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... by Nobody: 8:20pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
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Re: ... by CanadianNaija: 8:25pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
There's nothing like IBO, its IGBO. The person doesn't need to identify as igbo, just don't come and misspell the name biko. You don't see people saying they're yeruba. You're either Yoruba or you're not. 5 Likes |
Re: ... by harmargedon: 8:29pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
yes it works. 2 Likes |
Re: ... by GuyInTheMirror: 8:32pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
1195meters:How come your friend is not looking to marry a single man, must she marry a divorcee ? The cane that was used to beat the former wife is kept in the drawer for the new wife.. 3 Likes |
Re: ... by Nobody: 8:34pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
GuyInTheMirror:She's looking for a single, never married person like herself. It just happens the man who has come her way is a divorcee |
Re: ... by GuyInTheMirror: 8:41pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
1195meters:They have been chatting for a month and they already love each other... Seems she is desperate to marry and he can see that in her therefore he will probably take advantage of that. I wish her luck sha... Me too I am in my early 30s and still looking for a wife, may God lead us so we do not marry wrongly. 4 Likes |
Re: ... by faithfull18(f): 8:45pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
1195meters:She should calm down before she enters into a ditch. 1 Like |
Re: ... by doggedfighter(f): 9:02pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
Why's the man rushing her? 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
1195meters: So because the single man is not forthcoming for now is enough reason for her to settle for a divorcee? A man that can not keep his first marriage will not be able to handle a second one. Trust me. 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 9:11pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
Well... For your info, Igbo marriage is not the same as Yoruba marriage o. Ome Nala Kan nku. Can she cope? |
Re: ... by GuyInTheMirror: 9:13pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
AsherAmari:The lady is abroad and most Nigerian single met that I have met abroad prefer to go back and marry from Nigeria. So as a single lady in her 30s getting a single guy to settle down with might not be easy. But then, I will advise her to take it easy and not rush into that marriage. I wish her goodluck. |
Re: ... by Nobody: 9:17pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
GuyInTheMirror: Better to stay single than enter into hell. If you know what I mean. Na before marriage Dey do person giri giri for body. Not anymore, especially due to the kind of men that are out there these days. Marriage has lost it's savour. 2 Likes |
Re: ... by sisisioge: 9:24pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
Since they are both abroad, it will work. Infact, they should count themselves lucky that they found each other in a country full of diverse tribes, ethnicities, cultures and nationals. If they are in Nigeria though, it will be a real struggle for them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ... by GuyInTheMirror: 9:24pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
AsherAmari:Which kain discouraging advise be this na,I am a single and responsible man. Not all men are bad jare. |
Re: ... by GuyInTheMirror: 9:25pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
sisisioge:This is not true, that they are both abroad nor mean say he go work. Plenty of Nigerian marriages don scatter for this obodo oyinbo wen we dey so. |
Re: ... by farous(m): 9:26pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
Igbo-Yoruba marriage is not always common. Igbo -Niger Delta or igbo- North Central works better than Igbo - Yoruba. Yoruba -Yoruba is always common 2 Likes |
Re: ... by sisisioge: 9:29pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
GuyInTheMirror: Oh, the discussion here is based on the singular factor that they are of different tribes. Other factors such as values, views, sexual compatibility, communication, etc will be considered too. Essentially, the probability of different tribes being successful in marriage is higher when the couple is far from home. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by Nobody: 9:29pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
GuyInTheMirror: Wait until that time, then you'll know who you truely are. . Have a nice day. |
Re: ... by LadySarah: 9:30pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
Must be a confused fellow judging from how he calls himself 'Ibo'.What is Ibo? If he sponsors his family abroad,its not strange for them to find their feet first before looking for accomodation.You the woman would do same if your folks come over. As for Divorce matters,best do your findings before tying any knot.You can call the ex wife to verify . |
Re: ... by Solsix(m): 9:34pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
My uncle is marring a yoruba woman. Intially my grand parents were against the marriage but thank God my uncle married that lady. They are made for each other. Even my grand parents are proud of thier daughter in law 2 Likes |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
LadySarah:He first mentioned they are to live with them permanently then later said it won't be permanent. My friend is worried he can change his mind again later to permanent. My friend has considered reaching the first wife to inquire, only that she has no info about her. He only told her she moved to another city, she doesn't know anything else about her My friend's folks are already abroad |
Re: ... by LadySarah: 10:08pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
1195meters: Search on fb,connect to her family from there.Stylishly bring out conversations about her and make iinvestigations from there.A man whose wifes family returned her bride price just for a short marriage shoukd be totally investigated.We call it 'Iju ese'. |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:22pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
LadySarah:How will she search pls? The man isn't giving her any info. She doesn't know the ex wife's name, location ( only that she's in another city ). He hasn't told her his own last name either, he says he will tell her later |
Re: ... by Ishilove: 10:29pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
GuyInTheMirror:A divorcee is a single man. As long as he is legally divorced, I don't see the problem with marrying a divorcee 2 Likes |
Re: ... by GuyInTheMirror: 10:52pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
1195meters:And she is already in love abi ? That woman is just desperate. I know you are the person in question..... Na like say person dey play ludo but think well, sometimes it is better to be single than married to the wrong person... |
Re: ... by Nobody: 2:16pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
I don't see why they can't. |
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:41pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
GuyInTheMirror:My friend isn't desperate. She's been single practically all her life. She's finally giving love a chance, just so happens the man who has come her way was previously married The man doesn't have kids from the marriage. Had the man any kids from the marriage she wouldn't consider him, she doesn't want a single father |
Re: ... by Lostchild(m): 11:06am On Apr 20, 2021 |
CanadianNaija: Let me correct You I know one woman that says: (house lent) instead of house rent.. Why? In Warri or Delta we don't use the word Igbo We used Ibo people because it is our accent Get this into you: for we deltans it is Ibo people not igbo |
Re: ... by CanadianNaija: 9:34pm On Apr 20, 2021 |
Lostchild: Maybe the warri and delta you mentioned is a different one from where I grew up in the south, but having an accent is different from purposely misspelling a word. Deltans can claim to be anything they want, no one cares. But you can not rewrite the spelling of our tribe. We are Igbos not Ibos. |
Re: ... by Lostchild(m): 11:05pm On Apr 20, 2021 |
CanadianNaija: Example UK: I've gor o go US: I got to go Standard English: I have to go or I need to go You see theit accent? You are Igbo (fine) we don't care You cannot change our accent as we know your ethinic as Ibo people. |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:48am On May 13, 2021 |
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