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Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:57am On Apr 23, 2021
Petty things break union when there is no love

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Cutecharlz(m): 10:01am On Apr 23, 2021
she did the right thing...

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Pierocash(m): 10:02am On Apr 23, 2021
What is the Anti biotic for? But it still doesn't kill if she decides to take it. Let the guy forget about her and accept the ring back. It has shown how unruly,and insurbodinate she will be after marriage.

Antibiotic is not ritual. God just saved that guy

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by squash47(m): 10:06am On Apr 23, 2021
The girl never loved the guy. The antibiotics was just a way of testing her love.


A lady who loves you will not be quick to drop an engagement ring without a fight.

She just dropped the ring like that. Meaning that he never loved the guy that much.



Secondly, the girl should have placed the guy on a certain antibiotics too.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:17am On Apr 23, 2021
Pierocash:
What is the Anti biotic for? But it still doesn't kill if she decides to take it. Let the guy forget about her and accept the ring back. It has shown how unruly,and insurbodinate she will be after marriage.

Antibiotic is not ritual. God just saved that guy




The lady deserves better, in fact God saved the lady because it's not a good thing to marry a husband whose first family have full control over

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by DaddyRochie1642: 10:26am On Apr 23, 2021
Tajbol4splend:





The lady deserves better, in fact God saved the lady because it's not a good thing to marry a husband whose first family have full control over



Control or not.... A typical man anywhere on Planet Earth will always place his Family above anyother And I know you know this Fact .... It's very good to tell ourselves the truth always... It helps.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Pierocash(m): 10:38am On Apr 23, 2021
Tajbol4splend:





The lady deserves better, in fact God saved the lady because it's not a good thing to marry a husband whose first family have full control over
then who should have full control,the girls family?

Somebody wants to marry you and told you to take antibiotic,her own family said no. Is that supremacy battle or what?

Is anti biotic a ritual?

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:42am On Apr 23, 2021
Pierocash:
then who should have full control,the girls family?

Somebody wants to marry you and told you to take antibiotic,her own family said no. Is that supremacy battle or what?

Is anti biotic a ritual?


Nobody should be in control, this is not a contest, it's supposedly a union between two lovers, things like this should not break love bond

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Pierocash(m): 10:48am On Apr 23, 2021
Tajbol4splend:



Nobody should be in control, this is not a contest, it's supposedly a union between two lovers, things like this should not break love bond
but that is what is already happening. For someone to say take anti biotic and the family say no. That is a supremacy fight.

Anti biotic isn't too much to ask,is it contrary to scriptures or what?

The guy should thank his head,by the time he takes her to Europe ,she will deal with that guy with rebellion.I hate unnecessary chestout,let her people keep her. If another suitor comes and make a demand they should also resist. They can sleep around to get a job or contract,but can't take antibiotic just to make marriage proceed. That is foolishness.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:55am On Apr 23, 2021
Pierocash:
but that is what is already happening. For someone to say take anti biotic and the family say no. That is a supremacy fight.

Anti biotic isn't too much to ask,is it contrary to scriptures or what?

The guy should thank his head,by the time he takes her to Europe ,she will deal with that guy with rebellion.I hate unnecessary chestout,let her people keep her. If another suitor comes and make a demand they should also resist. They can sleep around to get a job or contract,but can't take antibiotic just to make marriage proceed. That is foolishness.


My advice to you personally, respect people's choices and never impose triviality on them

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Pierocash(m): 10:58am On Apr 23, 2021
Tajbol4splend:



My advice to you personally, respect people's choices and never impose triviality on them
respect has got nothing to do with choices. What the guy's family demanded isn't too much to do.

Why didn't she respect their choice too
Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:59am On Apr 23, 2021
Pierocash:
respect has got nothing to do with choices. What the guy's family demanded isn't too much to do.

Why didn't she respect their choice too

You should not respect people's choices?

Because they are trying to impose it on her

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Pierocash(m): 11:01am On Apr 23, 2021
Tajbol4splend:



Because they are trying to impose it on her
is taking antibiotic ritual or demanding that they suddenly see it as imposition.

Is it not Also for her good.

All these people with feminist tendencies sef
Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:02am On Apr 23, 2021
Pierocash:
is taking antibiotic ritual or demanding that they suddenly see it as imposition.

Is it not Also for her good.

All these people with feminist tendencies sef


Real feminism is democracy
Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by kkash: 11:24am On Apr 23, 2021
If all her test came out clean, what's the use of taking anti biotics, dats just unnecessary work for the liver.... Der should be a reason for ingesting drugs.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Nobody: 11:29am On Apr 23, 2021
Dat gurl
dodge bullet

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by GoldenJAT(m): 11:32am On Apr 23, 2021
Quick question!! What was the antibiotic meant to do or treat?
You never marry person!! u don tell ur sister to administer antibiotic!! even after series of tests done proved u were okay.
Na the babe Dodge bullet!!!

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Pierocash(m): 11:54am On Apr 23, 2021
Tajbol4splend:



Real feminism is democracy
then continue your democracy.

I am yet to see a happy feminist,except social media pretence
Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by dnawah(m): 1:52pm On Apr 23, 2021
Tajbol4splend:
Petty things break union when there is no love
na so the Bobo no like the babe o!wetin him dey fear?ABI him carry something?

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by adajoe555: 2:09pm On Apr 23, 2021
why would she insist of her taking antibiotics when all her test results came out clean.....

To me it's not right , it just shows how controlling the guys family would be....

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by adg98(f): 2:15pm On Apr 23, 2021
Congratulations to the girl she dodge a bullet
The man in question is likely to be HIV positive and the antibiotics they want to give is likely to be PREP and not an actual antibiotic
So that their son and brother won't infect her.

This goes as an advise to you all before getting down with someone it's important you confirm their status

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Babinski: 3:51pm On Apr 23, 2021
Pierocash:
is taking antibiotic ritual or demanding that they suddenly see it as imposition.

Is it not Also for her good.

All these people with feminist tendencies sef

The reason for taking the antibiotics may be that the man has an infection he is not disclosing. And that is dangerous. No one just takes antibiotics for 21 days without any serious reason. The typical days antibiotics is recommended by doctors is 5 to 7 days. And it is not good medically to take antibiotics without doctor's recommendations because there are side effects.

If the man will not disclose why she has to take antibiotics for 21 days, then I support her bowing out. He is definitely hiding something. He may be HIV positive or infected with some other disease.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by drnoel: 4:07pm On Apr 23, 2021
squash47:
The girl never loved the guy. The antibiotics was just a way of testing her love.


A lady who loves you will not be quick to drop an engagement ring without a fight.

She just dropped the ring like that. Meaning that he never loved the guy that much.



Secondly, the girl should have placed the guy on a certain antibiotics too.

Testing her love?

I don't normally reply shit in NL but this one got me. He is testing her love? Her dropping the ring is plain she ain't desperate to marry. I congratulate the lady for that action. Nigerians should learn their limits. Nigerian women should learn that not marrying is not the end of the world for women. Nigerian men should learn not to be making unnecessary demands from our womenfolk.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by tchidi066(f): 4:33pm On Apr 23, 2021
That man and his family are definitely hiding something, who takes antibiotics for a whole 21 days when the test she has undergone proves she is in a great state of health, i hope it's not what I'm thinking

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by waze63(m): 4:38pm On Apr 23, 2021
Pierocash:
What is the Anti biotic for? But it still doesn't kill if she decides to take it. Let the guy forget about her and accept the ring back. It has shown how unruly,and insurbodinate she will be after marriage.

Antibiotic is not ritual. God just saved that guy
This is totally wrong my dear... The whole thing looks as if he's doing the lady a favor by coming to marry her
Has he done his own test to equally prove to the lady that he is clean?
Was he also going to take the antibiotics too ?
For me i think this should go both ways

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Sonnobax15(m): 4:54pm On Apr 23, 2021
undecided
For peace sake, somethings are better left unsaid and undone....

But she did right tho..But I must tell you, meno-stop coupled with age has so much humbled many of her likes into doing anything just to get down the altar with any responsible man...
Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Pierocash(m): 4:58pm On Apr 23, 2021
Babinski:


The reason for taking the antibiotics may be that the man has an infection he is not disclosing. And that is dangerous. No one just takes antibiotics for 21 days without any serious reason. The typical days antibiotics is recommended by doctors is 5 to 7 days. And it is not good medically to take antibiotics without doctor's recommendations because there are side effects.

If the man will not disclose why she has to take antibiotics for 21 days, then I support her bowing out. He is definitely hiding something. He may be HIV positive or infected with some other disease.
you are right.except on this note.

If she breaks up base on this suspicion then she is right. But not breaking up base on the fact that he wants to control her,that is the angle I am coming from
Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Bodyodour: 5:35pm On Apr 23, 2021
squash47:
The girl never loved the guy. The antibiotics was just a way of testing her love.


A lady who loves you will not be quick to drop an engagement ring without a fight.

She just dropped the ring like that. Meaning that he never loved the guy that much. What are you trying to justify? The bobo and his sis are wrong, period!! because him dey abroad, na y the fiancee will pass through all that shit even after taking the required test.



Secondly, the girl should have placed the guy on a certain antibiotics too.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Bodyodour: 5:36pm On Apr 23, 2021
squash47:
The girl never loved the guy. The antibiotics was just a way of testing her love.


A lady who loves you will not be quick to drop an engagement ring without a fight.

She just dropped the ring like that. Meaning that he never loved the guy that much.



Secondly, the girl should have placed the guy on a certain antibiotics too.
What are you trying to justify? The bobo and his sis are wrong, period!! because him dey abroad, na y the fiancee will pass through all that shit even after taking the required test.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by MsPetty: 6:59pm On Apr 23, 2021
The Girl did just well, i see so many saying "she showed she cant be submissive"
*First he instructed that his sister run the necessary tests, which she did.
*The tests came out Clean
Then what is the antibiotics for, you cant be taking pills if there is nothing wrong with you, first that is wrong, then he went on to say if she does not take the antibiotics he wont come back for the introduction, he is already threatening her why? it was so easy for him to make that pronouncement also because he does not love her enough and just looking for faults.
antibiotics as powerful drugs you cant just be taking them for no good reason.

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Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by squash47(m): 7:18pm On Apr 23, 2021
Bodyodour:
What are you trying to justify? The bobo and his sis are wrong, period!! because him dey abroad, na y the fiancee will pass through all that shit even after taking the required test.

Two of them are wrong. Two idiots.
Re: Check Out The Reason An Engagement Got Called Off. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:30pm On Apr 23, 2021
squash47:


Two of them are wrong. Two idiots.


You are actually d***b, how is the girl wrong?

I see irritating comments above faulting the lady for not taking antibiotics when she's squeaky clean, antibiotics that always have side effects on a normal day, that is what the imp of a sister and obodo oyinbo idiot want to force a healthy lady to take, thank God she made the right decision,

As for the ones arguing baselessly without thinking in the first few comments, shows how naturally dull some people can be, like exactly how can people not see that the man and his sister are at fault here?

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