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|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by GeneralPula: 10:35am On Apr 16|
Ahh bros, jahbless yuh real good!
This made me believe a lot of Nigerians don’t understand what is a beautiful woman!
A lot of people have mistaken light skin, cute face to beautiful..
Majority of Nigeria women are always inducing demselves with one or two artificial things, just to look beautiful... A beautiful woman doesn’t induce herself with anything. It’s naturally in her & it stays forever. Such women are so rare to find!
Beautiful women in Nigeria are not up to 3%. Such women don’t have problems at all with men. Infact, beautiful women are gentle minded & kind heart..
Extremely beautiful women my foot !
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by 18wheeler: 10:39am On Apr 16|
jantman:True. Quite a number also feel insecure so much that they miss out on genuine relationships. My experience, she got involved with the wrong guys early in life and it resulted in her building some kind of fence around her even if she felt empty inside. Theres this want to be loved but yet this fear that she would just be taken advantage of. Every man to her that moment was just there for her body and nothing else. When she needed, she would just hang out, bubble, get high and even get to do crazy stuff. Then next day she would wake up angry, feeling used, tears would follow and she would withdraw back into the fence she built around her. Was really a mental battle to reset her perception about men and even herself.
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|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by kushme: 10:41am On Apr 16|
Most guys are confused when it comes to what a beauty is, well who am I to defined what a beauty should be to another man, cos they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder ...
They try to confuse us with quotes everywhere.
No doubt, people get attracted to people for different reasons.
However, if it is strictly physical, then what is beautiful is beautiful, the reason most girls wear make up is to increase their facial beauty and to be physically attractive....
To some people, If you ain't trendy and wearing heavy make-up, then you ain't beautiful...
Sometimes, you hear guys say things like, just polish the girl she go fine(make up fine)...
Chika Ike is okay but not a pretty face girl..
Zara Buhari, Genevieve Nnaji are raw beauties without make up...
Make-up is no raw beauty...
Simple and straight ....
I could sleep and wake on the same bed with two of those ladies(you know the two already) without worrying about what kinda face I would wake up to in the morning..
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 10:55am On Apr 16|
Understand that beauty is but one quality and you shouldn't dwell on it at the expense of other qualities that make up your dynamic personality.
Now imagine you're in a beauty contest and everyone there is "extremely" beautiful as well, what other qualities do you think you possess that will make you stand out and possibly go on to win that contest? So you see its better to focus on those other qualities than the beauty which you've got already.
Finally, learn to differentiate the favors your good looks brought you from those things you've earned on merit and hard work and focus more on the latter as that will give a more lasting boost to your self esteem.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by WUdec: 10:58am On Apr 16|
Beautiful women in Nigeria, that is.
Outside Nigeria, they wouldn't dare because the options are enormous. So doing so will keep you single and undesired for years
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by hush15: 11:09am On Apr 16|
Had quite a handful beautiful girls so far and lessons from them are innumerable. It's one thing to be beautiful, it's another to be confident, or be disciplined and principled or smart or humble or all of them. You wan hear truth, the beautifuls don't even help themselves.
They are one of the most adamant people av ever met.
They rely more on their beauty for most, even with or without brain.
They are often rude and full of themselves.
Even them don't trust themselves, not to mention others.
More importantly, cos they have access to so many things, they lack discipline.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by jantman(m): 11:09am On Apr 16|
I understand how you feel. Most times you will be maltreated by your fellow women out of jealousy. No guy will maltreat you out of jealousy but I explore you to have a lowly mindset and look beautiful from the inside.
NOTE: Your good character will develope when you bears all things.
Don't forget that too many years of stress will diminish your beauty. Eat healthy food and take good care of yourself.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by hush15: 11:14am On Apr 16|
Yimu, na so you beautiful reach
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by adonnie: 11:16am On Apr 16|
Anybody who has dated a moderately mannered pretty gal will know this. They are very lonely and not as confident as they look bt very nice to be with. I miss my Ex sometimes. Lolz
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by havilla(f): 11:26am On Apr 16|
I don't know what this thread is meant to achieve as different group of people face worse stereotypes and discrimination everyday. Imagine what fat people go through, people considered ugly, albinos, people with disabilities, skin conditions and the list goes on. And you expect people to cry for you because of you are "extremely beautiful " whatever that means, knowing fully well that it comes with more privileges. Infact this post is an insult to those who face real problems.
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|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by chyzoo4u(m): 11:43am On Apr 16|
Guy how far? We still dey wait you for that NYSC thread make you come finish the story abeg
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by atilla(m): 12:02pm On Apr 16|
Excuse me Oga. No vex I clove me find u from the Nysa thread where u were giving some hot gist.
Please come back and finish o. I'm sure I have like 10 mentions already�� Abeg mention me when U drop the gist.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Eastcaostboy: 12:02pm On Apr 16|
Havesomesense:Boy, learn to be humble with words you use in addressing issues. You are arrogant by nature
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Havesomesense(m): 1:26pm On Apr 16|
Sorry Sir ooo
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by iLegendd: 1:53pm On Apr 16|
I didn't mean to correct you. I just wanted to see how you'll react. When you corrected her, she accepted and told you to help her correct anywhere she made a mistake.
When it was your turn, you first of all said, "I know," before saying thanks. From the way you write, I already know that you know — it's just a typo.
All I wanted was for you to just accept you made a mistake without letting me know that you know. I make lots of mistakes too.
When I corrected you, you didn't accept, but said you know.
All of us can he humble and at the same time arrogant. The line, "I know" shows 80% arrogance.
I use it too, but twice a year. Other times, I just pretend I didn't know even though I know — just to make the other person feel good and smart.
It's not everything we know we should say we know. At times it's good to act dumb/humble as if you don't.
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|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Havesomesense(m): 1:59pm On Apr 16|
Don't take nairaland too serious. Adiós
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by iLegendd: 2:20pm On Apr 16|
I took Nairaland seriously and made millions from Nairaland while lying on my bed. Why did I expose this? It's not to brag but to let you know the word "seriously" is subjective — just the same way poverty is.
What you shouldn't take seriously is Facebook, except you're selling a product.
Nairaland is to be taken seriously (because there is wealth here) and one way to do that is by not abusing innocent people, but creating threads and teaching people something you're knowledgeable at.
She created a serious thread to discuss something she's knowledgeable in, but you came to make her feel bad.
I correct people too, but only when I sense something in their behaviors. I don't make it abusive.
The truth is: the unserious people on this forum will log out with negative energy or a feeling of accomplishment because they've succeeded in hurting a superior's ego, but the serious ones will log out with more clients, more smiles, and more money in their accounts.
Though, once in a while, the negative and unserious ones will make them log out feeling humiliated, but they'll bounce back and keep progressing.
90% seriousness and 10% unseriousness is what you need.
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|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by EdricBond: 2:30pm On Apr 16|
iLegendd:No mind am. I never expected anyone with his kind of moniker to behave this way. He clearly has little or no sense, even though he claims to with his moniker.
But Nairaland just dey vex for you shaaa, na so they deleted your yesterday thread.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Auraby(f): 2:37pm On Apr 16|
bigpicture001:You got it wrong not all are like that. The types you're talking about have inborn altitude problems and are usually from proud family. We are blessed in my lineage with beauty courtesy of our maternal grandma of fond memories. And we are humble to a fault. But men always see us as sex object but we never give in to them.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by FRANKOSKI(m): 2:37pm On Apr 16|
YOU MAY THINK THAT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL,BUT TO ME .....YOU MIGHT BE THE UGLIEST WOMAN I'VE EVER SEEN.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Havesomesense(m): 2:53pm On Apr 16|
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by nineone(m): 2:58pm On Apr 16|
This is not true.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Havesomesense(m): 3:04pm On Apr 16|
For me nairaland is just to catch cruise, but you can change my mindset.
How can I make money from nairaland?
I am eager to learn. Gracias.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by spadar4u(m): 3:19pm On Apr 16|
Rozcol:A sha yarinya arewa Che. Yaya azumi?
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by bigpicture001: 3:20pm On Apr 16|
You see..? No single. Man sees a beautiful lady ask sex object.. Men all want to adhere and show off with their besties.. They want to b attached to them. Dey want to have children as beautiful as the ladies.but dat attitude problem which is very common with beautiful ladies is wot informed u of men seeing u as sex object.. And makes u look down on very humble proposals....
I study nature so meticulously. I know for am saying..
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by spadar4u(m): 3:21pm On Apr 16|
A sha yarinya arewa Che. Yaya azumi?
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Jeon(m): 3:32pm On Apr 16|
spadar4u:who's is this and what is this nonessential you typed?
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Jeon(m): 3:33pm On Apr 16|
spadar4u:who's is this and what is this nonessential you typed?
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by vislabraye(m): 4:08pm On Apr 16|
Interesting!!! And many women spend millions to make themselves beautiful
What I have observed so far is that beautiful women are usually easily favored by both men and women. They get lots of compliments and free attention.
Some of them use their toto as well to get what they want.
Anyhow you see it, it's better to be beautiful than to be ugly.
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|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by iLegendd: 4:36pm On Apr 16|
I'll only prime it — changing it is a personal race.
Now you're talking. I came to Nairaland broke in 2016 and didn't ask anyone to show me the way. I paved it myself.
Why? Cuz for this life, I no believe say anybody dey owe me. I owe myself success and victory and I owe myself happiness and laugher.
What I did was to:
1. Know the solutions I could provide (you must have a digital skill)
2. The problems people are facing on this forum I could solve
3. How to endure abuses from haters (because the moment you're succeeding, you're going to get lots of haters and fans whether you like it or not)
4. How to monetize the skills — being a Father Christmas for too long is stupidity, not kindness
I started by teaching men about dating and how to handle dating palava + sex and relationship in general for single and married.
Everything was free and I made lots of progress. As I said earlier, the moment you're succeeding, haters will increase.
It's just the same way you'll get more haters and secret admirers if you're taller, richer, more beautiful and more intelligent than most.
As the haters trooped in like clueless Nigerian army attacking Book Haram, I played a smart one on them by copying all my posts and turning them to books, then deleted the free posts and deactivated my main account and opened a new one to start selling the books since I have built trust and a big fanbase with my free contents.
Trust matters and it sells a great content.
The cheapest book is 7k and the most expensive was 20k. I later reduced the one of 20k to 10k and hundreds of people bought it.
There was a day I did a promo and made more than 300k in a day. Some people didn't believe it — they thought I was manufacturing numbers.
Those people have limiting beliefs — they don't believe in themselves, so I see no reason for them to believe in me. Charity begins at home.
It didn't stop there — my WhatsApp was buzzing with new clients. Even as I type this, there are people about to make payments.
I uploaded these same books on Amazon, Apple, Barnes and Nobles, and every international bookstores.
If you go to big libraries in Western countries and check their relationship section, you'll see those books I wrote with a broken screen phone there.
So, the books are global — the money doesn't come in Naira alone now, but in Dollars and Pounds.
With the useless Nigerian economy, when you convert these Dollars and Pounds to Naira, you'll be counting in millions of Naira.
Legitimately making your money in hard currencies is the wisest thing a Nigerian youth will ever do.
Before I knew it, the ones I uploaded to the international market generated 5 million.
I took the money, or should I say a certain percentage of the money, and invested it in Crypto and the rest is history.
The money carry belly — him don get great grand children.
Oh, I invested some offline in different undisclosed businesses. I invest more than I spend and when I decided to spend, I spend like a winner.
That's not all, but there is no need to reveal too much.
In summary, I'm jobless, but money keeps coming while I sleep because when I was serious with Nairaland some years ago, others were unserious and were after catching cruise and checking every woman's DP for soapy reason.
Now, it's my turn to be unserious and catch cruise while advising others to use their heads.
The advice is not by force. I'm only going to tell the person to use his time wisely — I won't be there to guide him or her step by step on what to do; that's quite expensive — I no be Father Christmas.
Time is more important to me than money, but this doesn't mean I waste money. In life, you can have lots of money, but you can never have all the time.
So, it's left with you to know what you're good at or acquire a new skill you can teach others tomorrow and make millions.
What works for me may not work for you, but as long as it has worked for me, it will work for others even better.
It's sad my answer to your question is vague — it's because that's the best I can offer at the moment.
Time is of essence. Even when I mange to have free time, I don't give it to people for free or cheaply.
Unfortunately, at the moment, I don't offer paid or free guide/mentorship on anything I'm good or great at.
I pray this epistle of mine helps you out in changing your mindset.
I'm free like a bird and I deserve some sanity and calmness.
|Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by maasoap(m): 5:31pm On Apr 16|
You still don't believe me? Go to romance section, you will see his last messages and apologies for misrepresenting his gender. And of course, there are imposters like Zz0r, Zorr and so on
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