to trying to get into the NDA and at the same time further my studies.

I wrote jamb and scored 252, was given admission to study law but the army turned it down and since I have no other means of finance I have to continue with the rigrous job.

There are so many instances where I could have lost my life but God saved me.

I was later victimized and dismissed for permitting the escape of a detainee in 2009.

I sold up all my properties including land trying to get justice since I have just five years to retire. I was fortunate enough to be employed in the federal road safety corps in 2011.

I worked for about six months when I was called back by the army. Since I have just a few years before pensionable retirement, I obliged and was deployed to the North East.

We were later court martialled and dismissed for failure to perform military duties, disobedience to a particular order and insubordination.

Ever since then I have searched for job to no avail. My wife has left with my child. My family has deserted me that I was warned to remain in frsc and not to return to the army.

I have even attempted suicide before I was rescued. Sometimes I ask God if he wants me to be a pastor. I even prayed for a dieing Man to test my faith.

I have struggled I in this life and done so many odd jobs which I would not mention.

My question is what did God want me to be.

Pls. I need your urgent advise and attention because am frustrated. Thanks.

.You won't get any answer here,as a matter of fact no pastor or imam can give you an accurate answer.
Look for a very good ifá practitioner to help you and make a good divinitition.
Don't listen to those who will tell you it's a sin,they and their pastors patronize ifá and Osun worshipers

HighStar01:
As of now I don't have the resources to come to warri I don't like to inconvenience my regus, but I will try if you can assure me and give me the days that I can stay before seeing the pastor. For my church is Deeper life bible church and am not seeing any difference after attending other churches

@HighStar01
Help will be very difficult for you to obtain from anyone or pastors of today but I must advice you to seek the face of God for prophetic direction as there is still time.

I know some genuine celestial prophet that has help my life spiritually in time of great distress and suicide attempt.

I advice you to seek help from celestial church prophet but dont forget that were there is genuine ones comes the fake ones.

BigYash:
Your own sef too much. He is asking for advice and not someone to investigate his life. Some of this nairalanders sef...

Abiiii I no understand
All his useless question
Las las he too is empty barrel

mayberry1:




Quite unfortunate. Men, please learn to always listen to your wives especially those who got married to intelligent women(bulk of grace to grass stories that has happened to men were as a result of them making decisions alone without discussing with their partner for counsel).
Do yourself a favour by moving on, dwelling in the past won't help. In as much as I don't wanna hold brief for your wife, it could be she saw the writing on the wall but you never listened.
There are lots of petty menial jobs you could do, you can as well become a sperm donor�(the point is for you to do any legal thing to stay alive pending when things get better).

Listening to his wife has nothing to do with him being court-martial, shits happens.