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Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 4:50pm On Nov 06, 2020
Bitter Truth: Main Reason Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays.

Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke & depend on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...

I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can easily marry for love & all these few years contract-marriages will end. The most annoying part of this is that most ladies think men need just a housekeeper, cook or a nanny; but they really need a partner who should be a real woman; which is a true helper of her man, that's what woman means.

Common! the two people became one under marriage, there's nothing like the woman's money & there's also nothing like the man's; both are meant to share everything together. Many ladies love a man's material things not him nowadays, that's why marriages hardly start or last today...

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ZIINI: 5:00pm On Nov 06, 2020
Men don wise up
Na women marriage pay that's why their very desperate to get married
Was in a prayer one day and this lady next to me is praying so loud that I can hear her clearly.
Her prayer in youruba was O lord provide my own husband for me .
The pastor call off the prayer and I looked at her closely although she's not that old mere looking at her she can't be more than 27/30 if my age was the same with hers there ain't no way I'm gonna think of marriage. grin
And come to think of it marrying a girl in this era is a bad idea. A girl that already have 15 to 20 body count before marriage knowing this will I still want to marry her plus you're not a proustite and your puunani is public. Let's be sincere the only way a nigarrr can marry you is if he doesn't know all this .
One major problem is our country
A nigarrrr that is earning 35K and you're telling him to go and marry abeg shey you wan kill am nii
35k wey be say you no fit carry am go ball for quilox
And person wey him wan marry no get work.
Ladies if you're yet to get married don't think it's a generational curse or maybe you have husband issues
NO the better truth is men don wise up cool


All this likes you're giving me
How I wish I can multiply it by dollars and cash out562 x 383 = #137,880

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 5:11pm On Nov 06, 2020
MiaB:
Shallow assertion
Deep comment

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Skepticus: 6:11pm On Nov 06, 2020
Kranediggy:
Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke and are depending on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...




I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can settle down for love easily and all these few years contract marriages will end.


What are the valuable benefits of marriage to men these days outside raising kids and the deception called companionship?

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 6:56pm On Nov 06, 2020
Skepticus:


What is the valuable benefits of marriage to men these days outside raising kids and the deception called companionship?
That's what am trying to twig bro...Meanwhile guys here's my first Front Page topic!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by HomerTimpson: 7:31pm On Nov 06, 2020
MiaB:
Shallow assertion
as in ehn, i think he pull this thought outta his anus.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by HomerTimpson: 7:32pm On Nov 06, 2020
Kranediggy:
Deep comment
so deep

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 8:01pm On Nov 06, 2020
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Churchill6767: 8:19pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Shameless leech.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 8:24pm On Nov 06, 2020
HomerTimpson:
as in ehn, i think he pull this thought outta his anus.
Am sure you ain't married sef and you're not as rich as your crush will give you a chance grin...See your head, you're here trying to be on the ladies' side; as if any of 'em will look your way, If you're broke or Are you a woman claiming man behind that moniker?

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 8:25pm On Nov 06, 2020
HomerTimpson:
so deep
grin Indeed O!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 8:33pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
Choi! Aspiring housewife spotted. Nne no go develop yourself and your mentality; be there looking for a man that will spend what your daddy can't spend on you. This is 21st Century o! Women are now becoming powerful and you're here wallowing in outdated lifestlye. Your type will press your man with iron...

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Judybash93(m): 8:55pm On Nov 06, 2020
Skepticus:


What are the valuable benefits of marriage to men these days outside raising kids and the deception called companionship?

I won't even consider raising kids to be a valuable benefit. It's more of a liability

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 8:57pm On Nov 06, 2020
Kranediggy:
Choi! Aspiring housewife spotted. Nne no go develop yourself and your mentality; be there looking for a man that will spend what your daddy can't spend on you. This is 21st Century o! Women are now becoming powerful and you're here wallowing in outdated lifestlye. Your type will press your man with iron...
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Skepticus: 8:57pm On Nov 06, 2020
Judybash93:


I won't even consider raising kids to be a valuable benefit. It's more of a liability

I had to call it "valuable" because of the natural instincts of most humans to pass their genes into the next generation. I agree with the liability part.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 9:03pm On Nov 06, 2020
1. Economical and financial reasons. Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world.

2. Absence of moral compass. Most young men would rather have sex with different women and probably father kids, than get married. Probably for fear of losing their independence or because of a pattern they noticed in their own families while growing up.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by deewhydoski(m): 9:16pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.
So it is a man money that is to be shared. I don't know why u guys keep quoting all these 18 to 20 years old girls

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ZIINI: 9:26pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
Full house what!!!! angry
Girls like you are just a piece of shit TF angry

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 9:33pm On Nov 06, 2020
ZIINI:
Full house what!!!! angry Girls like you are just a piece of shit TF angry
Damn! fake ass girls

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 9:35pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

I shame for ur mama and papa!!!

TUFIAKWA MENTALITYgringrin

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 9:36pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.
This is really wrong my dear and also outdated. Come online!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 9:38pm On Nov 06, 2020
ZIINI:

Full house what!!!! angry
Girls like you are just a piece of shit TF angry
Zini you better respect yourself, don't let me insult you this night.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Unik3030: 9:42pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.
but a man's money can b shared?

this is one of the major reason y people have problem in marriage,self centred entitled leeches.

wahala for who marries a leech,this your warped mindset will always b a problem even if u marry an angel

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by 400billionman: 9:44pm On Nov 06, 2020
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ZIINI: 9:46pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
Zini you better respect yourself, don't let me insult you this night.

What you typed up there use to happen 2000 years ago not this 21 century
We already have independent girls now
I'm sure you come across them when you go out don't you envy them too.?
Just this morning I saw a girl driving a Benz E class
And here you are, aspiring to be a full house wife
When your husband money is gone you as a wife you're expected to support him now tell me how do you want to support him when you sit your ass at home all day
Doing nothing all in the name of house wife.
After sometimes without him dropping anything at home you will later frustrate his life
And from there problem will set in ...
Girls of nowadays I don't know maybe you think with your pusssy. Girls like you are just a piece of junk angry

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 9:46pm On Nov 06, 2020
Randy91:


I shame for ur mama and papa!!!

TUFIAKWA MENTALITYgringrin
Don't you ever in your miserable life insult my parent again, i don't joke with them, if your parent didn't teach you manners then look for who will teach you, miserable he-goat.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 9:48pm On Nov 06, 2020
Unik3030:
but a man's money can b shared?

this is one of the major reason y people have problem in marriage,self centred entitled leeches.

wahala for who marries a leech,this your warped mindset will always b a problem even if u marry an angel
Na this kind mindset dey hinder many men from getting married. No one wants to part ways after spending on wedding and involving people...

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Unik3030: 9:52pm On Nov 06, 2020
Kranediggy:
Na this kind mindset dey hinder many men from getting married. No one wants to part ways after spending on wedding and involving people...
just imagine,many unintelligent girls have turned themselves to commodities n that's y they are easily replaced since they have no value but only serve as liability.

just imagine buying a car n u are spending on it,no time u feel like getting another one n u replace it,that's what these brain dead girls are turning themselves too but they don't want to b replaced.imagine someone will to b a full time housewife in this present day Nigeria,even Aisha buhari self dey hustle

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