Onetenth:
My biggest advice here is

*Fear the power of polygamy
*Give your children the best education they want
*Don't be too pissed to lay curses at your kids on any slight provocation.

My story won't be long

I believe every downfall I probably might have encountered or still encountering is because of the above examples.

This has affected me to the stage that a 28years guy like me can't boast of being a man in the house despite being the eldest presently.

I have failed in all ramifications, and I'm scared I might still fail. I don't give up easily, but I'm just pouring out my mind here so as to give advice and also receive some advice in return.

Imagine someone promised to give a car to me for e-hailing only for them to give someone else who they claim is a family, while I was running around to finish my documentation with them. I have so depended on them.

Just this morning I withdrew cash from pos to pay a VIO agent who wants to help me with my driver's license. Only for me to realize I was scammed by this man. He told me he works at VIO at yaba office because that is close to my side. I met him this morning at jibowu underbridge to handover the cash to me, and he told me to come back at 1:00pm for documentation and biometric only for me to call him and I realized his number was also saying busy, then later not available. I went to ask of him at VIO office I was told no one bears his name.

I'm back to square one again, lookin g for another money to do the drivers license, I got home just now I was told my son is ill. No cash on me as a father, I have failed.

Life is unfair, it is well..

Foodqueen:
Give us the reasons for the aforementioned.

What did u deal with growing up

Righteousness2:
Your problems are not ordinary. There is a cause. Until the cause of your problem is dealt with, you may keep going doing everything with little Or nothing to show.

Go to The Lord's Chosen charismatic revival ministry and get your freedom.

Mikeeytools:
OP you are not street smart. That's just the problem. How can u give someone money under the bridge.

Onetenth:
I was born into a polygamous home, hell I saw growing up. I have once created a thread on that with my former moniker. Infact the thread hit Frontpage few weeks ago

Secondly, my parent didn't take my education serious while growing up, especially my tertiary education.

Lastly, while growing up mom can swear ehn! Those things I guess are telling on me now

Caaz:
Things dey happen Sha .I think I remember you now.slimqqqui or something similar to that name

Stevenbright:


You need to change your mindset.

Nobody can do you except you! Your mind is your greatrst asset and you need to use it positively.

You need to develop a positive mental attitude which you currently lack!

I suggest you read up some of Napoleon Hill books most especially "Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude" , "Outwitting The Devil" and "Think and Grow Rich".

I have the PDF editions of these books and you can drop your email and I will send them to you if interested.

Onetenth:
I met him a year ago disgusing as vio personnel with some colleagues when he stopped d car I was driving. He demanded for my DL which I don't have. He threatened to take the car to their office and yunno what will happen if he does, I had to bribe my way that day and he released me, it was that day he gave me his contact that I must do my DL.

Onetenth:
My biggest advice here is

*Fear the power of polygamy
*Give your children the best education they want
*Don't be too pissed to lay curses at your kids on any slight provocation.

My story won't be long

I believe every downfall I probably might have encountered or still encountering is because of the above examples.

This has affected me to the stage that a 28years guy like me can't boast of being a man in the house despite being the eldest presently.

I have failed in all ramifications, and I'm scared I might still fail. I don't give up easily, but I'm just pouring out my mind here so as to give advice and also receive some advice in return.

Imagine someone promised to give a car to me for e-hailing only for them to give someone else who they claim is a family, while I was running around to finish my documentation with them. I have so depended on them.

Just this morning I withdrew cash from pos to pay a VIO agent who wants to help me with my driver's license. Only for me to realize I was scammed by this man. He told me he works at VIO at yaba office because that is close to my side. I met him this morning at jibowu underbridge to handover the cash to me, and he told me to come back at 1:00pm for documentation and biometric only for me to call him and I realized his number was also saying busy, then later not available. I went to ask of him at VIO office I was told no one bears his name.

I'm back to square one again, lookin g for another money to do the drivers license, I got home just now I was told my son is ill. No cash on me as a father, I have failed.

Life is unfair, it is well..

TheBTCinvestor:


So he chop u two times...kai omo u need prayers bro..I Don laugh fall for floor..kikikkiki

Samantha124:
How do you do business dealings under the bridge and expect them to be legit though?

I'm sure your gut feeling tried to warn you, but you didn't listen.

Onetenth:
I take prayers seriously than food

Onetenth:
I have once been arrested by him disgusing as vio officer, I never thought of scam😔

yemmit90:
@op, in as much as I will agree with you that there is generational curse, I will also advise you to work on your mindset. The way you think is very vital to your development.

You will be surprise the next person had more issues he/she is facing than you. You are never alone as far as Nigeria is concerned, only the rulling class and elites are enjoying this country presently. Try to focus on your Transport business, get connected with another dealer, and if possible, try other things you are good at.

And most importantly, keep hoping on the Lord, he knows everything about your predicament, he will never disappoint you. Always pray and bath with SEA SALT to wade off negative energy from your self.

Wish you best of luck in all your endeavour.

Onetenth:
I met him a year ago disgusing as vio personnel with some colleagues when he stopped d car I was driving. He demanded for my DL which I don't have. He threatened to take the car to their office and yunno what will happen if he does, I had to bribe my way that day and he released me, it was that day he gave me his contact that I must do my DL.

yemmit90:
@op, in as much as I will agree with you that there is generational curse, I will also advise you to work on your mindset. The way you think is very vital to your development.

You will be surprise the next person had more issues he/she is facing than you. You are never alone as far as Nigeria is concerned, only the rulling class and elites are enjoying this country presently. Try to focus on your Transport business, get connected with another dealer, and if possible, try other things you are good at.

And most importantly, keep hoping on the Lord, he knows everything about your predicament, he will never disappoint you. Always pray and bath with SEA SALT to wade off negative energy from your self.

Wish you best of luck in all your endeavour.

Onetenth:
My biggest advice here is

*Fear the power of polygamy
*Give your children the best education they want
*Don't be too pissed to lay curses at your kids on any slight provocation.

My story won't be long

I believe every downfall I probably might have encountered or still encountering is because of the above examples.

This has affected me to the stage that a 28years guy like me can't boast of being a man in the house despite being the eldest presently.

I have failed in all ramifications, and I'm scared I might still fail. I don't give up easily, but I'm just pouring out my mind here so as to give advice and also receive some advice in return.

Imagine someone promised to give a car to me for e-hailing only for them to give someone else who they claim is a family, while I was running around to finish my documentation with them. I have so depended on them.

Just this morning I withdrew cash from pos to pay a VIO agent who wants to help me with my driver's license. Only for me to realize I was scammed by this man. He told me he works at VIO at yaba office because that is close to my side. I met him this morning at jibowu underbridge to handover the cash to me, and he told me to come back at 1:00pm for documentation and biometric only for me to call him and I realized his number was also saying busy, then later not available. I went to ask of him at VIO office I was told no one bears his name.

I'm back to square one again, lookin g for another money to do the drivers license, I got home just now I was told my son is ill. No cash on me as a father, I have failed.

Life is unfair, it is well..

frozen70:


Just don't birth another child till you find your bearing

JAkpayen:


Life is unfair to you because you caused it and you have solution to undo it. Where do you think you go for driver's licence? How can someone promise you one same day & you paid already? Even if he brought it, na "Oluwole" DL he will give you. You are responsible to take care of your family because whatever happens you will be blamed. Nobody go send you oooo!

Who told you that only graduates make it in life at this age. Many who survive are those with skills. You can start with YouTube videos on what you are passionate about