₦airaland Forum

iLegendd:
I'll only prime it — changing it is a personal race.

Now you're talking. I came to Nairaland broke in 2016 and didn't ask anyone to show me the way. I paved it myself.

Why? Cuz for this life, I no believe say anybody dey owe me. I owe myself success and victory and I owe myself happiness and laugher.

What I did was to:

1. Know the solutions I could provide (you must have a digital skill)
2. The problems people are facing on this forum I could solve
3. How to endure abuses from haters (because the moment you're succeeding, you're going to get lots of haters and fans whether you like it or not)
4. How to monetize the skills — being a Father Christmas for too long is stupidity, not kindness

I started by teaching men about dating and how to handle dating palava + sex and relationship in general for single and married.

Everything was free and I made lots of progress. As I said earlier, the moment you're succeeding, haters will increase.

It's just the same way you'll get more haters and secret admirers if you're taller, richer, more beautiful and more intelligent than most.

As the haters trooped in like clueless Nigerian army attacking Book Haram, I played a smart one on them by copying all my posts and turning them to books, then deleted the free posts and deactivated my main account and opened a new one to start selling the books since I have built trust and a big fanbase with my free contents.

Trust matters and it sells a great content.

The cheapest book is 7k and the most expensive was 20k. I later reduced the one of 20k to 10k and hundreds of people bought it.

There was a day I did a promo and made more than 300k in a day. Some people didn't believe it — they thought I was manufacturing numbers.

Those people have limiting beliefs — they don't believe in themselves, so I see no reason for them to believe in me. Charity begins at home.

It didn't stop there — my WhatsApp was buzzing with new clients. Even as I type this, there are people about to make payments.

I uploaded these same books on Amazon, Apple, Barnes and Nobles, and every international bookstores.

If you go to big libraries in Western countries and check their relationship section, you'll see those books I wrote with a broken screen phone there.

So, the books are global — the money doesn't come in Naira alone now, but in Dollars and Pounds.

With the useless Nigerian economy, when you convert these Dollars and Pounds to Naira, you'll be counting in millions of Naira.

Legitimately making your money in hard currencies is the wisest thing a Nigerian youth will ever do.

Before I knew it, the ones I uploaded to the international market generated 5 million.

I took the money, or should I say a certain percentage of the money, and invested it in Crypto and the rest is history.

The money carry belly — him don get great grand children.

Oh, I invested some offline in different undisclosed businesses. I invest more than I spend and when I decided to spend, I spend like a winner.

That's not all, but there is no need to reveal too much.

In summary, I'm jobless, but money keeps coming while I sleep because when I was serious with Nairaland some years ago, others were unserious and were after catching cruise and checking every woman's DP for soapy reason.

Now, it's my turn to be unserious and catch cruise while advising others to use their heads.

The advice is not by force. I'm only going to tell the person to use his time wisely — I won't be there to guide him or her step by step on what to do; that's quite expensive — I no be Father Christmas.

Time is more important to me than money, but this doesn't mean I waste money. In life, you can have lots of money, but you can never have all the time.

So, it's left with you to know what you're good at or acquire a new skill you can teach others tomorrow and make millions.

What works for me may not work for you, but as long as it has worked for me, it will work for others even better.

It's sad my answer to your question is vague — it's because that's the best I can offer at the moment.

Time is of essence. Even when I mange to have free time, I don't give it to people for free or cheaply.

Unfortunately, at the moment, I don't offer paid or free guide/mentorship on anything I'm good or great at.

I pray this epistle of mine helps you out in changing your mindset.

I'm free like a bird and I deserve some sanity and calmness.

maasoap:
You still don't believe me? Go to romance section, you will see his last messages and apologies for misrepresenting his gender. And of course, there are imposters like Zz0r, Zorr and so on

peepydelano:
Don't be so sure of what you don't know,all those accounts plus the ones making apologies on her behalf ain't hers. Guy free me for the little girl matter person wey don register with another account and preparing for her exams .The other one said na chibuzor be her name on top person wey no be Igbo.

luminouz:
How you take know? U be her boyfriend?

laiperi:
Why you wan get poor brokeass man in trouble with a beautiful lady. You go give am for free or love?

Daniiel:
like last week I was in uba their customer care precisely to rectify some ish ... there was this very pretty gal that was in charge and was attending to customers so customers wer just relating sternly with her I guess because of the much crowd n covid rules ... so as it got to my turn i complimented everything about her and engaged her in a few verbal intercourse she was so excited and happy that nobody has made her happy/special like this today(while this was going on crowd wer behind me .. we relax like sey na beer palour we dey) ... she took care of the so called bills I was to pay . after that i knew we have wrong perception of pretty gals

Eauxclaires:
On the contrary, Ladies I have seen that people really like (both men and women) weren't extremely beautiful. They were just in between.
I would like to tag them as attractive
The beautiful ones that from after looked very pretty...when you finally have continuous contact with them you discover they were just 'meh'..They are very beautiful but nothing else to keep your attention
The ones I discovered usually had men around them were even average..and these men seem to genuinely like them. Though I discovered these ladies were nice, relatively selfless.

Olatara:
There is this lady in my department, beautiful but rude and cocky.

Then I discovered she is very lonely, infact her only friend is one married Alhaja.

Sometimes, I dey pity her, but I detest rudeness.

Rozcol:
Being rude and cocky may be a personal trait for her but maybe something might have triggered such,it has affected the way she behave towards people in a negative way.

18wheeler:
True. Quite a number also feel insecure so much that they miss out on genuine relationships. My experience, she got involved with the wrong guys early in life and it resulted in her building some kind of fence around her even if she felt empty inside. Theres this want to be loved but yet this fear that she would just be taken advantage of. Every man to her that moment was just there for her body and nothing else. When she needed, she would just hang out, bubble, get high and even get to do crazy stuff. Then next day she would wake up angry, feeling used, tears would follow and she would withdraw back into the fence she built around her. Was really a mental battle to reset her perception about men and even herself.

TplenT:
Boss,I sent you a mail on you email lu****06@yahoo.com
Kindly check Sir. Thc

Rozcol:
Even with a good character you will still experience cruel reactions from people,even fellow women would sometimes take the lead to maltreat you. I was defending a project recently and the only woman in the midst of the supervisors(judges) was hell bent on disorganizing me,she went as far as saying this isnt a beauty peagant to have warranted me to put on such expensive cloth, I wasn't even on makeup, she was just unnecessarily dragging me and I didn't know when I started crying, the men understood what was happening and they became furious at her,I couldn't continue and had to go hide in a corner to cry,she later looked for me to apologize and said she's sorry for having a misconstrued perception of me,took me to her office to make me feel good and rescheduled another day for my project defense, I've been a victim of so many of these things which has really affected my self esteem,I'm only bold online but introverted offline

TplenT:
Boss,I sent you a mail on you email lu****06@yahoo.com

Kindly check Sir.
Thc

I'll only prime it — changing it is a personal race.

Now you're talking. I came to Nairaland broke in 2016 and didn't ask anyone to show me the way. I paved it myself.

Why? Cuz for this life, I no believe say anybody dey owe me. I owe myself success and victory and I owe myself happiness and laugher.

What I did was to:

1. Know the solutions I could provide (you must have a digital skill)
2. The problems people are facing on this forum I could solve
3. How to endure abuses from haters (because the moment you're succeeding, you're going to get lots of haters and fans whether you like it or not)
4. How to monetize the skills — being a Father Christmas for too long is stupidity, not kindness

I started by teaching men about dating and how to handle dating palava + sex and relationship in general for single and married.

Everything was free and I made lots of progress. As I said earlier, the moment you're succeeding, haters will increase.

It's just the same way you'll get more haters and secret admirers if you're taller, richer, more beautiful and more intelligent than most.

As the haters trooped in like clueless Nigerian army attacking Book Haram, I played a smart one on them by copying all my posts and turning them to books, then deleted the free posts and deactivated my main account and opened a new one to start selling the books since I have built trust and a big fanbase with my free contents.

Trust matters and it sells a great content.

The cheapest book is 7k and the most expensive was 20k. I later reduced the one of 20k to 10k and hundreds of people bought it.

There was a day I did a promo and made more than 300k in a day. Some people didn't believe it — they thought I was manufacturing numbers.

Those people have limiting beliefs — they don't believe in themselves, so I see no reason for them to believe in me. Charity begins at home.

It didn't stop there — my WhatsApp was buzzing with new clients. Even as I type this, there are people about to make payments.

I uploaded these same books on Amazon, Apple, Barnes and Nobles, and every international bookstores.

If you go to big libraries in Western countries and check their relationship section, you'll see those books I wrote with a broken screen phone there.

So, the books are global — the money doesn't come in Naira alone now, but in Dollars and Pounds.

With the useless Nigerian economy, when you convert these Dollars and Pounds to Naira, you'll be counting in millions of Naira.

Legitimately making your money in hard currencies is the wisest thing a Nigerian youth will ever do.

Before I knew it, the ones I uploaded to the international market generated 5 million.

I took the money, or should I say a certain percentage of the money, and invested it in Crypto and the rest is history.

The money carry belly — him don get great grand children.

Oh, I invested some offline in different undisclosed businesses. I invest more than I spend and when I decided to spend, I spend like a winner.

That's not all, but there is no need to reveal too much.

In summary, I'm jobless, but money keeps coming while I sleep because when I was serious with Nairaland some years ago, others were unserious and were after catching cruise and checking every woman's DP for soapy reason.

Now, it's my turn to be unserious and catch cruise while advising others to use their heads.

The advice is not by force. I'm only going to tell the person to use his time wisely — I won't be there to guide him or her step by step on what to do; that's quite expensive — I no be Father Christmas.

Time is more important to me than money, but this doesn't mean I waste money. In life, you can have lots of money, but you can never have all the time.

So, it's left with you to know what you're good at or acquire a new skill you can teach others tomorrow and make millions.

What works for me may not work for you, but as long as it has worked for me, it will work for others even better.

It's sad my answer to your question is vague — it's because that's the best I can offer at the moment.

Time is of essence. Even when I mange to have free time, I don't give it to people for free or cheaply.

Unfortunately, at the moment, I don't offer paid or free guide/mentorship on anything I'm good or great at.

I pray this epistle of mine helps you out in changing your mindset.

I'm free like a bird and I deserve some sanity and calmness.