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She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by michjunior(op): 2:33pm On Apr 20, 2021
David!!.. U know I love you right? But the truth is you won't be ready when am ready!! Those where the last words of my a girl who use to be my girlfriend and I loved her very much and felt we were in love and that we are going to have a future. She just accepted another guy proposal and the guy had done introduction already... Am a serving corper here in Lagos with visions plans and aspirations which I have discussed with her it a shame she didn't believe in me.... I was devastated at first but now I have accepted reality and gotten over it with more determination to make it at all cost to prove to her at she was wrong and make my self happy.
But if there is one thing I have come to believe is the FACT THAT LOVE IS SCAM... THAT SHIT ISNT REAL... IT A SCAM FROM TIME IMMEMORIAL!!!
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by AishaYesufu: 2:49pm On Apr 20, 2021
Welcome to the real world.
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by Freestainworld(m): 2:57pm On Apr 20, 2021
Just move on, she's not meant for you.
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by BeautyO(f): 3:00pm On Apr 20, 2021
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Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by KidDarkness(m): 3:20pm On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:
LGBTQ are still recruiting.. never too late to join �
What type of referral is this? Why will you tell someone that likes booby traps and curvaceous backsides to change overnight and follow hairy butts. You are wicked!
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by michjunior(op): 3:26pm On Apr 20, 2021
Freestainworld:
Just move on, she's not meant for you.
I feel so too... And am moving on
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by rex444(m): 3:51pm On Apr 20, 2021
You don't have to prove her decisions wrong .... Make yourself happy and comfortable with whatever you do and always strive to look nice and clean
michjunior:
David!!.. U know I love you right? But the truth is you won't be ready when am ready!! Those where the last words of my a girl who use to be my girlfriend and I loved her very much and felt we were in love and that we are going to have a future. She just accepted another guy proposal and the guy had done introduction already... Am a serving corper here in Lagos with visions plans and aspirations which I have discussed with her it a shame she didn't believe in me.... I was devastated at first but now I have accepted reality and gotten over it with more determination to make it at all cost to prove to her at she was wrong and make my self happy.
But if there is one thing I have come to believe is the FACT THAT LOVE IS SCAM... THAT SHIT ISNT REAL... IT A SCAM FROM TIME IMMEMORIAL!!!
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by longetivity(m): 4:00pm On Apr 20, 2021
Guys of nowadays no get sense
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by Theboy21: 4:02pm On Apr 20, 2021
cheesy cheesy
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by punisha: 4:21pm On Apr 20, 2021
so one person break your heart and we no hear word again?

Be honest to urself at least...u can't afford to take care of her needs just yet, u weren't going to kill or rob to make things happen. The kids, ur in law etc come as a tag which u can't even cope with right now...i like that u believe in life processes and obviously not a get rich over night mentality laden young man. You will be fine.

You won't even marry urself at this point...so take a break, work on you and become your aspiration and more.

To be a man isn't easy.
cheer up and look for a girl who isn't ready for settling down soon, well until u r ready...always ask them what their plans r so they don't leave u stranded like d last one.
love is a beautiful thing but it is never enough especially in relationships / marriages...
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by tosik(m): 5:02pm On Apr 20, 2021
Never ever love a girl so much...
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by Sonnobax15(m): 5:09pm On Apr 20, 2021
tongue But she no lie na
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by Cholls(m): 5:16pm On Apr 20, 2021
My brother welcome to the club
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by Nobody: 5:45pm On Apr 20, 2021
Life Goes On....
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by kalu61(m): 6:02pm On Apr 20, 2021
Your story is familiar in men's world. It's no big deal.

Women are hypergamous in nature. True is rare from a woman except your mother. Know this and know peace.

The girl took the best decision for herself and yourself, if not the pressure you will be under to fulfil your promise to her will push to do things you wouldn't want to do. Just wish her well. Making it fast as a guy and graduate in Nigeria is difficult except you are from a well to do family. The girl is right, just move on bro.


My advice, don't live your life to prove her or anybody wrong. lf not, you will be frustrated and seeking for validations.
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:32pm On Apr 20, 2021
You won't be proving anything to her. That you even think this is immature.

Move on, and make it in life, for yourself, and not to prove any point.
Re: She Said I Won't Be Ready When She Is Ready!!! by MsPetty: 6:36pm On Apr 20, 2021
she didn't say you would not make it, but when is would be ready to settle you would not be, and it was true, just move on, there is nothing to prove to her, only thing you have proved was marry her when she got another proposal which you didn't kiss
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